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Anthony L. Tabacco

Anthony Tabacco Obituary

Tabacco, Anthony L.
Irondequoit: Saturday, September 6, 2008. Predeceased by his father, Luigi. Survived by his wife, Kristan Brayer Tabacco; son, Anthony and soon to be daughter, Lily Rose Tabacco; mother, Domenica Tabacco; brothers, Ezio (Andrea), Rowland Tabacco; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Nick and Lori Brayer; aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. Anthony was a Veteran of Desert Storm and Iraq War as 2nd Class Petty Officer in the U.S. Navy.
Friends may attend Anthony's Funeral Mass, Wednesday (Today) at 10 AM at S. Cecilia's Church. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Ref. DREIER-GILTNER FUNERAL HOME, INC.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Sep. 9 to Sep. 10, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Tabacco

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49 Entries

tony

January 14, 2025

miss u pops

Kristi Tabacco-Furino

November 29, 2015

Dear Anthony,
We went to see you today to say goodbye for now . We are moving down south, where I know you loved. I know you will always continue to be with us in spirit , to love us, protect us and guide us. This goodbye was as painful as the last though. I miss you terribly and as Tony used to say, "My heart cracks". We all miss you and love you. So I ask this of you, allow us this life we deserve of happiness, no more sadness or despair. Watch over us and guide us to the happy life that we need. We will always honor your spirit as you have seen from heaven. Bless this family, this union, this marriage with health, happiness, strength and longevity as it would have been had you not been called Home. Keep your sprit close and bless us with your kindness and love.
I looked out on the ocean last week and thought of you . I thought about how big this world is and with all of its vastness, I found you and you me, and the blessings we were given for that chance encounter changed our worlds. Thank you for the gifts of Tony and Lily...both gave me life when the quietness of your voice leaving this earth became overwhelming . They will go on to do great things , just wait. And thank you for allowing me, insisting that I allow myself to be loved again. Another gift you gave me.
So again, please stay close and keep us safe and happy. I will miss seeing you but promised the kids we would find a special place on the ocean to always remember you.
I love you. I miss you.
Kristi

Justin Holley

April 11, 2013

I can't tell you enough how long I've been wanting to tell you I miss you. Every year on April 20th I think about that date in 2006. Sitting together at the ECP in Iraq, how excited you were about the birth of your first child, little Tony. I only knew you for that short time we served together over there but you made a huge impact on my life. We immediately clicked and you became a big brother to me. I can't thank you enough for that. I think about you all the time, specially when I hear Def Leppard. We used to jam out like crazy to them. Save me a seat up there man.
Kristi- I know you don't know me but you actually called me after Tony passed. I've been trying forever to find you on FB but to be honest, I couldn't remember your first name. I would greatly appreciate if you could get ahold of me. I'd love to come up and visit Tonys grave site. 989-493-1645. Take care of yourself and the kids!

Kristi Tabacco

March 14, 2013

It's been almost 4 1/2 years. I still miss you the same as the day you died. You will always be my love. Sometimes I still feel your hands touching my back. Sometimes I wake up in the night crying from a dream, a reality that pains my heart still as if I just last touched you. Thank you for helping us get through this journey. It has not been easy. Many just don't know what to say. Some feel it has been long enough. But I will miss you deeply until the day we reunite. Please watch over us. Keep us safe. Keep us loved. We always talk about you. We always love you. You were my soul mate. "So far away from where you are. These miles have torn us worlds apart. And I miss you. And I wish you were here."
Love Always,
Your wife Kristi

Kristi Tabacco

September 6, 2011

Anthony,
I miss you so much! The kids miss you and talk about you every day. I tell them stories about you each night to help them fall asleep.
Tony will start school tomorrow. I know you will be sitting beside him on his first day on the bus. He reminds me so much of you. He looks just like you and has a kind a beautiful heart and soul! Lily is a little wild girl who misses her daddy and she is pulling at your heart strings I am sure. You would be in absolute love with these two just as I am.
I remember this day so vividly 3 years ago. And each time I remember it, my heart breaks all over as if it were just a moment ago. I cannot believe that you are really gone at times. I love you so much Anthony. I miss you.
So far away from where you are. These miles have torn us worlds apart. And I miss you. And I wish you were here.
Loving you always,
Your wife,
Kristi

Chris Flores

September 6, 2011

Anthony,

Joe Kinney and I were just talking about you the other day. You are and will continue to be in our hearts and minds. It is hard to believe 1,095 days has passed; you are still missed as if it were 1 day. I know you have a great view of all of us and I can only imagine how proud you are of your family.

