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Todd Calabrese Obituary
GREECE: September 27, 2008 at age 41. He is survived by his wife, Cherilynn Calabrese; children, Joseph, Jacob & Meaghan Calabrese; parents, Karen & Joseph Calabrese; father-in-law & mother-in-law, Raymond & Kathleen Ayers; sister, Lisa Diamond; sisters-in-law Tracy Hawes & Krissy Fougner; brother-in-law, Brent Ayers; grandmother, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and other family & friends. For more information about Todd, visit www.aliferemembered.com
BARTOLOMEO & PEROTTO Funeral Home Inc, 1411 Vintage Lane (between 390 & Long Pond Rd.) where Todd's Visitation will be on Thursday from 3-7 PM. Todd's Memorial Mass will be held 9:30 AM on Friday at Holy Cross Church (4492 Lake Ave.) Inurnment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Donations may be sent to the Calabrese Children's Education Fund, 1411 Vintage Lane, Rochester, NY 14626, in Todd's memory.
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Memories and Condolences
for Todd Calabrese
Kailey
October 18, 2009
im never going to forget when something was so funny to me, and i spit my water out all over the table. even todd's sandwich. while me not knowing that he is a freak about germs, or sharing drinks. :) i thought i was in so much trouble, but after todd started laughing everyone else did. i miss him so much, he was such an inspiration to me. - kailey
Kim May
May 18, 2009
To the Calabrese family: We have just learned today of Todd's passing and it threw us for a loop. Our sympathy goes out to all of you. He spoke soooo much of his family when he was working and he did such a GREAT job. He was laid back but he'd also crack the whip when he had to. We will miss his excellent work and Adam who worked with him...keep up the good work that he taught you how to do...especially with the wall paper iron. May the memories you have of him sustain you in your grief and if you need anything...don't hesitate to call us.
Meaghan cALABRESE
December 1, 2008
He was such a good DAD and i love him so much and i know right this second he is watching me!! i wanted to just say that he will always be in my thoughts and I LOVE YOU DADDY
Albert Sesé
October 20, 2008
Here it goes a little thing I wrote for my American dad, I'll always love you!
When I first met Todd, holding a poster sing with my name written in one hand and a bunch of balloons in the other, I could never imagine that I would become part of his family so fast. His hospitality, together with the rest of the family, made me feel like home since the first day.
He liked the idea of having a teenager son and I loved the idea of a young and crazy dad. I liked to call him dad but he became a fiend soon, always laughing and making all kind of jokes. I do have many memories of these years, all them great. No matter where we were; we always had something to laugh about while singing songs like “Piano Man”, “Unforgettable” or “Sweet Caroline”.
He was always ready to do everything without thinking it twice, no matter how impossible it seemed. With a cap on at all times and a sleeveless t-shirt so we could see his Tazz tattoo, he had been a great golf teacher, a tough opponent playing video games and a perfect trip planner.
Getting to know the American culture and many important lessons in life through him has been such an honor. That’s why I fell very lucky today, because I had the chance to share with him the last seven years of his life.
My family back in Spain and I would always be thankful to Todd and his family for everything they’ve done for us so far. I’m sending all their love for him as well.
He was always looking forward to come back to Spain once again, so from now on he should know that there will always be a part of him in Barcelona.
I love you
Adam Edwards
October 10, 2008
Todd gave me a chance when no one else would. He never judged me because of mistakes i had made. Instead he gave me the opportunity to prove myself and earn his trust.
Todd always thanked me after a hard day of work, and acknowledged me when i put in that extra effort to get the job done. To be appreciated is something we all need , and i know Todd appreciated all the people in his life. At a point in my life when i was feeling worthless Todd made me feel like i was needed and that i mattered.
He was such an honerable, funloving guy, and he did more for me than i can explain with words. My deepest sympathy goes out to those that know him better than i do.
I am a better person today because of Todd and i am forever in his and his family's debt. I apolagize for not being there to pay my respects, as i was out of town, but you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Im here if i can help in ANY way.
