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Robert Coleman Obituary
Stacy was born in West Point, MS, on Feb 11th, 1963. He graduated from Marion Military Institute in Marion, AL in 1983. His very successful and promising military career spanned the last twenty five years.
He joined the Mississippi Army National Guard in November 1982 as a ROTC Cadet from Marion Military Institute. He was commissioned a Second Lieutenant in May 1983 and continued to serve in Company C, 2/20th Special Forces Group (SFG) in Columbus, MS. Upon completion of a B.A. degree from the University of Alabama, Lieutenant Coleman attended the Infantry Officer Basic Course and the Special Forces Detachment Officer's Course.
He served as a Military Freefall Detachment Commander, Company Commander, and various staff positions to include: S-4 (logistics Officer); S3 (Operations Officer); and Battalion Executive Officer; with 2/20th SFG. From 1991 to 1995, he also served full-time as the Mississippi Army National Guard Operations Officer for Counterdrug Operations. He then served as the full-time Battalion Administrative Officer from May 1995 to August 2002. He was currently assigned to the 66th Troop Command as the Operations and Training Officer in September 2002. In May of 2004 he was assigned as the Battalion Commander of 2nd Battalion, 20th Special Forces and in September 2005 he was mobilized and deployed to Afghanistan for Operation Enduring Freedom in the Global War on Terrorism. On 22 May 2007, he was assigned as the Deputy Commander of 66th Troop Command. He was promoted to the rank of Colonel on 24 May 2007.
Colonel Coleman was a Master Parachutist, a Military Freefall Jumpmaster, and had been awarded the Combat Infantryman's Badge, and parachutists' badges from the countries of Italy, Germany, Bolivia, and Honduras. He earned and was awarded the Bronze Star Medal and numerous Federal and State awards. He was a graduate of the Spanish Language Course as well as the Command and General Staff College and was currently enrolled in the U.S. Army War College.
In addition to making a lifelong commitment to serving his country, Stacy lived his life to be the greatest Husband, Father, Son, and Friend to everyone who ever met him. He loved life and lived it to the fullest. He was a member of Galloway Methodist church and was a passionate motorcycle rider and had recently become an instructor for the Motorcycle Safety Foundation, teaching others how to ride. He loved taking his family on camping trips and vacations. He never missed an opportunity to entertain his family and friends and was a consummate gourmet chef.
Stacy's family was the light of his life and he is survived by his wife, Lieutenant Colonel Deborah Walley Coleman and two young sons, Hunt, 9, and Matt, 6. In addition to his beautiful doting wife and boys, Stacy leaves behind his mother, Dot Dazet of Madison, his father and stepmother, David and Janice Coleman of Okolona, his sister, Emily Everett and her son, Jackson of Madison.
In lieu of flowers the family requests memorials be sent to Galloway Memorial United Methodist Church, 305 North Congress Street, Jackson, MS 39201.
Memories and Condolences
for Robert Coleman
86 Entries
Jimmy Taylor
July 19, 2007
Deb,
I just learned of Stacy's accident. I am so sorry for your loss.
Jimmy Powell
July 11, 2007
Deborah,
Please accept my deepest and sincere sympathy for the loss of Stacy. I am literally stunned at learning of this. Please know that I am thinking of you and that you and your family are in my prayers. May God be with you, comfort you and bring you peace during this time.
Most Sincerely,
July 9, 2007
Deborah,
No words can express my sympathy for you and your family. Only one other event in my life has left me so sad and that was the death of Chris. Your husband, my commander, was a great person. He was my friend, my mentor and he was there to talk to me when I had questions about finances, the military, retirement and much more. Know that Christy and I are close and if you need anything we will be there. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your family.
Sincerely,
Sean Klahn
connie anderson
July 6, 2007
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John Edens
June 26, 2007
I knew Stacy when he was growing up and always admired him for his wit and upbeat attitude. I'm so proud that he followed his dreams and achieved so much success in his career and life. My deepest condolences to all family, relatives and friends. My personal condolences go out to Dot, David, and Emily.
Nancy Munroe
June 26, 2007
My deepest condolences to you and your precious little boys. I worked in USPFO contracting for 19 years and worked some with Stacy. I don't believe I ever got to work with you but I remember seeing you when you would come to the PFO.
Joseph Lyon
June 25, 2007
To Deb,
I am honored to make claim that Stacy was my brother-in-law and brother-in-arms! It was not my choosing, but yours and his that bestowed this title on me. I am at awe at your strength, determination, and motherly love of your children that you have shown through these trials that the Lord has put in front of you. Never loose faith!
