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1968

DIED

2007

John Murphy Obituary

John Murphy, 39, beloved husband, father and son, died Saturday Sept. 22, 2007, while at work.
Funeral: 1:30 p.m. Friday in Greenwood Chapel. Interment: Greenwood Memorial Park. Visitation: 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday at Greenwood Funeral Home.
Memorials: In lieu of flowers, the next time you see an Oncor lineman, please go up to them and shake their hands and tell them, "Thanks." These men and women risk their lives every day to bring power to the residents of Fort Worth and Dallas.
John was born Feb. 7, 1968, to Charley and Mary Murphy. He graduated from Everman High in 1986. He started working for Oncor, then Texas Electric, in 1986 reading meters in Arlington for seven years. In 1993, he moved to the line trucks and became a senior lineman in 1998. John eventually moved to the trouble department and became a senior troubleshooter in 2002. It was not unusual for John to work 36 to 48 hours straight during a storm, come home and get eight hours of rest and then head back out for another round. He was tireless and dedicated to restoring power to his community. When he wasn't working, he spent his free time loving his wife and riding four-wheelers with his sons and friends. Every year he loved to go to Kansas and help his Uncle Dennis with harvest; he considered this a vacation. John was a dedicated employee, a devoted husband and a loving father. And he loved working those power lines.
Survivors: Wife of 17 years, Stacey; son, Cade Murphy, 5; stepson, Tanner Mayo, 19, all of Aledo; parents, Charley and Mary Murphy of Burleson; brothers, Craig Murphy of Fort Worth and Jason Murphy and wife, Judy, of Joshua; nieces, Ashley Baker, Catherine Murphy and Carly Murphy; favorite uncle, Dennis Murphy and wife, Vicky, of Healy, Kan.; in-laws, Larry and Carol Baker of Aledo; best friend and drinking buddy, Darrell Dumas of Aledo; and several more uncles, aunts and cousins.

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Published by Star-Telegram from Sep. 26 to Sep. 27, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for John Murphy

Sponsored by Stacey, John's Wife.

130 Entries

Mary Murphy

September 26, 2025

September 22, 2025
John,
Eighteen years ago today I lost you, the first "Light of my Life," and to me, you were so much more than that. I felt so blessed when I finally had a child. You were so loved and wanted even before I ever saw you. Raising you was such a joy, and your Dad and I watched you grow into a man to be proud of, as well as a wonderful and loving son. We couldn't have asked for more.

After eighteen years I still feel your loss deeply, and not only do I feel that you were taken too soon, but I still continue to ask the reason why. I guess that I just need to realize that for whatever the reason, it was God's will, and God has a plan for all of us!

Almost 7 months ago on February 26, I lost your Dad. Another heartache! One of the last words I said to him besides,"I love you," was "take care of John and John will take care of you." Your Dad always missed you so very much as did I and still do. So now I miss both of you! Losing your Dad was and is hard, but when I think that you two are together again, I can't help but feel some peace knowing that he is now with you.

For me, this year has been another "2007," and I find myself at a loss for words, so I will just say that "I miss you so very much," and I would give anything to have just one more day with you.

Love you always,
Your Mom

Mary Murphy

September 27, 2024

September 29, 2024
John,
September 22nd sure rolls around fast and seems like each year it comes even faster! Seventeen years has now passed since that day in "2007." That was the day I lost my precious first born son and the 1st "Light of my Life." And the day that my life changed and a part of me died. God blessed me when he gave you to me, and I was always grateful and honored that he chose me to be your Mother. I wish that day in September had never been, but I tell myself to be thankful for the time that we did have together. We all still miss and love you so very much, and it goes without saying that we continue to cherish the many memories we have of you.

And after seventeen years, we still grieve, some days are better than others, but the grief never completely goes away, and I doubt that it ever will. But with God's help and the passage of time, the grief does get easier to bear. And, of course, we are especially blessed to have our other sons, Craig and Jason, who remain our saving grace and who continue to help us each and everyday with their love and support and also, our friends and other family members as well.

Love Always,
Your Mom

Mary Murphy

September 20, 2023

September 20, 2023
John,
Sept. 22nd of this year will mark 16 years living without you. Sixteen years of missing you and
remembering all the good times we shared as a
family, and yes, still grieving for you. Grieving for the life that ended way too soon. Life has gone on without you, but I sometimes can't believe that sixteen years has passed us by, at times it seems like yesterday! But I know differently, especially when I think of Cade, who is now 21 years old. Sometimes when he comes into the house and I get a quick glance at him I do a double take and I see you, but then I quickly realize that you are no longer here. How I wish that you had not missed the last sixteen years of Cade's life and been able to guide him and watch him grow. That saddens me immensely.

We have not forgotten you and never will. Just the other night we went to see Craig at one of the many care centers that he sings at and he mentioned you, saying "my brother John loved this song, "The Impossible" by Joe Nichols" and he proceeded to sing it in remembrance of you.

Yes, we still grieve for you and wish you could still be here with us, but we have learned to cope over the years, and we continue to honor your life with our love and our remembrances of you.