Dawn Orszagh-DiPasquale
October 8, 2008
What a great loss for those that are left behind. He was too young to leave. Praying for his wife, children, family and friends for peace and understanding.
Dawn
AQ '84
Scott Maitland
October 4, 2008
Cheri, Joe, Jake, Meaghan,
We were so sorry to hear about Todd. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and that we are here for you, just as your family has always been there for ours.
To the Calabrese family,
Todd was an amazing individual, we will always remember him fondly.
Scott, Janine, Alexander and Audrey Maitland
Jim Morgan
October 4, 2008
Joe, I just received an e-mail from Judy Ruf informing me of Todd's passing. You have my deepest sympathy. I trust that you are completely healed after your surgery.
Agnes L. Terrance
October 3, 2008
Joe, Karen, and Lisa, I could not believe this about Todd when I first heard and I was very sadden with this news. I may no longer be in Rochester but I have not forgotten all my neighbors friends there. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Amanda masters
October 3, 2008
hey jake and family im so sorry for your loss im here for you when ever you need it. you and your family are in my familys prayers.
TJ Nichols
October 3, 2008
Aunt Karen, Uncle Joe, and Family:
May the good times had keep you strong, now and in the days going forward. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
AL SMITH
October 3, 2008
I'm very sorry for your loss. I knew Todd from when he worked at Olin Chemicals. You and your family are in me and my wifes prayers.
Mary Lou Bo
October 3, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
lynn
October 3, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss.I've known Todd for a long time and was very saddened by the news.My thoughts and prayers are with you and his family.
Julie (Riley) Roberts
October 2, 2008
Dear Calabrese Family,
I am so sorry for your lost. Todd was a wonderful person. I will have you all in my prayers.
Brien Marron
October 2, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of lose.
Brien & Renee Marron
Kathy and Richie Depew
October 2, 2008
Dear Karen Joe and family,
We were so sorry to hear about your son. We cannot imagine what you are all going through. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Our sincere sympathy is with you all.
Kathy and Richie Depew (Sodus Pt.)
Judith Ann Ruf
October 2, 2008
Dear Joe and family, May the thoughts and prayers of friends bring you some comfort at this difficult time. Times like this Las Vegas is far away but know I am thinking of you.
Judy Ruf
David Johns
October 2, 2008
Joe,My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Janice Doane-D'Ambrosia
October 2, 2008
I had the pleasure of your friendship at AQ & MCC. We had some fun times. I will always remember your smile and polite sense of humor. Thanks for being part of my best memories of school. May God bless you and your family during this hard to understand time.
Mary Stevens
October 2, 2008
Dear Karen and Joe,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of the Calabrese family. We were all shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Todd. We are unable to make it to the service but know we are thinking of you. Our deepest sympathies, Mary and Bill Stevens
HEATHER TROBIA
October 2, 2008
CALABRESE FAMILY,
MY NAME IS HEATHER TROBIA MY GRANDMOTHER LIVED NEXT DOOR TO KAREN AND JOE (ELLIE) I REMEMBER AS A LITTLE GIRL ALWAYS LOOKING UP TO TODD AND LISA,HE WAS A GREAT PERSON MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH EVERYONE AT THIS TIME.
Denise Schultz
October 2, 2008
Cheri, Meaghan, Joe and Jake,
I am so sorry to hear this news. From the first day I met you all, I knew your family shared a very special bond. You were always together and always laughing. I pray that your strength as a family gets you through this difficult time.
God bless you all.
Jenny
October 2, 2008
Dear Calabrese Family --
I knew Todd way back, years ago. Lisa and I were great friends. My heart sunk when I read about Todd. Please accept my sincere sympathy and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Corwin Boddy
October 2, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of the Calabrese family. Although we never met Todd, we know he had a loving family and he will be missed very much. Right now he is in Heaven and the brightest star in the sky is Todd smiling down on all of you. Corwin and Patricia Boddy, Ft. Pierce, FL.