Joe
To Hunt,
Remember... No Regrets in Life! Live, Love, Laugh! I will always be there should you ask. You made me so proud and you showed your inner strength these past few days. No question your Dad saw this from above!
Uncle Joey
To Matt, Your big brother is a beacon for you to follow. Lean on each other. Obey your Mother - Always! Remember to tell your her that you want to come and visit Uncle Joey and Aunt Ann!
Your Uncle Poey!
To Stacy... Rest in Peace Brother!
Joey Hall
June 25, 2007
Deborah:
God has a plan - Be still and listen. I will continue to pray that God will give you, Hunt and Matt the confort and peace that you need at this time. Stacy was a true American Hero and a dear friend of mine. God Bless You
Elizabeth McCain
June 24, 2007
I am so deeply saddened by Stacy's sudden and tragic death. I grew up with Stacy in Okolona, MS. He was my first boyfriend. I remember him being witty, adventurous, and great fun. A bright light has gone out in the world. I feel grateful to have known him. I hold all of his family and friends in my thoughts and prayers during this time of great loss. His military funeral was a moving tribute to his life, and really expressed his essence.
AMMIE SEITNER
June 23, 2007
We all wanted to express our most heartfelt sympathy for your tragic loss. Our hearts go out to you and your boys. We will continue to think of you and all of Col Coleman's family.
Ammie Cassetty-Seitner, RN
Kenneth Potter, RN
Amy Burdick, RN
Regina Price, Patient Advocate
Brittany Simmons, LPN
Cumberland Medical Center
Emergency Department,
Crossville, TN
Joyce Chestang
June 22, 2007
Deborah & Boys...so saddened to learn of your husband's/father's passing...I will keep you and your boys in my prayers in the days ahead....Joyce Chestang(Stacey Narbo's Mother) - Marietta, GA
Ronda Boston
June 22, 2007
Deepest sympathy & highest
gratitude for the life and service of your husband,father,son,and friend. May sweet memories comfort your heart and encourage you into your future. God bless you all. God bless America.
Ronda Boston
(sister in law to Robert Filbert
of 20th Special Forces)
David Barton
June 22, 2007
Deborah, I will be praying for you during this time of your loss. I pray that you will find comfort in knowing that COL Coleman touched so many lives in positive ways and will always be remembered as not only a great Soldier, but also as just a great person.
Robyn Lee
June 22, 2007
I have known Stacy since I was a very little girl as my father, Steven Lee was a member of the 2nd/20th. I will always remember Stacy and his ability to always make you smile. My prayers are with all those who love him. His life on earth my be over however his memory will live on forever.
Lorraine Morgan Cotten
June 22, 2007
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of such a great man. I went to elementary school and church with Stacy in Okolona, Ms. He was a lovely young man, even then. He also played the prince in Snow White (6th grade.) Did he ever tell you that? I feel proud to have known him -- even if only for a short time. You are all in our prayers.
Judy /Roy Pate
June 21, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of your loved one.
Ben & Brenda Ratky
June 21, 2007
We don't personally know Stacy. I have heard a lot about him from his mother, Dot. I know that there are no real words of comfort at this time but I know that with time the healing process will take place. My sincere sympathy for the passing of your beloved.
Glen & Frances Odom
June 21, 2007
Deborah
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these testing times. Stacy was a great Guardsmen and simply a great guy. We also will miss him so much. If you ever need anything you know you can count on us and we will keep you and the kids in our prayers.
Bill Bronson
June 21, 2007
Not only will everyone remember Stacy as the best of all of us, but that he also brought out the best in all of us. I will always remember Stacy as what I wanted to be when I grew up. He was my friend.
Deborah, Hunt and Matt - you are in our prayers. John 16:22
ADAM HARRIS
June 21, 2007
Sir, may your soul rest in peace in the heavens of the Lord and may God Bless the families and friends you left behind. I didn't have the opportunity to work with you but i have always carried a great amount of respect for you. God Bless
LtCol Scott "Hoss" and Kathie Ladner
June 21, 2007
Deborah, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. The service was wonderful and was such an incredible tribute to a husband, dad and soldier. I don't understand it all, but I know God's grace is sufficient.
In His love, and with ours,
Rodney Harris, MAJ
June 21, 2007
COL Coleman was a superior supervisor, mentor and friend. I will personally miss him tremendously he was my PT motivator! Wanda and I pray for the comforting of Deb, Matt and Hunt and the rest of the Coleman family. May God Bless and Keep You!
