Philip Cowie Obituary
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Emma Russell
September 29, 2006
My Uncle Phil was the most amazing person i have ever known. He was my inspiration. I remember going to visit him around Halloween a few years ago. He had just had surgery and i had wanted to help take care of Phillip so that Uncle Phil could rest. He wouldn't have any of that though, he wanted to take me shopping and we drove all around to look at colleges. He never once let on that he was in any kind of pain. I miss him so much. I'm not close to my father at all so i always looked to my uncle as a role model. I thought he was the perfect person and i wish i could be more like him. I will miss our conversations, he always managed to see the good in everything where as i was always so opionionated. I feel as though i missed out on learning so much about him. From reading other entries that people have left i have come to see that he was a greater person than i had ever known. He touched the lives of many and he will never be forgotten. I will never forget the big red barn, sledding in Vermont, going snowboarding and getting hot chocolate in the lodge, or the way he loved Cleo and would get on the floor to cuddle with her. Uncle Phil you are the most amazing and strong person i have ever known. Auntie Joy and Phillip, i love you both very very much. Nana and grandpa you mean everything to me. Please be happy remembering the joy he brought to everyone and smile about all the memories that we will always have of him.
Robert Parent
September 29, 2006
I first had the opportunity to know and experince Phil and his passion and character through playing rugby with him on both Kingston and the CF sides. I respected him and valued him as both a man of integrity and honour but also as a warrior who gave his all in each and every contest in which he was engaged.
Later, when Phil and I battled to return rugby to RMC I witnessed his commitment to the truth and his passion to the game as he took on the role of speaking truth to power and raisied the issue with the MND and in the political sphere. His voice, reasoned and sure was never silenced despite all the stonewalling and refusals we faced and the victory of rugby's return to RMC is and remains one of his true legacies.
Stand down Phil - we will take over your watch. Go with God my friend
Mike Minicola
September 28, 2006
I was deeply saddened to learn of Phil's passing. The finest athlete of our class and the core of RMC's rugby team for four years, Phil could have easily starred for another half dozen varsity teams. His drive and pursuit of excellence were the standard to us all. How cruel that such a force would be taken so young. Phil will be remembered. RIP.
Duncan Mackay
September 25, 2006
I was part of the RMC rugby team from 89 to 91. Phil was my hero then, and continues to be an inspiration to this day. My final two years at RMC left me with a lot of fond memories. The friends I played with and the coaches we played for (Phil and Les) were so special. Phil was a fairly quiet leader, but strong and passionate...bottom line - we'd have done anything to avoid letting him down and aspired to "be like Phil" on and off the field.
I was training to make an Ontario rep squad in the spring of 91 (as was Phil, although there was no doubt he'd be on the team), around the time that the cancer struck. I couldn't believe the unfairness, and felt an incredible sense of incredulousness - how could it strike at this awesome physical force? The lesson wasn't lost on me then or now...
As the military moved us all on, I lost touch with Phil but have thought of him often over the years and it was with great sadness that I read of his passing on the RMC reunion website.
I can only imagine the pain his passing has left with his family. Joy and Philip, my heartfelt condolences, I know I'm a better person for knowing him those two short years; Phil was a Titan and lives on with all that knew him.
Duncan Mackay
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Gregor Macintosh
September 25, 2006
When I remember Phil I picture his incredible talent and leadership on the rugby pitch, his unassuming manner and a very dry sense of humour. I'll also remember him for choclate covered espresso beans which Phil introduced to me and generously shared during our countless mid-afternoon French classes.
Life is rarely fair and Phil's early departure serves to emphasize this fact. However, as the memories contained herein show, Phil made the very most of life and left his mark. There are very few like Phil.
Gregor Macintosh (RMC 81-85)
Richard Finlayson
September 24, 2006
I was a UTPM at RMC and graduated with the Class of 85'.
From a "class mate", Phillip may you rest in peace. My sincere condolences to the family.
Michael McKay
September 24, 2006
Such hard news. Phil was the strongest of us at RMC. I have great admiration for his competitiveness and great sorrow to hear of his passing. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.
Neil Spencer
September 20, 2006
Joy and Family,
My deepest sympathies to you all. In life, occasionally you meet someone who is truly inspirational and who you hold with great admiration. Phil was one of those people. He will be missed. God bless.
Carolyn Campbell
September 20, 2006
I spent many days as a young child visiting the Cowie home as friend of Valerie's. I always remembered how lucky she was to have all those brothers! Although I did not know Philip, it is clear through all these postings that he was a wonderful person.
My sincere condolences to the entire Cowie family and to Philip's wife and son.
Carolyn (Edmiston) Campbell
Ottawa Ontario
Cam Crosbie
September 18, 2006
Joy and family,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. I met Phil as a 1st year cadet at the first rugby practice of the year. I knew immediately he was someone special and I have the image of Phil kicking a ball etched in my memory forever. He spent countless hours with me after every practice kicking for posts and making bets for beer over who could hit more in a row. I looked up to Phil in so many ways...you'll be sorely missed #15. Guide me oh...