You are missed and never forgotten,

Chris
GO RAIDERS!!!!! This is our year ;)

September 6, 2010

Anthony,
It has been two years. And I miss you more each day. I wish time would make it easier, but it does not. It has been so long since I have hugged you, kissed you and heard your beautiful voice.
The kids are wonderful. They are the best gift that you could have ever given me. They love you and miss you so much too! Tony prays to you and Lily has asked, "Mama, where is daddy? Where did he go?" They both know that we have a special angel watching over us and protecting us.
I miss you. I love you.
Your wife forever,
Kristi

October 27, 2009

Hey Anthony,
Against all of the rules of being a posisive role model, I am slowly making your son a Raider fan. Happy Birthday, I wish you were here.
Nik

August 15, 2009

My love,
I miss you so terribly. My heart aches.
It feels like the first day all over again. You are so far away; and the only one who could possibly ease this pain.
I love you.
I miss you.
Kristi

Nick Brayer

May 8, 2009

Not sure why you are om my mind so much today, but you are. Son, miss you so very much, I remember how you included me in e-mails from overseas and how close I felt and privliged that you wanted to tell my about your time there and that is was between us. You are my 3rd son and always will be, Kristi is doing such a wonderful job with the babies, but she wishes you were here to love all of them and enjoy them so.
Love Dad

Mark J. Brayer

April 14, 2009

Something I wrote while thinking of Anthony and Debra.......(for Kristi)

Tears just change

it's not that the sorrow becomes less with time
just the tears become something different
though the friendship and love shall always be there
we know we'll walk our journey with only their shadow

the tears don't go away they just change
we still know their love and it remains
for nothing can take away all that we had
we'll just wipe'm away until next time they appear

the heart knows its never to be quite the same
and anguish will find us from the smallest reminders
yet our heart's love knows we'll be able to give more
it's the treasure they gave us that makes it so

the tears don't go away they just change
we still know their love and it remains
for nothing can take away all that we had
we'll just wipe'm away until next time they appear

we'll listen and think and find more sorrows
when we hear the songs shared during loving times
yet had we not known such friendship and true love
we would never have known such joyful abandon

the tears don't go away they just change
we still know their love and it remains
for nothing can take away all that we had
we'll just wipe'm away until next time they appear

there'll come a time we might find something new
doesn't mean we ever should merely let go
what we had and treasured as so dear
those before would wish us to accept

the tears don't go away they just change
we still know their love and it remains
for nothing can take away all that we had
we'll just wipe'm away until next time they appear

the tears don't go away they just change
we still know their love and it remains
for nothing can take away all that we had
it lets us show we still feel their love

Kristi Tabacco

March 6, 2009

Anthony,
It has been 6 months. The kids and I talk about you everyday. We talk about the happy times. We talk about things you would do and say. Tony is just like you. Handsome, hilarious and sweet. Lily ..you never got to hold her, kiss her beautiful little mouth. Your heart would melt. She takes my breath away. They are such a wonderful addition to the world! They will go on to do great things in this world. You will be proud of us.
I have been blessed to have you in my life. Still none of this makes sense. I don't understand any of this still. And I have come to the conclusion that I may never understand it.
And it is not fair to anyone who knew and loved you. Especially the kids. But you will always be in our lives.
More than you can imagion, I love and miss you. There are no words that are deep enough to explain how much I miss you.....
Forever your loving wife....
Kristi

Steve Heinzelman

October 1, 2008

To Tony's family,

I was shocked and saddened when I just recently heard of Tony's passing. We ran cross country together in high school, and although I'd lost touch with him since, he was a great friend and a huge part of my life. I often fondly recall all the laughs and adventures we shared.

Richie Mastin

September 30, 2008

I will always remember Tony as a great friend and a great person with giant heart. Everyone who knew him at K&L will agree there was no one else more eager to see how your day was going or if there was anything he could do to help. I am extremely sad to hear of his passing and will miss him very much.

Jason Herbst

September 25, 2008

Kristin and Tabacco Family,

I just heard about Tony's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Tony was a good friend and I have MANY fond memories from Webster High and XC and Track.

