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Michael Kieltyka Obituary

Michael R. Kieltyka September 8, 1964 - January 18, 2013 BROOKLYN - Michael Robert Kieltyka, 48, of Brooklyn died Friday at Hartford Hospital in Hartford. He was born September 8, 1964 in Putnam, son of Mary (Weaver) Kieltyka of Dayville and the late Robert Kieltyka. He was the husband of LeeAnn (Beaudreault) Kieltyka; they were married at St. James Church on September 19, 1992. Michael was a graduate of Killingly High School Class of 1982 where he was a member of the 1981 State Championship Football Team, a graduate of Quinebaug Valley Community College in 1998 and Eastern CT State University in 2001. He served in the U.S. Army in Korea and worked in construction for many years, most recently working as an Insurance Adjustor. He was a communicant of St. James Church in Danielson. Michael was very involved in his daughter's soccer activities and was an avid UConn, Celtics, Red Sox and New England Patriot fan and loved his yearly Caribbean vacations. Besides his wife and mother he is survived by his daughter Erin Kieltyka of Brooklyn; sisters, Jane Kieltyka Simao and husband David of Tolland and Karen Kieltyka Brown and husband Christopher of West Newton, MA; brother Ron Kieltyka and Cindi Kasek of Danielson; mother and father-in-law, Leo and Sharon Beaudreault of Danielson, brothers-in-law Joe Beaudreault and wife Kerri and Leo Beaudreault Jr. He is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Tuesday at 10:00 A.M. at St. James Church, Danielson. Burial with military honors will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery, Danielson. Calling hours will be held on Monday evening from 6-8 P.M. in Tillinghast Funeral Home, 433 Main Street, Danielson. In lieu of flowers donations in his memory may be made to The Erin Kieltyka College Education Fund c/o Putnam Bank, 40 Main Street, Putnam, CT 06260.

Published by Norwich Bulletin on Jan. 20, 2013.
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I was Mike's roommate in the Army. Have thought of him many times over the years. Sorry for your loss. GOD bless you all.

Kenneth Williams

September 6, 2013

Dear LeeAnne,Erin and the Kieltyka family,
I was so saddened to hear about Michael. You're all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Peace & Love,
Renee Brouillard

January 27, 2013

Dear Mary, There is no way to say anything at this time thaat will take away the hurt and and emptyness in your heart,only time can do that. My prayers are with you. I remember the goodtimes at the class reunions.

Your friend and classmate.

Lucille (Rivers) Lucier

January 26, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the family. You are in my thoughts.

Brenda Auclair-Eber

January 24, 2013

Dear LeeAnn and Erin,
We just heard about Mike's passing, we are so very sorry for your loss. He was such a kind man who always had a smile everytime we saw him. Angela has very fond memeories of Mike as her youth soccer coach. She eventually made the switch from soccer to softball and everytime we saw Mike he would always ask how Angela was doing in school and softball.
We are so surprised and saddened by this. The world has truly lost a good man. May God hold you and your family close at this time. Erin will have her own guardian angel watching over her.

The Caponi Family

January 24, 2013

I was fortunate to call on the Kieltyka family on Monday and express my sorrow for their loss. I remember Mike well as a former student. I have fond memories of my last period Friday Freshman English class back in 1978-79 with Mike and his buddies. I feel blessed to have Mike's wonderful daughter in my last period language arts class this year.

Jim Schaffer

January 24, 2013

To the Kieltyka Family, We were shocked when we heard the news about Mike's passing. We have great memories of the football days. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

David and Tina Schmitt

January 24, 2013

LeeAnn and Erin, we are so sorry for your loss. Mike was a great man and a great soccer coach too. I remember how kind he was to all the kids on the team.LeeAnn,it was always nice to run into both you and Mike at soccer games. We are very sad to hear of his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with both of you.

Manon, Natalie Hawes

January 23, 2013

Ron and Cindy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Joanne Demars

January 23, 2013

To the Keiltyka family - I am so sorry to hear about Michael. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in this time of sadness.

Larry McClintock

January 23, 2013

The public grieving is over but the private grieving begins. Though it gives me some comfort to know you are reunited with Dad, I miss you both so much. Finally peace for both of you. Much love.

Jane Kieltyka simao

January 23, 2013

Dearest Michael, if you can hear me now, you know that you were my first true love in good ole Brooklyn Jr. High. I can never think of that school without having wonderful thoughts of you. May you rest in peace.

