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Steven Higgins Obituary
Steve lived on the Cape most of his life and worked at several local restaurants and as a finish woodworker. He was a 1994 graduate of Nauset Regional High School and majored in art at Cape Cod Community College. He enjoyed hiking, camping, fishing and surfing and other outdoor activities. From his childhood, he was always interested in 4-wheelers, motorcycles and RC cars. During quiet times, he enjoyed reading and sketching.
He leaves a half-brother, Mark Russell, and nephew Zachary Russell from Baldwinville. He also leaves two uncles, Chet (Joe) Witkowski of Paxton and Francis Higgins of Brewster. In addition, he leaves many good friends and cousins, and especially his "Aunt Di" Wilson of Worcester.
We invite all his friends and family to join us for a memorial visitation on Sunday, Oct. 26, from 2 to 4 p.m. at the Nickerson Funeral Home, 77 Eldredge Park, Orleans. At 4 p.m., we will be receiving comforting words from local clergy.
If you wish to make a donation in his name, you may do so to the Brewster Animal Rescue League, 3981 Main St. Route 6A, Brewster, MA 02631, or to the Family Pantry, 133 Queen Anne Road, Harwich MA 02645.
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Heather
November 19, 2008
i will never forget the day my mom chased you down the driveway at the farm for giving my sister a ride on your bike makes me smile everytime i think about it you are an awesome person the 5000 watt smile you will be missed dearly
keith george
November 17, 2008
Steve buddy. Looks like your guest book is going to be ended soon, I to say good by one more time and I wanted to tell you thank you for being a friend and a part of all of our lives. The greater scheme of life is more complex for any of us to understand but I hope one day I will have the privilege of you explaining it to me. I feel the journey of life goes beyond the short time we all seem to have here on earth so I wish you safe travels. God bless you and your family.
With love to Steve, Linda and Jim,
Keith George
Kathy and Don Dill
November 3, 2008
Dear Linda and Jim,
Much love is sent to you. Steven is safe, happy and peaceful in his side of the universe. The bonds of love are never broken and you will feel his love around you. Good bye is only for now and we can all look forward to a wonderful reunion. Until then, be at peace.
Much love,
Kathy and Don Dill and girls
Sandie Stone
November 2, 2008
Linda & Jimmy - My heart goes out to both of you. I can't pretend to know what you are going through - losing a child is the biggest loss of all. I feel so helpless being so far away - I wish I could be there for you...Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers - I love you both and I am only a phone call away. Sandie
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shaun carey
October 30, 2008
Higgy , the short time you've been gone seems to already have been so long. I honestly feel as if i haven't heard your laugh or seen your smile in longer then the greatest while. Just a unneeded reminder that i miss and think of you everyday. And my deepest condolences go out to our friends and your family. Rest in peice steve
Carrie Kane
October 29, 2008
Linda and Jimmy~
I know I cannot say anything to make the pain go away. I am so very sorry about your loss. It's a loss for all of us. I am just trying to remember all the fun times we all had together. Ive known Steve (wiggins) just about all of his life. I have many funny memories from him at age 5 being just like the kid on "home alone" to the Ice Cream Truck to the Broken Coffee Table............there are so many I cant list them all but it is the great memories that will help ease your pain. Just know you are loved and missed and Steve will always be in all of our hearts.
Chris Farrenkopf
October 28, 2008
Linda
Just remember Steve and I will always be on top of the world looking out as far as the eye can see.
Noreen Belair
October 27, 2008
Linda, Please know my deepest, most heartfelt sympathy is with you at this time. I can only imagine the grief you feel. The angels called for him much sooner than you planned....May he rest in peace. God bless you & your family.
Kimberly Willard
October 27, 2008
Steve was just very simply a nice guy. He will be truly missed.
Heather LedDuke
October 27, 2008
I hadn't seen Steve in about 10 years or so. But the last time I did, he still had that smile! A smile so great it could disarm anyone! One that would let anyone know what kind of person he was. I grew up with Steve and I have to say he is in some of my favorite memories. I will never forget carpooling to pre-school with him, sitting in the back of my mother's station wagon, singing and smiling!
My heart felt wishes to the Higgins family,
Kim Boardman
October 26, 2008
Steve and I used to pal around N. Eastham when we were kids-riding bikes and eating ice cream. It is clear he shared wonderful memories with so many others - he will be missed greatly. To Steven's family, please accept my heartfelt sympathy. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Dana Smithson
October 26, 2008
Linda, thank you for being so strong you are a wonderful woman.
Kimberly Levasseur
October 25, 2008
Linda and Jimmy-
Please accept my deepest condolences. I'm sorry that I can't be there in person to say good-bye, but please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I will always remember Steven for his free spirit and kindness; and I know he will always be watching over you.
May God bless you and keep you during this very turbulent time.
All my love,
Kim Levasseur
Conrad jr. Willis
October 25, 2008
I would like to send my condolences to you and your family.
He is with the lord now.
Brian Willis
October 25, 2008
Linda & James,
I would like to send my condolences to you and your family. It does not seem real still and i know that steve is an angel in the heavens above watching over us all keeping us safe. He will forever missed and in my thoughts always.