William Lennon Jr
October 2, 2008
Dear Karen, Joe, Lisa, Cheri, Joseph, Jacob, and Meaghan:
We are so sad and shocked to have heard about Todd. We couldn't believe our ears when Christine called with the terrible news. It seems like just yesterday Todd and all of you were consoling us when my dad passed away.
It is impossible for us to picture Todd not smiling or laughing. He was such a pleasant and caring person. Be comforted knowing he was loved and appreciated by all who knew him. He will be sadly missed but, never forgotten.
Please know that all of you and Todd will be in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all very much and mourn his passing, deeply. We send hugs, kisses and tears to you all.
Love, Bill & Bonnie Lennon
Jeff & Connie LaRocque
October 2, 2008
Dear Cheri, Meg, Joe, Jake,
With heavy hearts we remember Todd's vibrance, zest for life, quick wit and warm smile.
Please know of our deepest sympathy, friendship and love to all of you.
Jeff, Connie, Brittany & Chelsea
Mike & Lynn Carr
October 2, 2008
Calabrese Family,
Mike and I were shocked and deeply saddened by Todd's passing. We have such fond memories of he and Dean together many years ago running around the neighbor, being boys! Please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sue Winnett
October 2, 2008
Our hearts and prayers go out to you during this very sad and difficult time ! Todd and Cheri and dear children have been coming to our shop for over six years for grooming. The love and care they have shown for their beloved pets, Snuffles and Haley have touched our hearts so !!!
We have become dear friends .
We are so deeply sorry for your loss!
May God Bless you all.
Your friends at The Shaggy Dog.
Sue, Monique La Fleur
October 2, 2008
My heart broke when I heard the news, What does one say at a time like this. Dear family, you are all in our hearts and prayers. Jake - Monique will always be there for you as I will.
Jay DiMartino
October 2, 2008
It seems like yesterday we were running around as wild teenagers.Todd was a kid at heart.Thats what i liked most about him. May God give you all comfort during this time.
Ian VonHold
October 2, 2008
The Calabrese Family
We spent many summer days getting in trouble together up at the lake (Sodus), Todd, Paul, Ted, and I. I hadn’t seen Todd in many years, but I knew we would pick up right where we left off. I will always cherish those days.
Words can not express how sorry we are. Our thoughts and prayer are with you and your entire family.
Your Friend
Ian VonHold and Family
Heather Maitland-Schmidt
October 2, 2008
Cheri, Joe, Jake, Meaghan and family,
Our thoughts, prayers and love go out to all of you now and always. We will always remember Todd's smile, sense of humor, caring ways and his love for his family and friends. Always willing to help. His joy and pride in his beautiful and talented family. We will miss him dearly. He is now your special guardian angel. He will be with you always. Keep the faith and be strong. Take comfort in knowing that your family and friends are here for you always.
With our love and prayers,
Heather, Bruce, Josh, Erin and Hanna
carol & wil kolko
October 1, 2008
dear joe, words cannot express our shock and sadness when we were informed about todd. you and todd became very dear to us and we cannot imagine what you and your family are going through. our hearts go out to you. todd was an angel in our eyes and he will be sorely missed carol & wil kolko
Bob Lorentz
October 1, 2008
We are very sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and our prayers.
Bob, Donna and Bobby Lorentz
Rick frantz
October 1, 2008
Cheri, I was so sorry to hear about your lose. You and the children are in my prayers. Please give my love to Sweetypie and the boys
Kara Morris
October 1, 2008
Todd, this was such a big shock to me. You were so much like a father figure to me. All the laughs that we shared together & the family. Every dumb comment or remark i made, i would have you here to make fun of me. Im so grateful that i had you, and ill never be scared to go to heaven die knowing your up there. I love you so much - Kara
Michelle Tarantello
October 1, 2008
Todd, you will be deeply missed. My heart and prayers go out to your family.
Edith Bonferraro
October 1, 2008
Dear Joe and family,
I can only imagine the heartache of this loss--of your beloved son, father, husband and brother. I am so sorry you must endure this. I pray that you find what you need to bear this sorrow. I take comfort in the expressions of love and support for you here. I wish you peace.
