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Mary A. Critelli

Mary Critelli Obituary

Critelli, Mary A. (Campanozzi)
Irondequoit/Rochester: Predeceased by her husband, Joseph and her brother, Frank. Survived by her sons, Paul Critelli of MI., and Joseph Critelli of MA.; her other "sons", exchange student, Ludger Bucker of Germany and Deacon Joe Placious and his wife, Natalie; her sisters, Rose and Georgianna Campanozzi; many nieces and nephews. Mary was a member of St. Vincent DePaul Society and The Holy Name of Jesus Society at St. Andrew's Church and helped with the Food Cupboard Ministry.
Calling FRIDAY 4-8 at the Falvo Funeral Home Inc., 1395 N. Goodman St. on SATURDAY family and friends are asked to go directly to St. Andrew's Church (923 Portland Ave.) for the Celebration of her Funeral Mass at 11:00 AM. Future Inurnment in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the St. Andrew's Food Cupboard, 923 Portland Ave., Roch., NY 14621.
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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Oct. 16 to Oct. 17, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Mary Critelli

16 Entries

Mary Kirkella Sorbara

October 18, 2008

Joe & Paul, My deepest sympathy for your loss.

Elizabeth (Hoffmann) and Shane Degnan

October 18, 2008

As my mother mentioned, "Gramma Mary" made and fed me my first pastina soup. I can't say that I remember that particular occasion, but I do remember numerous Christmas open houses and a summer of fun with Gramma Mary. She was always so thoughtful, sending me birthday and Christmas cards, and then adopting my husband a few years ago and doing the same for him.

She will be missed. I wish her peace, and to her family, comfort and love from what I can only imagine are countless beautiful memories.

Jim Lombard

October 17, 2008

Geogianne,
I am sorry for the loss of your sister. My brother Dick called me today. I would very much like to see you when you get back to Tempe. I will be in Scottsdale for 2-3 months. In Jannuary I am meeting with Joyce (Rossi) and her husband. They stay less thas a mile from my house. My Phone # is 585-746-4391, email is [email protected].

My best,

Jim Lombard

Joe Critelli

October 17, 2008

To all of the many friends of my mother,

I want to sincerely thank you for your many years of friendship and kindness to my mother, especially over the past few years when her health became more of an issue. Although I was not there very often, almost every phone conversation that I had with mom, included something that she was doing with one of you. For years, you all provided my mother and aunt with transportation to doctor visits, stores, and to many social events As they got older and slower, you continued to show patience and increased the support that they needed. You phoned my mother on a regular basis, which I know meant a lot to her, especially when she was stuck in the apartment for more than 24 hours, God forbid. Some of you went out of your way to provide my mom with a sense of purpose, even as she was physically unable to do many things. Judy continued to take her to the food cupboard, which was very near and dear to my mom’s heart. Feeding people was one of the things that my mom did very well, and will be missed by many. Another organization that my mom often spoke of was the St. Vincent DePaul Society. She recently told me about a retirement party that they had for her. Again, her friends letting her know that her efforts were appreciated and that she was important. I would often think about how lucky my mom was to have so many people and activities in her life at 81 years old. Being active and socially involved was very important in her life. I can recall as a child, how mom would work full-time, raise two sons, celebrate every holiday big time, organize church dances, be a member of 27 different clubs (providing food for most of them), and be a devoted wife to my dad. She did all of this with a smile on her face and made it all seem effortless. The result of all this was a long and a fulfilling life, which we should all celebrate today and whenever we think about Mary Critelli. My mother touched a great many lives, and was rewarded by being surrounded by such kind and giving people as yourselves. Social engagement was most important in her life, and you provided that right up to her final moment on earth. I am very grateful to all of you for that, and hope that all of your lives have been and will continue to be richer because of it.