Love Always,
Your Mom

George Roots

September 20, 2023

To John and his loving mother Mary and family. I did not know John but many of his co-workers I did know. I work in the Midland Service Center now and at one time was an EDOC Troubleshooter, and so even though our paths never crossed, I feel like I know you. I would just like to say that my heart continues to go out to the Murphy Family. I worked in Ft. Worth many years ago and although we never met, John you have remained close to my heart as well as your mother and your immediate family. It is my hope and continued prayer that your family, especially your boys (now men) will be blessed & watched over. I lost my father when I was 12 and although I am 67 now, I don't think I ever got over it. This is one of the reasons it remains my prayer for your sons success. I know it is not easy. May God bless you Mary & Stacey this day and keep you safe and strong as well as all your family.

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2022

September 22, 2022

John,

We got a beautiful card yesterday from some very good friends, who every September, for the last 15 yrs., have remembered us on the anniversary of losing you. In that card, my friend wrote that Queen Elizabeth would say to people who had suffered a loss, "is to grieve, is to have loved." I never quite looked at it in that way, but I can understand it.

Our love for John was always strong, and was given unconditionally, no matter what. We did so love him, still do, always will. As a child, he was a joy, as a man, he was one to be proud of. John was everything that was good in this world, and we could not have asked for more.

I want our friends and family to know how much their thoughtfulness means to us, and also how much it means to know that others have not forgotten him. Thank you to our friends, family, and to everyone who continues to reach out to us each year. We are so very appreciative. John did leave some footprints.

I will end this by a few words that I read in a book awhile back, that I thought would be okay to pass along. The book entitled, "How do I love thee?" was given to me by my husband, and these words were written by Brandi Snyder, and it reads: "To the world, you may be just one person, but to one person, you may be the world." To us, YOU WERE THE WORLD!

Love, Your Mom
Mary Murphy

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2021

September 22, 2021

John,

Your son, Cade, graduated this year, and I couldn't help thinking of you, and wishing that you could have been with us to watch Cade walk across the stage to get his diploma. How proud you would have been! I also couldn't help but think of your high school graduation and how proud we were of you!

I am so saddened when I think of how much you and Cade have missed out on in the 14 years that you have been gone. For whatever reason, God had other plans.

I have decided that God works in mysterious ways. The other day while going through some receipts, I came across an old grocery receipt. Written on the back was a note. It read, "Mom, Can you bring lunch to me? If you can, bring about noon. Thanks, John."
According to the date, you were 17 years old. I have to say that I cried when I read it, but I also had to smile, thinking, "That's my John!" Needless to say, that receipt won't be thrown away.

I use to think that God didn't put anything on you that you couldn't handle, but since then, I came across this:

"God does not give you what you can handle."

"God helps you handle what you are given."

whoever wrote this was very insightful.

We continue to cope, but life will never be the same. You are missed, thought of everyday, and very much loved. That will never change and you will never be forgotten.

Love Always,

Your Mom

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2020

September 22, 2020

John,

Thirteen years later I once again find myself searching for words to express my feelings on this, the 22nd day of Sept., 2020.

For the last 13 years, I have attended numerous visitations and/or funerals of other parents who have lost their son or daughter. My heart goes out to them, knowing what they are going through and what they will continue to go through. Each one affects me deeply, because I know it is not going to be an easy road. And I also know that the loss is one that a parent will carry with them for the rest of their lives.

So today, on the 13th year Anniversary, I still feel the loss greatly. It is then that I have to remember all the good memories that we have of you, and be thankful for the time that God gave us to be with you. We treasure all these memories, and our love for you has not changed, nor will it ever. We still carry you in our hearts and always will.

"Just as the sun will set then rise with each and every dawn, the souls of those who lived life well eternally live on."
Author Unknown

My thoughts, my love are with you everyday, and I still miss you greatly.

Love,
Your Mom

Mary Murphy

September 23, 2019

September 23, 2019

John,

This year I am a little late in getting my message posted on the Legacy. It's not that I have run out of words, but rather, I find that I am somewhat depressed as Sept. 22nd approaches. Most of the time, I can put away the memories associated with that day, but I found that this year brought many of them back. Knowing that I will never get to see you or talk to you again continues to be difficult.

My last words to you was, "I love you," and yours to me was, "I love you too." This was two days before we lost you. I am comforted when I remember our last words to each other, and by the knowledge that you always knew how much you were loved by us all.

And as this 12th year has arrived, I can't believe how much time has gone by, and how much I still miss you. I doubt that will ever change. Sometimes it seems like it was just yesterday. But no matter how much time passes, your light will still shine brightly, my love for you will remain constant, and you will remain always in my heart.

In closing, I came across the following words which I will pass on. I do not know who wrote it.

"In every heart there is an inner room that we hold our greatest treasures and our deepest pain."

For me, that says it all.

