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for Keith Joy
Jeff Vagell
April 2, 2023
What an incredible partner as a gym teacher at Platt Tech, super athlete but a personalty and humor that was second to none. Think of Keith a lot over the years, miss him greatly.
Rev. Jim Groskritz-George
February 7, 2008
Dear Joy Family, though I was never really close to Keith he was someone that was known by everyone in Granby High. He was one of the few that crossed the borders of the friends we all had there and I am glad to say that I knew him. My heart and prayers go out to you at this time of your loss.
Michael Graf
December 13, 2007
Dear Pat,
I am so very sorry on the loss of your son Keith. May God bless you and the entire Joy family.
Belinda Fitzsimmons-Bullock
December 12, 2007
I was so sad to hear of Keith's death. Even though we were not in the same "group" at GHS, as many have said before me, he was such a huge presence and he reached out to all he came in contact with. He always made us laugh. I saw him at a 10 year reunion and he had not changed a bit!
Carol Colgan
November 23, 2007
My deepest sympathies go out to all who knew and loved Keith "FUZZ" Joy, especially to his family. He was an energetic force who changed the world around him. Contact with Fuzz brought you what you needed at the moment, be that more love, laughter, goodness, hope, beauty, joy, wisdom or the faith that everything would be alright in a world that sometimes felt a little crazy. My life was changed forever the day I met the "dynamic trio" and my time at KSC was all the richer having had "Fuzz" as a friend. He will be deeply missed.
The Warnkes
November 21, 2007
Our deepest sympathies at this very sad time in your lives. May God Bless!
donna desharnais mason
November 9, 2007
To the Joy family: My name is Donna Desharnais, I was in the 1977 class with Keith. I also took dog training with Mom Joy (we had a collie). Just the other day I was telling my husband about Keith. He was left behind in high school as well and it reminded me of Keith. Locking himself in the lockers in 7th grade, Mr. Woodworth science moving the little white tabs on the floor where our desks were supposed to be.They are endless rememberances. I was saddened to read he was so sick. He is a truly fresh smile in my mind.
Nancy Dubiel
November 8, 2007
Dear Pat and Bill - Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in knowing Keith was loved by so many. God bless you all, fondly, Nancy and Ernie Dubiel
Tami (Stefanik) Goodwin
November 7, 2007
I am so sorry that FUZZ lost his battle.He was the first person I met at KSC and became one of my best friends.He truly lived life to the fullest. I often tell stories of FUZZ's escapades and remember fondly all the things we did together. Melissa, the last time I saw him, you had just gotten married and he told me you changed his life. I am so glad you found each other. A hole will be left in my heart, although I will never forget his laugh and zest for fun and life. You are all in my thoughts at this very difficult time. Know that his love for all of you and his memories will keep you going.He will be loved and remembered always. Godspeed FUZZ, my fellow GDI, I'll miss you . Tami
Lisa (Bald) Laakso
November 7, 2007
To the Joy family,
I was so sorry to hear about Keith's passing. He was my softball coach at East Granby High School for 2 years, and I'll always remember him as someone with infinite patience and kindness. No matter what our record was, he always made sure we had fun and enjoyed the game. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Rest in peace Coach Joy.
November 6, 2007
To all the Extended Joy Family,
Our hearts ache for you, and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. There is not a teacher who was in Granby during Keith's time in school who does not remember his contagious smile and the laughter he inspired. Although his antics did not always help our classroom management, he kept us humble and helped us maintain perspective in our work. We cannot help but smile at the memory of Keith. This is no accident. Keith's zest for life was grounded in a firm foundation of love from you, his family. The fact that Keith is remembered so fondly by so many people is a tribute to you all. We, too, have lost a child before we felt it was time. The Granby community helped provide the strength we needed to weave our lives back together when we thought we were torn apart forever. We pray that you too may find strength in your faith, family, and friends to give you courage and hope in times to come.
Debbie (Smith) and Al Randzio
Retired Granby Teachers
Susan Davis
November 6, 2007
Pat, Bill, Leslie, Barb (and all of Keith's family), I was so sorry to hear of Keith's passing. My memories of him will always be of a bright-eyed, mischievous high school boy with an amazing laugh. I am holding you all in my heart and in my prayers.
