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Patrick Carey Obituary

Carey, Patrick C.
Farmington/Palmyra: 32, Sept. 25, 2008. Patrick was born on Jan. 8, 1976, in Colorado Springs, CO, to Charles and Ruth Weaver Carey. He was a 1994 graduate of Palmyra-Macedon High School and was employed by Tambe Metal Products in Victor. He and the former Gena Odell were married on Aug. 18, 2007, in Gates, NY. Pat was a wonderful husband, father, son, brother and friend to many. He was an avid Buffalo Bills fan and Star Wars enthusiast.
Pat is survived by his wife Gena; daughter Brianna; mother Ruth (Robert) Freudenvoll; sister Melody (Jason Durham) Carey; brother Jamie Carey; mother and father-in-law Janet and Paul Odell; nieces, Miranda, Gabrielle and Isabelle Durham; best friends Bruce Newpher and Scott Milliken; a large extended family and many close friends. He was predeceased by his father, Charles H. Carey.
Family and friends may call from 2-4 and 7-9pm on Mon., Sept. 29th at the Robert L. Yost Funeral Home, Inc., 123 W. Main St., Palmyra. Funeral services will be private. Burial will be in Palmyra Cemetery. Contributions in memory of Pat may be directed to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 3049, Syracuse, NY 13220.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Sep. 27, 2008.

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andrew mccann

October 9, 2008

sorry to hear about your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Tina Angelo

October 3, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I remember pat from school. He was a very out going person. I remember that he always had a smile on his face. Rip our friend. You will never be forgotten

Mary Alice Carey

October 2, 2008

Gena, Melody, Jamie, Ruth...I am so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. It would be hard to bear at any age but when a loved one leaves us so young it seems even harder. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Aunt Mary, Brocton, NY

Sharon Hinkson

September 29, 2008

Mel I am truly sorry for your loss. I always remember Pat harrassing us when we were teens. I will miss him dearly. Please contact me if you need to, I know. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Barb Scottow

September 29, 2008

Gena, I was saddened to hear of the unexpected death of your husband. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Stay strong. Barb

Lisa Joslyn-Roberts

September 29, 2008

Gena, I was shocked when Chad told my parent's & me of Pat's passing. It seems like yesterday all of you were at the cottage in Canandaigua together having fun on the lake. May you find comfort in your memories & your precious daughter, while the love & support of friends & family carry you through your grief.

Patti Rodbourn-Rhone

September 29, 2008

It's hard to imagine that Pat is not here, the world has truely lost a fun and wonderful person.

Jeff and Brenda Beardsley

September 29, 2008

Gena, we are so sorry for your loss. Pat was a wonderful person and we will surely miss him. Tambe will never be the same without him. He will forever be in our hearts.

Mark + Tera Cunningham

September 28, 2008

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Georgie Kremer

September 28, 2008

Melody and family, so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I love talking to Pat about when you & I were teenagers and giggling about the 80's music/shows we used to go to. He seemed like just a small kid then. Glad he passed through my life twice. He was a great guy with a smile on his face all the time. He'll be truely missed!

Scott Milliken

September 28, 2008

Pat you will be missed we were all at the Thirsty Turtle watching the bills game. They rocked as you would say..love ya brother

Karen Roers

September 28, 2008

Gena I am so sorry for you loss. Having lost my husband at an early age, know that they never really leave you. Look for signs. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter.

Bill & Coney Roland

September 28, 2008

We are very sorry to hear about your loss. May you take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Bless you and your family during this difficult time. With our deepest sympathy, Bill and Coney Roland (Julie Newpher's parents).

melinda mcmanus

September 28, 2008

pat you will be missed by all. you were a huge part of my sisters life and our lives( my sons and me) my thoughts and prayers are with you gen. I love you both.

Renee Corwin

September 28, 2008

Pat, i cant believe that you will not be here to tell me how much my Jets suck and your Bills rule. It was always are best times. I love and miss you like crazy!!! your were just like my little brother, and i cant wait to see you again!! you were a great husband, father and brother and no one can take that from you. I know you are with my dad, your dad and now the Bills will go to the Suoer Bowl and actually win this year. I will try hard to be a bills fan for you and your great memories that you gave to me and so many others. GO BILLS Love Renee Corwin and family

Diana Jordan

September 28, 2008

Gena, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. All your residents are thinking about you too!

Catania Family

September 27, 2008

Gena, We are very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

June Fink

September 27, 2008

Gena, we are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.Love Aunt June, and Uncle Harley

Wade & Trudy Gollnitz

September 27, 2008

We never met Pat, but felt like we knew him through Paul & Janet. We are so sorry for your loss.

Gena Carey

September 27, 2008

To my love, soulmate, and best friend you will be sorely missed. You will be in the thoughts of others.

Laura McAlpin

September 27, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss Gena, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Melody Carey

September 27, 2008

My Baby Brother:
You were a great father, husband, wonderful brother and friend to all. You will be sadly missed my sweet Pat. It will be hard without you in my life.
Love Forever

Gail Fish

September 27, 2008

To your Family & friends. You
will be sadly miss. From knowing
you since a young child and seeing
you grow up to be a fine young
man & husband.
Good friend of your mother.

Gail & Eddie Fish

Gena Carey

September 26, 2008

You are my soulmate, my true love, husband, father and best friend. You will be truely missed by me and your friends also. the world will never be the same without you my love.

Gina Perce

September 26, 2008

I can't beleive you wont be with us any more. You have left behind a beautiful wife, daughter and many friends and family members that will miss you daily. Forever in our hearts and memories. Love to you always, Gina and family P.S. I will see you again someday...

Toni Rattray

September 26, 2008

Words can not express the sadness the whole family must be feeling. Please know that many people's thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this difficult time. If anyone needs anything, please do not hesitate to contact the JD Chapman office and we will all do whatever we can for all of you. Again, my sincerest apologies and sypmathies.

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