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Stephan
June 10, 2008
Jay was a very good friend and he will be sorely missed.
Tom Casciato
May 26, 2008
I’ve lost one of the best friends that I could ever hope to find. I had known Jay, off and on, for around 15 years, and my life is more meaningful because of it.
Friends like Jay come along only once in a lifetime. I’ll always remember him for his unique insight and wonderful sense of humor. No matter what we would do, just spending time with him would always make my day more enjoyable.
Jay and I would often go to movies with his friend Mike Wasik. Or we would meet up with my friends Stephan Henrichson and Steve Henshaw to go out to dinner. Or even just to shop for new DVDs – we would spend hours this way.
We would often go to karaoke bars, sometimes with Karl Schipul. He became quite popular, and the bar in Newtown where we would meet with regulars such as Sean, Wally and Dave will never really be the same ever again.
Jay could make even the simplest things more fun. Some of my happiest memories involve nothing more than staying up late, watching TV and DVDs at his house.
Jay would understand me, even when nobody else ever could. I’ll never forget the times that we spent together.
Even now, I’m still deeply saddened and shocked by his passing. I will never understand how someone so young and gifted could be taken from us so suddenly. I extend my thoughts and prayers to Jay’s family at this difficult time.
I’ll miss you, Jay.
Wally Kabra
May 18, 2008
I didn't know Jeremiah very well. But I liked him a lot. Let me start by saying my heart and prayers go out to his family. I remember meeting him as J.B. at karaoke thru Diego (whom I didn't know very well either). There was something about J.B. It went beyond nice, cool, laid back, easy going. It was as if he was around to help cheer you up. When it seemed like you couldn't talk to anyone in the world, you could always talk to J.B. It was just that easy. I don't need to tell you how sad and shocked I am by his sudden death. But I will tell you, much greater is my regret for not knowing him better than I did, especially after he moved to Fairfield. Practically down the road from me. I do remember calling him several times to hit some karaoke bars in town. But for some reason it just never happened. I'll never forget how he brought cheer and laughter to everyone when he sang "slow motion for me". And I'm pretty sure my eyes will tear whenever I'll hear "man on the moon". My friend, my neighbor, and my karaoke buddy....miss you J.B. May you rest in peace.
Barbaranne Suhy
May 17, 2008
Dear Cousins,
Please accept our very deepest
sympathy upon Jay's passing.
Love & prayers,
Cousins Bill & Barbaranne Suhy
Charlotte, NC
Ed & Liz Audley
May 13, 2008
Jerry & Julie
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Scot Cregan
May 13, 2008
Jay was one of the most genuine, honest and unique people I have ever met. He was extremely talented with his visual art skills. We met at Western Connecticut State University and stayed in touch for years. I am extremely saddend by the news of his passing. I just wish I knew him better...
The world has lost a spark that Jay always carried with him. I'll always remember his humor, wit and insight, but most of all his friendship.
My most sincere condolences to everyone who knew him and loved him.
Louise, Bob and family Davis
May 13, 2008
Maryann, Jimmy and Heather, Please accept our deepest sympathies. Jay was a special person. Jay and the family will be in our prayers.
Steve & Penha Roth
May 13, 2008
Our condolences for your family on your loss.
Liane Pioli
May 12, 2008
Jeremiah was one of the most sincere, gentle, and kind individuals I have met. It was my great honor to have known him.
Karl Schipul
May 12, 2008
I have known Jay (Jeremiah) since we shared an art class together with Mrs. Suzanne Monaco in Junior year of Trumbull High School. He said some amusing things to me and another guy in the class, Steve Jonas. I honestly did not know what to make of him then.
Later, while I went to Pratt Institute in New York City, I saw him walking in the opposite direction while in Manhattan. I asked him what he was up to there. He told me that he was a student over at the School of Visual Arts (SVA), quite a significant art and design school, even in the city, much like Pratt (but quite different from Pratt). He told me his major was animation. It then dawned on me that he possessed actual artistic talent. He wasn't just taking art classes in high school just to fill some elective requirement. He went with a purpose.