My Love Always,
Your Mom

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2018

John,

September 22nd is already upon us, and I
can't believe that 11 years have passed
since we lost you. But time waits for no
one and life continues to go on. Memories
of you remain strong with those that love
you, and the passage of time has not
lessened the many that you left behind,
nor how much you are still missed.

A quote from Helen Keller:

"What we have once enjoyed deeply
we can never lose. All that we
love deeply becomes a part of us."

Yes, you still remain a part of us. Your
light shines brightly in my heart, and our love for you remains as strong as ever. It matters not how many years go by, you will
continue to be missed and remembered.

Your son, John Cade, is now 16 years old.
I wish so much that you could have been
here, to not only watch him grow, but to
enjoy being his Dad. Cade has his driver's
license now, and is driving your truck. I
can't help but think that every time he
gets in it, that he remembers you.

Yes, you are still the 1st light of my
life, and you will always be.

I love you always,

Your Mom

Craig Murphy

September 25, 2017

Brother Craig Murphy

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2017

September 22, 2017

John,

The years seem to be flying by. Ten years, but still seems like yesterday. Your Grandma use to say, "the older you get, the faster the days go by." So true!

I miss you so very much, think of you every day, and wish you were still here with us. And I know that there are many others who miss you, and think of you often, too. The following quote is so true and I know that you left behind a lot of good feelings.

"I've learned that people will forget
what you said, people will forget what
you did, but people will never forget
how you made them feel."
Maya Angelou, author & poet

I know how you made me feel. I am so thankful that God chose me to be your Mother & grateful for the time that we had with you. I'm also so thankful for your brothers, Craig & Jason, the other two "lights of my life." I do not know what I would do without them.

In this tenth year, Craig went to Nashville and recorded a CD that he dedicated to you, "his beloved brother."
It is called, "Country My Way," and on the inside cover he has put your picture. I know you would be so proud. You are definitely not forgotten by any of us.

I love you very much, the first "light of my life," and I will continue to carry you in my heart always.

Love,
Your Mom

Mary Murphy

September 23, 2016

Sept 22, 2016

John,

Seems like September 22nd comes around pretty quick. Already 9 years.

At the cemetery today I reflected back. Oh, how I wish that I could have somehow changed the outcome of that day. I thought back to the day you were born and to the promises I made to you while I held you in my arms for the first time. I looked into your beautiful eyes and promised that I would always love you and that I would keep you safe. At the time I did not know that God would have other plans.

There are those that will tell you that losing someone gets easier as time passes by. That time heals all wounds. Really? All I know is that I still miss you and love you so very much. You are never far from my thoughts and there are still some days that are very hard to deal with. My tears on those days are for you and the life that you had yet to live, as well as the loss of the first "Light of my Life."

Love Always,
Your Mom

John ( Cade ) Murphy

January 12, 2016

I had always loved my dad "John Murphy". John had loved for his trucks or atv to be clean. But if thier was anything he loved his family. He was a great man that devoted his life to his family and his job.

September 23, 2015

Murph - sometimes I forget my log-in to a website or email account. And it always warms my heart when I am asked this security question. "name you best childhood friend." My answer has always been John Murphy. Miss you man...

Craig Murphy

September 23, 2015

What a sign from you brother...,

I can't believe what happened last night. I came home to lights out. It seems a rat got lit up by the transformer in my neighbors backyard which took the fuse out. It was after midnight, so it was officially the eighth anniversary of your passing. Talk about a sign from heaven. Another funny fact; just as I was about to call and report no power, two Oncor trucks pulled up. I asked, "Who reported the outage?" I couldn't believe the reply. "The smart meter." Hmm, I'm not sure about that. I think John is still working doing all he can to keep the lights on, especially for his little brother.
One of the men recognized me right away as John's brother. After they restored the power, we talked until 4 AM. Isn't that amazing? John, thanks for the sign that you're still here among us in spirit.

Love from your brother always,
Craig

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2015

John,

Today marks the 8th year of losing our precious son. And what a wonderful son you were. How lucky we were to have had you.

We have had eight years of missing you and thinking of you each and every day. Remembering your beautiful smile, your sense of humor, and all the happy, wonderful moments that we shared. And yes, there are still tears. But then, how can there not be, with such a great loss.

One day I came across the following beautiful poem. I don't know who wrote it, but I believe it to be true. Perhaps it will help someone else.

"Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed & very
dear."

So here we are, eight years later. Still finding it hard to believe that you are gone, and wishing you were still here with us. That will never change, and neither will our continued memories and love for you.

Love,
Your Mom

Craig Murphy

September 23, 2014

Well my brother, it has been seven years since you have gone to be with the Lord. Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. I meet new people every day. Sometimes, someone will ask me how many brothers and sisters do I have. I always tell them the same thing. I say that I have two brothers. Even though you're no longer with me here on the earth, you are still my brother. You will always be my older brother. As I told you the week before you left, I am so very proud of all you've accomplished in this life. I look forward to the day when I see you again in paradise.