Brandi Clark
October 25, 2008
Linda & James,
my deepest condolences go out to you and your family. Fishing and playing pool will never be the same without steve's smile or his laugh.
It still does not seem real, i had just seen him last week at the house.
If you ever need anything please
do not hesitate to call.
Di Wilson
October 25, 2008
Dear Steve,
After reading all the entries in your guest book, I see just how much you were loved, by so many people.
We all tried to help you with your struggles and demons, and often times really believed that we "got through" to you. Giving us hope that what we said helped you on the road towards happiness and relief.
Now I realize that although, outwardly, you seemed happy, you had a great fight going on inside, that I nor anyone else could help you win. I am so sorry for that failure.
You were loved by many but sometimes love just isn't enough.
Now you're in God's arms where you're, finally, safe, secure and happy. And I'll look forward to the day that we meet again.
With all my love, your "Aunt Di"
Sharon Donovan
October 24, 2008
Hi I was a friend of Steve's from years ago. All I can say is that he was a great guy and I'm sorry to see him go. I hadn't seen Steve in close to 20yrs and I'm sorry I wasn't able to see him one last time.
Polly Williams
October 24, 2008
Dear Lin and Jimmy,
Our hearts are with you always. There can never be the right words to say, but please know that we love you. I know Steve is at peace and wants us all to heal.
Lani Scanlan
October 23, 2008
Linda and James...I can't even imagine how you both feel right now! My heart aches for you! I'm so sorry for your loss! Steve was a wonderful person and I feel blessed to be a part of his life! I am here for you if you need anything! I love you!
Steven....I hope you have found peace! I love you so much! I will cherish every memory I have of you and you'll always have a special place in my heart! I miss you and love you more than words can express!
Marc Pleva
October 23, 2008
I am at a loss of words. Steve and I grew up together, and whenever you needed someone he was there. You will be greatly missed Higgy and my thoughts and prayers go out to you family.
april bentley(coulson)
October 23, 2008
Linda, Our deepest sympathys to you and your family.What a horrible loss,Steve was a goodfriend to a lot of people.Our family as well,He will be sadley missed.May your memories of your wonderful boy and the love of your family and friends comfort you in this difficult time.April and Ruth
October 23, 2008
Higby
I will miss seeing you and laughing about old times with you. You were so sweet and such a good boy. I will always remember you and think of you often. God will keep you safe in his arms.
I am sorry you are leaving your family behind, make sure to send them signs so they feel you around them. Be good up there. oxoxox
Samantha
katie Mcinnis
October 23, 2008
so sorry for your loss as well as all of us who loved him! and he was well loved by all who knew him my hopes and prayers that hes in a better place now and can truly be free. im sure hes soaring high in the clouds above watching over all.
so many great memroies of the years we spent together makes up a great deal of my teen years
Keith George
October 23, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Higgins family, Steven and I have been friends since the 5th grade and just recently have been chatting back and forth on Myspace. Steven had one of the greatest gifts of all, to make others laugh! He made us all laugh when we were together. My prayers are with him and his family.
Marcy Barratt-Sutton
October 23, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Maggie Hawkins
October 23, 2008
Linda,
What a shock i only met Steve a couple of times when i was over visiting.
He was a nice boy with a good sense of humor and a love of
motorcyles like me.
My heart goes out to you all.
Dana Smithson
October 23, 2008
"Higgy" I smile at the thought of your name, my little brother.Soo many good time's, what a blast we've had ,nothing will ever come between us.Good luck and have fun in your new mission,where ever he may place you . You did a great job at this one .
You'll live on forever in our hearts and mind's in this life and the next
We love you now and forever
Rachel Banas
October 23, 2008
higgy,wow its real...i cant believe you are really gone, words cant explain how much you'll be missed. i hope now you are free and will no longer suffer. it was a daily struggle, my battle continues...
Linda, i am very sorry for your loss, if you need anything please dont hesitate to ask. you and steve will be in my thoughts and prayers.
always, Rachel
scott palmer
October 23, 2008
Linda and James,
Words can't express they loss I feel for you and your family. I loved Steve as a Brother. And have the best childhood memories of us all. I will miss him and all the smiles he gave us. I know his soul will find its way in green pasters we will meet again someday. God bless you.
Cyndy and Jeff Edgar
October 23, 2008
Linda and Jimmy, I cannot begin to say how sad we are at this time! Steve was always a part of our family ,too! We will miss his easy smile and his social grace and hospitality whenever we came to visit. He was deeply loved and will be sorely missed. We love you, Cyndy and Jeff
Debbie Straughn
October 23, 2008
Steve will truly be missed by many our prayers are with you Mark and Debbie Straughn
Nikki Archambault-Allen
October 23, 2008
Linda and James,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I will never ever forget my Stevie...my first boyfriend! We just talked the other day, I still cant believe he is gone. I hope he has finally found peace in this hard world. I will never let his memory die. I will keep you in my prayers forever. I love you.
Nikki Archambault
Wendie Clemence
October 23, 2008
The loss you grieve is shared by many friends who care. Fond memories of Steven will always remain in our hearts.
Josh and Wendie
Bonnie Coulson
October 23, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
The Staff of Nickerson Funeral Home
October 23, 2008
We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.
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