Beau Crum
June 21, 2007
Deborah, Hunt, & Matt
My heart is deeply saddened by Stacy's passing. I have known Stacy for over 20 years. From MMI and all the years to follow, Stacy was the finest example of a soldier, a friend, and a mentor. You can know that you and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of all his HMR brothers and we are here for you.
Sandy Ates
June 21, 2007
Deborah, sons and family of Colonel Stacy Coleman: Not one word can express the deep sense of loss you must feel at this moment, as it is shared by the Colonel's Guard family and those friends and acquaintenances he gathered along his life's journey. Though it was a short journey, what blessings of love, wisdom, kindness and compassion he brought to so many, many lives in those short years. May you carry those treasures with you always in your heart. God Bless and Care for you Always.
Martha (McCoy) DeVargas
June 20, 2007
Deborah, I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I went to school with Stacy in Okolona and my father and his father are good friends. Stacy was always such a gentleman, he always had a sweet smile and a kind word to say and he was so well thought of by so any people. I feel certain he lived his life to the fullest and was very passionate about what he did. Please know my thoughts are with you and the family. May God be with you always.
Bill Hampton
June 20, 2007
To the Coleman Family, my sincerest condolences on your tragic loss. I never had the opportunity to meet "Coleman", but knew him through my nephew, LTC Scott Danner. They had made a cross-country motorcycle trip together several years ago. Scott had kept me updated on Stacy's progress in the military over the years. He called me Wednesday from Germany to inform me of Stacy's untimely death. The country, the State of MS, and the family in particular has lost a true American Patriot and Hero. God Bless the Coleman Family.
Lt. Bill Hampton (Ret.)
TN Highway Patrol
Vietnam Vet 69-71
President, Rolling Thunder, Inc.
Chapter 4 TN
Shara & Jimmie McNair
June 20, 2007
Debra, Matt,Hunt and family,
I know there are no words that we can express to wipe away the sadness you are all feeling right now but do hope it will comfort each of you to know we are praying and thinking of all of you now and throughout the days ahead. How great it is to be able to have and cherish many wonderful and fond memories of such a wonderful Husband, Dad, Uncle, Son, brother-in-law and son-in-law and Friend. God Bless YOU!!
In Christ,
Shara and Jimmie McNair
Buddy Donahoe SGM (Ret.)
June 20, 2007
Deborah, Matt and Hunt, my heart is saddened by Stacy's passing. Each of you will be in my prayers. Boys, I want you to know that your Father was an Outstanding Soldier, Warrior and Man. Of the soldiers I served with during my 38 years, he had no equal! He was the Best and I will miss him so.
Charlie Murray
June 20, 2007
A great man will be missed. I enjoyed serving under Col. Coleman during my 13 years with 2/20th SFG. He was a hero and, in my perception, what the idea American soldier stands for. My sympathies and condolenscenses go out to his wife and children. God Bless.
Nina Pugh
June 20, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the entire family of Col. Coleman. I had the privilege of watching his life unfold from a distance. Everyone who knew him and had contact with him now prays for the entire family. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Vicki Robertson
June 20, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Brian Haugen LTC, SF
June 20, 2007
Dear Deborah and the boys:
I pray that you'll have strength throughout and that you rely on friends and family to assist and support. Stacy was a fellow MMI grad, SF CDR and dear friend who I'll deeply miss.
Steve Goff
June 20, 2007
I was out of town when I read about Stacy's accident. I am so sorry for your loss. You and the boys are in my thoughts and prayers. Stacy will always be remembered as a warrior, loving dad, and devoted husband. May God provide you comfort.
Elaine Logan Evans
June 20, 2007
My prayers and sympathy,
A "W" alum
Mark Stafford
June 20, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
mike mouri
June 20, 2007
Dear Mrs/Colonel Deborah Coleman, Matt & Hunt:
On behalf of the 20th Special Forces Group-Airborne Surgeon's section, I would like to send our deepest condolences for your terrible loss. COL Stacy Coleman lived his life to the fullest as a husband, father and warrior and his words and deeds will continue to inspire others to follow his outstanding example.
Please contact us if there is anything we can do for you.