Love always and forever,
Your brother,
Craig

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2014

John,
Seven years! Today at the cemetery, I
was once again reminded of how unnatural this is. As I told your Dad, "You were supposed to have put flowers on our graves, not the other way around." But I guess God had other plans. Maybe some day I will understand those plans.

But for now, we miss you so very much. You are in our thoughts and in our hearts every day. The loving memories we have of you have not dimmed and we cherish them. Our hearts are heavy, but it helps somewhat to read the following words:

Those we hold closest to our hearts never truly leave us. They live on in the kindness they have shared and the love they brought into our lives.
Author Unknown

Love always,
Your Mom

Mary Murphy

October 19, 2013

John,

If tears could build
a stairway and memories
a lane, I'd walk right
up to Heaven and bring
you home again.
Author unknown

September 22nd has come and gone with thoughts of you always on my mind, and once again finding it difficult to express my thoughts and feelings; hence the delay in writing in this guest book. I find it hard to believe sometimes that six years has gone by without you. And yet, sometimes it seems like it was just yesterday. I still grieve for you and always will. And I still ask the question why, and I still don't know. But what I do know, is that I will always love you, and miss you. But most importantly, I will never, ever forget you.

Always,
Your Mom

Mary Murphy

September 27, 2012

On September 22, 2007, our world was turned upside down, our hearts broken, our lives shattered.

Now, five years later, I still grieve for you and ask "Why." I had always heard that God does not put anything on you that you cannot handle. And I believed that until that day. But on that day, I learned that there are just some mountains that cannot be climbed, and some wounds that cannot be healed.

This year as September 22nd neared, I found it difficult to express my thoughts and feelings. Some time ago, I came across this quote. I do not know who wrote it, but it touched my heart. And so I thought I would pass it on:
"God didn't promise days without
pain, laughter, sorrow, sun and
rain, but he did promise strength
for the day, comfort for the
tears, and light for the way."

I am comforted knowing that others still think of you, and I wish to thank all who continue to write on the legacy. It means so much. You left so many footprints behind, you touched so many lives, and you are missed by many.

John, you were my first born son, the "Light of my life," and you were always such a joy. I miss you and think of you everyday. I remember your beautiful smile, your sense of humor, and your thoughtfulness. And so much more. Your light still shines brightly in my heart, and my love for you remains strong and steady.

I remain always,
Your Mom

Preston Derden

September 23, 2012

Five years later, still thought of by so many-so often. John was someone that if you got to know him, could not easily forget him. He was a true and quality friend. He was my first thought, when I woke up yesterday (9/22/2012). We still suffer a great loss being without him. My prayers for Mr. and Mrs. Murphy and Stacey. Thank you Stacey for keeping this guest book open.

Preston Derden

November 20, 2011

To the Murphy Family:

The memories we built at work & at play continue to live in my heart . I think of John still on a very regular basis . His picture hangs on my dressser . John was the man you wanted to watch your back in a dangerous situation---always trustworthy---We miss him so so much . We also continue to grieve the loss of a Great Man .
I miss our 4/wheeling trips .

Preston Derden

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2011

John,
A gift for such a little while,
your loss just seems so wrong.
You should not have left before us,
It's with loved ones you belong.
Author Unknown

Four years ago today, our world turned upside down. How I wish that day had never happened, and that you were still here with us. You left a big hole in my heart that day that will never heal. Not one day has gone by that you are not thought about. We have so many beautiful memories of you, and we do cherish them. And we will continue to do so. My beautiful son, you are so missed and so very loved.

Love Always,
Your Mom

Ann Tucker

September 23, 2010

John, I think of you everyday...for all those who knew you , you will never leave our hearts and minds . From the little boy I first met , to the fine man you became , so you stay.
Love,
Ann

Mary Murphy

September 21, 2010

John,
Remembrance is a golden chain
Death tries to break,
but all in vain.
To have,to love,and then to part
is the greatest sorrow of one's heart.
The years may wipe out many things
But some they wipe out never.
Like memories of those happy times
When we were all together.
Author unknown

It has now been three years since we lost you and I still cannot express how much you are still loved and missed. Your light still shines so very bright within my heart and each and every day you are never far from my thoughts. We cherish all the memories of you and continue to keep them alive.

Love Always,
Your Mom

Steve & Darlene Davenport

October 26, 2009

Our hearts are still reaching out to you, with with sympathy & with caring. Always on our minds!

October 1, 2009

John,

The days passed, then 2 years passed,
and the love you left with your family
and friends still burns so brightly .
It always will .

Your life was an honorable one and that's a treasure stored in the hearts
of your loved ones.

You are missed John , I smile when
I think of you.

Love,
Ann Tucker

September 23, 2009

John,

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. ~Author Unknown

What a beautiful tresure you will always be for all of us John. We will keep thinking of you and actually see you through your little Cade's eyes and remembering you through nice conversations with Stacey about what you used to do.

Love you,
Bubba and Elizabeth

Stephanie Parker-Gregory

September 23, 2009

John,

I think of you everyday. and I miss you so very much.

