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Nicholas Rhinelander Obituary

41, of Belmont, Massachusetts, died Monday, April 2 in Stockbridge, Vermont in an automobile accident. He leaves his wife, Emily Hewitt Rhinelander, and his two children, Elizabeth Hamilton Rhinelander (8) and James Denison Shaw Rhinelander (6). Nick was a principal of Equity Resources Investments, Inc. in Cambridge, MA, a real estate investment firm. Prior to joining Equity Resources in 2003, Nick worked for Andersen Consulting from 1996 to 2002. He received his AB from Harvard College in 1988, where he skied on the varsity alpine ski team and also was on the varsity sailing team. An avid skier who skied all over the world, he was the president of the Friends of Harvard Skiing and certified as a PSIA ski instructor. Nick was born on January 31, 1966 in Hartford, CT. He attended The Renbrook School and Hall High School in West Hartford, CT. Following Harvard, Nick received his MBA from the Johnson School of Management at Cornell University in 1996. Nick began studying the violin at age 6 and played throughout his life. He was a student of Roman Totenberg at the Longy School of Music in Cambridge, MA and at the Kneisel Hall Chamber Music Festival in Blue Hill, ME. An accomplished classical musician, Nick soloed with orchestras internationally. An energetic father and loving husband, Nick's true passion in life was his family. Nick passed on his passion for skiing, hockey, the outdoors, art and music to his two beloved children. Nick served on several boards, including serving as Vice President of the Dublin Lake Club in Dublin, NH. He and his wife are members of the Dublin Lake Club and the Cambridge Skating Club. In addition to his immediate family, Nick is also survived by his father, David H. Rhinelander of Gloucester, MA; his mother, Chaya Hurwitz of Brooklyn, NY; two sisters and two brothers. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, April 10 at 11:00 a.m. at All Saints' Church, 17 Clark Street in Belmont, MA. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be sent to Kneisel Hall Chamber Music Festival, P.O. Box 648, Blue Hill, Maine, 04614. Online guest book at www.brownfuneralbel mont.com. Arrangements by Brown & Sons, BELMONT.

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Published by Boston Globe on Apr. 6, 2007.

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david anderson

April 18, 2007

Nick worked with me at Andersen Consulting. He was a great consultant and a fine person. I will remember him as someone who would always go the extra mile to help a friend or colleague.

Stephanie Tara

April 18, 2007

Very sorry to hear of the news. Deepest condolences.

Carter Peabody

April 14, 2007

Emily I am so so sorry for your loss, for all of our loss. I really adored Nick and am devasted as you must be too. All my love and thoughts are with you.

Mike McCarthy

April 13, 2007

To the Rhinelander Family,

My condolences on your loss. I played hockey with Nick years ago on the Sloths. He was a real nice
guy, a total gentlemen.

The Holdsworth Family

April 12, 2007

Our love to the Rhinelanders in this time of sadness which we share with you all.

Steve & Andrea Marshall

April 11, 2007

David, Ann, and all,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you.
You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

John Mulderig

April 11, 2007

Dear Emily,

I was so distressed to hear from Roger and Benedicte the shocking news of Nick's death. Although I didn't know him well, I always enjoyed his company on those occasions when we were together. He was, by all accounts, a fine man. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your children, Alex and all of Nick's family.

djamila fitzgerald

April 10, 2007

Dear Emily-- I just don't know what to say or write. I'm so sad for you and the kids. I offer you all our hope, strength and prayers.
Love DJamila, Tim, Ronan and Tristan Fitzgerald

Bonnie Cohen

April 10, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. The entire RiverMead staff is saddened by your loss.

A. L. Roper

April 10, 2007

Alex, I am so sorry for your loss,even though I didn't know Nick. All the ASA and Norfolk friends join me in sending our condolences. Al Roper

Minou Palandjian

April 10, 2007

Dear Emily and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
With love
Minou and Peter Palandjian

Sam Atkinson

April 10, 2007

Em Dear,

Tom and I were sitting on a chair lift in Alta with Nick last year. Most everyone (including Nick) was skiing all the exciting slopes, but Nick took some time out to ski the "groomed" trails with us. There was a snow storm in the East and Tom and my flight was cancelled -- everyone was frantically trying to get an alternate flight. Nick had a seat on the first non-stop back to Boston and offered it to us. Just two examples of many on how thoughtful Nick was. ANYthing that any of the Atkinsons can do, just let us know.

Tons of love,

Sam

Kevin Cosgrove

April 9, 2007

Nick and I worked together on a litigation matter several years ago. He was a brilliant man with a great sense of humor. I was shocked to hear the news of his passing. Please accept my sincere sympathy.

Jennifer Burch Madden

April 9, 2007

To All Rhinelanders,
My thoughts and love go out to all of you in your time of loss. Nick was a wonderful, kind, funny, gifted man. We were so fortunate to have known him. Consider yourselves hugged...all of you!