Jeff Berger
November 5, 2007
I remember fondly the days of our youth spent riding our bikes on the mountain. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you.
Amy (Oat) and Eric Piper
November 5, 2007
We are so sad to hear the news. We look back on our times at KSC and have such fond memories of "Fuzz". His love of life, sense of humor and all out SPUNK are qualities that we will never forget in our dear friend "Fuzz". We just know that he and Billsy have found one another again and before we all know it, they will be up to their old tricks in heaven! We love you Fuzz and we will never forget you. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Brenda (Fedrizzi) Korn
November 4, 2007
To the Joy Family,
Although I did not personally know Keith during school, I knew 'of' him. Who didn't...with his curly brown hair and great personality. As my dad, Bruno and his dad Bill became good friends I regularly heard about the Joy kids and feel like I know them. My sincere sympathy to all the Joy family members on the loss of a wonderful son, father and brother.
Katherine (Chet Wilhelm) Powell
November 4, 2007
Dear Joy Family,
So many of my happiest memories of going to school in Granby involve Keith. There was the time he hid in Mrs. Lobo's closet, the day he dropped out of the locker in the back of Mr. Woodworth's science class and the night when he opened his mouth to deliver a line at play rehearsal and a gypsy moth flew out (a stunt he'd been rehearsing for some time backstage). I remember, too, lots of talk and laughter riding bus 9 to and from Kelly Lane, and our 5th high school reunion when he took me on wild ride in a golf cart at the Copper Hill Country Club. I'm sad to say that was the last time I saw him. I know he must have brought the same joyful energy and humor to his family and his work and even to his battle with cancer. I hope that you can find comfort in your memories and the love you shared. Please know that I am thinking of you all.
Kurt Booth
November 3, 2007
Fuzzy was my best friend at Wells Road. I remember the devastation on learning that Keith and I would no longer be in the same class with the move to Kelly Lane. Remarkably, his heart and spirit had a capacity to expand his love that I had not learned then and am still working on.
From sharing in the first detention of our school careers (thank you, Mrs. Lobo) to some night best left unspoken about, Keith shone brightly. The best birthday parties up on the hill in that first week of April, a family that was so gracious and a smile that told everyone "relax, it's gonna be ok".
I am warmed to read that Keith understood our purpose and future. While I am saddened to hear of his passing from this world, I rejoice as Paul did to think of the gain Keith is experiencing - "To live is Christ, to die is gain."
My thoughts and prayers are with his family now. May you feel the peace of God's Spirit leading and comforting you. Thank you for all you have given me.
Ellen O'Daniell
November 3, 2007
"Fuzz", what a remarkable person..I will remember you as funny, social (aka wild) and kind at KSC. When we crossed paths later in life, I will remember you as smart, passionate , emotional and loving...a great parent and role model. Your family, while sad, must also be so very proud...I will miss you and hope that you have found "Billsy" in party heaven .my heart goes out to your family ...love you KSC buddy!
Lee Wilcox
November 3, 2007
Keith will be greatly missed. We knew one another from before he met my sister Marj, whom he later married and had Kevin and Jenny with. He was my P.E. Teacher (Coach Joy) when I was a freshman at Wright Tech. Always had a smile, a intensity and determination in everything he did. He made an impact on my life and I will never forget. Memoriesof Keith will stay in my heart forever. Rest in Peace.
November 3, 2007
Dear Pat, Bill, Barb and Leslie-
Memories of Keith are wrapped up in the love I felt visiting your home in Granby as a child. A special place and a boy who made us laugh. It sounds like he kept that spirit, bringing happiness to many throughout his life. Peace and comfort to you always. Love, Beth Livingston
Scott Driscoll
November 3, 2007
Dear Joy Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Fuzz was a one of a kind larger than life individual. I have many great memories of the times spent with him. Each one brings me laughter and a smile. He certainly has a big place in my heart. Goodbye my friend. I will miss you, but you will never be forgotten.