Mary Murphy

September 22, 2009

John,
If we could have a lifetime wish
A dream that would come true,
We'd pray to God with all our hearts
For Yesterday and You.
A thousand words can't bring you
back, we know because we've tried..
Neither will a thousand tears, we
know because we've cried...
you left behind our broken hearts
And happy memories too...
But we never wanted memories
We only wanted You.
Author Unknown

We love you and miss you so
very, very much. And we think of
you every day.

Love Always,
Your Mom

Teresa Green

October 25, 2008

Dear Charles and Mary,

I am truley sorry for your loss, I am even more sorry that I just found out in the past few weeks. Always know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

A special prayer for you....

"In Loving Memory

Almighty God, through the death of your Son on the cross, you have overcome death for us. Through his burial and resurrection from the dead you have made the grave a holy place and restored us to eternal life. We pray for those who died believing in Jesus and are buried with him in the hope of rising again. God of the living and the dead, may those who faithfully believed in you on earth praise you for ever in the joy of heaven. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen."

God be with you and your family

Love always,

Steve & Darlene Davenport

September 29, 2008

Charley, Mary, Stacey, Cade, Craig & Jason:

You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Doris Wedge

September 25, 2008

Mary, Charley & family:
I just want to let you know that you and your family are in my daily prayers. You have carried such a burden this past year and I hope all the years to come will be easier for you. I am sure John would want you to again have a "happy heart". God Bless each and everyone of you!

Ann & Steve Tucker

September 24, 2008

GOD'S LENT CHILD

"l'll lend you for a little while, a child of mine,"God said, "For you to love, the while he lives,and mourn for when he's dead."

It may be six or seven years or forty-two or three; But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?

He'll bring his charm to gladden you and(should his stay be brief) you'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay, since all from Earth must return. But there are lessons taught below I want this child to learn.

I've looked the whole world over in my search for teachers so true, and from the things that crowd life's lane, I have chosen you.

Now, will you give him all your love? Nor think the labor vain? Nor hate me when I come to take, this lent child back again?

I fancied that I heard them say,"Dear Lord, THY WILL BE DONE."for all the joys thy child will bring,the risk of grief we'll run.

We will shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may and for the happiness we've known, forever grateful stay.

But should thy angels call for him much sooner than we've planned, we'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.

CAROL BAKER

September 21, 2008

TO MY DAUGHTER:
STACEY, YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH THIS YEAR, LOSING YOUR HUSBAND, AND LOSING YOUR PRECIOUS FIRST BORN SON, TANNER.
YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN WHO HAS HANDLED THIS TRADGEY AS WELL AS ANYONE CAN, I DON'T KNOW HOW ANYONE OR ANYBODY COULD GO THROUGH WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN THRU, YOU ARE THERE FOR YOUR BABY SON CADE, HOLDING HIM UP THRU HIS LOSSES ALSO. I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU, BUT YOU ARE STILL OUR LITTLE GIRL AND YOUR DAD AND I WORRY ABOUT YOU AND WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU.
JOHN AND TANNER ARE WATCHING OVER YOU AND CADE.
WE LOVE YOU STACEY, OUR FAMILY HAS LOST TWO VERY PRECIOUS LOVED ONES, THEY ARE IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER.

Stepahanie Parker-Gregory

September 21, 2008

Charley, Mary, Craig & Jason I just wantsd to tell you that I know you will all do just fine, John will always be with you. He was so proud to be your son. He will always look overyou. and I wanted to thank you for being the family I needed. I will always think of you as my family, ALWAYS

Stephanie Parker-Gregory

September 20, 2008

John, It is time for me to let you go, It has been so hard to not talk to you or see you in but to know that I will never see you in this life again is so hard. I hope that my dad, Jimmy , Papaw are there with you as well as your grandparents. Please never leave my heart. love alwyas and forever.

Mary Murphy

September 17, 2008

At this time, I want to express our appreciation to all the many, many people who last Sept. paid their last respects to our son. Your very presence was such a tribute to John's life & such a comfort to us. All I can say is, "thank you, thank you, so very much." A big thanks also to our friends, who have given us so much comfort & support during this difficult year.
And to our sons, Craig & Jason, "the lights of my life," I have read that "sons carry the strength of the family & they instill pride in the hearts of those who know them." I know this to be so. I do not think that your Dad & I could have gotten through this past year without you. We love you.
John, I find it hard to believe that almost a year has passed since we lost you. There are no words to express how devastating it was to lose you, how very much you are missed, & how empty the world is without you in it. My heart was broken on Sept. 22nd of last year, & a part of me went with you that day, & life for me will never be the same again. I am left with so many beautiful memories of you,
& each and every day I try to find some comfort from those memories. Your son, Cade, also gives us some comfort each time we see him. You were the "1st light of my life," always a joy, & loved so very much. We watched you grow from a beautiful child into a wonderful man, & you always, always made us so very proud. You will never, ever be forgotten. And until we meet again, I will carry you in my heart where your light will continue to shine brightly. May God hold you & keep you till then. I love you always.
Your Mom

September 9, 2008

Stacey and Cade-
It has almost been a year now and words can not express how much we MISS John...he will always be a part of us...we miss his freindship, dedication and his beautiful smile and laugh! He meant so much to us! Hope that you and Cade are doing as good as can be expected. Your in our thoughts daily...we love you both!