Lori Billings

January 23, 2013

Michael was an intern for me about ten years ago at Quinebaug Valley Community College. He wrote feature articles and press releases for the Marketing Department and did a wonderful job. He used to bring Erin in to see me and I could tell what a wonderful father he was and how much he loved spending time with her. I also urged him to participate in the internship program at the state Capitol and loved hearing about what went on in the speaker's office.

I can't remember when I last saw him, but Erin was with him in her soccer uniform and it was great to see that he was still such an involved father. When I heard about his death, I immediately thought of Erin and the tremendous void she has been left with. I'll always remember his sense of humor and beaming smile. My thoughts are with you all during this very sad and difficult time.

Margie Huoppi

January 22, 2013

LeeAnn, Erin & the Kieltyka family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Michael and I were in the same class in high school and he was such a special person. I remember when I first met Erin at Village Green and I told her I knew her dad. Her face just lit up, she was so proud. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

Tina Veillette

January 22, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Corinna Hill-Malavenda

January 22, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Kieltyka family. Michael will always be remembered as a true friend,one who was always there to listen and could put a smile on your face.

Renee Emond- Combs

January 22, 2013

Our thoughts and deepest prayers are with your family during this time and beyond.

Manny Patel & Family , Brooklyn CT

January 22, 2013

Mike touched the lives of so many people including his family, friends, and myself. There are so many things that we will remember about Mike.

Everyone loved Mike he was that kind of guy!

My thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family.

Scott Singleton

January 22, 2013

LeeAnn & Erin,

Our deepest sympathies are with you both

“Say not in grief “he is no more” but live in thankfulness that he was”

Love Buddy, Kim, Devon & Mitch Conroy

January 22, 2013

Mary,Ron,Jane and Karen, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the way you feel after the year you have had. It has been a while since I have seen all of you but you are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you all. God bless and RIP Micheal.

David Weaver

January 22, 2013

Sorry to hear about this ! Mike was a great guy . we had some good times together playing ball in the early years

david couillard

January 22, 2013

So sad to just have heard the news...Amanda always loved playing soccer with Erin, and we always enjoyed talking with Mike at practices. It was so obvious to anyone looking what a great Dad he was and how proud he was of Erin...we are so sorry and are remembering you all in our prayers.

Jodie & Matt Jacaruso

January 22, 2013

To the Kieltyka Family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I will always have great memories of growing up with Mike. From Brooklyn Elementary to Killingly High, Mike was there for everyone with his one of a kind personality. We will miss you #44.
Alan Poirier

January 22, 2013

I am crying as i am writing this. you were way to young to go.I grew up with mike and continued contact through our lives I will miss him very much.
Robert Reynolds and family

January 22, 2013

To the Kieltyka family,

I was saddened to hear of Michael's passing. My thoughts took me back to the wonderful times we had growing up in Brooklyn. May happy memories comfort all of you during this most difficult time. Thoughts and prayers with you. God Bless.

Michael Bernier

January 22, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Kieltyka family and to Mary we cannot imagine the pain of losing a husband and a son. May God give you strength

Moe & Betty Bazinet

January 22, 2013

Our deepest sympathies to the entire Kieltyka family. May time be your friend to ease the pain of this tragic loss.

David and Sue Weaver

January 21, 2013

Sending heartfelt condolences to the Kieltyka family. RIP Michael.

Laurie (Davidson) Brassard

January 21, 2013

I am very sorry to hear of the Loss Of Mike. I have many awesome memories of times spent with Mike in Brooklyn School, working at wrights mill tree farm and high School. we had some good times along the way. Mike was a good man and will be truly missed by anyone who knew him. My families thoughts and prayers are with the kieltyka family during this difficult time.
God bless;
Mark Lajoie class of 82

Mark Lajoie

January 21, 2013

Leanne and Erin...words cannot describe our sadness after learning of Mike's passing...we feel your pain and are thinking of you both.. Jackie Ryan, Carly and Will Matthias

January 21, 2013

My thoughts and deepest prayers are with your family during this time and beyond.

Betsy Houston

January 21, 2013

Michael, I will miss our chats, but your smile will be with me forever...Erin and LeeAnne, I don't have words to give you peace. Michael was a great man. We all know how much he loved you two. Meg, Cindy and I pray that God and family will give you strength. We love you both.

Dave Hebert

January 21, 2013

michael you always had a smile and a hello whenever i saw you rest in peace,you were takin way to early.

RAY CACCIAPUOTI

January 21, 2013

Leanne and Erin and the Kieltyka family.... I am so sorry for your loss. Michael had a way of lighting up the world and he will be truly missed. His infectious smile could make any day brighter. My heart is broken that he was taken too soon. I pray that you find comfort in your memories and know that he is at peace in everlasting life!!!!