Thomas Voss
September 18, 2006
Phil was a great character in the wire business and it was always a great pleasure cooperating with him. My deepest sympathies to the Cowie family.
David Harris-Lowe
September 15, 2006
I met Phil at RMC in the early '90s when he was 1 Squadron Commander and from playing Rugby. He was and continues to be an inspiration for me and everyone who knew him.
My thoughts and sympathies go out to Phil's family.
Damian Brooks
September 14, 2006
I knew Phil for only three years while attending RMC from 89 to 92, but as indicated by many of the testimonials here, how long you knew Phil had nothing to do with how much he inspired you.
To Joy and Philip, please accept my most heartfelt condolences.
I'll relate a story many here might not already know, in the hopes that it will add one more way in which all of us can remember what a wonderful man he was.
It was rugby season in the fall of 91 at RMC, and Phil was just coming back from his first bout with illness, not yet fully recovered. The cadets from West Point were coming to Kingston, and Phil wanted to play, if he could. I gladly gave up my spot in the lineup.
There was a fierce wind that day, and for some reason, the normally hard-running USMA team were kicking the ball deep as often as they could. Phil at fullback ran under under every single kick and stood up under the punishing tackles he knew were coming until support could arrive. He didn't drop a ball, he didn't let a single man past him, he kicked the ball miles in the air, and he inspired the rest of the team around him.
He couldn't have weighed more than 160lbs at the time - not a lot for a man with his frame - but he didn't shepherd his strength or pace himself. He went all out right from the opening whistle.
Those of us on the sidelines knew we were seeing something special, and when we weren't cheering ourselves hoarse with encouragement, we were holding our collective breath. You could see the superhuman effort this performance was costing him, etched grimly on his face. He just wouldn't quit, wouldn't back down, wouldn't accept anything other than his own best from himself. It was leadership by example, distilled and pure.
At the half, visibly exhausted, Phil asked me to take over for him. I had played rugby for years, and I was never as nervous going into a game as I was that day, trying to fill shoes the size of a boat. But after his example, how could you *not* step up?
As I write this, I realize it sounds silly making so much of what, at the end of the day, was just a game. All I can say is that something about how he played, and practiced, and coached; about how he doled out scolding with nothing more than a disapproving look and encouragement with a grin and a clap on the shoulder; about how he held himself and...*LIVED*, I guess, simply showed everyone around him how to be better themselves. Not just at rugby, mind you, but at anything they chose.
I've never forgotten that episode, or dozens of others involving him, because Phil Cowie inspired me like few others in my life ever have, and the memory of him inspires me still. He was larger-than-life, and he will be truly missed.
Peter Laws
September 14, 2006
Here's what I posted to the John Rennie Alumni group:
"Hey all,
In Kindergarten (Greendale, Ms Foldes[sp?], 1968) I was not yet able to tie my shoes. At that time, you wore "good" shoes to school and then changed into your "gym shoes" for gym. One day, it was apparent that I had no idea what I was doing and classmate Phil Cowie tied mine for me.
I learned to tie my own shoes soon thereafter due no doubt to embarrasment. It's a skill I am still competent in most days.
My Mom sends me clippings from the Gazette on various items to keep me "current" on Montreal happenings and I just got an envelope in the mail today.
Phil's obituary was in it.
Phil and I weren't best buds or anything of the sort, in fact, I don't remember him much at JRHS - did the Cowies move? I don't really remember. He had a sister and three brothers and at least some of them were "pool rats", that much I remember.
Anyway, he died in Ottawa, at home, on 8/29. Same age as me, 43. Way, way too young. It doesn't say what the cause was, but in memoriam donations to the Lance Armstrong Foundation or Palliative Care Outreach Program would be appreciated by the family.
Thanks, Phil, coming to my aid and tying my shoes."
To which I'll add my codolences to his wife and family and to the Cowies.
Peter Laws
(formerly of Juneau St)
Michael Burke
September 12, 2006
Phil was a man of special character, never was this more apparent then in the way he lived and loved his life. I met Phil in MilCol from 81-85 and again in 91-93. He stood up for Deborah and I at our wedding and while never as close as one would like, he was a dear man. I remember the way he played sports, especially Rugby, the way he would look at you, the game and life and dare you, the game and life to challenge him for the right to be there with him. He was always challenging, not only himself but all around him to be the best they could ever be. If you ever failed to give your best then would get that "look" which would say more and get more and better results than any amount of counselling. Phil was the epitome of a Gentleman and our condolences go out to his wife, Joy, Philip Jr and the rest of his Family at this time.
Michael, Deborah, Atallia and Adriana Burke
Kirk, Karen, Patrick and Emily Steele
September 11, 2006
Phil...my brother-in law, and uncle to my kids will be greatly missed by my entire family. He was a phenomenal role model for his son Philip, loving husband to my sister Joy, and an inspiration to us all.
