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Kendall Willey Obituary

Willey, Kendall M.
Honeoye Falls: August 16, 2008 at age 12. She is survived by her loving parents Dennis and Linda Willey; her twin brother Evan and sister, Jenna; maternal grandparents, James and Alice O'Keefe; paternal grandmother, Lorraine Willey. Many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
Friends may call Tuesday, August 19, 2008 from 2-6 pm at the Merton H. Kays Funeral Home, Inc. 59 Monroe Street, Honeoye Falls. Her Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday August 20, 10 am in St. Rose Church, 1977 Lake Ave. Lima. Burial St. Paul of the Cross Cemetery, Honeoye Falls. In lieu of flowers, memorials to CURE Childhood Cancer Assoc. 200 Westfall Road, Rochester, NY 14620, Camp Open Arms, C/O Gilda's Club, 255 Alexander Street, Rochester, NY 14607; Girl Scouts of Genesee Valley, 1020 John St. W. Henrietta, NY 14586 or to CaringBridge, 1995 Rahn Cliff Court, Suite 200 Eagan, MN 55122.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Aug. 18 to Aug. 19, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
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Patti Zimmer

September 10, 2008

Dear Willey family,
Kendall was on our son Jeffrey's soccer team a few years back and I stood next to you this year at the Mendon Fireman's Parade and had a nice conversation with Kendall. You all are an inspiration to the reat of us; God bless.

Deirdre Antalek

September 8, 2008

I'm not sure you remember me Linda, I subbed for Sue Muehleisen a few years back. I was at Dipper Dan's today and they had a jar, collecting money and it said "In Memory of Kendall Willey" and my heart sank. I know there is nothing I can say, just know how sorry I am, I am thinking of you and praying for peace for you all.

Laurie Tellier

August 25, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived
okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here
is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up
and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were
gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.

There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for
me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's
chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life
on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not
be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.


I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But
one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.


There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a
time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will
give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day
was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the
way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick
him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in
your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember
you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Laurie Tellier

August 25, 2008

Linda, I JUST found out about Kendall. I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. If I had known I would have been there for you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am here now if you need me. I will get in touch with you soon. All my love Laurie

Colleen Barron

August 22, 2008

My heart goes out to you. I consider it a privilege to have known Kendall and your family. I will never forget "bring the effort down" on air hockey in the playroom and her great love of pandas. I will truly miss her as I know so many others will as well.

Kyra Francis

August 21, 2008

All of our prayers are with your family. Kendall's smile warmed my heart!

Wanglien Family

August 21, 2008

Dear Willey Family,

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. May God's comfort surround you all during this very difficult time. You are all in our prayers.

The Wanglien Family

Lisa Ientilucci

August 21, 2008

All of my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember Kendall's cheerful and loving spirit. All of my sympathy.

Jennifer Curcio

August 20, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will never forget Kendall's smile. I am so thankful I had a chance to know her. She will always be dancing.

Amber and John Collins

August 19, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Kendall is pure sunshine in all of our hearts. Her smile will live on in all of us.

Donna Hickling

August 19, 2008

Linda, Dennis, Evan and Jenna,

Kendall's determination will always be an inspiration to me. Your family will be in our prayers.

Donna Hickling and family

Shannon Magill

August 19, 2008

my thoughts and prayers go out to the Willey family during this difficult time. Kendall touched many lives, including mine. May her memory live on and dance in our hearts.

Heather & Phillip Andersen

August 19, 2008

Willey Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Kendall was a beautiful, strong, and independent little girl who touched everyone she came in contact with. She is watching over us all now...

Robin Hargrave

August 19, 2008

Linda, Dennis, Evan & Jenna,
Our hearts go out to all of you. Kendall has always had a smile and something upbeat to share with us, since meeting her at dance class eight long years ago. We will miss her greatly and are so sorry for your loss.
Tha Hargrave Family

Anne Merritt

August 19, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the Willey family during this hard time. As a counselor at Camp Open Arms, I can attest that Kendall has touched the lives of many campers and counselors.

Maria Lustyk

August 19, 2008

Dear Willey Family,
We are so very very sorry for your loss. You all are in our prayers.
Mike and Maria Lustyk and Family

Sue Davidhazy

August 19, 2008

Linda and family.. i am so sorry for your loss. You will continue to be in my prayers.

Kelly Wick

August 18, 2008

Linda, Dennis, Evan and Jenna,
We have been blessed in knowing Kendall and watched her grow into a gentle, fun, loving, caring young lady. She will be missed. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. She is our Angel above.
With Love,
Dale, Kelly, Sara and Natalie Wick

Steve and Christina Grey

August 18, 2008

Our deepest sympathies. Your are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve and Christina Grey, and Gabby, Lilly and Sophia Lupinetti

Sue Muehleisen

August 18, 2008

Dear Linda, Dennis, Evan and Jenna

Kendall taught a lot of people how to live life to the fullest. I intend to honor her memory by doing just that. Panda's, Pink, Claire's, Build-a-Bear, Biaggi's, and more. I love you all and wish for you to always remember her courage and smile.

With all my Love and Prayers

Patty Uzialko

August 18, 2008

Dear Linda and family,
May god be with all of you at this difficult time. I was blessed with knowing Kendall when working at Manor School. She was such an inspiration to all of us. May all of you cherish the memories of Kendall, love she had for all. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Michelle Kavanaugh

August 18, 2008

Dear Linda and Family,
No words can possibly express the most heartfelt love and sympathy that comes your way from the HF-L community. Kendall blessed us all and enriched our lives by being a part of us. How lucky we were to have witnessed her courage and spirit! May you take comfort in knowing what a gift she was to so many on this earth.

Gloria Duffy

August 18, 2008

Linda and family: My heart goes out to all of you, Kendall was such a brave little girl, with a lot of fight, She will be missed by all. May you find peace and comfort, as you are in my prayers and thoughts.

Your Jazzercise friend Gloria Duffy

Tom and Lisa Dorrer

August 18, 2008

Dennis, Linda, Evan, Jenna and Family;

We are so sorry for your loss. We can't imagine what you are going through. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need. God Bless!

Sarah Farney

August 18, 2008

Dear Willeys,

My heart is heavy thinking of you missing your angel Kendall. She was and always will be so special to so many people. I will always remember her smile, positive outlook and wisdom. My sympathy and prayers are with all of you. Sarah Farney

August 18, 2008

Willey Family,

May God's comfort and strength carry you through this time.

Know you are loved.

Janice Van Opdorp

Angelic Green

August 18, 2008

Willey Family,
My deepest sympathy is extended to all of you at this difficult time. Kendall is the most heavenly angel watching over us all!!! She was and always will be a shining star to all of the lives she has touched.

Ellen Rookey

August 18, 2008

Our hearts break for you. Kendall's smile and loving soul will be missed by all.

Valerie Tyrrel

August 18, 2008

The Tyrrel family would like to extend their deepest sympathy to the Willey family during this difficult time. Kendall was an inspiration to my family and we will always remember her courage and wonderful smile.

Lisa Churchill

August 18, 2008

Kendall,
I can imagine you are the brightest angel above. Fly, Dance, be free, and be in peace.

Linda Sessler

August 18, 2008

Heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Kendall. Prayers are with you.

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