God Bless
Dana and Andy Buchanan
November 3, 2007
To the Joy Family,
Our love to you all. We mourn with you in your loss, yet we thank God for the comfort of blessed assurance knowing that Keith is experiencing the fullness of Joy that comes from knowing Christ Jesus.
Mark Thompson
November 3, 2007
Fuzz-
To a rugby teammate & classmate-Its was a huge privilege & honor to have known you. You were truly a unique & original man with a lot of heart. I will never forget you.
Kevin Griffith
November 2, 2007
The Joy Family
The world already seems a darker place without Keith's laughter. Memories of Keith in countless classes, or working at High Meadow, or playing hockey every winter weekend, all STILL bring an immediate smile!!
I feel fortunate to have known him. He will be greatly missed!
Cheryl Avery
November 2, 2007
My heartfelt sorrows for the tremendous loss of a truly wonderful, vibrant, son, father, friend to so many. When you think of our classmates at GMHS, Fuzz always has been top on the list - rarely does one have the privelege to be in the company of one so vibrant.
Mary-Jo Ganley
November 2, 2007
"Fuzz" was a very big part of "Keeneland" ... My heart & prayers go out to his family, friends & loved ones.
Gary Riggott
November 2, 2007
To Keith's family-
I'm very sorry to hear about Keith's passing. I have been hearing thru the Granby grapevine about Keith's illness. I remember him at our last reunion in '03. It was great to see him the way I'll always remember him. Good luck to you folks during this really tough period.
Gloria Yennaco
November 2, 2007
Missy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. I last saw Keith in January and will never forget the look on his face when he returned from taking Jenny for a driving lesson and telling us in the kitchen how she had hit the garage. It was priceless. We are all here for you. Take care.
Richard "Magic Dick" Sanford (KSC 83' )
November 2, 2007
Fuzz,My Friend,My team mate, My wing man at the KSC PUB tending bar on Thurs and Sat, you always found a way to make the time fly. Those flag football days, you were the best! I'll miss you but I'll never forget you buddy. Your family will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless
Mary - Jigga Cornell
November 2, 2007
May god bless you all during this time of sorrow.I am very sorry to hear of Fuzz's passing. I will always remember Keene State College Airbands with Fuzz, Billsy, and John, cold beers at Penucchi's and plenty of laughs during numerous Homecomings. I am sure the angels were waiting for him. Again, my deepest sympathy to all who loved him. Love, Jigga
Kim Stratton
November 2, 2007
I am very sad to hear of the passing of Fuzz. What a presence he had at KSC..!!!
Kim
Karen T. Pastore
November 2, 2007
Dear Joy Family, I am so shocked and sad to hear the passing of Keith! I met Keith through Fidelity as one of his clients. He was always so attentive and gave me sound advice. I am deeply sadden by your lost.
Tad Keating
November 2, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.I have nothing but great memories of Fuzz whether it be city league football at Keene State or watching him watch Jenny and Kevin playing sports at Darien High. His infectious laugh will be missed but he will always be in our hearts
Mark "Pee Wee" Pagano
November 2, 2007
Dear Joy Family,
Sorry to hear of Keith's passing. I will always have fond memories of growing up with him all through school and playing Hockey at nearby ponds. I can still hear that infectious laugh of his. He was one of the few who always called me "Pee Wee" throughout our school years...and I loved it! God bless and peace to the entire family.
Mom and Dad Joy
November 2, 2007
Our son who was a huge presence wherever he went. It has been a privilage and an honor to be his parents. His sister's were with him to the very end with love, support and encouragement. I thank the Lord Keith was lent to us.
Mom and Dad
jann Yankauskas
November 1, 2007
To Barb, Leslie, his parents and his family -- I am so sad to hear of Keith's passing. He was my first crush ( and I am sure I was not the only one) -- and always carried him fondly in my thoughts through the years. Please know that I am surrounding you with my thoughts and deepest care in this time.
J. Romaniello
November 1, 2007
I will miss our conversations from our lawn mowers.
I think of Keith every time I hear a mower in the neighborhood.