Aris Bogdaneris
September 11, 2006
I still vividly remember sharing car rides to hundreds of hockey and soccer games all over Montreal and how you always protected me when things got "rough". I remember playing 72 holes of golf one summer day in Lachine until our hands were so blistered we could not grip the clubs anymore. I remember surviving all day tennis marathons at Greendale park with our old wooden Fred Perry rackets. I remember how you often hoisted me onto your broad shoulders to enjoy the thrill of dunking a basketball on your driveway. I remember playing touch football in sub zero temperatures and knowing full well that if I threw the ball high enough --- you would always catch it --- even in a great big crowd. I also remember recreating famous WW1/WW2 battles in the "woods" near our house and spending hours playing "pong" in your living room. I also remember how you tried to convince me to follow you to Trinity College but I never managed to make it. I remember alot of things, but most of all, I remember you as an amazing guy, who my 85 year old father would still ask about. Altough we drifted apart, it is abundantly clear you lost none of ability to touch everyone around you in a very special way. I will never forgot our friendship nor the great times we shared together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Rest in Peace Philip.
Franz BRANDERS
September 11, 2006
Dear Mr COWIE,
I learned about the sudden decease of your son and herewith would like to express you and your whole family my deepest and sincere sympathy.
I wish you to overcome these very difficult moments with courage and strength and I am sure that your close family is going to give you a lot of support.
Franz BRANDERS and all the FIB staff.
Alberto Visconti
September 11, 2006
In those cases words are never enough. All my personal and my company condollence.
Alberto Visconti (Mario Frigerio SpA - Italy)
Steve Jamieson
September 9, 2006
Phil was a great man. I have so much respect for how Phil lived and loved life. I met Phil as a member of Kingston Rugby Club. We had some great times together both on and off the field. He was a fantastic player and competitor. Having attended the service last week, it was evident what a large impact Phil made on so many friends and family. My sympathies go out to Joy, Phillip Jr. and the Cowie family.
Steve, Sue, Brendon and Shelby Howard
September 8, 2006
Although we graduated from RMC together in '85, and crossed paths again in the early '90s back at RMC, it wasn't until this past year that my family and I had the privilege of really getting to know Phil, Joy and Philip. All of those early morning talks as we sat in freezing cold arenas watching the boys play hockey will be cherished forever.
Phil was a wonderful human being and an example for us all. Our deepest condolences to Joy, Philip and the rest of Phil's family.
Coach Les
September 7, 2006
Joy, Philip, the Cowie family, my deepest sympathy on your loss.
"Fat Boy", rest in peace my friend, you were special.
Padre Don & Lynn Maclean
September 6, 2006
Sympathy and support to your family at this time of great loss. Phil was a leader and a man of courage and a big heart. He was a model for our teenagers in their Kingston years. Have courage and faith as big as the oceans he sailed.
Paul and Emma Westmacott
September 6, 2006
Dear Joy, Philip, Gordon and Veronica, Although we didn't know Philip that well, we are very saddened to hear the news and our thoughts are with you. With our love, Paul and Emma Westmacott.
Ellen D'Astous
September 5, 2006
Uncle Philip was and always will be an inspiration to me. He taught me not to notice the bad things in life but to realize only the good things and be thankful for them. I didn't know much about Uncle Phil but what I do know is he lived life to the fullest never let anything bring him down and to focus on the good things in life. We all love and always will love our Uncle Philip. Aunty Joy and Philip and the rest of the family I only wish I was there to help you through this.
Jerry Dover
September 5, 2006
In the spring of 1990, Phil and I were invited to play on a Bermudan team in one of their regular club matches. As I was being trampled by the Burmudans, my defence and my inspiration came from Phil. He carried that team, scoring their only points, and he carried me when my back was covered in cleat marks. Later as we young, invincible RMC lads made sport in those Bermudan bars, Phil's wise counsel and steady presence saved many of us from a local drubbing.
He was a gentleman, a warrior, a leader, and a friend.
Joy, we share your grief and our prayers are with you and your family.
"Life every man holds dear; but the dear man holds honor far more precious dear than life." - W. Shakespeare
Pam Cowie
September 5, 2006
Phil, Today is a tough day, a day to get on with life and back to our everyday living. It doesn't seem fair and it sure won't be easy. You would be the first to say "you do what you have to do". You always did it with dignity and cherished each and every moment you had. I will miss all the "no mores". No more meeting for coffee, no more sharing or hiding chocolate with or from you, no more chats on your cell when you were driving and just wanted to talk, no more answers to e-mails I sent you no matter how trivial they were, no more being the brunt of your humor (you always did know how to get me going)...so many "no mores"......so many special times. Thank you for the last year and allowing us to get closer to you and Joy and Phlip, the hurt is greater, but the love is stronger and the memories endless. Love you, "favourite bro-in-law.