The West DOC Troublemen

Hank & Frann Strittmatter

August 28, 2008

Stacey, Cade, and The Murphy Family...May God Bless & Keep you all...we love you.

John;

So sorry to be so late...but we could hardly latch on to your tragic & untimely passing when for unknown reasons, Tanner was taken also. John, you touched our lives and Hank & I admired, respected, and loved you as a friend and fellow electrician (Hank still has your number in his cell phone). We watched you become a wonderful husband to Stacey and a great Dad to Cade & Tanner. We miss your smile, your wit, and the twinkle in your eyes. You were a great man.
You & Tanner be with and watch over all those who loved you both and miss you both deeply.

Love always, Hank & Frann

Stephanie Parker-Gregory

February 22, 2008

I miss you so very much, Happy late birthday. I made you a cake and the boys and I had a bite for you.
Steffy, Jimmy & Sberen

Tracey Collinsworth

January 26, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Jan Blackman

October 30, 2007

Charley & family - We are sorry for your loss. It's always hard to loose a child - no matter how old they are. Jan & David Blackman

Preston Derden

October 13, 2007

Stacey:
The loss of John will be suffered by many, but none more than his family. Working with John was my priviledge. He was an EXCELLENT Lineman/Troubleman,and the only thing he was more dedicated to than his company, was his family.We stayed in regular contact after I left Texas,and the loss of John is felt throughout many states. Our prayers are for you and the Murphy family through this tragic loss of a great man. Sincerely,
Preston & Carol Derden

Dianne Centeck

October 13, 2007

Stacey and family
My prayers are with you I certainly know the pain you are going through I lost my son 5 years ago he too was a very dedicated lineman and loved his job going out in all kinds of weather for hours at a time but God called him home much sooner than we wished
Keep the faith
Raymond and Dianne

Jason Murphy

October 11, 2007

John

We may never know exactly what happened to you on September 22,2007 but I know that when you saw the light you did not want to leave us. God has a plan for all of us and he needed you. We are hurting because your not here in the flesh with us but I know that I will find you again when my time comes.

Your brother

Jason Murphy

Kathy McCain

October 4, 2007

Stacey, I grew up with Texas Electric in the days of Reddy Kilowat. I remember stormy nights waking up, running to my parents room and watching daddy (Pudgy Ferguson) either lacing up unlacing those boots. Now my son, Ryan, my son-in-law, Josh, my brother-in-law, Richard all travel that same path as linemen, trouble shooters. My dad would have been so proud of all of them...of John, for the dedication and their hard work ethics. My heart goes out to you, Stacey, in this season of great sorrow and my prayer is for God's grace to cover you and comfort you when nothing else does. Kathy Ferguson McCain

Jill (Bauer) Mills (EHS 1986)

October 3, 2007

John was a nice guy who always had a smile on his face.

You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Danny DeLuca

October 1, 2007

I thought a great deal of John. He was a good friend and great co-worker. The family is in my thoughts and prayers. He will truely be missed.

Cheryl (Nicey) Martin

October 1, 2007

Stacey,Kids,Larry and Sue: We are so sorry for yalls loss. All of you are in my heart, prayers and thoughts. We love yall.

Rick and Turee Stewart

September 30, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, we are so sorry for your loss.

Dannette Newland

September 29, 2007

Stacey,
There are not enough words in the english language to say how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that your and all the Murphy family are in my prayers. I love you all.

Dannette Newland

September 29, 2007

Stacey,
There is not enough words in the english language to say how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that your and all the Murphy are in my prayers. I love you all.

John & Debbie Donovan

September 28, 2007

To The Murphy family; May God Bless you all. It was a pleasure knowing and working with John.

May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.
This is where John is now.

Josh & Amber Brown

September 28, 2007

Stacey you are never far from our thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength you, Cade, and Tanner need at this difficult time. Josh will miss him greatly and will never forget all the great times they shared.

Clark Freeby

September 28, 2007

God Bless you and your children. It was pleasure to work with and know John.

Roy Harris

September 28, 2007

To the Murphy family, everyone that has ever worked with John admire him for what he has done. When he came to work in Arlington it did not take long for him to become part of the family we had there. We spent so much time together that we were family or just thick as thieves so all of us are going to miss him deeply as we lost a brother.

Ernie & Cindy Lott

September 28, 2007

It was a pleasure to know John. He will truely be missed.

freddie paul

September 28, 2007

stacy i thought and prayer or with you and your family.we will continues to pray for you and your family.

M R Tipps & Family

September 27, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May GOD Bless You an Keep You.

