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Reichman Alexander P.
Rochester: Mr. Alexander P. Reichman, 28. of Rochester, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, October 27, 2008 , in Rochester. Alex was born on May 15, 1980 in Utica, the son of Steven and Rosalyn Alpert Reichman. He was a graduate of New Hartford High School and SUNY Geneseo where he received his B.A. in Special Education and Elemetery Education and his Master's in Literacy. Alex was a Teacher with the Manor School of the Honeoye Falls-Lima School District in Honeoye Falls, NY. He was a very active member of the staff at the school and acted as a mentor to many of the new teachers entering the district. Alex enjoyed gardening and had a great love for animals. Alex touched many lives through his life and will be deeply missed by all who loved him.
He leaves his mother, Rosalyn of Utica; his father, Steven, of Haverford, PA; his siblings and their spouses, Melissa and Philip Landry of Douglas, MA, Jeremy and Kristin Reichman of Natick, MA and Aaron Reichman of Chandler, AZ. He also leaves his aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and many friends. He was predeceased by his materal grandparents, Manny and Margaret Alpert and his paternal grandparents, Alexander and Hattie Reichman.
His funeral services will be 11:30AM, Friday, from Jacobson-Pizer Funeral Chapel, Inc, 1123 Court St. Utica, with Rabbi Barry Fineman and Pastor Dave Green, co-officiating. Interment will be in Forest Hill Cemetery, Utica. Visitation will be from 10:30 until the time of the services at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Alex's memory may be made to Upstate Cerebral Palsy.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Oct. 30, 2008.

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Louise White

October 24, 2021

The passage of time does nothing to dull the memory and joy of knowing Alex. I remember how he showed a video of his class and how the children loved "Mr. Reichman"! He was a true friend and brother to my daughter and can never be forgotten or not cherished.

Louise White

October 24, 2020

I remember Alex playing a video of one of his students giving her report and how much she thought of Mr. Reichman. He was a loving, kind, concerned teacher and man. My heart can never forget him.

Louise White

October 24, 2019

I will never forget the video Alex showed us of his class and how excitable the children were and how much they loved "Mr. Reichman"! There was a little girl who was especially effervescent, with whom he had worked especially and she blossomed. The world is a sadder place without Alex as he was loyal, kind, gentle and loving, a joy to know.

November 24, 2010

Alex, You are here in our hearts and minds, time makes no difference. I know you are soaring now in new knowledge and self understanding and love. Thank you for touching so very many lives. Louise

Sister Melissa

November 28, 2009

Aaron,Mom and Alex in Arizona 2007

November 28, 2009

Alex and his dog Nala 2008

Rosalyn Reichman

November 28, 2009

Lori Darmody

November 9, 2009

Rosalyn,

I cant say enough about how sorry I am for your loss and for your grief. I know that there cant be any kind of pain that is worse than a mother losing her child. I have been thinking about you all day and want you to know that I am here for you and will be here whenever you may need me. Please stop in or call at anytime. We love you.
Lori and Dave Darmody

October 30, 2009

Alex,
Even though you are gone and have left a void in all our hearts, especially your mother's,we see your beautiful smile, remember your gentle kindness,and feel your Spirit. You are still a part of us on a grander scale than anyone can imagine.
Love you always.
Uncle Ron,Aunt Lucy, and Eva

Rosalyn Reichman

October 28, 2009

To My Son, It has been one year since you left me. This whole month of September has been very very hard for me. I have relived the times that I saw you and talked with you. This weekend I have spent with Melissa. It was very hard for her. She relived going to your house and seeing certain things. Aaron was very sad also. I also went to Jeremy and Kristens. Life is so hard without you. I try and try to go on as before but find it impossible with you not here. Nothing seems to get me thru this. I wish I were with you. Everything inside me feels dead. My joy has been taken away.Oh MY Dear Son--WHY-WHY-WHY. I need to go. I miss you so much and will always love you. Mom

October 27, 2009

you are so missed.
& will always be loved.
say hi to everyone.

