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Gayle Penders Obituary
(Lemon)
GREECE: Died Saturday, September 13, 2008. Gayle will be lovingly remembered for her kindness, compassion and humor. Gayle is predeceased by parents Arthur & Hazel Wilson; grandson Erik D. Lemon; beautiful daughter Karen Sue Pusey. She is survived by her loving husband and best friend William "Bud" Penders; her beloved sons, Steve (Isabella) Lemon, Brian (Patricia) Lemon, stepsons, David Penders, Tom (Jana) Penders, Steve (Eileen) Penders; brothers and sister, David (Karen) Wilson, Shirley (Raymond) Mallaber, Donald (Barbara) Wilson; grandchildren, Stephanie, Josh, David lemon, Richard, Jonathan Schill, Laura, Michael Petruzelli, Jenelle, Emily, Rachel, Ian, Dillon, Max, Mia and William Penders; many nieces, nephews and loving friends.
Gayle was a 27 year employee of Hilton Central School District, retiring as Secretary to the Superintendent. She is a former member of Hilton United Methodist Church, Edgewater United Methodist Church in Edgewater, FL., and Aldersgate United Methodist Church in Greece.
BARTOLOMEO & PEROTTO Funeral Home, Inc., 1411 Vintage Lane (Between 390 & Long Pond Rd.) where Gayle's visitation will be Tuesday 2-4 & 7-9. Gayle's Funeral Service will be celebrated Wednesday 10 AM at Aldersgate United Methodist Church, interment to follow in Parma Union Cemetery. In lieu of flowers donations may be sent to Aldersgate United Methodist Church Capital Project 4115 Dewey Ave., Rochester, NY 14616 in Gayle's memory.
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Memories and Condolences
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Judith McLaud
September 18, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you. Gayle was a very strong and admirable woman. I know she will be missed by everyone who had the privelege of knowing her.
David and Marlene Ranieri
September 16, 2008
Dear Bud,
We were so sorry to hear of Gayle's passing. We extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We were so glad to have known her these past few year. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carol Gowing
September 15, 2008
Dear Steve, Brian, & Bud,
My heartfelt sympathy to all of you.
I am so sorry for your loss, but she is at peace now and no longer has to suffer. I remember fondly the many fun times we had.
Love,
Carol (Lemon) Gowing
Hydro, OK 73048
Marilyn Wright
September 15, 2008
Dear Steve, Brian & Family - May I extend my deepest sympathy to you all. I am so sorry for her suffering and pain. The obituary was beautifully written to describe Gayle as I knew her, going back to John Marshall High School. My thoughts and prayers go with you all.
Marilyn K. Wright
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