Bill Percival
November 1, 2007
It is not by chance that one becomes loved by so many. It is no small thing to be remembered, and for that memory to bring a wide smile. It is a great comfort and relief, (and a reminder), to see that this means that Fuzz's light has not gone out - Perc
Edrice Viechweg
November 1, 2007
The Joy Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort and strengthen you in your time of bereavement.
NED AND CHRIS KUPRUCK
November 1, 2007
BILL AND PAT, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
Barb Wetzel
November 1, 2007
My brother...my friend. You know what is in my heart. Thank you for the gifts you gave right up until your very last breath. I will watch for you in the moon rises and the sunsets. I love you Keith. Your sister...Barb
John Monsam
November 1, 2007
To the Joy family,
Deepest sympathies on the loss of Keith. He was a great person, a true friend and always an inspiration. His attitude and outlook along with that great big smile were the best. I'll always remember him by this: "GIMME A G..."
Jeff Schmahl
November 1, 2007
Mr. and Mrs. Joy, Leslie and Barb -
Thank you for all the years and most amazing memories anyone could hope for. Fuzz has enriched my life and shown me what true friendship is all about. I love him as if he were my brother.
All my love,
Jeff (Hardy)
Jane Buglione
November 1, 2007
Melissa and family,
Words cannot express the sadness I feel in my heart for you. I hope you can find comfort in your memories of your life shared together as a couple and a family.
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Jane
Helen & John Anderson
November 1, 2007
To all the Joy Family, we wish to extend our deepest sympathy at the passing of Keith. May he always remain close to you with fond memories and thoughts. May God Grant His Peace and Comfort to all of you.
Al and Margie Warner
October 31, 2007
Dear Joy Family,
We are holding you close in our thoughts and prayers. After 24 years of friendship, Leslie's family feels like part of ours, and many a tear has been shed over this passing.
Sending hugs to you all, Al, Margie, Tom and Jake Warner
Helene Intintola
October 31, 2007
Pat,Bill,Melissa,Leslie&Barb:
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. The Intintola Family
Michael Wilson
October 31, 2007
Pat:
It was such a treat to have you at our Dad's funeral and for you to share your rememberances of him. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kevin Twombly
October 31, 2007
Fuzz, I'll always appreciate your love and understanding. You helped so many reach for the best in themselves, and go beyond. Even during your own battles, you assisted with others. God bless you and your family.
Peter Dutton
October 31, 2007
To the Joy Family-I'm so very sorry to hear of Keith's passing. His unfailing good cheer and friendly smile remain as special memories of our youth in Granby. May God bless you and give you His peace.
Kim Wundt
October 31, 2007
Dear Aunt Pat, Uncle Bill, Leslie, Barb, Melissa and Family,
I'm not sure what to say, Keith was always my hero. The brother I never had, being Keith Joy's cousin was quite an honor. He was and is bigger than life. To be loved by Keith, was to be loved by no other. My memories of growing up with him are endless. He is my husbands bestfriend, was in our wedding and is my youngest daughter's Godfather. He will live on is his children and will always be remembered. Please know we are praying for all of you, Melissa, you are an angel sent from heaven above. We love you all and can only imagine the reunion between Keith and my Dad.
Robin Stuart
October 31, 2007
Pat, Bill, Melissa, Leslie & Barb,
You are all in my heart, thoughts & prayers at this time, as you have been for a long time. I first remember Keith as Scott's "little friend" who came over to play..oh so many years ago. From the first, you could not help but be taken in by that infectious smile and zest for life. Luckily, Keith never lost either. It was an honor to know Keith and to have him and all of you be part of my life. My deepest sympathy to you all on your loss. Love, Robin
Janet Arthur
October 31, 2007
Dear Pat, Bill, Leslie and Barb
So many memories have flooded back today of times when we were all much younger. You have all been in my thoughts and prayers for a long time and will continue to be. My prayers are also with Melissa and the children. May God grant you Peace in the days and weeks ahead. With much love, Janet
Doris Duvall
October 31, 2007
Dear Pat and Bill, Leslie and Barb. I am seldom at a loss for words but can only feel your pain. I know Keith is with his Lord and that surely should give us all peace. I am happy for Keith that he is finally at rest and that there is no more pain. May God bless you and all the families who will miss him so very much. Charles joins me in sending his best to each and every one of you.