Your IHS classmate ('61),
Edie (Segelin) Bonferraro
Carol Yarton
October 1, 2008
Even though we have not seen Todd in many years, we remember him well. He was such a delight, so kind, always smiling and just a wonderful person to know. We can’t even imagine the heartache you must feel. There just aren’t any words we could say to comfort you. Only know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this most difficult time, and may you find comfort in the many special memories of the son you loved so much. Sincerely, Allen and Carol Yarton
Michele and Bob Maslin
October 1, 2008
We would like to express our deepest sympathy and let you know your in our hearts.
We hope your memories of Todd will give you strength and see you through each day.
jil denn
October 1, 2008
To Todd Calabrese's Family:
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your husband, dad, son, friend!
Words cannot express how much I feel for your family. Todd was such a nice & decent person. Always willing to work hard, make us laugh, and tell us ALWAYS how proud he was of his kids & wife.
I pray you feel your dad's love in your hearts each & every day.
Warm thoughts & prayers to you all.
Jil Denn
Coldwell Banker Prime Properties
Director of Concierge
Tyo Family (soccer)
October 1, 2008
Cheri, Joe, Jacob, and Meaghan,
We are so sorry for your huge loss. Our hearts have been hurting for you since we heard the news. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Nicole Keller
October 1, 2008
Todd you will truly be missed by all and though we drifted in the past few years I have always held you and your family near and dear to my heart. I love you Todd and give my Mom a big hug and kiss for me up there.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Laura Santelli
October 1, 2008
Cheri & kids,
Oh Honey! My heart goes out to all of you. May God give you the strength to help you through this!! I am thinking about all of all you...
Love,
Laura
( B & I Imaging)
Loraine Perry
October 1, 2008
Dear Calabrese Family,
My heart is heavy and sad by the passing of this fine young man. It is also flooded with all the memories of the time spent in Rochester growing up with my cousins Joe,Karen,Lisa and Todd.
Cheri my thoughts are with you and your family during this time. You now have a wonderful angel looking over all of you.Love and prayers
Pete DiMartino
October 1, 2008
Todd was my best friend over the last 20 years. Todd was the ultimate friend. He was always there when you needed him. He was a man very proud of his wife and children and would share daily a story about one or all of them and how proud he was of their accomplishments. I will miss our daily conversations, our breakfast and lunch meetings, our practical jokes played on each other,golf outings and most of all our solid friendship. Cheri,Joe,Jake and Meg- I am here for you guys whenever you need me the same way you have been here for me.
Ed and Nellie Varel
October 1, 2008
Karen and Joe, We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and with Todd's family during this sad time. Always remember it is only "till we meet again." Love and prayers, Ed and Nellie Varel
Sara Grabau
October 1, 2008
Lisa and family-
My heart goes out to all of you. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Sara & Will Grabau
Mary Bills
October 1, 2008
Dear Calabrese Family,
We here at Aquinas extend our deepest sympathies to you during this difficult time. We will be praying for you over the P.A. tomorrow during our morning prayer. Over 800 people will be holding you in their hearts.
Again, our thoughts are with you.
Mary Bills
Campus Minister
Aquinas Institute
Barbara Farah
October 1, 2008
Cheri, Joe, Jacob and Meaghan,
We are all here with you remembering your Husband, Dad, and our most cherished cousin with more love than all of our hearts together hold.
Karen, Joe, and Lisa, we know that Todd is looking down on you and will always be right by your sides every day that passes. Each one of you talk to him, listen to him, he loves you all so much. We are all so privledged to have had Todd as part of our lives.
We love you all and will give you the strength that you need to go on for Todd.
Joe Testa
October 1, 2008
Todd, such a shock, such a huge loss. I will always cherish the conversations we had in Wegmans and at the Arcadia football games, you are a great friend. May your kids understand and take comfort in knowing they now have a special gaurdian angel watching over them. We'll see ya when we see ya.
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