Diane Kall

October 27, 2009

Alex, I can't believe it's been a year. My plan was to be with Roz today, however she's with Melissa which is where she should be. You're so missed by those that knew and loved you. Love Diane

Louise White

October 27, 2009

Today is the first anniversary of the day we lost you from this plane. My heart is still heavy when I think of you, which is often. Love never dies and I know, as certainly as I know my own hand, that we will all be together again wiser and happier. As I write this your cat, Elliot, persists on snuggling and "talking" to us...really persists...I love how you loved animals.

Denise Sachs-Mishalanie

October 27, 2009

Alexander - We think of you every day, and you and your family will always remain in our daily prayers.

I pray that your family finds support and sollace in one another and that they are able to find joy in their lives. Their loss is still raw, but the great joy you broght to each of their lives is what will sustain them.

Miss you.

Denise Sachs-Mishalanie and family

Mary

October 27, 2009

Missing you and so many others, Alex. You aren't far from our thoughts in our family. Simon and Mickey are doing great. They miss you too. Love the Bacon family.

Alyssa Moor-Rivenburg

October 26, 2009

I think of you, Alex, everyday and I still feel a gaping hole in my heart without you on this earth.

September 30, 2009

Alex has been in my dreams lately. He is always working at Disney World working at one of the rides! He always has a huge smile on his face. I keep searching his face for any hint of unhappiness and he always looks at me and laughs. He said he is really happy and to stop being so pesimisstic. He is just really joyful working at Disney. I have no idea if any of this has meaning, but I was happy to see him relaxed and happy where he was. :)

September 28, 2009

some days are definitely more difficult....
miss u.

Louise White

August 7, 2009

We just came back from where you stayed last summer at Cape Cod. I thought of you and Nala at the dog beach, on the deck, in the living area and kitchen...the love we all feel for you will never be forgotten or in the past.

Jennifer Wrate

August 3, 2009

In Cape Cod right now, where we were the last time we were together. There are some days and moments that are harder than others, but overall I feel closer to you here. Miss you every day.

Rosalyn Reichman

August 2, 2009

My Son, My grief just goes on and on. Just can't seem to say good-bye. Sometimes my life has no meaning anymore. I just want to be with you.
I cannot tell you how much you are missed and forever loved. Mom

July 31, 2009

Alex, Your grave looks beautiful with the garden shaped like a huge heart and beautiful plants and flowers. You are loved.
Louise

Mary Testa

June 8, 2009

Thinking of you Alex, as the flowers begin to bloom. Wish you were here with us.

Rosalyn Reichman

May 15, 2009

May 15th 2009

Happy Birthday to my so missed Son. I will always love you and miss you.

Mom

Rosalyn R3ichman

May 11, 2009

Yesterday was Mother's Day. It was very lonely because you were not here. I miss you terribly.. Next week is your birthday(May 15). You would have been 29 years old. I am going to Rochester to be with Kathleen. Going to be a hard day. They are planting a memorial garden at the school on May 15th. Going to try to be strong and go to your house to take some flowers to put in my yard so when I look at them I will think of you and how much you loved them. I hope I can do it. I love you forever even though I cannot see or touch you.Mom

Mom

April 28, 2009

In my dream you are alive and well. In my mind I see you clear as a bell-In my soul there is a hole that can never be filled, but in my heart there is hope cause you are with me still. In my heart you live on, always there, never gone-you left too soon,though it may be true that we're apart, you will forever live in my heart. In this world I was left here to grieve-please know your not forgotten until I see you again. God knows I want to hold you, see you, and touch you.

It has been 6 months and it still seems like yesterday. You will always be MY PRECIOUS CHILD.

Love and Miss You, Mom

anonymous

April 27, 2009

Love you Alex

Jennifer Wrate

April 26, 2009

Love you Alex- think of you every day. Especially on long drives.

Louise White

April 26, 2009

we all saw Alex's favorite...Rent in Rochester...he was with us...he knew all the words...we all cried thinking of him and missing him.

Samantha Grillo

April 18, 2009

Sometimes I will be reading a book and think of all the good memorys we had. Mr. Reichman has been a great influence to me. Mr. Reichman did not deserve to die at a young age. So many people still need him. I know I need him bt when I think he is not there I feel he is.

