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Rollin Ross Carey

1991 - 2017

Rollin Ross Carey obituary, 1991-2017, Middletown, DE

BORN

1991

DIED

2017

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Daniels & Hutchison Funeral Home - Middletown

212 North Broad Street

Middletown, Delaware

Rollin Carey Obituary

Rollin Ross Carey, age 26, of Middletown, passed away unexpectedly in Lanstuhl, Germany on Monday, October 9, 2017.

Rollin was born in Dover, Delaware on January 24, 1991 to Ross & Maureen Carey. He was an Eagle Scout from Troop 39 in Townsend, DE. Rollin was a huge Green Bay Packer fan, an avid reader, and a competitive athlete. He graduated from Middletown High School, Class of 2009 with honors. After graduation he attended Virginia Tech University in Blacksburg, VA.

He was currently serving his country in the U.S. Army as a Senior SATCOM Specialist for the 102nd Strategic Signal Battalion. According to his commanding officer, Ernest Tornabell IV LTC, "SPC Carey displayed a sustained superior performance of duty far above that of his contemporaries. His outstanding service and loyal dedication to duty reflect great credit upon him, his unit, and the United States Army."

In addition to his parents he is survived by his brother Reed Carey and sister Kathleen Carey all of Middletown, Maternal Grandparents John & Theresa Rigley of Timonium, MD, Paternal Grandparents Radcliffe & Gloria Carey of Smyrna, DE, his Aunt Erin Rigley of Timonium, MD, Uncle J.R. Rigley and his wife Stephanie of Orono, MN, Aunt Sheila Carey of Smyrna, DE and Uncle Ron Carey of Wilmington, DE; cousins, Emily, Charlie, Caroline, and Jillian Bonsignore, Jack, Kaitlin and Maura Rigley, Ryan (Irene) Brough and Andy (Jen) Brough, Nathan (Maureen) Carey, Gabe, and Rachel Carey.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend funeral services on Thursday, November 2 at 12 noon at St. Joseph's Parish, 371 E. Main St., Middletown, DE. Interment with military honors will be in Old Drawyers Cemetery.

A visitation will be held on Wednesday evening, November 1 from 7-9 p.m. at St. Joseph's Parish Hall.

In lieu of flowers the family the family suggests donations to Del-Mar-Va Council of the Boy Scouts of America, 100 W. 10th St. Suite, 915 Wilmington, DE 19801, or online at www.dmvc.org/memorials or to USO at www.uso.org/donate.

Published by Middletown Transcript from Nov. 1 to Nov. 10, 2017.
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Ross and Family God Bless!!! No words can ease your loss! Donnie Noyes

Donnie Noyes

December 7, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Jesus wept after the death of his friend Lazarus. John 11:35 We weep àlong with you. His example was written in the Bible to give us hope. Rom. 15:4

December 5, 2017

My sincere condolences to the family may you find comfort in the God of all comfort during this difficult time.

November 14, 2017

Rollin is an ongoing presence in our world. He, and Reed and Kathleen have been the formative children from whom I learned (through you) how to be with my own children. I spent years listening to stories of your kids' growing up adventures, and I've always held them in my heart. All of our love is aimed in your direction--if there is ANYTHING you need--please do not hesitate to ask.

April McCrae

Friend

November 7, 2017

My sincere condolences to the Carey family for the loss of your loved one. May prayers strengthen you and memories comfort you, and may our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father, who loves us, comfort your hearts and "make you firm". 2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17
RV-Texas

November 4, 2017

Maureen and Ross I can't say I'm sorry enough for your loss. It's unimaginable. All I do is just pray and pray for your family. I know the Lord is with you and will comfort you during this time.
Rollin will always be a Hero in our eyes and I'm sure many others. I wish I got the chance to hug him and thank him for his service . Both of you are also Hero's for raising such a courageous son.
Seeing all of the wonderful memories as he was growing up brought me to tears . You can see how close you all are . Rollin, Reed and Kathleen seem to have a closeness that all parents wish for with their children. The love you have for each other that is something that you will have forever. We are a phone call away. Please know we are here for you.
Much love and prayers,
Jennifer and Dennis Kairis

Jennifer Kairis

November 2, 2017

I do not know you or your family. I just wanted to say Thank You for your Service!!!
Condolences to the family.

Susan W

October 31, 2017

First impressions matter, so be kind.

When I was seven, my family moved to Townsend, Delaware. I'd be starting elementary school. First grade at Townsend Elementary, the home of the Thunderbirds, would be my first taste of real school. I had been to kindergarten in Milsboro, Delaware, but this was even bigger to a budding student.