Becky Gorman

January 21, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Kieltyka family.

Jerry Reeves

January 21, 2013

Mary and family my heartfelt condolences i just wish i knew the right words i will pray for mike and all the family ted

January 21, 2013

Erin:
We are soooooo very sad to hear about your dad. He was truly an awesome person and he will be truly missed. You will always be the apple of his eye.
Leeann & Erin: Our hearts go out to you so much at this time. We pray that you both will find comfort and peace during this time and may God give you strength each day to make it through this.

Dan, Cindy & Juliana Sliva

January 21, 2013

To the Kieltyka family - our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Wayne & Maryann Rivera

January 21, 2013

Dear Mary and all the Kieltyka Family may I offer my deepiest sympathy on your great loss

Cliff AUBIN

January 21, 2013

my deepest sympathy to the whole kieltyka family had a great time playing softball and loved hanging out with u rip mickey

obie hewitt

January 21, 2013

To the entire Kieltyka family-
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I am deeply saddened to hear of Mike's passing. He was a terrific, fun spirited man that always knew how to make everyone smile. We shared many fun memories throughout life from being neighbors when we were younger, to being classmates all through school, and even now as adult sharing a few moments on the soccer sidelines while our children play. I am truly blessed to be able to cherish so many fond memories. You will be missed, my friend.
Mark & Brenda (Gaudreau) Schena and Family

January 21, 2013

Dear Leann and Erin, I never saw two parents so in love with each other and their own beautiful daughter and vice versa. Mike, we were lucky to have known you. Leann and Erin, he will be watching
over you for the rest of your lives. Love, Kim and Alyssa

January 21, 2013

LeeAnn,
We are so sorry for your loss. Michael was such a great guy. I will never forget his laugh. Our hearts are heavy. If you need anything please do not hesitate to contact me. I know it has been awhile but I am here for you.
You, Erin and the whole Kieltyka family are in our thoughts and prayers. My God bless and comfort you.

Dawn & George Stevens

January 21, 2013

Mary,I was so sad to learn of the passing of your son,Michael.Also just learned of the passing of Bob.I am sure that your heart is so very heavy but try to keep the good memories top-most in your mind and know that they are both at peace.You are in our thoughts and prayers.Fondly,Fran and Barbara(Kaczor)Grise.

January 21, 2013

LeeAnn & Family, We are deeply saddened by the lose of Michael. He was such a great person, so full of life. May all your memories keep you smiling during this very difficult time. He will be forever watching over you and your daughter. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Cliff & Sherri Zurowski Soucy

January 21, 2013

My deepest condolences to the entire Kieltyka family. I will always remember the same beautiful smile as his dad and the days of playing "monster back" on the KHS football team. As I offer my prayers for Mr. K. I will be sure to include Michael also...Heaven now has two more kind souls to watch over all of you.

Laurie (McMerriman) Brunsdon

January 21, 2013

Prayers and thoughts to the entire Kieltyka family. No 44 always brought an äh shucks"smile and life to the huddle, the party , to all he was around. Michael we are all going to miss you dude.

mike ricci and family

January 21, 2013

LeeAnn, Erin, Cioci Mary and the entire Kieltyka family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Michael. You have all been in our thoughts and prayers these last few months. May your sorrows soon be gone and wonderful, lasting memories replace them. Please know that we will continue to think and pray for you. God's peace.

The Balicks

January 21, 2013

Leean & Erin, We were very saddened to hear of Mike's passing. Thoughts and prayers to the entire family. Scott, Jo-Nell & Lindsay Cartier.

Jo-Nell Cartier

January 20, 2013

My girls have some fabulous memories thanks to Mike's kindness and Erin's friendship. Especially kayaking, fishing and crazy flips off the lake pier with Mr. Kieltyka. I always enjoyed our fun times at Halloween and on the soccer sidelines. We will miss you Mike! I know your Dad welcomed you at the pearly gates. xoxo The Trivella's

January 20, 2013

Michael Kieltyka...Big heart, Big Smile, Great laugh, Good Friend, Good Man! Many, many fun times with you that I treasure dearly. I will always look for that big wave from the shoreline at the lake. I will never forget you my friend.
LeeAnn, Erin, Mrs.K, Ron, Jane & Karen, my heart is heavy, my thoughts & prayers are with you all. He will be missed.

Carla Keech Richards

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn:
Though we have talked mnay times over the past few weeks, Dave and I were so sad to hear about Micheal. You and Erin are in our thoughts and call any time you need to talk.

