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Herbert Bandemer Obituary
Canandaigua/Victor: Herbert L. Bandemer passed into the loving arms of the Lord on Tuesday, October 7, 2008, at age 83. He is survived by his loving wife of 59 years, Dorothy Helmer Bandemer; children, Lin (Debra) Bandemer, Ruth (Paul) Bowman, Jean Bandemer Rioch; grandchildren, Ryan, Eric, Emily and Brent Bandemer, Matt and Steven Bowman, Adam and Chip Rioch; sister, Helen Hall and many loving family members and friends. He was a decorated WWII veteran and the founder of Storybook Farm Veterinary Hospital in Bushnell's Basin.
A service celebrating Herb's life will begin Saturday afternoon at 1 o'clock at First United Methodist Church of Canandaigua, 100 North Main Street. Herb was associated with many organizations so gifts in his memory may be directed to your favorite charity. Arrangements by Lucey-VanVoorhis Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Herbert Bandemer
Dorothy Bandemer
November 6, 2008
Dorothy Bandemer and family would like to express to you their deepest gratitude for all your kind words and caring thoughts. Your love and friendship means so much during this difficult time.
Wayne Warriner
October 29, 2008
Dear Dotty,
I just found out today about Herb from Jim Flanagan (used to sell for Schering-- he said Herb was the first sales call he ever made). We have been real busy with my Dad in and out of hospital this last month, so I haven't been reading the paper consistently. Herb was defintely of the greatest generation both in service to his country and to his profession.
Love from both of us,
Wayne And Dee Dee
Pamela Karpel Lamboy
October 26, 2008
Dear Mrs. B, Ruth, Lin, and Jeannie,
I am so very sorry, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. After working with Dr. B. for over 15 years I will always remember his gentle way with clients during their most difficult times. He would put his arm around them, give them a little squeeze, and share his wisdom. He was a wonderful and devoted man. Pamela Karpel Lamboy
Mary Ann Whipple
October 15, 2008
To the Bandemer Family;
Doc B will be greatly and forever missed.His love of youth,animals,and people in general made him an amazing man to know and be around.The Ontario County 4-H program love Doc & Mrs.B.We will miss him,and pray for Mrs.B.Thank you for sharing this special man with us.The Memorial Service was a tribute to him,and he would have been proud of all of you!
Karen Loopman-Davis
October 12, 2008
My condolences to all the Bandemer family. I had the privilege of working for Dr. Bandemer many years ago and will always remember him as larger than life, truly principled, whose compassion and dedication knew no limits.
You touched so many lives, (both human and furry) Dr. B, yours was a full life we can all strive for.
Chip(his grandson) Rioch
October 12, 2008
My Papa loved me and cared for me and I'm going to miss him. I have so many memories from the past 12 years but I feel that it's not enough I've missed him ever since that night but I know that one day I will see him again and he will have both eyes and hair and he will see me for the first time with both eyes.
Joyce Talbot
October 11, 2008
Mrs. B, Lin,Ruth,Jean and Families, We were so sad to hear about the passing of our beloved Dr. Bandemer. Having grown up with him was more than special...he was truly and inspiration for us all and a remarkable vet. I remember sleepovers at his house where you would scare us Lin (of course with my brother as well) and he would always make us feel better. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Dr. B was a great man and we will all have many fond memories to remember him by. Warmly, Joyce (Chamberlain),Roger and Kim Talbot
Lori (Wilder) Mitchell
October 11, 2008
Mrs. B, Lin, Ruth, Jeanie: I can't say how sad this makes me. Dr. B was such a positive role model in my life. Always full of laughter, a good story, and solid life advice. He was always so generous with his time and skills and really tolerated so much when his house was full of kids who weren't his. I have so many happy memories of being at your house, of Triangle, of neighborhood and school activities. He was such a good man and will be sorely missed by so many.
cindy wallace
October 10, 2008
Dot,
My fond memories of you and Doc from Dede's Rest. will always be with me. He was a delight and will be sadly missed. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Wallace (waitress from Dede's many years ago)
Daniel Tortora
October 10, 2008
Please accept my condolences on the passing of Dr. Bandemer. I remember him as being a fine man and a good doctor upon my many visits to Storybook Farm. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Ron Bandemer
October 10, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.
Ron Bandemer and family
Vivian Alexander
October 9, 2008
Dr. B played a very important role in my son's,Chip Alexander, development. He was one of those cornerstones that a young boy needs to become a man. For this, I am extremely grateful. Jean, I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Anne Hassoldt-Fenoff
October 9, 2008
To Dr B's Family and all,
We have all lost a true pioneer of veterinary medicine. Dr B always put the needs of his animal patients first and provided the best care. I often refer fondly to Dr B and appreciate all he taught me. I credit him for my love of animals having worked for him. He gave me my first job and is still one of my favorites. A man larger than life who always had the gentlest of touches. Dr B you are greatly missed and will be always loved and respected. Farewell Dr B.
Lt Col JR "Chip" Alexander
October 9, 2008
My family and I wish to express our condolences to the whole Bandemer family on the passing of Dr. B. Dr. B inspired me to work hard, be generous, and never give up on my dreams. I have always prized my conversation with him as my boss, friend and my elder. I will always cherish the memories. He will be truly missed. Jean you and the family are in our prayers.
William DeCoste
October 9, 2008
There are few people in life who can be described as genuinely good and kind people. Dr. B was one of those few. In the quarter century that I have known him, he has been both an inspiration and a good friend. He will be sorely missed both by me as well as the many people who he touched in life through his goodness and human decency. All my love.
Andy Fleming, DVM
October 9, 2008
Herb was a good friend and respected colleague. You all have my sympathy. Herb and all his loved ones will be in my prayers.
Douglas Swart
October 9, 2008
Dorothy & Family, The world lost a great man on Tuesday.Dr. B-"Herb" was a great,caring,loving,sincere man in his many years of his profession. I has the privalage to have worked for him for 23 years. He was like a father,brother and sincere friend. I truely will miss him. May God give you his peace and understanding durring this difficult time. Love to all Doug Swart
Val and Russ Bandemer
October 9, 2008
Our sincere regrets from Russ and Val Bandemer. He was certainly a legend in his time. A wonderful person. He will be missed by many.
Pat Gleason
October 9, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Jean, Adam & Chip - You and your family are in our thoughts, prayers and hearts.
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