Jason Herbst class'90

Cris Lopez

September 12, 2008

I will miss your spirit and enthusiam for life, I have shared many smiles with you at K&L and laughed many times at your silly antics. I admire your braverey and service to our country. God Bless you my friend, may the Lord shine His face upon your face and may the Lord grant you peace. Amen. And as much as it hurts, I will push for the Raiders to do something this year in your memory. I will see you soon, until then, please grant me a spot on my bench press --- you were always there.....

September 12, 2008

To the Tabacco Family~
I knew Tony for only a short time. He was a great guy who loved his wife and son more than anything and looking so forward to having another baby. I am deeply sorry for your loss. He will be forever missed at RG&E.

Sharleen Martin

September 11, 2008

Kristi,

He was so young and even though I didn't have a chance to know him well, I think he suited you to a T. I am always here for you if you need an ear.

Jason Hart

September 11, 2008

To Mimi and all of Tony's family:

I am shocked and sad to hear about my friend passing. I still can't believe it. Tony and I ran together on the Webster Track and Cross Country team and have kept in touch on and off ever since. I wish his family all the best and will greatly miss him. He was a loyal and good friend.

Peggy Hayes

September 11, 2008

Dear Kristy,
My thoughts & prayers are with you & your child, & soon to be children. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Peggy Hayes
(Damirae's Mom)

Laurie Clement

September 11, 2008

Rowland - I am so sorry for your loss. Please know I think of you and to all whom love Anthony. Prayers and well wishes abound.

Laurie, your co-worker from Chase-Pitkin Receiving.

Deonna

September 11, 2008

Kristan, my heart goes out to you and your family. Tony was a GREAT person and will always be remembered with a smile on his face and the jokester at RG&E. I will keep you and your little ones in prayer. May god watch over you and protect you.

Karen Davis

September 10, 2008

Kristen, I am so sorry to hear about Anthony. He was our security guard at the bank and our friend. He made us laugh often and most of all made us feel safe. You and your children were the light of his life and he always said the best part of him. He will be missed by us all. You and your children are in our prayers. If we can help in any way, please call us.

September 10, 2008

Pennies From Heaven

I found a penny today,
just laying on the ground.
But it is not just a penny,
this little coin I found.
Found pennies come from heaven,
thats what my Grandpa told me.
He said Angels toss then down,
oh how I loved that story.
He said when an Angel misses you,
they toss a penny down.
Sometimes just to cheer you up,
make a smile out of your frown.
So don't pass by that penny
when you're feeling blue.
It may be a penny from heaven,
that an Angel's tossed to you.

Author Unknown

September 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Tony. I went to Webster High, and we ran cross country/ track together. I had not seen him in years, but I remember the countless times he made me laugh.
The many entries on this guestbook show the impact one person had on this world.
God Bless the Tabacco family during these very difficult times

Jo Ann Timkey

September 10, 2008

Dear Mimi and family,
So very sorry to read of your loss in the newspaper--words cannot express my sorrow.
Jo Ann Timkey--Delphi Medical Dept.

Amy Rae Masters

September 10, 2008

All who knew Tony, probably heard him tell stories in tandem with Dan B.
They both could never get through a story without laughing and finishing the sentences the other started. It was always a treat to witness genuine friendship unfolding in such an intertwined way as it is a rare and priceless gift. Tony grew more and more into a mature and honorable guy since I knew him, and since we both traveled to other lands, I kept up with his endeavers through mutual friends. My family and I were lucky to have his positive energy rain down over us all through the years and we are all sorry to hear that such a young man has left the world so soon in his journey, but we are all lucky that his path crossed ours and touched us all with his smile, his honesty, and his courage. My heart goes out to those he has left behind. Love and Light to you all, amy rae

Shenita Nelson-Simmons

September 10, 2008

Tony you will be missed more than you know. Anytime I would see you coming down the hall at the Reserve Center I would smile because I knew you were about to say something funny. We have the watch, rest in peace T.

SK3 Nelson-Simmons

Jennifer Russo

September 10, 2008

Kristen,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Me and my co-workers here at Highland express our sympathy to you and your family.
Jennifer

James Kase

September 10, 2008

Dear Mrs Tabacco
I am sorry for your loss, tony was a great man, who will be greatly missed by many. If there is anything you every need feel free to get in contact with me. Tony you have stood the watch honorable for many years now, to protect your country and your family. you are properly relieved tony for we now have the watch. god bless. MM1 Kase

September 10, 2008

Dear Kristan and Family,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know Tony was so excited about the future arrival of Lily...there was always a sparkle in his eyes when he talked about his kids...he will be missed tremendously. God Bless.

