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Louise Barber Obituary

LOCKE < Louise V. Barber, 87, of Hilliard Road, Locke, died Tuesday, Oct. 9, 2007, at Cayuga Medical Center, Ithaca, after a brief illness. Mrs. Barber was born in Kelloggsville, a daughter of Ernest and Florence David Badman, on March 9, 1920. She had been a resident of the Moravia/Locke area most of her life. She had been employed as a waitress and a nurses aide at the Maxwell Nursing Home, Moravia. She enjoyed reading, crossword puzzles and traveling; but mostly tending to her family and her grandchildren. Mrs. Barber was predeceased by her husband, Glenn Barber in 1981; an infant son, Robert in 1943; and a granddaughter, Laurie Ackroyd in 2001. She is survived by her children, Evelyn (Stanley) Walter of Colorado Springs, Colo., Richard Barber, Carl Barber and Mary (Michael) Portzline, all of Groton, and Don Barber of Austin, Texas; 10 grandchildren; 21 great-grandchildren and eight great-great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews. A graveside service will be held 1 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 13, in Scott-Union Cemetery, Route 41, Scott. There will be no calling hours. Friends wishing may contribute to Four Town First Aid Squad, Box 28, Moravia, NY 13118. Arrangements are with the Wade Funeral Home, Moravia. To send a message to the family, sign our guest book at www.auburnpub.com and click on obituaries

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Published by The Citizen on Oct. 12, 2007.

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Sharie Bubble

October 6, 2024

I miss you so much grandma ma

Mary Portzline

November 10, 2007

Mom, you always told me that I would miss you when you were gone and I do. I miss you so much my heart aches. There have been so many times that I've picked up the phone to call you only to have it hit me that you aren't here and that ache just grows some more. I knew, just knew, that you would bounce back and would be home from the hospital in a couple of days. You, the "tough old bird," certainly could bounce back one more time. You always bounced back. But I failed to see how tired you were. And I'm sorry. I know you're at peace now and that is comforting to know. I'll always love and miss you.

Carl Barber

November 9, 2007

Dear Mom, Just a few lines,I thought you would like to know. I'm doing fine now, but it's so hard not seeing you or having you to talk to. Remembering all the good times of you, your little sayings. Mom I just wanted to say this to you, you were always there for me and all of us. When I look up to Heaven at night,I know you are at peace now cause the stars are shining brighter down on us. You are there with Dad, Laurie and all the rest of the clan. So Mom, goodnight till we meet again. Love always, Carl

Sharie Bubble

October 23, 2007

Grandma ma I can't believe that you are gone. I have such a hole in my heart. You were such a great lady, my grandmother, my mother, my friend. I pray that you truly know how much you did and meant to me and I hope I did the same for you. I can't seem to let the pain go hopefully in time it will subside some, for I find it hard to live without you. I wish I could have been there for you in your last hours, I would have loved to held your hand one last time. I will turly miss our Sunday calls, I will continue them and I know I will only hear my voice, but after all these years I believe I will feel your answers. I will keep you informed of all that is happening with my kids and myself. Earl, Steven, Gwendolyn, Melissa, and Samantha sends their love and express how much you will be missed. I will cherish my love and memories of you for as long as I shall live. I look forward to seeing you when it is my turn. Give Grandpa a big hug and kiss for me. And tell Laurie how much she was loved by all of us. With all my love Sharie

Jamie Coleman

October 23, 2007

Grammie,
Words cannot explain how I feel during this time of my loss and our family's loss. Though, I should not be selfish and I know that you are doing much better now, than you were when you here, I still miss you. You were my rock Gram, the cornerstone of our family. I truly enjoyed our conversations over the phone and when I visited you. I will never forget your "Snits" and what a joy they were to watch. I enjoyed knowing what a geniune person you were. I know how you enjoyed just waking up every morning and being able to talk with the family, friends and especially your LOVED ones. My heart aches not being able to verbally speak with you anymore. I will miss our hugs and kisses. I miss you very much and will miss you for the rest of my life. I have a hole in my heart Gram, but please know I love you very much and always will. Say hi to Grandpa and Laurie for me and tell them I love and miss them.
Love You Always Grammie. Jamie

evelyn walter

October 21, 2007

Mother, I'm going to miss you so much. You were my my confidant, my best friend, and my rock I leaned on.I will miss our hour long conversations via phone. I believe you were so very tired chose this day so Dad and you could be together on your 70th anniversary. Give our Laurie hugs and lots of kisses for us. Say hi to Dad and all up there. Till we meet again. Love Evelyn

Julie Beeley

October 15, 2007

Grammie, Although you are gone physically from our world, we still hold you in our hearts. You were such a big part of our lives. I know that you are there with Grampa and Laurie and they will take good care of you. I hope you know that you are loved and missed. You will forever be in our hearts. Love Julie, Corey, Casey and Geoffrey says me too.

Steven Seaman

October 13, 2007

Grammie,
Although we hurt and always will miss you, we know you are with Grampa and Laurie watching us and caring for us. We're going to miss you Grammie and we will never forget, but cherish our memories until we see you again. With all our love, Steve, Amy, Taylor, Florian, Bianca and Mausi

Tammie Montgomery

October 13, 2007

Grammie,
words alone cannot tell you how much you will be missed. Our hearts will ache now ,but it will pass someday.But our memories will last for ever. All the pictures we have taken and all the laughter and tears we have shared will be forever in my heart. God has taken you home where you now walk with the angels, like Laurie and Grandpa, and all your brothers and sisters. I miss you so much , and to the rest of my family I love you all and I am so glad you have maded me a part of this family again. GOD bless you all
Love Tammie and Paul

Betty Rogers Vangelder

October 12, 2007

Sympathy to all your extended families. We will remember Aunt Louise for her kindness, wit and love of family.

PEARL BARBER

October 12, 2007

TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME
YOU LOST YOUR DAD IN THE FALL AND I LOST BILL IN THE SPRING
LOUISE AND DICK AND FAMILY WHERE AT MY HOUSE ALOT JUST BEFORE BILL PASSED THEIR SUPPORT WAS GREAT IM SORRY I CANT BE THERE FOR YOU AT THIS TIME BUT IM THINKING OF YOU ALL

Betty & Bob McDougal

October 12, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

BEtty & Bob Mcdougal

October 12, 2007

To All Of Louise's Family,
We are sorry to hear of you love ones death. Louise will certainly be missed as she was a real special lady and we have fond memories of her. She left to this world a beautiful family which she love to talk about.
We send to You All our Sincere Sympathy and Love'
Betty & Bob McDougal

Stuart Powers

October 12, 2007

I have not see her many years as fixed the tv's.Knew many years and others in the family.To Family thinking of you in your loss.

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