Sherleene Funk Sissell

Sherleene Funk Sissell

Sherleene Sissell Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 8, 2008.
CHATHAM — Sherleene Sissell died Oct. 4, 2008, at her home after a brief illness. She was born on Oct. 15, 1935, in Elkins, W.Va., to Sherwood and Athleene Edwards Funk, a Methodist minister and a school teacher. Sherleene was married 49 years ago to the Rev. Dr. William Sissell.

After growing up in Covington, Ky., she graduated from Holmes High School. She went on to receive a Bachelor of Music degree in voice and organ from DePauw University, Greencastle, Ind., studying under Dr. Van Denman Thomas. She did graduate work at Scarritt College, Nashville, Tenn.; Duke University, Durham, N.C., and held an Associate at Law degree from the University of Massachusetts, Boston; and Master in Human Services degree from New Hampshire College.

In high school, she sang with the Cincinnati Summer Opera. She toured with a drama group from the DePauw Wesley Foundation in their performances of "Christ and the Concrete City" as both an actor and the musical director in the spring of 1957. Following marriage, she and her husband lived in Durham, N.C., where she was a soloist and assistant organist at Trinity Methodist Church. The couple moved to Boston in 1960, where she was soloist at the First Baptist Church of Cambridge.

After moving to Chatham in 1967, she served as substitute organist for numerous churches, and was, for eight years, choir director and assistant organist at the First United Methodist Church of Chatham. She also sang with the original Chatham Chorale, and served for several years on the faculty of the Cape Cod Conservatory of Music, and later ran her own voice and piano studio.

Sherleene was elected to the Chatham School Committee in 1971, serving for 12 years, her last nine years as chairwoman. In addition, she served on the Chatham Democratic Town Committee, for several years was a member of Ted Kennedy's "Breakfast Club," and was an early supporter of Gerry Studds.

In 1977, after receiving her Associate at Law degree, she worked for the Barnstable County First and Second Juvenile Courts as an investigator for Children in Need of Services and Child Protection cases. When the Massachusetts Department of Social Service was created, she was among the first to staff the new Cape Cod office. She initially worked as a case worker and later as supervisor of the intake department, first in Plymouth and later on the Cape. During her tenure on the Cape, she served as liaison to the Drug Task Force and criminal divisions of the state police and was well regarded by the sheriff's and local police departments for her knowledge of juvenile law and procedures regarding child protective issues. On her retirement, she received an award from the state police for her work with the Yarmouth barracks of the Massachusetts State Police. During her tenure at the Department of Social Services, she was a member of a team of law, judicial, and social work professionals chosen to develop a child advocacy and protective agency, The Children's Cove. After her retirement, she was elected to their advisory board. Sherleene considered her children, her work with the school committee, and her role in founding The Children's Cove to be among her proudest achievements.

In addition to her husband, she leaves a son, W. Earl Sissell, his wife Sonia Stamm, and two granddaughters, Elena and Margot, all of Media, Pa.; a daughter, Kara Leanne Sissell of Rockaway Beach, N.Y.; a brother, Bill Funk and his wife, Gayle, of Decatur, Ga.; as well as four nieces; four grandnieces, and a grandnephew. Sherleene was predeceased by a daughter, Palma Leigh.

Committal services will be private and a memorial service will be scheduled at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, Sherleene asked that donations be made to The Children's Cove Family Program, P.O. Box 427, Barnstable, MA 02630.

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October 10, 2008

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October 9, 2008

Jake Futch posted to the memorial.

October 9, 2008

Debbie Saunders posted to the memorial.

Linda Podryhula

October 10, 2008

My heartfelt condolences go out to Sherleene's family, whom she spoke of often and with great love. I will miss her enthusiasm and great sense of humor, which she always brought with her and shared so freely.

Jake Futch

October 9, 2008

Crossing the Bar

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.

By Alfred, Lord Tennyson
The Poetry Foundation

Debbie Saunders

October 9, 2008

My deepest condolences to Sherleene's family- it was so wonderful to have her as a part of the Children's Cove family. My favorite memory of Sherleene was her in a reindeer hat and Rudolph nose at our Holiday Party! That and her home baked goodies she always brought us. I will miss her.

Judith David

October 8, 2008

We were saddened to hear of Sherleene's death. She was a good friend and colleague for many years.

We Want to convey out heartfelt sympathy to Bill, Leanne, Earl , Sonia, Elena, and Margot.

Sherleene and I would meet for lunch every three months, for years after her retirement. She would beam while sharing pictures of her grand kids, telling stories, about accomplishments, and providing updates for both her children, Leanne and Earl who she was extremely proud of as well as the adventures of Elena and Margot who were her joy and delight!

Her commitment and dedication to her work as a child advocate, was her passion which she took very seriously and was evidenced in her work as a Child Welfare Worker, and Supervisor with the Department. She was a good friend who will be missed.
I will cherish the memories I have of her contagious laughter, kindness,and most of all her friendship. Judi & Ollie

Kristen & Tom Hayden

October 8, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to all of Sherleene's family! I worked for the Cape DSS office and always relied on Sherleene's wonderful laugh and smile! I was fortunate enough to cross paths with Sherleene over the past few years in the grocery store and while my husband did some work on her house. As always, I looked forward to that familiar and comforting smile! We are blessed to have had her touch our lives.

Paula A. Caramello

October 8, 2008

It seems like only yesterday we met, worked together at the Cape DSS Office on behalf of the kids of the Commonwealth, triumphed over many challenges, and became friends! Your were my 'rock' in the unit I supervised- you made everything simple, fun, easy! I was so proud when you became a DSS supervisor-fulfilling one of your dreams! Thanks so much for all the laughs together! I loved your poem form heaven, Sherleene! I will treasure it as I treasured you on earth. You will always live in our hearts and prayers. Love to you! To Sherleene's wonderful family- Bless you all . . .your mother loved her family so very much!

Gina Ripa

October 8, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the whole
family for their loss. Shirleen was a kind woman who will be missed by all.
My love to all of you.

Susan Rocanello

October 8, 2008

Sherleene's infectious laugh will ring forever in my ears. She will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with the Sissell family.

J S

October 8, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Joan/Ben Nickerson

October 8, 2008

To The Sissell Family -
We are so sorry for your loss.
Thinking of you all
With Our Deepest Sympathy
Love, Joan (Borthwick) & Ben Nickerson

Mary Fougere

October 8, 2008

To the Sissell Family---Our condolences and thoughts are with you all---my father in law Lenny Fougere, always spoke so highly of the time spent with Sherleene in those Chatham School Committee years

Ben T. and Marilyn Nickerson

October 8, 2008

Our sincere sympathy and condolences to Rev. Bill and his family.

Daniel Duarte-Marsh

October 8, 2008

Mrs. Sissell was a great Lady.

The Staff of Nickerson Funeral Home

October 8, 2008

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

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