April 6, 2009

Dear Rosalyn,

I never met your son, Alexander. However, my kids are both students at the Manor School and I had always heard wonderful things about your son. He came to my mind today out of the blue and something led me to this website again. After seeing your posts my heart breaks for you. I just wanted you to know that he is not forgotten. I am so very sorry for your pain.

Aimee

Rosalyn Reichman

March 27, 2009

It has now been 5 months since you have been gone. Anything I want to say is too personal to write. I miss you terribly and always will. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ALEX. Mon

Rosalyn Reichman

February 27, 2009

Dearest Alexander, It has now been 4 months since you have been gone. I have never gone this long without seeing you. I miss you terribly and my heart will long for you forever. I love you so much.

Mom

Rosalyn Reichman

January 27, 2009

My dearest Son, It has been 3 months today that I have lost you. Sometimes I still can't believe you are gone and ask why. I miss you so much and just want to hug you and tell you how much I love you. I miss you calling me. I miss coming to Rochester to visit you. I miss helping you decorate you home. I will miss helping you with your garden. We did such a great job landscaping your house. You had the prettiest house on the street. I just miss you SO MUCH. I will always cherish the son you were. I wish you here. Mom xxxooo

Rosalyn Reichman

January 2, 2009

Dear Alexander, I just wrote in you guest book last night and even though It won't be a great New Year for me you are in a new place at complete rest so all your years ahead will be of happiness because you are with your real Father. Your spirit is totally free of any pain and are at complete rest with your Messiah. Lucky you. I will always love you and I will try very hard to focus in at the good memories that we shared for 28 years. I miss you so much and I will continue to pray that I see you one more time.(maybe in my sleep) I need to feel your spirit surrounding me and I have not yet felt that. Maybe I need to forgive you for what you did. I will try. Your loving Mother

Rosalyn Reichman

January 1, 2009

My dearest Alexander, I barely got thru Christmas without you and Happy New Year is a joke for me. Even though your brother Aaron came home from Arizona and we went to Masachusetts to be with your sister Melissa and your nieces and nephews, my heart ached for you so much. We all ached for your missing presence. New Years Eve day Diane and I took Aaron to the airport to go home. I was very sad to see him go. When I got home I was a mess because Aaron left and All I could think about the rest of the evening was you. Friends and family invited me to go out but I declined because I could not stop crying and I would have been bad company for them although they all try to understand and did not care. Some of my days are o.k. but then I seem to go right back to the beginning again trying to figure out why. Last night I cried to Messiah to please let me see you one more time. I am hoping that he will answer my cry to him. I can't tell you what you have done to me. My life will never be the same without you. You have put a big hole in my heart that will never be able to be mended. I just don't understand. I am aching so much for you that sometimes I just want to give up. But I know that I can't. You have brothers and a sister that need me and love me. I guess they are the only reason for me being here. I am desparetly missing you and I love you so much. It is almost not bearable the way I am feeling. Loving you always and missing you terribly, Mom

Diane Kall

December 29, 2008

Dear Alexander, It's been over two months since you left us, and you continue to impact my life immensely.
Last night I hosted a Holiday Party at my home. There were a lot of your family members in attendance, which is bitter sweet. I know you were on all their minds and how much we all miss you. Roz came with Aaron and had an okay time. Hopefully you know what a huge void you've left in all our hearts. It is so comforting to read this guestbook and see how everyone is dealing with the loss of YOU. Our lives will never be the same without you here. I know in my heart that you're in a happier,better place.
Rest in peace,my cousin Alex,what a
dear, kind hearted,loving man we all lost.
Love you, Diane

Mary Testa

December 27, 2008

Alex, we just ate at Hicks and McCarthy's. I miss you so much Alex. I kept thinking you were there. I wish this was all a bad dream.

Your kitties are doing well, Alex. We love them. We think of you daily when we hug and hold them and give them extra love. Alex, we miss your smile.

We are just sad that you aren't here with us.

We all loved you. We still do. You are always in our hearts.
Mary, Chris and kids

Louise White

December 26, 2008

Alex, It's Christmas and I think of you as you were always around us, every other word out of Jennifer's mouth was "Alex..." for years. People may die but relationships and love never die. Missing your presence...knowing you are on a spiritual quest and happier and happier with your journey now. It's still to painful to talk of you with your many friends...but we are alike in our missing of you and deep sorrow at the loss of you here. Love, Louise

Jen Wrate

December 19, 2008

I woke up today to find out we had a snow day, and I immediately thought of you. Every time one of us would have a snow day, we would call the other one. Except you never had one, even if every other school was closed! I checked online, and your school is still open, and I could almost hear you being annoyed about that!