Todd Carey

September 27, 2007

Charley and Mary Murphy I send sympathy and prayers for each of you and your family members! I never got to meet John but only know that he had to be a great man since I know Charley and Jason. I have the honor of knowing these two through our business relation over the years with Corr Forms and these two Murhpy men are the greatest! They have integrity, show love for their family, and are just down right Good People, knowing them I know that John was a great man and will remain in all his family and friends memories as a Great Man!
God Bless each and every member of John's family.

Don Stiles

September 27, 2007

To John's family,you have my deepest sympathy. John's pop in visits at my office will truly be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Billy Whitfield

September 27, 2007

Stacy, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this trying time. Billy & Michelle Whitfield

Paula Crowe

September 27, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tom Parker

September 27, 2007

May god bless you and your family
(TXU-retired)

Christy & Jerry Carlson

September 27, 2007

Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers are with your entire family. My you find peace from God during this tragic time.

marty engelhart

September 27, 2007

Stacey,Cade,and Tanner we are so sorry for your loss of a wonderful husband and father. He will be missed by everyone.He was a great man and truly LOVED his family.At this sad time and the days to follow please know that we are thanking of you and yours and our prayers are with you all. OUR LOVE MARTY AND DARREN

Chester Barden Jr.

September 27, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.God Bless You.
Chester&Tirol Barden Jr.

Lori Myers

September 27, 2007

John Murphy was not just my cousin's husband he was like a brother. John and Darrell got me out of some sticky situations. They also got me into some sticky situations. John always had a hug for me which I will deeply miss. John was a great man and will never be forgotten.

LOIS ZAHRADNIK

September 27, 2007

STACEY,
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR THE HEARTBREAK AND SADNESS YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. JOHN WAS A WONDERFUL MAN AND FATHER TO YOUR CHILDREN. STACEY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE MAY BE GONE IN BODY, BUT HE WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON THROUGH CADE AND THROUGH YOUR WONDERFUL MEMORIES YOU BOTH SHARED TOGETHER.
P.S. (LEE ROY AND I WILL ALWAYS HAVE OUR LUBY'S MEMORY OF JOHN.)
LOVE YOU
AUNT LOIS AND UNCLE LEE ROY

Kurt Baughman

September 27, 2007

God bless you and your family during this trying time.

Michael & Lynnette Darden

September 27, 2007

Stacey, Cade, & Tanner
We are so sorry for your loss and our hearts go out to you and your family. We know John will be greatly missed.

Tym Tucker

September 27, 2007

My deepest condolences to Charlie, Mary, Craig, Jason, and especially Stacey and the children. Much time and distance have passed since I've seen John, but you never forget the guys you grew up with. John was one of my best childhood friends and from what I know he grew to be a stand-up guy, the kind our present society could use more of. Truly a tragic loss. My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to all of you.

Melissa Graham Tucker

September 27, 2007

My heart and prayers go out to the Murphy family. May God's infinite love keep your family strong through this time of loss.

Johnny Finstad

September 27, 2007

My condolences go out to John's family. Stacey, I just wanted to share with you how I knew John. When he first started with the Company, he came to Arlington to read meters. I was a meter reader at that time and I helped train John. We ended up being pretty good friends during our time in meter reading. We worked in the Arlington office together until 1990, when I transferred out to Transmission.
I will always remember his nickname we gave him while there; "Smurf".
Again, my condolences to the family, and my prayers are with you.

Richard & Tia White

September 27, 2007

I have good memories of John from working with him in the trouble department, he had a great work ethic and took pride in his work. I'm going to miss him on the 4-wheelin excursions to Lake Murray. May God Bless Your Family

Steve Tucker

September 27, 2007

To our oldest and dearest friends,Mary, Charley, Jason and Craig. May God help and bless you in this time of sorrow.
I remember the first time I met THE BOYS. All three were the hardest playing, sweetest, kindest, sensitive, and well-mannered kids. John was only seven when we moved in across the street, so I had the privilege
of watching them grow up. John seemed so mature and polite. I have and always will love all three just as if they were part of our family.
John's death was a tragic loss and my heart goes out to Stacey, Cade and Tanner.
May God bless and keep you all.

Love always,

Steve Tucker

Ann Tucker

September 27, 2007

To my dearest friends Mary and Charley ,Craig and Jason--I met John 32 years ago when I met all of you. He was a wonderful little boy who grew up to be a wonderful man.
Nothing can express how sad I
am for you , but I know God will bless you...afterall what a wonderful gift you were given in John...a son and a brother to be so proud of.
I watched the boys grow up with mine and remember wonderful and very funny things...priceless.

I love you all & if you ever need me,just call out.

To Stacey and Cade and Tanner...
I know you were blessed with John ,
as he was so blessed to have you.

Stacey,my prayers are with you and the boys always.

Ann Tucker

George Roots

September 27, 2007

I did not know you John, but my heart goes out to you and your famly. I do know many of your co-workers and have had the honor of working along side them for many years. I know the loss they must feel. May Heavenly Father watch over you John, your family and your co-workers continually, it is my prayer. Until we meet on the other side, Our Love,
George and Amy Roots

Eva Kile

September 27, 2007

To John's family,you have our deepest sympathy. I hope this poem will bring the comfort it brought me years ago when my own father died. I have kept it all these years.
We are praying for you.