Tara Mueller
September 5, 2006
Dear Joy, Philip, Mr. and Mrs. Cowie, and families
My thoughts and prayers have been with you and Phil for the last 15 years and they will continue.
The best thing about good memories is that they cannot be forgotten. In particular, trying to keep rugby boys out of fights in Bermuda bars somehow manages to stay near the surface!
We were blessed to have Phil in our lives.
Tara
Paul Treboutat
September 4, 2006
I am wrought with sadness to hear of Phil's passing. He was a "Mil Col" classmate that I admired for his zest for life, his over-zealous cheerfulness and his persistence and tenacity. My condolences to the family and close friends. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
George & Rhonda Ricketts
September 4, 2006
Philip was an RMC classmate ('85), a rugby buddy, a naval colleague, and an old, good, friend. I am numbed by his passing, but awed by his passion for life, his devoted friendship, relentless will, and tireless determination.
Philip's service was a wonderful tribute to the man, the son, friend, husband and father. He is dearly missed, but fills a place in our hearts and minds. Our thoughts are with Joy and young Phil, and with Philip's parents and siblings, at this difficult time.
Deepest condolences,
George, Rhonda and family.
P.S. (Take care, Flip.)
Emily Chan
September 4, 2006
I never had the pleasure of meeting Phil but after attending his service, I learned a lot about the man he was. The stories that were told showed how much of an inspiration he was to everyone he met and how lasting an impression he made. I offer my thoughts and prayers to his family, friends and everyone else that feels the sadness of this loss.
steven cowie
September 3, 2006
Phil was a great uncle, father, son, and he loved to share his great knowledge of history, sports and his other passions, but he was also the best friend anyone could ask for. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten. We will meet again but not yet, rest in peace Uncle Phil
Andrew Wilson
September 3, 2006
I first met Phil at TCS in 1979 in grade 12. I will always remember him for his positive attitude and outlook on life. He was a superior athlete and motivated me to, by his example, to do better than my best. After TCS we fell out of touch, but I have thought of him many times in the past 25 years. My thoughts and prayers go with him and his family, he will be sorely missed.
AK Wilson '81
David Maud
September 3, 2006
I read the news of Phil's death on the DK website. It made me feel sad! Sadder than I've felt in a long long time! I new of Phil via DK but then had dealings with him through work as well - in Telford, Dudley, Abu Dhabi and Cairo - just a top class guy! Best memories? Meal in Trader Vic's in Ab Dhab - fajita's and coke in Heroes - hospitality in snowy Montreal and at Chez Cowie. I loved the way he just ignored the facts, didn't sulk but just got on with things - whatever they were! Sincere condolencies to Gord and Joy and young Philip and all the rest of the families! As it says above - top class guy. I feel sad!
Anne & Peter Westmacott
September 3, 2006
,,To Joy, Philip, Gordon and Veronica, and all our Canadian relatives. We were so sad to hear of Philip's passing. He was a lovely man and a model of kindness, good humour and courage. We were always delighted to see him, and time spent in his company was a great pleasure and privilege. We know that he will be sadly missed by all the family and we send love and prayers to all of you at this time of sadness. From (as Philip would have put it)
Randy Boucher
September 3, 2006
Phil was among my closest friends as we began RMC together in the fall of
1981. Late night ball hockey games in the old gym, rum and cokes in
downtown Kingston, and one-liner postcards from around the world will
be my lasting memories of a terrific individual. To Joy, Philip Jr. and
all the family, my heartfelt condolences on the loss of a great
husband, father, son, brother, athlete - and all-around human being.
Andrew Edwards
September 3, 2006
I had the pleasure of knowing Phil as my step-uncle and even though I was not very close to him, I know he was a warmhearted person, a very welcoming individual and he had a great sense of humor. I will always remember how he could always make me laugh and the times he would poke fun at my mom. I feel honored to have known him and hearing about the wonderful person that he was, I only wish that I had had more time to have gotten to know him more. I would have especially liked to learn more of his knowledge of history. I offer my condolences to Joy, Philip, Mr. and Mrs. Cowie, Chris, Andrew, Val and all those who felt the warmth of Phil’s heart; for he will be dearly missed by all.
Michelle Taylor (nee Robertson)
September 3, 2006
I met Phil as Sqn Leader Brock Squadron (5) in 1992. He was an inspiration to all of the cadets and truly a man to be admired. My hearfelt condolences to all of his family.
Andrew & Cecilia Westmacott
September 2, 2006
Dearest Joy, Philip Jnr and all the Family.
We were so saddened to hear of Phils death. We feel blessed to have spent just a little time with Philip here in Auckland (with stories of him being picked up by the police for running over the "pedestrian free" harbour bridge!), the time spent in the UK (just after Philip Jnr's birth) and even some time in Canada along with Uncle Bob and his stories at sea.