I love and miss you so much. It comes in waves. There have been so many times that I think to call you and have to remind myself that you're not here. But I feel like you are here, but I just can't see you.

Christmas is especially hard, for many reasons. But we always would carpool together back home. Driving home always makes me think of you since you're the reason I moved out to the Rochester area. I think of you every time we pass "our trees".

I love you, Alex. It's still very surreal that you're not here. But maybe that's because in some ways, you never left. I miss you.

Louise White

December 10, 2008

Alex, I think of you as Christmas is approaching...I still have the card with the tree on it you gave us from you and your Mom years ago. I kept it because I wanted to paint one like it. Now I'm glad I did as you are a giver. We love Elliot who talks on the phone and gets along great with our other two black cats! I think of you daily whenever I see your cat.

It is healing to write privately to you things I wish I had said, regrets, questions, a conversation to your heart. Love, Louise

December 9, 2008

xander.....
those who love u are missing u...
peace.

Rosalyn Reichman

November 26, 2008

Dear Alexander, Today is Wednesday and I am riding to Massachusetts with Diane and going to Melissa's for Thanksgiving. It is going to be a really hard day for all of us. Everyday is a hard day for me. We will miss that empty seat tomorrow. Mathew wants to know who is going to read to him and take him to the movies now. Maybe you can read to him in his dreams. I miss you so much. Remember, we made plans to go to Melissa's for Thanksgiving and Christmas? I am bringing the scrapbook the kids and teachers gave me at the tribute to share with everyone. Did you know that you were a celebrity at Monor school. I learned so much more about you at the tribute. Did you know how much the children and teachers loved you? I think about you 24/7. My heart is aching. I am going to the cementary today for the first time. Although I know you are not there any more I am taking the remains of the flowers the kids gave me at the tribute and I am going to scatter them over you. Oh dear-I am so sad. I Love you and you will remain in my heart until I see you again. Your loving Mother.XX00

Louise White

November 25, 2008

We have Elliot, Alex's cat, and it's a way to have a connection to him. I think there are many of us who will never overcome the great sense of loss and contributions to life of Alex Reichman.

He has left an indelible impression in our hearts. I know he is learning spiritually many valuable lessons now and we will meet again. Love never dies, Thank God!

Denise Sachs-Mishalanie

November 24, 2008

Alex- I just wanted to write here one more time to tell you and your family that I think of you every day. I picture your smile every day, and I hope your soul is at peace, and that your family heals and finds peace as well. My family and I will always hold you in our hearts, and we miss you very much. God bless you, Alex.

Lisa Cloen

November 19, 2008

Alex,
You are sorely missed and deeply loved by all! A second grader said it so well. "Mr. Reichman is in heaven now. He can teach the kids in heaven. There are lots of kids in heaven." The lessons you taught me/us will live both inside and out forever. I am sure you were watching our 5th graders as they tutored for the first time last week. You were right when you said what a fantastic group they were! My prayers continue for your family, students, and friends so that they may continue to heal with time. You'll always be in my heart and the memories will always live!

Kristy Kershaw Jefferson

November 18, 2008

Alex, when I knew you in high school, you were a good guy. From everything I've read about how many lives you touched, you obviously grew into a really good man. I hope you have found peace. My thoughts and prayers are with your family, and all those who loved you.

Diane Kall

November 17, 2008

Thank you to the Manor School for the very touching Memorial Tribute to Alex that you did yesterday.
Alexander's kids from this year along with his students from last year put together a very touching and extremely heartfelt tribute. Thank you also to the parents and faculity
of the Manor School who came,contributed something,and made it such a special memory. Your love for Alex was a definite theme throughout the afternoon.
Thank you all again for what you did.