Now and then, we would randomly bump in to each other, purely by coincidence, as I frequently liked to jog through Manhattan, or I would be shopping for painting/photography supplies. One day, Steve Henshaw and Tom Casciato came down to the city to do a bunch of things with me. We managed to run in to Jeremiah and caught up on things. I knew Steve and Tom as friends, but I did not know that they knew Jay. Seems like they were actually quite well acquainted.
Sometime after graduation, I had run into Steve, Tom and also Jay again. Jay was able to get himself an internship in media and computer graphics, which was well beyond what I was doing at the time. I was looking for someone to collaborate with for various projects, as well as knowledge of programs. We were both busy and were only able to meet occasionally. Now and then, Steve, Tom, Jay and myself would hang out at a variety of places. We both developed a love of karaoke. It seems as though Jeremiah had developed himself quite a following... going by the name of 'J.B.', whenever it was his turn at the MIC. If I was not mistaken, I could have sworn that I saw people cheer for him. It was fun to watch him perform.
Will severely miss you, Jeremiah....
Sincerely,
Karl Schipul
Lisa DeSantis-Perez
May 12, 2008
MaryAnn, Jimmy and Heather,
Please accept our most heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy. We did not know Jerry, but we understand that he was a very talented and extremely special person. Although your lives have changed dramatically now that he is gone, remember that his life has just begun.
Sincerely,
Cousins Lisa, John and Gabby
Greg Stern
May 12, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. May all the good times you had with Jay be remembered always
NANCY MACIASZEK
May 12, 2008
Dear Maryann and Family,
It is when we experience unexpected loss that Jesus BEGS us to continue to Love Him, continue to Trust His Ways, and to Lean on Him for unfathomable Comfort. You are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Nancy M Maciaszek
Drew Brown
May 12, 2008
Mary Ann, Jimmy, Heather, family, we were at church yesterday and during communion my daughter Quincy leaned over and said a prayer with me for all of you and Jay. I will miss him terribly. Jay was such an inspiration to everyone. Even when all the cards seemed stacked against him he always had a plan, he was always looking forward. We've been friends for a long time, and I look forward to the day when we'll meet again.
Till we meet again my friend, know that we'll miss you and think of you often.
Michael Wasik
May 12, 2008
Jay was one of My best friends, He was one of the most genuine, giving people I have ever met. Although his passing will leave a gap in me, I have gained so very much from knowing him. Being his friend has helped to make me a better person, and I'll never forget him.
-Mike
Andy Gonsalves
May 12, 2008
Jeremiah was truly one of kind. It's rare to meet someone as genuine and down-to-earth as he was. I'm in a state of shock and disbelief over this news. I'm really going to miss him.
Allan and Karen Wasik
May 12, 2008
As the parents of one of Jay's close friends, Mike, we are shocked and so hurt by his sudden death.May God be with you in this painful time.He was a gentle,and kind person,and a good friend to Mike.Mike and Jay have been friends since High school,and Mike will miss him greatly
Bonnie Lampart
May 12, 2008
Mary Ann, Jim & Heather:
Our hearts are so heavy. We know what you are going through, but we also know that faith and family will get you through it. Our prayers and love go out to you.
Uncle Andy & Aunt Bonnie
Dave Marini
May 12, 2008
I met Jay in middle school and will always remember the genuine person that he was. His good heartedness and vigor for life in everything he has done is forever etched in my memory. I will truly miss him.
Bonnie Scheper
May 11, 2008
Jimmy and Maryann, my deepest sympathy to you both. May God keep Jay safe.
eric eiser
May 11, 2008
I'm shocked and sad.
Stephen Henshaw
May 11, 2008
I am gonna miss you dude!
Christopher Winslow
May 11, 2008
To Mary Ann, Jimmy, Heather, and family, I am so sorry for your great loss. I knew Jay for 21 years (since 4th grade). Jay was the nicest, greatest guy I have ever known, and he was the type of friend who comes once in a lifetime. He always knew how to make me laugh and cheer me up, and some of my greatest memories are from the times we spent together. Knowing Jay made me a better person, and I will miss him dearly.
Virginia Salvatore
May 11, 2008
Jay was a very special person, he was a young man who's life was taken so suddenly. He was a character in his own way a great sense of humor. I truly enjoyed the visit we had.
He is one person who defeated the odds and challenges that he met in life. He will be missed and may God keep him safe
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