Although relatively brief encounters, they were all special times and will remain the fondest of memories of being related (albeit distantly) to a truly insprational individual!
Our thoughts, prayers and love to you Joy, Philip and family at this time. May you rest in peace
Michael and Connie Colpitts
September 2, 2006
Phil was my classmate, friend and team captain during our years at RMC. In those days, his skill and effort on the rugby pitch were my inspiration. After many years of infrequent contact, my wife and I had the pleasure of spending more time with him over the past year. I'll still remember the rugby games, but not as much as the respect and love he showed his family and friends, and his courage and patience. Our condolences to Joy, Philip and the Cowie and Steele families.
Marion Lewis
September 2, 2006
Even though I have not seen any of you for many years, since the days of our childhood growing up on the same street, I have heard news about you all from mum and dad. I am very sorry to hear about Philip's death and send my thoughts to you all. With deepest sympathy, Marion
Alistair Edwards
September 2, 2006
I never really got to know Phil. I would see him the odd time throughout the year, but I never really got to know anything about him. But after all the things that were said about him today, I really wish that I had. The Phil I saw was a man who lived life to the fullest at every moment, who loved his family to no end and who always had a smile on his face, but now I understand that this was just the surface of the incredible person that was known as Phil. I never got to see the amazing athlete that he was, nor did I ever have the chance to sit down and discuss medieval history with him, and for this I am truly saddened.
My heart goes out to Joy, Phil Jr., his dad, his mom, his brothers and sister, as well as to all of his friends. Phil touched the hearts of a large number of people in his lifetime, and though he has left this world, his memory will always live on in each and everyone of our hearts.
Angus Topshee
September 1, 2006
I came to know Phil through playing rugby at RMC and I was immediately impressed by his leadership and compassion. His return to play rugby after his first bout with cancer was truly inspirational and proved to all of us that one should never give up. He was easily one of the most skilled players I had the privilege of playing with and his upbeat personality and positive manner made even Les's most demanding practices a joy. Off the field, he was the perfect role model for cadets and those who had him as a Squadron Commander were truly blessed. He will be missed.
Allison and Edith MacLean
September 1, 2006
To Joy Philip, Mr and Mrs Cowie and family and to Bob and Norma Steele and family.
We offer to all of you our sincere sympathy at this sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Although, Allison and I only met Phil a very few times we have fond memories of a very great person. Love
Patrick and Emily Steele
September 1, 2006
To Aunt Joy and Philip
We are sorry to hear about Uncle Philip's death. We love both of you very much.
Paul Maddison
September 1, 2006
I was proud to call Phil a shipmate when we sailed together in HMCS SKEENA. An outstanding officer who inspired all around him through his friendship, leadership and pursuit of human excellence, he will be sorely missed. My condolences.
Brian & Gwen Ogilby
September 1, 2006
We knew Philip as a young boy growing up in Dollard. He was a friend of our son, Todd and we have many fond memories of Philip playing hockey every winter on our backyard rink, no matter the conditions. He was always the first to start a game and the last to come inside and no matter how cold it was there was never a complaint. He was such a good natured kid and we loved having him in our home. When he and his family moved away we really missed him. From all we have read, written by his many friends and fellow RMC comrades, it is clear that all the qualities he possessed as a young boy developed magnificently as he achieved manhood.
We extend our heartfelt condolences to his wife Joy, his son, Philip Jr., and to his father, mother, brothers and sister who we met, through minor hockey, in Pierrefonds many years ago. Philip was someone you never forgot, even as a child.
Richard Moreau
September 1, 2006
Phil entered my life in August 1989, when I arrived at RMC to join him and Karl Michaud as Squadron Commanders. Phil was a great man who inspired and touched all those who were fortunate to be around him. Phil has and will continue to inspire an entire generation of RMC Cadets as well as those who had the priviledge to serve with him. His courage, resilience and kindness made him an outstanding role model for us all. To Joy, Philip, the Cowie and Steele families, I offer my deepest sympathy. Phil you will be missed but never forgotten....A dieu mon ami.
Gordon Bannatyne
September 1, 2006
Phil & Joy only lived in England for a few years and became good friends of mine. During that time Phil became a valued member of Dudley Kingswinford Rugby Club where he soon made many friends. He was an inspirational person to all in the club, especially his fellow team mates with his positive attitude and determination to succeed. In his season as captain he led the side with great passion and his leadership led to many great victories. His strong will to fight his illness never detracted from his commitment to playing. We missed him when he left, but he was never forgotten and even today we quote his attitude as a form of motivation for present day players. All at DK would like to express their sadness at this news, and our thoughts and prayers go out to Joy & Phillip Jnr.
