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Eric Dutcher Obituary
Eric was born in Brockton on Nov. 16, 1949, attended Brockton schools, and graduated in 1967. He enlisted in the Army and served in Korea. He moved to Chatham in the '70s and worked as a self-employed contractor. He moved to North Carolina four years ago, where he was involved in real estate.
He enjoyed skiing and would make frequent trips back to New England to go to the slopes. Eric loved telling stories and jokes, and was happiest when he made others laugh. He was an avid motorcyclist and liked riding his Harley.
In addition to his mother and former wife, Shirley, he leaves six sons, Erik of Weymouth, Shane and his wife, Janice, of Fall River, and Derek, Joe, Dustin, and Dale of Cape Cod. Two sisters, Jan Lewis of Florida and Judy Young of California, and three brothers, his twin brother Ed of Brockton, Joe of East Bridgewater, and Jay of Harwich, survive him. He also leaves six grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.
A memorial service will be held at the Chatham VFW on Nov. 16, at 1 p.m.
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Michael & Sherri Welsh
October 27, 2008
Dear Dutcher Family,
We are sorry for the loss of Eric, a special family member and to us a loss of a friend. As you know Eric was one to make people feel better at low points of their life, he brightened all of our lives as well. He helped people out in times of their need, both physically & emotionally, no matter how bad things were he could always make us laugh. He was a person of advice. Eric will truly be missed, Sherri & I will always remember him. Most of all we will remember our time and life with him at Mount Holly.
Jay Savage
October 26, 2008
Jay, it's been a long time
So sorry to hear about your brother Eric. May God comfort you and his family and loved ones during this most difficult time
Jennifer Martelli Pina
October 15, 2008
Uncle Eric you will be missed,u meant the world to alot of people.I will never forget the day you picked me up in the corvette and we cruised to P-town oh what a day.Shirley and family my thoughts and prayers go out to you,he was one of a kind.The ankle-bitters.
Heather Bearse
October 13, 2008
Shane and Family,
I am sorry for your loss. Try to remeber the happy times with your dad.
Shirley, You are a great person. I think of you often. Hope all is well on the cape.
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Jennifer McMullen
October 13, 2008
Dear Jan and Shirley and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss,
Jennifer McMullen
J S
October 12, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Mike Casey
October 10, 2008
Mr. Dutcher,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the U.S. Army in Korea. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.
Sandra & Loren Flagg
October 9, 2008
Joey, Judy, Eddie, Jay, and Jan;
We are so sorry to hear about Eric's passing. So glad we got to enjoy Eric's company in Florida. You are all in our thoughts at this time.
Love, Sandra & Loren
Carolyn(Wallen) & Patrick Barnes
October 8, 2008
Dear Dutcher Family,
So sorry to hear about Eric. I've known Eric and Eddie since first grade. We were neighbors on Dover St. Our thoughts are with you.
Ellen (Collins) Silva
October 8, 2008
Dear Judy and Family,
So sorry for your loss.
Laura M Johnson
October 8, 2008
Ed and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
My deepest sympathy
Love,
Cousin Laura
Paul Baldi
October 8, 2008
Dear Joe, Ellen and family,
So sorry for your loss.
May he rest in peace.
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