Hugs!
Doris and Charles Duvall
James Murphy
October 31, 2007
Fuzz was an honorary Brother of the Nu Omicron Chapter of Phi Mu Delta Fraternity. I first met Fuzz when he was a student at Keene State College. A great person and a lot of fun. He was always there for others. We will miss him greatly. A moment of silence will be observed for him this Saturday at an alumni reunion in Keene. He is also being listed in Phi Mu Delta's Chapter Eternal. Our sympathies and prayers are with his family. God bless you all.
Jim Murphy
Past National President
Phi Mu Delta
Barb Ege
October 31, 2007
My deepest sympathies to you Pat and Bill at Keith's passing. I'll always remember his smile and the flowers on my windshield back in highschool. May God's grace be with you.
Bonnie Middlebrook
October 31, 2007
Dear Joy Family, Some of my most fond memories of my years in Granby were times when Keith was a part of it. His husky voice and big beautiful smile are forever etched in my mind. And his love of life is an inspiration to all who knew him. He has been in my prayers every single day since he became ill. I will miss him, but I will never forget him. Much love, Bonnie Middlebrook
Jeff Vagell
October 31, 2007
An awesome PE teacher, who made my time as a partner in PE at Platt Tech enjoyable with his humor and being a superb athlete. A great role model for kids. Our memories together at Platt Tech I will never forget. Rugby man and true coach and leader for student athletes.
Jim Weed
October 31, 2007
How great it was to have your very own ice skating rink and frog pond in the backyard! Who could forget the cows on the lawn. Keith will be missed by all. I feel fortunate to have had the chance to know him and his loving family.
Sandy Cross
October 31, 2007
A blessing and privilege to have had Keith in our lives. He gave love in abundance and will remain in my heart always. To be his Aunt and Uncle was one of our greatest joys and times shared with him are precious memories. He and Uncle Rick are now sharing the heavenly experience as they did their earthly experience.
Robin Hale-Lindsay
October 31, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs Joy, Leslie and Barb:
Keith left an everlasting impact on every person he met throughout his life. He was truly extraordinary. My heart is with all of you. Love Robin Hale-Lindsay
John Anderson
October 31, 2007
Keith is my favorite memory of little boys learning the game of Soccer in the time of fall in Granby. He was never without a smile!
Leslie Massa
October 31, 2007
An everyday hero, a larger-than- life friend, father, brother, son and husband...our Keith...our loss. I am glad to be known as "Keith's sister." love, Leslie
Tracey Tracey
October 31, 2007
To have loved and been loved by such a wonderful man is truly a blessing. Keith's love will shine in us forever. You are all always in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers. God Bless you all. Love, Tracey
Paul Huntley
October 31, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Joy family. My remembrances of college are highlighted with fond memories of Fuzz. These memories always bring a smile to my face. Keith was an extremely good person.
Jonathan Garcia
October 31, 2007
I will always remeber "fuzz" as someone who enjoyed life to its fullest. Even though I did not see him in over 25 years, I will always remember our times together at "lucky lager". My prayers are with his family and friends.
Brian Boland
October 31, 2007
I'd like to extend my thoughts and prayers to the entire Joy and Wetzel families. I am so sorry for your loss.
Gloria Wilbanks
October 31, 2007
Pat and Bill, I'm very sorry for your loss. May faith and happy memories of your son serve to comfort you in the days ahead.
melissa tohill
October 31, 2007
Keith will be sadly missed. Always a smiling face in the neighborhood. Our thoughts and prayers are with his famiy. Remember the happy times Melissa.
Chris (Scully) Robinson
October 31, 2007
To the Joy Family,
I can't think of Granby Memorial High without seeing the always present smile of Keith Joy! He was a great guy, friendly to all and had a huge personality to match that smile of his. My sympathies go out to all of you.
Dennis Tracey
October 31, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Keith was full of life and was truly "one of a kind."
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