Elyse D'Astous
September 1, 2006
Uncle Philip was a true inspiration to me and my entire family. Whenever I do anything whether it's homework, volleyball, or just living I think of him and am suddenly capable of doing much more than I could do on my own. He was a great teacher and example to us all. You could never beat him whether you were playing Risk, flying paper airplanes,or racing up the Vt mountains but he would always tell you his secrets and strategies to improve your performance dramatically. I always wished that I could have spent more time with him besides Christmas and summers but those short visits made it all the more special. I love you Uncle Philip and always will and I'm sorry you never got to visit us in Utah. You would have loved it. I love you Nana, Grandpa, Philip and everyone else. Wish I could be there with you to remember my Uncle Philip.
Andrew Gebhardt
September 1, 2006
I only met you once Phil but you left a very lasting impression.
John Graham
September 1, 2006
As a classmate at RMC from the class of 1985, I and everyone else could see that Phil was an outstanding leader and friend. I regret that distance has prevented me from meeting his family, to whom I offer my sincere condolences.
Coach Brad, Lynn, Lake & Paige Johnston
September 1, 2006
It was a pleasure getting to know Phil, Joy and Philip during the last hockey season. Phil's enthusiasm and contributions to the Mad Dog's and The Pound will be missed.
Our thoughts are with Joy and Philip during this difficult time.
Jim & Yvonne Gebhardt
September 1, 2006
Sincere condolences for your loss.
We knew Phil as a classmate of Sandy (Malone)at RMC.
Donna Quillan
September 1, 2006
Joy and Philip, I want to send my deepest sympathies. You are both in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Your strength through all the difficult times you have faced through the years should be an inspiration to all of us. It was a pleasure to know Phil and have him in our family. I will most remember and appreciate him for the joy he brought our grandmother with his postcards and the special attention he always gave "The Queen". All my love to both of you.
Daniel Martin
September 1, 2006
Every once in awhile you here of someone whose life seems to really touch others with such a valorous character. It is obvious Phils family and friends and those of us who only know of him will carry on with memories of all measure.
with love and respect to Phils family Sincerely
Steven Beggs
September 1, 2006
Phil was a dynamic, inspiring man. He touched a lot of us at RMC and will be missed.
Karen Lozinsky
September 1, 2006
Chris, Pam and family,
It's never easy to say goodbye to someone loved so deeply and dearly.....Our heartfelt condolences are with you and your family on the loss of your brother, Philip.
The Lozinsky Family
Andy Barrett
September 1, 2006
Phil was a wonderful person, whose strength of character and courage inspired many a RMC Rugby player, on and off the field. My sincere condolences go out to Joy, Phil. Jr., and all his family.
Ed Friesen
September 1, 2006
Phil was a great man. Condolences from yet another ex-RMC buddy.
Todd Ogilby
September 1, 2006
I was saddened and shocked to hear of Phil's passing. Phil and I grew up together in Dollard and I carry many fond memories of our adventures. I remember Phil as an easy going, fun friend and athlete who always gave his best. Unfortunately, we drifted apart, but as I read through the many kind words written here I see that Phil continued to strive for excellence in all that he did. It is also apparent that he touched many people in his life.
My deepest condolences to Mr. and Mrs. Cowie, Andrew, Gord, Chris, Val, Joy and Philip Jr.
David Morgan
September 1, 2006
It is with a great deal of sadness that I have learned of Phil’s passing. As his roommate in 2nd year at RMC, I will always remember his wicked sense of humour, as well as his kindness. Phil made life in Frontenac U an enjoyable experience. Phil’s prowess at athletics at RMC will be but one of his many legacies. Although our paths seldom crossed after graduation, I often thought of Phil, especially whenever I viewed a rugby game. My condolences to Phil’s family.
Yv et JP FAUCONNIER
September 1, 2006
We would like to express our sincere condolences to Joy,Philip,Mr and Mrs Cowie and all Phil's family
Please accept our deepest sympathies
Andy, Helen & Amy Rawlings
September 1, 2006
We are deeply saddened to hear the news about Phil. He was a true inspiration to us all & will continue to be so, in our memory of him. Our love & sincere condolences to Joy & Philip; Gordon & Veronica & to the Cowie & Steele families. You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Peter Williams
September 1, 2006
Phil was a classmate of mine at RMC and my condolences go out to his family. Stand easy, Phil.
olimpio rebeccani
August 31, 2006
To Joy Steele
We share your grief
in the loss of your husband
receive our deepest condolences
Rosangela and Olimpio
Rebeccani
Patricia Cowie
August 31, 2006
Philip Cowie was An Inspiring ,loving, couragous,and strong Uncle. He could do anything he put his mind to. He showed me that no matter what happens in life family will always be with you.He is no longer with me in this world but is now within me. he continues to live his life through me and everyone else that loves him deeply. His son Philip Cowie jr. is growing up to be as strengthful and intelligent as his father.I will always remember petting the dogs or watching him play hockey with my dad. I will remember why a harvesting moon is orange and meny other things he has taught me through the years. Everytime I sing I will be one with him.
