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Mary Jane Margerate Dilmore

Mary Jane Margerate Dilmore obituary, Maple Shade, NJ

Mary Dilmore Obituary

DILMORE,Mary Jane Margerate (nee Bechler), age 56, on May 10, 2009, lost her battle with endometrial cancer surrounded by family and friends. She was a lifelong resident of Maple Shade. Beloved wife of Ronald for 37 years; loving mother of Joseph J. and Meghan; daughter of Joseph and Mary Jane Bechler of Maple Shade; sister of Suzanne Capasso of Ballston Spa, NY, and Christine Haefner of Waynesville, NC; proud grandmother of her star angels Justin (10) and Jason (8). In addition to being a devoted housewife and mother, she worked as a Pampered Chef consultant. Mary Jane dedicated a large part of her life helping others as a Reiki Master and Acupressurist. Relatives and friends are welcomed to a life celebration to be held at her home of 31 years at 116 E. Park Ave, Maple Shade, NJ 08052 on Friday, May 15th, 6-9 PM. In lieu of flowers the family requests that memorial donations be made to the caring staff of Care Alternatives Hospice for the Life We Live, 70 Jackson Drive, Suite 200, Cranford, NJ 07016. Arrangements by the MARK C. TILGHMAN FUNERAL HOME, Maple Shade.

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Published by Courier Post from May 13 to May 14, 2009.

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nancy eriksson

May 16, 2009

I was sad to hear about Mary Jane. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I went to high school with Mary Jane and I haven't seen her for many years but I remember her as a very nice, cheerful person who smiled often.
Nancy Eriksson (Taylor)

Carol & Paul Fricker

May 14, 2009

We are so sad about Mary's passing. She was a wonderful friend & neighbor. She had
so much compassion & love for people. We
will miss seeing her lovely smile & hearing
her laughter. We are so sorry for your loss of this wonderful person.

Lv, Carol & Paul

May 14, 2009

I'M SO SAD TO HEAR ABOUT MARYJANE. I'M GLAD
I GOT TO PLAY POKENO WITH HER AND THE
FAMILY. SHE WILL SADLY BE MISSED
ROSEMARIE STITES (ROE)

Fran Boody

May 13, 2009

Dear Ronald, Joseph and Meaghan,
I too was very sad when I learned of Mary Jane's death. I worked with her and your mom/grandmom Barbara at Crescent for many many years. MaryJane was such a very kind and thoughtful person. She was patient and so wise. She was such a joy to be around. My sincerest condolences! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Betty Szymanski

May 13, 2009

I am so sad to hear about MaryJane. I worked with her at Crescent Lighting for 3 years and she was absolutely the most efficient worker and the most fun person to work with. I always admired her devotion to her husband, her children and her folks. She always had a very pleasant personality and made us laugh all day long with her great sense of humor.
I remember MaryJane as being exceptionally creative and crafty. She and her Mother-in-law Barb would make all kinds of crafts that I always admired. She was very talented.
I had the opportunity to meet MaryJane again at a Pampered Chef demo about 3 years ago and instantly we picked up our conversation as if I had just seen her the day before. We laughed and talked about our $1.99 Ponderosa lunches on Fridays when we were working together at Crescent-we really looked forward to them each week!!
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and I will always remember Janie fondly. I am so sorry.

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