Lynn Bourque

January 20, 2013

We are deeply saddened by your loss. So sorry for your troubles. Earl and Pam McWilliams

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn, Erin & the Kieltyka family, I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of fond memories of Michael from Brooklyn School and KHS. My daughter Courtney sends her thoughts and prayers as well to you Lee Ann.

Linda (Surprenant) Trahan

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn, Erin and the entire Kieltyka family, Michael has been on my mind a lot over the past few months, which also brings back all of the wonderful fun and friendship we shared with him during our high school years. He was a kind, fun spirited guy, and I will cherish the moments our group of friends shared together. I'm also sorry for the year you have all had, and know that your family will keep both of the great Kieltyka men in your heart, soul and mind as you get through all of this and life goes on wiith two missing pieces. My heart is heavy, my fond memories will stay with me forever. My best to you all.

Kelley Burke-Rochefort

January 20, 2013

My condolences to the entire Kieltyka family. I remember vividly and fondly my last moment with Mike, and know he is at peace.

Patrick Hayden

January 20, 2013

LeeAnne...Hi, old friend. So sorry to hear about your family's personal loss. May you feel the warmth and support from friends and family at this time. Many people will be praying for your continued strength.

Carol-Anne Phaiah Blackwell

January 20, 2013

I am so very sorry for your loss. The few memories I have of Michael are fond ones. I wish we could be there to show our respects, but please know that my thoughts are with you.

Lori (weaver) Brown

January 20, 2013

I hope Michael and Dad have side by side recliners to watch the Patriots win the Super Bowl. My blond-haired, blue-eyed, chubby cheeked baby brother will be missed by all. Love you Mike.

Jane Kieltyka Simao

January 20, 2013

May all the happy memories make you smile and help you heal the sadness.. He was a fun guy to be around~ RIP Michael~ Thanks for the HS memories~

Kathy Sandsnury Brainard

January 20, 2013

To the Kieltyka and Simao families:
Wewere saddened to read of Michael's passing. We hope that each of you will find peace soon in your memories of him.

Linda and Jerry McAuliffe

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn and Erin-I am very sorry to hear about Michael. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kay Blackmer

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn and Erin - So sorry to hear this very sad news, our thoughts are with you durinh yhis very difficult time.

The Reid Family

January 20, 2013

Erin and family,I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a great soccer coach and was a very nice person, R.I.P. <3

Kim Day

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn and family I am so sorry for your lost. May you keep the good memories close..

Lauren Baton-Beaupre

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn & Erin, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Mike when I first met him was my teddy bear. Be strong as he is your angel and will always be with you. He was a special person and will be greatly missed.

Barb Goloski

January 20, 2013

You may not know or remember me, but, I remember him. I am sorry for your loss. Remember the good and let the lesser fade away ... God bless ...

John Grzesiak

January 20, 2013

Ron and Cindi please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your brother...my thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family at this most difficult time....

Doreen Boulanger

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn and family, We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Michael. This is a terrible trajedy and our thoughts are with you. There are no words to express our sympathy but our thoughts are with you.

Dave and Sheryle Lohbusch

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn,
My deepest sympathy to you, Erin and the family. Mike was a great person and will be missed by many.

Karl Almquist

January 20, 2013

LeeAnn and family, my heart goes out to you . Stay strong during this trying time. God Bless.

Val Sandberg

January 20, 2013

This candle is being lit with prayers that the Kieltyka Family will find comfort and peace in knowing that Michael is in the loving hands of God.

Paula Pomposelli

January 20, 2013

To the loving family of Michael Kieltyka....so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies. No words can describe the loss of a loved one. Just know that he is in the loving arms of God and all his beautiful angels. I will pray for Michael and his family as well for they are the ones that will need all of God's help. Have faith in God.

Paula Pomposelli

January 20, 2013

Dear LeeAnn, So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Chris & Tammy Chabot

January 20, 2013

Dear LeeAnn. Charlie and I were stuned to hear of michaels passing. We are so sorry. Michael was so full of life in all our memories. It was an honor for Charlie to be hs best man and for me to be in your wedding. Seems like yesterday. Erin your dad was one of the good guys. We had some crazy times in Danielson and Mike was always there. Southern Spur football...I still have my jacket! God bless and our prayers are with you.

January 20, 2013

Dear LeeAnn & Erin, I am so sorry for your loss - I remember talking with Michael on the phone and he was always so kind & fun to talk with -he truly loved his wife & was so proud of Erin.
Joan Selby

January 20, 2013

Michael....I heard this news yesterday working a softball camp, still involved in a sport you and I spent together for countless summer seasons, having the time of our lives...

Peace be with you... See you someday on the ball fields of forever...

Charlie Dobbins

January 20, 2013

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