Good night uncle Phil and Good bye. May You Rest In Peace.
David Smith
August 31, 2006
Phil Cowie -- great man, great friend, inspiration and master of open field running. We´re so very sorry for the loss felt by all who loved him too.
Mike & Eunice de Groot
August 31, 2006
I never really knew Phil but have heard great things about him. I believe that he came to Bermuda with the RMC rugby team in '86 after he had already graduated. If I remember correctly he made a smashing tackle right from the kick off to start the game and I was thinking, "who is this guy?". Obviously his heart and character was felt by many off the rugby pitch and our deepest condolences and the Lord's comfort to his family & loved ones.
Bea Martin
August 31, 2006
Our family has been moved,inspired and entertained with stories of Phil.Not about pain and despair, but rather hope and resiliency. A courage that will not be denied.Our hearts are with you,all.
Peter Johnston
August 31, 2006
I had the good fortune of playing rugby at RMC under Phil's guidance. I still remember the runs up the hills and the commitment to fitness. Phil's exemplary dedication, determination, dignity, and compassion are the traits that come to my mind when I think back to those days. I offer my sincerest condolences to Joy, Phil, and the Cowie family. Cherish the many wonderful memories and God bless you in this difficult time.
Joe LeRoy
August 31, 2006
To me, Phil was an example of everything you would want in a leader, team-mate and friend. He was cheerful, insightful, thoughtful and kind. He was a physical specimen of a man on the Rugby pitch. Joy Cowie... words cannot express my condolences. Young Philip, your dad was an inspiration to a lot of people and a shining example of courage. My heart goes out to you both. - Joe
Jonathan France
August 31, 2006
I knew Phil from our school days in Port Hope. I recall a tall, very athletic young man with a ready grin. My deepest condolensces to his family.
Richard Steele Susan Rebeccani
August 31, 2006
Phil will always be remembered as someone who lived life to the fullest and encouraged many of us to join him on the journey.
Derek Basinger
August 31, 2006
Phil, you made my years at RMC far more pleasureable and meaningful. You are also the reason I still play rugby. I know I am not alone in having been so deeply touched by your influence. You will be missed. My thoughts are with your family.
Peter Ellis
August 31, 2006
Every time I think of Phil, I think "strength". He is one of those very rare individuals whose incredible physical abilities are matched by his outstanding character and intellect. His values, determination and devotion to his family and friends have always inspired me. I know that I am a better person for having him as a friend. To Joy, Philip, Mr. and Mrs. Cowie and all of Phil's family – Wendy, Naomi and I offer our condolences. Our thoughts are with you.
Phil- I won't run a marathon, but I will grab a bucket of KFC, raise a few Cokes and devour some chocolate in your honour.
Karol Mikulash
August 31, 2006
I was very saddened to learn of Phil's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting Phil at TCS and, although our lives intersected only briefly, I remember him as a very caring individual, having an easy, open, and welcoming manner. Thank you, Phil, for the kindness you shared.
I extend my sincere condolences to Phil's family.
Jonathan Knaul
August 31, 2006
Phil was my squadron commander in the Frigate at RMC during my 3rd and 4th years. We became fast friends. I always felt that I was a better person for knowing him. I can only echo what everyone else has said: his leadership, strength and sense of humour were an inspiration. You will be tremendously missed Phil.
Andreas Kothleitner
August 31, 2006
This saddening news was sent to me by a fellow RMC rugger. Phil was a mentor and a friend to me during my years at RMC ('87-'91). He helped we through some of the rough times as a student-cadet and was a teacher/leader by example. The early summer return to campus for work outs at Fort Henry with Phil and Les will never be forgotten. Most importantly I remember Phil as part of our team, practicing with us and even playing when the time was right. As any rugby player will attest, Phil's vision, power, and speed were exciting to watch as he ran around and over the opposition. My heartfelt condolences to the Cowie clan. Phil, thank-you.
Ray Hession
August 31, 2006
I had the pleasure of playing rugby with Phil for only a few years during my time at RMC. In that short period, he taught me to be a better player by leading with the great example of his gentlemanly nature, fierce competitiveness and athleticism on the rugby pitch. I am thankful for this. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Yann Martel
August 31, 2006
I knew Phil for two years at TCS. Fair-minded, friendly and reserved is how I remember him.
My condolences to his loved ones. May they remember best his living, not his dying.
L. Robert
August 31, 2006
I met Phil in RMC Kingston 92-94. Phil was a fighter in a reserved kind of way. He fought for his life, his family, his beliefs and his love, Joy, who he held in very high esteem. Phil was determined, kind, honest, generous and gave the best he could give. He loved sports, reading, anything with a cow, spaghetti with tomotoe sauce and grated cheese, good times with friends and his black Labrador dog Sheeba. I am sorry for your loss.