Christina Intini

September 10, 2008

Kristan,
I am so sorry for your loss. I used to work with Tony years ago when he did security for a bank. He made me laugh every day. My thoughts are with you and your family.
)

Cindy Repasy

September 10, 2008

Tony was a good friend. All of us here at RG&E will remember him and that ready smile he always had. The 7:00PM crew won't be the same without him yelling "Wrap it up!" at the end of the shift. I miss him already.

Carl DiLiberto

September 9, 2008

Domenica, Kristan and families
So sorry to hear about Tony.
Our deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you

Judi Uhl

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristan, Tony was so proud of who he was and what he had accomplished. He was proud of and adored his family. I went thru training class at RG&E with him and he worked so hard! He will always be remembered and will always be a part of our RG&E family. Your family will always be in my prayers.

Angela Masters

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristan,
My daughter, Amy Rae Masters, was a friend of Dan Bellitera and Tony. Amy lives in California, so when she got together with Dan and Tony it was often at our house, while visiting the east coast. I was sorry to hear of your loss. There was usually a lot of laughter when Dan and Tony stopped by. Good luck with little Tony and future Lily Rose.
Sincerely, Angela Masters and husband, Nick Masters

Deb and Ron Englert

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristy, Lori, Nick and the Tabacco Family,
Even though we only met Tony once, we could see how he smiled as he played with Anthony in Nick and Lori's yard. We did hear alot about him as everyone in the Brayer family loved him.
Our hearts and prayers are with you Kristy, the children and both families.

Nichole Green

September 9, 2008

Kristan,
I am very sorry for your loss, Tony was a great guy and I was very blessed to have known him, we all were. We will all miss him very very much. God Bless.

Mark J. Brayer

September 9, 2008

Our hearts and love are with you and your precious babes.

I have offered, as prayer, that the tears in our souls shall make way for Anthony as he ascends into the grace of those who went before him.

Our thoughts and sympathies go out to you for this loss of your beloved soul mate, friend, husband and father to Anthony and Lily.

Uncle Mark, Patrick Joesph and Andrew Jacob

Amy Pelc

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristan,
I wanted so much to never have to write this. I watched you every day and admire your stength and deep love for Anthony. I was the last person to talk to him, but the messages were of encouragement and love from you and your children. He heard them and understood. Please know that he will not be forgotten and will live on in the smiles of Tony and Lily Rose.

Marcus Brooks

September 9, 2008

Kristan
I am very sorry for your loss.Tony was a good man and friend and he will truly be missed.He will always be apart of our "crew".

Shayon Riley

September 9, 2008

T. You will be missed. It was sad to hear that you left us much to soon. Your boys at the Navy Reserve will hold it down for you, we have the watch. Much love, IT2 Riley

Sherry Griffo

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristy and Family,

I just wanted to say that I am so sorry that this happened. We all tried so very hard, and we thought we could get him through this. You are in our hearts and in our prayers as is Anthony, your little Tony and your soon to be Lily Rose.

You have become part of "our" family.

Again, I am so very sorry.

Mary Vicente

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristan
My heart goes out to you and your family. All my prayers are with you and this sad time. If you need anything please let me know.

Julie Rushton

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristan Tabacco and Family,
My deepest sympathies go to you and the family. I want you to know Tony has touched all of our lives here at RG&E! He came in everyday with a smile and always had something to say to make you laugh. There are many memorable moments that our "crew" has had with Tony that will never be forgotten. We all loved him and he will truely be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,
Julie

Michael Briggs

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristen : I'm really truly sorry for your loss, i'll always be here whenever you need anything. he was truly a great friend to me. im thankful for the memories i have of him both at work and outside of work. I miss him so much already.

Dan Marcellus

September 9, 2008

My deepest condolences to Anthony's family. 'Tony' was a friend back in Webster High School, and I will always remember him fondly. Rest in Peace, Tony.

Jonathan Post

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristan, Mrs tabacco: I am so sorry for your loss. I wish i had come to visit him before he died. Please let me know if there is anything i can do.
Jon Post

Joyce Kossick

September 9, 2008

Dear Kristan, I am so sorry. I wish that I could have done more to help--I hope that you will contact Pat Prudetti at the Veterans Admin. as see if they can help in any way.
Sincerely, Joyce Kossick--

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