Marjorie Carter Obituary

Marjorie Lee Carter BRATTLEBORO VT Marjorie Lee Carter, 82, passed away Sept. 22, 2009, at Langdon Place in Keene, N.H.Born Marjorie Lee Lawyer, she was raised in Oklahoma City, Okla. and then Hope, Ark. After graduating from Monticello Junior College, she worked as an assistant buyer at Neiman-Marcus and then worked for American Airlines. She met her future husband in Dallas, Texas. They were married in 1953 and their daughter, Pamela, was born in 1955. Her husband subsequently joined the U.S. Information Agency, a move which took them to Pakistan and India, an eight-year stint in Washington, a four-year assignment to Japan, and another Washington assignment. The Carters moved to Vermont in 1982, and Marge was finally able to unpack, "hunker down" and continue to manifest her life-long love of animals. She was often described as a "zooist", someone who puts animals at the top of their list. When she was nine years old, she went to see the movie Lassie and was asked to leave the theater because she was crying uncontrollably. That set a pattern for the rest of her life. She did volunteer work for the Windham County Humane Society, adopting cats and dogs along the way, while studiously avoiding any film involving animals. Inevitably, even if the film was an upbeat one, Marge would cry. Marge was known for her sense of humor, her remarkable mother-daughter relationship with Pamela, her social graces, and her endless love of chocolate. In addition to husband, Alan, and daughter and son-in-law, Pamela and Phil Slagle of Brookine, N.H., she leaves two nieces, Susan Guess and Nancy Stewart, and a nephew, Tom Lawyer, all of whom reside in Texas. Her three sisters and two brothers pre-deceased her. MEMORIAL NOTICE: In lieu of flowers, contributions in Marge's name may be sent to the Windham Country Humane Society. Marge's memorial will be in the minds and hearts of those who knew and loved her. Arrangements are under the care of the KER WESTERLUND FUNERAL HOME of Brattleboro and www.kerwesterlund.com

Published by Brattleboro Reformer on Sep. 24, 2009.
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Dear Alan, Pam and Phil,
Hope you can feel our arms around you sending you love and sympathy. We know what a difficult journey this has been- hopefully your fondest memories and loving friends and family will help comfort you and bring you peace.
Love you very much,
Patty and Jim
Frederick, MD

September 25, 2009

Pam
My heart goes out to you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers during this difficult time. I know you have many memories that you will be able to cherish for a lifetime.

Lonnie Burt

September 25, 2009

Dear Pam, Phil and Allen, the news of Marge's death is a loss of a great lady. She was so much fun and such a good sport and so lovely that she will be missed. May you have peace in your hearts knowing that she is peaceful now. Our prayers are yours for you to find comfort.
Love, Anne and Pete

Anne & Pete Campbell

September 25, 2009

Marge was, without a doubt, one of the finest people I have ever known. I am proud to have shared a space on the planet with her. I am pleased to have counted her among my friends. Wow! What a great person!

Kevin Morgan

September 24, 2009

Pam, Phil, and Alan,
What a sweet, funny woman Marge was. We always enjoyed spending time with her (and you!) at your home. I have tears in my eyes reading about her and especially about her love of dogs. I can't think of anything more wonderful than to care for animals; she was one of a kind. She was so lucky to have you all in her life. We'll miss her.
Love, Janine and Michael

September 24, 2009

Alan, Pam and Phil,
It was such a privilege and a treat to have known Marge. She was beautiful, witty, and charming; conversations with her were always lively, and her smile just lit up the room. We will cherish our memories of the times we spent together. Our hearts and our prayers are with you.
Love,
Maureen and Jerry

Maureen and Jerry Slagle

September 24, 2009

Dear Family & Friends of Marjorie Lee Carter,

On behalf of the board and staff of the Windham County Humane Society, I thank you for your heartfelt generosity and kindness in designating our organization as a recipient of memorial gifts in memory of Marge.

Your thoughtfulness during this difficult time will benefit the many animals of Windham County who need our help.

With deep appreciation,

Hollis Burbank-Hammarlund
WCHS Co-President

Windham County Humane Society

September 24, 2009

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