TRUE MEASURE
How long we live is not for us to say, We may have years ahead - or but a day.The length of life is not of our control , but length is not the measure of the soul. Not length, but width and depth define the span by which the world takes measure of a man. It matters not how long before we sleep, But only how wide is our life-How deep

Tom & Eva Kile

Neloice Hollie (Chadwick)

September 27, 2007

To the Murphy Family:
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I gradauted with John (EHS Class of 86). I have not seen John since our 10 year reunion. I know that your heart is saddend at this moment, but you hold memories of a life well lived and nothing or no one can take that away from you. Know that you and your family are in my prayers.

Neloice Hollie (Chadwick)

September 27, 2007

I am sorry to hear about your loss. I graduated with John (EHS Class of 86). I know that your heart is saddend, but you have so many wonderful memories of a life well lived and nothing or no one can take that away from you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Chris Dodson

September 27, 2007

God bless.

Stacey Murphy

September 27, 2007

I want to thank everyone for their comments and thoughts during this diffcult time. John touched so many lives and I'm sure I didn't get the chance to meet you all. I believe to keep someone alive in your heart, is to share stories. So, please do not hesitate to contact me anytime and share a story with me. I want to hear them.

I want to say a very, very SPECIAL THANK YOU to my family. They have been constant since learning the devastating news on Saturday. Mom & Dad, Tanner Mayo, Bubba & Elizabeth Baker, Ashley Baker, Uncle LeeRoy and Aunt Lois Zahradnik, Darrell & Amie Dumas, Ronnie & Lori Myers, Best Friends, Becky Bethel & Samantha Davis. I truly don't think I would have survived this week without you guys.

And to the gentleman who found my husband, you were more than a co-worker to John. He considered you his friend. I know you took extra special care with him and this helps me so so so much during all this. You will always have a special place in my heart. I love you buddy, and its not enough, but, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

John, my beautiful man, I love you and miss you. Always & Forever, your loving & devoted wife, Stacey

James England

September 27, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Julie (Pigg) Burk

September 27, 2007

I just learned of John's death from Angie Hoyt. I too graduated with John and hadn't seen him since 1986. He was a good friend to me and I'm deeply saddened by this news. My heart goes out to his family and friends. May God comfort you during this tragic time.

Gloria Burnett

September 27, 2007

Mr and Mrs. Murphy, I was so sorry to hear of John's death. Pease know that I lost my daughter 14 years ago and I understand the pain and sadness of loosing a child. Please know I am thinking about you and praying for you to find comfort & peace that only God can give.
Gloria Burnett, Former Secretary of Bishop Elementary School

Stephen Davenport

September 26, 2007

I grew up on the same street as John, and he was my brother's best friend(Michael). There was a bunch of us and we all shared a special time in our lives. It was back when kids played hide-go-seek,walked to the store for a coke and played video games. We played nerf football in the street and John was the best. He was the guy you just could not tackle.John was always the leader when we went exploring into the woods just south of our street and we all had so much fun.It was the only time Savage his dog focused on hunting instead of trying to bite us.. Thanks for all the memories.
Stephen Davenport

LARRY & CAROL BAKER

September 26, 2007

JOHN, WHAT A WONDERFUL SON-IN-LAW,YOU HAVE GIVEN OUR DAUGHTER AND GRANDSON'S SUCH JOY AND HAPPINESS.WE MISS YOU VERY MUCH, LOVE ALWAYS MOM AND DAD.

Rich Schmidt

September 26, 2007

Charley, my friend, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Mike Davenport

September 26, 2007

I knew John for about 33 years. We grew up together and had recently reconnected. He got to meet my 4 year-old Daughter and we got to watch our kids play together. I’ll always cherish the last year and a half we had with him and his family. I’ll always, always, always regret that I didn’t make more time for us to hang out. God bless Stacy, Tanner, Cade and everyone who loved him.

Robert Parks

September 26, 2007

John was a great friend and person. The years and distance left us only talking about once every couple of years. Unfortunately, the last time I saw him was at my sister's funeral. He will be missed and I wish the best for his family. Prayers and love.

Henry & Carolyn Holder

September 26, 2007

Mary & Charlie
We are devistated to learn of the loss of John. I truly wish we had some words of wisdom for you but there is nothing but our sorrow for your loss for you and his wife & children. Love to you all.
Henry & Carolyn Holder

James Yates

September 26, 2007

John and I weren't close friend's, but I was a friend of Jason thru Jr. high. And every time John and I met He was always respectful as much as you could expect of an older brother, of his kid brother's friends. My prayers and thoughts are with you. May God bless Us all.

Angie Wilkerson~Hoyt

September 26, 2007

Shocked is all I can say... I also went to school with John and last saw him at the 10 yr Class Reunion when he got "Most Changed" handsome he was younger and as a man. Talked with him briefly. We will all miss our fellow classmate and you are all in our prayers daily. May God comfort your hearts!

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