Sincerely,
MAJ Lisa DeWitt, DO
MSG John Capuzzo
LTC Patrick Cello, DDS
MAJ Stephen Goldsmith, DVM
MAJ William Bosworth, DVM
MAJ Jerold Kouchi, DDS
MAJ James Brown, PhD
CPT Andrew Morgan, PA-C
CPT Simone Bowers
SSG Darryl Brewer
COL Michael Mouri
Larry&Jo Hazlewood
June 20, 2007
We were so sorry to hear the news of Stacys death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Helen Mckee and family
June 19, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Alaina Etheridge
June 19, 2007
May God be with you and comfort you in this time of loss.Mississippi has lost a great hero and he will be missed.May the peace that passes all understanding be with you at this time.
Stacy Blansett
June 19, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Helen Mckee
June 19, 2007
with deepest sympathy
Dee and Dave Labutka
June 19, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Richard Stamper
June 19, 2007
You and your family have my prayers. May the Lord be with you during this time and provide His Angels to comfort and administer to your needs.
Tracy Sylvester Elliott
June 19, 2007
I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your boys.
Joyce Bean
June 19, 2007
Deborah, Hunt, Matt, Dot, And Em,
I always knew that Stacy was special from when we were youth growing up in Okolona, MS. I am proud to know what a fine man he became and the legacy that he leaves. I am thankful that he truly made the world a better place. My love to all of you.
Dena Lawson
June 19, 2007
To each of you in this time of loss. Please know you are in our prayers.
Robert & Dena (Davidson) Lawson
Woodstock, Al
Joann Douglas
June 19, 2007
My deepest sympathy for your loss.
Jimmy Palmer
June 19, 2007
Stacy was a great soldier and friend. I had the pleasure of being under his command and guidance for many years. He will be missed.
Damon Gooch, LTC, MS
June 19, 2007
Deborah, Hunt and Matt: I am deeply grieved for your loss. I had the pleasure of meeting Stacy (your father) while attending the MSF course in Montevallo. Our military careers and hobbies closely paralleled and we immediately bonded and became friends. Stacy loved life, but more so he loved his family (you and his boys); we talked for hours about camping, sporting events, etc... I'm very sorry for your loss and offer my sincere condolences and prayers. I know Stacy will be missed. He was a great father, man and fellow Soldier.
Teresa Boutwell
June 19, 2007
Deborah, Hunt and Matt:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to each of you. Stacy was a fine man, one who we admired and loved very much. Please know that we are thinking of you.
Mike and Teresa Boutwell, Brandon, MS
Rick Stone
June 19, 2007
Stacy joined C Co. as a fresh-faced, "Dennis The Meanace" looking SMP cadet from Marion Military Institute. Kay-det Coleman rose to command C Co. and 2/20th SFGA. He always exemplified the best of C Co. and the Bn. Kay-det Coleman, we will always miss you and never forget your friendship and leadership. Semper Fi, Beef
MAJ & Mrs. Scott Caldwell & Family (184th ESC)
June 19, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. God bless you all.
Harry Bowles
June 19, 2007
I've known the Coleman family for many years. I haven't seen Stacy since he was a child but I am proud to see the life he lived. It is obvious he was dedicated to his family and country. What more could one ask? Please accept my sincere sympathy in your loss. May God bless and care for you during this trying time.
THOMAS & MARY COLEMAN
June 19, 2007
WE ARE ACQUAINTED WITH STACY & DEBORAH THROUGH OUR FRIENDS, DAVID & JANICE, FATHER & STEPMOTHER. STACY WAS AN OUTSTANDING YOUNG MAN. I KNOW THIS IS A TREMENDOUS LOSS TO THE FAMILY AS WELL AS TO OUR COUNTRY.
BG (Ret) John Mayo
June 19, 2007
Deborah-As Martha & I nurse my 46 year old son back to health following his Motor Cycle accident in April, we can only pray & think of you and your sons after such a great loss. Stacy was such an outstanding contributor to the MS National Guard. You can be assured that the entire MS National mourns Stacys death.
Arturo De La Garza
June 19, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Debbie Bates
June 19, 2007
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Heather Allegrezza
June 19, 2007
Deborah,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and the boys are in my prayers.
CH (LTC) Forrest Bo Bankston
June 19, 2007
My God continue to share His love and Grace with your family. His grace is sufficient in life and death.
Larry T. Holmes
June 19, 2007
Good Soldier. Good Man. Good Husband. Good Father. Great Patriot. Great Leader. A lot of good things will be said of Stacy in the coming days. But, to me, he was most of all, a good friend. He was a friend to everyone who was fortunate enough to know him. Keep the shiny side up, big man. We'll miss you!