Gordon MacLeod
August 31, 2006
My deepest sympathy goes out to Joy, Phil jr and his parents. I was fortunate to call Phil my friend and team-mate. I am at a loss for words. Phil can't play sports now, but I will play for him.
Mark Prefontaine
August 30, 2006
I knew Phil for a brief time at RMC as he was my Sqn Cmdr for one year. I know he will be missed by many and had a positive influence on everyone he came in contact with. He worked hard, played hard and was completely devoted to those around hime. Our condolences to the Cowie family.
Mark, Lisa and Gavin
Jacquie (Carss) Doucette
August 30, 2006
My heartfelt condolences go out to all of Phil's family and close friends. We were classmates at RMC and I'll never forget the kindness & respect he always showed for everyone. His smile will live forever in my memories. My prayers are with you. Rest in peace, Phil.
Jane K Howe
August 30, 2006
Phil was a great sqn cmdr his leadership, athleticism and smile made my time at the Frigate more enjoyable. I will never forget running the Ottawa marathon in the early 90's and seeing Phil in the race. He exemplified the phrase “the power of positive thinking”. My sincere condolences to his wife, son, family and friends.
John Clark
August 30, 2006
To all who played with and watched Phil play rugby, especially after his first bout with chemotherapy, he was truly an inspiration. I have had the great fortune to have known and played with Phil, and I will truly miss him. However, I also know that he will always be in our hearts. To Joy, Philip and all his family, I would like to express my deepest sympathies.
Steve Stuart
August 30, 2006
It was with deep regret that I read of Philip's passing. I will always remember him from the Rugby days at RMC. Bag Stuart
Chris Robart
August 30, 2006
As my sqn cmdr at the Frigate, Phil Cowie played an important role in my professional life. He exemplified professionalism, integrity, caring and spirit, on and off the pitch. My prayers are with Phil's family and with all whom have been touched in some way by Phil.
Brian & Karen Lyall
August 30, 2006
it was 14 yrs ago that I met Phil on a rugby tour from Scotland, I met the women who would become my wife Karen Mathers, the following year I emigrated to canada and Phil inspired me on lunchtime runs round fort henry with Les Davidson to get fit, those runs were hard for a prop while Phil & les would sprint up the hills with a laugh,
it was a pleasure to have know you Phil, I hope this last run gives you peace, your memory will last forever
Michael Brydon
August 30, 2006
There are many of us who never really knew Phil. We were not in his squadron nor on his team. Yet, we know, through those who were in his squadron or on his team, that he was a remarkable man. We have heard the stories and witnessed the remarkable devotion of our friends to this man. And we can only feel diminished for not having been among the lucky few.
Randall Bain
August 30, 2006
Phil & I were at TCS together only for a year. But I remember his kind and gentle manner & his no-holes-barred competitiveness on the fields of play (all of them). Please accept my condolences.
Pat Scalia
August 30, 2006
Dear Cowie Family:Everyone of you have strength and determination.It is futile to ponder"Why"?It is wiser to draw strength from Phil's examples.God Bless you all on your journey of love,loss and renewal.I had the pleasure of meeting Phil and Joy last year and will treasure those brief moments.Sincerely..The Scalia Family(Pam Cowie's twin)
Derek and Shelley Potvin
August 30, 2006
Please accept our deepest condolences. It was a great pleasure getting to know Philip last year. His enthusiastic attitude had a positive influence on Philip (jr.), his Mad Dog team mates and coaches. Joy and Philip out thoughts are with you.
Bruce Pickard
August 30, 2006
He was a great friend. We will miss him so much.
Bruce, Amy, Katie, Robbie and Michael Pickard
Scott Treadwell
August 30, 2006
My deepest sympathies on Phil's passing. I first met Phil in 1993 on the rugby pitch, and gathered lessons on sport and life from him. To me he was calm and yet fiercely competetive, and showed all of us what it meant to be an officer, a sportsman, and a good person.
Rest in Peace, Phil.
Brian Mumford
August 30, 2006
Phil was great person. He will live on for ever in our memories. Our condolences to his family.
Barry Campbell
August 30, 2006
I didn't know Phil very well or for a very long time, but as a teammate on the Kingston Panthers Rugby Football Club, he was inspriational as an exceptional athlete. In the few times we talked, we was also a wonderful, caring person. Morevoer, the way he dealt with adversity when his illness first struck was also inspirational. All the best to Phil's family.
Sandy Malone
August 30, 2006
Phil was my good friend and classmate from RMC. He is my inspiration and lived life to the fullest. I have many memories to make me smile.
David McCulloch
August 30, 2006
My sincere condolences to Phil's wife, son, and family. As a former teammate on the "Leadbellies", Phil set himself apart from the rest in his effort on the ice and with his personal touch he extended everytime I chatted with him. It's fitting that one of his favourite charities is the Lance Armstrong Foundation ... Phil was an inspiration to all, as Lance Armstrong was to him.
My Deepest Sympathies,
David McCulloch
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