I didn't know anyone going into the school year, but early on I met the Carey brothers, Rollin and Reed. Reed was in my grade and Rollin was a little older. With their loud personalities, outreached arms, and overwhelming kindness, they quickly welcomed me to my new home. We were even in the same Tiger Cub Pack that met at the Townsend Fire Hall across from the school. That was of course, before they renovated the Station. Throughout the elementary school years we enjoyed birthdays, kickball, legos, scouting events, and everything kids do. I still feel a chill in my bones from a Christmas parade around 1998 where it rained the entire day. We were dressed in our Tiger Cub gear. Man, that was cold.

Reed and I remained friends throughout schooling, and even when I switched schools for 6th and 7th grade. When I came back to his school in 8th grade, it was as if nothing had changed. Reed was in my class again, welcoming me to another new home. Rollin was in high school now, with my older sister, but I'd see him at their functions.

Fast forward 10 years. We had been to different high schools, I had served a 2-year mission for my church, and had just graduated from college out west. I was working in Middletown over the summer while applying to medical school. It's the day after Independence day, 11pm. I'm in the Middletown Wawa, because that's what you do in Middletown at 11PM. Behind me I hear, "Hey Noah." I'd know that baritone voice anywhere, it's Reed Carey. Ten years, he hadn't forgotten. Ten years, how could I?

While I didn't know Rollin as well as I would've liked, I grew up with him. I've walked the same streets, played at the same parks, knew the same people. It numbs me that he's gone. Someone my age. Someone I played with. Someone that I could run into at a Wawa after ten years, and enjoy his company. We lost a good one today. Someone who made me feel welcome, on my first day as a stranger in an unfamiliar world. On my first day of my education that has now led me all the way to medical school. You can't replace that. And I don't want to. I hope I can repay it by welcoming everyone I meet, and ensuring their comfort. I'll have his voice ingrained with me forever.

Love you Reed, Rollin, and the Careys,
Noah D. Christian

Noah Christian

October 31, 2017

We are very sorry for the loss of your beloved son. He was a fine young man. We are thankful to have known him and to have been a small part of his life.

Elmer & Kathy Fisher

October 30, 2017

So sorry for your deep loss. You and your family r in our hearts and deep felt love and compassion for u all. To Kathleen, we love and admire u.may your brothers spirit live on in the way u will accomplish your goals. When u smile your brother is there. When u feel sorrow know that your brother is holding u.

Elizabeth & Lenny Cyr

October 30, 2017

Thank you for your service.

October 29, 2017

"Blessed are the Peacekeepers for they shall be called the children of God"
To Rollins family, military family and friends,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. While i did not know Rollin personally, the loss of such a young man is heartbreaking. You were blessed with a wonderful Son, Brother, Nephew, Grandson and friend. Thank you for sharing him with our Country. May God grant his faithful servant eternal rest and peace. Rest easy Rollin~Salute!

Dianne Murray

October 29, 2017

Sending you our condolences, hugs and love as you try to deal with this unimaginable loss. Rollin knew he was well-loved by his family and friends. May wonderful memories bring you some measure of comfort. Thinking of you all.

Fred and Pat Mann

October 28, 2017

Dear Maureen Ross Reed and Kathleen

You all are in my prayers. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Although the years have flown, I remember Rollin at The little school like it was yesterday! What a beautiful family and what a delightful child Rollin was. I am not suprised Rolling grew into such a fine young man! May you be surrounded by love at this difficult time!

Linda ( Walters ) Butala

October 27, 2017

Ross, Maureen, Reed and Kathleen, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you as you remember Rollin. He will be forever missed. God bless you all.

Robert + Sylvia Carey

October 27, 2017

Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted.

October 27, 2017

His love for you is eternal - your love for and memories of - him are eternally with you. Find peace that his spirit is with God. We send our love and support to all of you! Brian & Sheila Holleger

October 26, 2017

Dear Maureen, Ross, Reed, and Kathleen,
Stunned. From Tiger Cubs, Pinewood Derbies, Baseball and Townsend Elementary--the great memories flow. We are so saddened and cannot imagine your crushing pain. Our family loves you and wants to support you wherever needed. We truly grieve with you.

Joanne and Paul Christian and family

October 25, 2017

Sending thoughts and prayers!

Karen Hranicka

October 25, 2017

Ross and Maureen, Reed and Kathleen, We were extremely saddened to hear of Rollin's passing. Our thoughts and prayers have been for you since we heard, and our hearts ache for the loss of such a fine young man. We have such fond, fond memories of Rollin and your family from our crossed-paths during the Scout and soccer years. Those were great times!Our Love, Chris and Chuck Benedict

Christine Benedict

October 25, 2017

My condolences to the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Deborah Barrell

October 25, 2017

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