Charlie Cole
June 19, 2007
My deepest sympathies go out to you; the family of Stacy Coleman. He was my commander and friend. I will miss him dearly as will all who loved him.
Scott Craven
June 19, 2007
Deborah, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Jill Griffin
June 19, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your friends and family. May God wrap you all in His loving arms and give you comfort to get through. I am part of the Patriot Guard Riders and wish I could be there to escort Stacy to his heavenly home...
CH (CPT) Jay Padgett
June 19, 2007
From Ecuador, you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God's peace that passes understanding guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
Marlene (and Jim) Whelan
June 19, 2007
Deborah and Boys - You and your family are in our prayers, along with ALL of Stacy's many military compadres. Stacy was one of a kind and we will all miss him. I am truly blessed to have known and worked with Stacy. May God comfort you and the boys. Love Always,
Myra Miller
June 19, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort you as only He can. Love,Fred & Carolyn Jones
Richard & Bobbie Jean Hazelwood, John Ralph & Jewel Hazelwood,Barry & Claudette Sansing,Charlie & Myra Miller.
Jeannine deLashmet (Torrence) Anderson
June 19, 2007
Deborah, heaven has gained a sweetheart, a gentleman, a beautiful,pleasant, fun-loving soul; I know this and I didn't know him all that well. Our thoughts and prayers will remain with you for a great while.
Nini and Toby Anderson
Cindy Smith
June 19, 2007
You & your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat & Cindy Smith
ABATE of Mississippi
Central Chapter
Eddie Jenkins
June 19, 2007
LTC Deborah Coleman and family, I am so sorry for your loss. COL Coleman was not only a fine soldier but he was a great person. The Mississippi Army National Guard will not be the same without him. He will be truely missed by all of his friends and fellow guardsmen.
Linda King
June 19, 2007
My deepest sympathy to all of the family of Col. Coleman. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless each of you with that peace that passes all understanding.
Irene Cliett
June 19, 2007
As a friend of the family for years here in the Clay County area, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time.
Major Paul Finfrock
June 19, 2007
In memory of Stacy Coleman,
I will miss the man that made me laugh. A good sense of humor and a good officer. Stacy, Ashton Naylor, and Mike Turello were the team leaders that I looked up to and wanted to be like. I saw you not too long back on Meadows Field here at Fort Bragg and it was like no time had passed since I saw you last and, like always, you made me laugh and still feel like a part of Charlie Company. I'm going to miss you brother. You were a good man and a good friend to have.
De Oppresso Liber,
1LT Steven Jackson
June 19, 2007
Great Commander and mentor for me as a young lieutenant learning what leadership is all about! Col. Coleman told me that "a soldier is only as good as his leader!" Always lead from the Front! That he was a great leader!
Natalie and Rita Long
June 19, 2007
Dear Deborah,
My mother and I sat by you at the Baptist Health Systems Strong Women Luncheon. We both enjoyed so much visiting with you and your husband, and were both impressed by how much he loved you and his family. We are so saddened by your loss. You and your boys are in our prayers.
Lisa Stutzman
June 19, 2007
Deborah--You and your family are in my prayers--I am so very sorry and my heart grieves for all of you. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Lisa Stutzman
Curtis Rigney
June 19, 2007
I can not say how sad I am of the loss of Stacy. He has been a friend of mine for 25 years. I'll never forget the good times. He was truly a great man. Many friends will never forget HMR Coleman.
Chuck Carter
June 19, 2007
I am truly saddened by your loss. Stacey was a great soldier and a great patriot. I am truly honored to have worked with him during my service. My thoughts & prayers, along with those of my family, go out to Deborah and the family.
Anne Dulske
June 19, 2007
Deborah, Hunt and Matt,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Much love,
The Dulske Family
Joy Gates
June 19, 2007
Dearest Deborah, Hunt & Matt, everyone loved Stacy! He will be greatly missed. His wonderful spirit will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.
Esther Fabbricante
June 19, 2007
It is with deepest sympathy to the survivors of Col. Coleman in his untimely and tragic death. I am representing the Lt. Gen. Emmett H. Walker, Jr. Chapter of the Military Order of the World Wars (the Jackson area chapter). God bless each one.
Earl and Connie Dorris
June 19, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss, Stacey was such a great guy and a wonderful soldier. I regret that i will be out of the states and unable to attend the services but our thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. Our deepest sympathy.
Earl and Connie Dorris
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