Lots of Love, Jen Madden
(and the whole Burch family)

Chuck & Sue Kinyon

April 9, 2007

Emily,
Sue and I send our deepest condolence during this time of tragedy and sorrow. You and your family are in our thoughts an prayers.

Charlie Hull

April 9, 2007

To Nick's beloved family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of your great loss. May the Peace of our Lord and the Grace of God give you strength and sustain you.

May God Bless and Keep Nick, and make His Face shine upon Nick always.

I know Nick from hockey & the Cambridge Skating Club. He brought so much to the game. I and all his hockey compadres were fortunate to have been graced with the wonderful experience of having him as part of the group and having the wonderful experience of playing with him, whether you were fortunate enough to have him on your team on any given night, or whether he was on the opposing team, which of course meant that you would have to bring out your very best to rise to the chalenge of playing against him and his teamates that night. He will be sorely missed by all of us.

Charlie Hull
Watertown, MA

Lisa and Dan Pullman

April 9, 2007

With deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Nick. He was a great father, and he will be greatly missed at the hockey rink.

Sarah Anderson

April 9, 2007

Nick's smile and kindness will be impossible to forget. I met Nick and his brothers when my sister Christina and I started spending summers in Nova Scotia as young girls. I always admired the way those brothers got along and made each other laugh. I send love and deepest sympathy to Nick's family and all those who loved him.

christina schell

April 9, 2007

I hope that comfort and peace will be found in your memories of Nick. I am so, so sorry. He will be missed forever.

Lib Twitchell

April 9, 2007

Emily,
Tim and I were stunned to hear this news. Our hearts go out to you and your children as you face this together. Please know that I am here for you to talk, anytime.
All my love to my oldest friend,
Lib & Tim Twitchell

Brian and Ellen Quirk

April 8, 2007

With broken hearts, we extend the deepest sympathy to the Rhinelander family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Seeing Nick with Shaw at the rinks this winter, one could see that Nick was the loving and devoted father that many would aspire to be.

Carol Cheney

April 8, 2007

This message of love and sadness comes to Chaya and the family from Carol Cheney on behalf of the Cheney Family. Nick has left you too soon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

marjorie and joel friedman

April 7, 2007

Our deepest condolences to Nick's family. Our children,Andrew, David, and Karen knew Nick from West Hartford and Hall High. To Chaya and Isaac....all our love.

Cindy McGilton

April 7, 2007

David and family
My sincere condolences to you at this time of your great loss.

Michael Prokopis

April 7, 2007

Dear Emily- the loss of Nick is a tragedy shared by many. You and the children are in our prayers and I wish you and your family peace of mind. PS: the discussion of two-line passes and zone hockey will never be the same!

Michael Prokopis & Family

John and Shannon Jones

April 7, 2007

Dear Emily,

You and the children are in our thoughts and prayers. Nick will be missed by all who knew him. He was a great colleague and friend.

Muriel and Karl Fleischmann

April 7, 2007

Our family fondly remembers Nick as the outstanding student of Suzuki violin at the Hartford Conservatory of Music when he was just a boy. Our sons, Eric, Andy and Martin all went to Hall High with Nick.
At this time we especially empathize with our friend David Rhinelander and with Muriel's Hall High friend David Hurwitz.
This is an unbelievable tragedy, and our hearts go out to all of you.

Joanne & Jorge Domeniconi

April 7, 2007

You are in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy

Friends from Belmont Hockey,

E & M Widmer

April 7, 2007

Dear Emily,

We are so sorry. Our thoughts and our hearts are with you and the children.

Eric Widmer (Mary's father-in-law) & Matt Widmer (Mary's brother-in-law)

Margot and Hal Close

April 6, 2007

We are thinking of you Emily and your lovely children at this sad time. Nick was a very special person, everyone will miss him.

MaryAnne McKinnon

April 6, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Rheinlander family during this difficult time.

MaryAnne McKinnon, Andre Levesque and family

helen and joe garland

April 6, 2007

Love to you all who've meant so much to us over the years. Helen and Joe

Tim Mitchell

April 6, 2007

From all of us at Harvard Skiing,

Nick will always be with us in our hearts and minds and actions; and we pray for his family, Emily, Elizabeth and James. His love for his family and life were unmatched. Nick was the kind of person you meet once in a lifetime. So Nick, thank you; thank you for everything. You have touched my life in a way no other will ever duplicate. You were, and still are, one of the most amazing people I have ever had the privilege of knowing and my life is better for having you in it. You will be forever with me my friend…

Paula & Larry Christofori

April 6, 2007

Our hearts are broken for the Rhinelander family. We just saw Nick with Shaw at the Belmont Mite Hockey banquet on Sunday. A devoted father for sure. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Miley

April 6, 2007

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Nancy Angela and Dan Miley

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