This past year was very difficult for my mother. Her sister and companion for many years had to go into a nursing home. Increasing aches and pain in many parts of her body. Failing kidneys and the impending need to go on dialysis. A number of brief hospital stays. Less and less mobility. And finally moving into the Heritage and loosing most of her independence. Although this was a tough year for her, mom never gave up and continued to make the best of it. When I was there to help her move, I was amazed at her strength and cooperation with what had to be done. I knew she was not happy, but she continued to live and make the best of the time she had left. I know that she was able to do this because of the support that she received from all of you. A mother is also a teacher, and my mom continued that role with me, even when I was 52 years old. She taught me how to accept whatever life gives you and to help others, even when you are 81 years old. I would hope that she also taught these very valuable lessons to many of you. So when you think about my mother, in addition to all the many great meals that she provided, I hope that you also remember her many other wonderful qualities, and enjoy life and do good for others.

In closing, I would like to once again thank all of you for being a friend to my mother. She was a lucky woman to have such kind-hearted people in her life for so long. I am very happy to say that right now, my mother is no longer in any kind of pain, and is running all over heaven looking for my father, who is most likely, smoking his pipe in a meeting with the “big guy,” giving him some suggestions on how to resolve some of our problems here on earth. Once she finds him, I know that my mother will pull him out of the meeting, so that they can go dancing with the stars…

God bless all of you, and go out and do something fun as a tribute to my mother.

Sincerely and Thankfully,

Joe Critelli

Debbie Kirkella Cannavale

October 17, 2008

Dear Paul & Joe,
I was sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I have nothing but wonderful memories of times spent visiting in Rochester.

Joanne and David Hoffmann

October 17, 2008

Our hearts are breaking! We will hold on to our wonderful memories of Gramma Mary. We became very close to both Joe, Mary and Rose when we lived in Rochester and raised our kids at St. Andrew's and neighborhood. She fed our Elizabeth pastina for the first time!! What a true sweetheart. Mary is with her Joe now and in the arms of her Jesus.

Our deepest sympathy goes out to her family as well as her "adopted" family...

We send out deepest love.

Joseph Campanozzi

October 17, 2008

Paul,Joe,Aunt Rose and Aunt Geo
Our deepest symathies.
Aunt Mary is no longer sick,she is now at peace and in a better place,and with Uncel Joe again,as well as with dad uncel Frank) poppy and grandma.
We all will see her again one day,but until that day we will miss her so very much.May God Bless and Keep You all. Joe and Charlotte Campanozzi

Lorraine Campanozzi

October 17, 2008

Mary, you will be so missed by all of
us that knew you. Your laugh and smile will always be remembered. We are so glad to have continued to have contact with you and Rose even with the miles separating us.
Cousins, Lorraine Campanozzi and
Rose Marie (Campanozzi) Niemeyer,
Fountain Valley, California 92708

October 17, 2008

Paul & Joe,
I am saddened to hear of your mother's passing. She and your dad were a big help to me when I was a deacon at St. Andrew's. Because I am currently working in Auburn I will not be able to get to the wake or funeral. I hope you are both well. I will pray in thanksgiving for your parents.
Peace,
Fr. Dennis

Stacy, Joe, Daniel and Matthew Russotti

October 17, 2008

We are saddened by the news of Mary's passing. Rose and Mary have been friends of our family for a long time. We will miss having her over on Mother's Day, Christmas Day and to celebrate our kids' birthdays with us. We were blessed to have know such a beautiful Angel.

Jeanne Merkel Limoli

October 16, 2008

Let the lifetime of memories remind you of the special person who will always be in your heart. To all of you, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom and sister. I have so many wonderful memories of your family from Oneida St.

Karen Walsh(Smuskiewicz)

October 16, 2008

May Aunt Mary rest in peace and preserve her soul..we will all miss her dearly...I will always have fond memories of Uncle Joe and Aunt Mary..God bless her and her family now and forever..my deepest sympathy.

Marie Slade

October 16, 2008

My condolences to Rose and family for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa (Gaul) Allen

October 16, 2008

Mary & Joe were a wonderful example to me growing up at St. Andrew's Church. They were very dear friends of our family. I will miss her very much.

John ("Sonny") & Virginia Williamson

October 16, 2008

"Mother" Mary was a very special part of our working "family" at Computer Consoles, and continued to be a special friend after her retirement. We are saddened by her passing, and will miss her greatly. To her family and friends we offer our deepest sympathies.

Lillian Valentine

October 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Mary is now at "home" with my sister
Frances (Her stepmother) and at peace.

Aunt Billie

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