Amy Ornelas (Woodley)

November 12, 2008

Alex,
Although we haven't see each other in over 20 years, I've thought of you so often. You were my best friend as a child, and I've never forgotten your incredibly warm and loving personality. We had the BEST times running around our neighborhood. I've really enjoyed hearing through our moms about the amazing man you've become, and I want you to know that you left a deep and lasting impression on my life. Even as a kid you were so full of life and love; I feel so blessed to have known you. I miss you.
Love,
Amy

debbie ellis

November 11, 2008

Roz, I've come to think of you as family,and my heart breaks for you as you go through this terrible time. Alexander was a quiet and caring person. Take comfort knowing what a good mother you where while he was on earth and now he is at peace with God in heaven. We are here for you always. love debbie

Diane Kall

November 10, 2008

Alexander was a very special son to my cousin Roz. I only knew Alexander for a short time. This whole tragedy has made a huge impact on my life. When I first read this guestbook it was so sad to see the entries from his students, friends, faculty, and family. The amount of love, respect, and admiration is overwhelming.
The cards, notes, and letters that have been written and delivered to his Mom are priceless.
My only wish is that Alexander now knows how very special he was to so many people. He truly loved his job and his kids, they meant the world to him. God Bless you all for your warm and wonderful words about Alex. It means a lot to Roz to know what a very special man Alexander was and the wonderful son that she raised.

Rosalyn Reichman

November 10, 2008

To all who wrote in the quest book: THANK-YOU. Alexander had wonderful friends and students. He was a wonderful son that I loved infinity. He will always be close to me heart. I will miss him terribly. Again, thank-you for caring, for your prayers, and all the wonderful things that you shared about Alexander with my family. God-Bless all of you.

The Haviland Family

November 10, 2008

Our prayers are with you and your famly.

Melissa Landry

November 9, 2008

Alexander was my brother, my younger brother. The grief and sadness I feel in my heart is overwhelming. I lost a part of myself when Alex died. My children lost a terrific Uncle whom they loved and the world lost a wonderful human being. When he left my house after a visit, two weeks prior to his death...I said I love you Donder....I hope he knew just how much....my heart breaks that maybe I never took enough time to call him or visit him in Rochester...Just to say hey I love you or how are you... So make sure you say good bye when you leave somewhere and say I love you everyday...Take time out of your day to say Hi.....because you never know if you will have a chance again.
I love you Alex and I hope you have found the peace and happiness you were so deperately searching for.

Your Sister
Melissa

Deborah & Stephen Galiley

November 9, 2008

We are so sad to hear about Alexander. We remember him as a teenager, playing clarinet in the marching band and performing in the school plays. Over the years, we kept up on his doings via his mother, Roz. May God's blessings and shalom be on the Alpert/Reichman families during this extremely difficult time.

Elliott Mesa-Duell

November 4, 2008

Mr.Reichman was my mentor. He helped me with alot of things in my life. He was my inspiration, My Idol and my Rolemodel. I found it very shocking when I heard that He died. He conviced me to go into Journalism, Writing, Typing and etc. My Mom (Sandy Duell) said she had the pleasure of meeting him. Every Couple Sundays of Every Month My Family and Myself would go to Hicks and McCarthy wear he worked as a waiter and he would serve food to My Family and Myself. I loved when me and him would exchange Phone Calls, Greeting Cards, Photos and E-Mails. He even named his Cat After me. His name was Elliot. But, He is in a better place and on behalf of my family and Myself we give our prayers and thoughts to His Friends and Family.

Marcia Koch

November 4, 2008

I am so very, very saddened by Alex's passing. He was one of my favorites.... My thoughts & prayers are with his family, friends, pets, & students. I am certain all are heart-broken.

Patrick Smith

November 4, 2008

Alex, you were my best friend when we were little. I always thought you were incredibly creative and intelligent. I can't believe you're gone. I am deeply saddened to hear this news. My thoughts are with your family. I will miss you.

Cathy Blodgett

November 3, 2008

Alex was such an inspiration to all of us. He had such a wonderful smile and friendly, comfortable way about him.. I would often think as I trudged into school on a cold, Monday morning and see him walking down the hall with a big smile and a friendly hello, he is such a "good" person I would think. Even though he must have crumby mornings he would still always smile with a pleasent hello, and how are you? One would never know as he wouldn't show it. We all had lots of laughs with Alex at the lunch table talking about "Desparate Housewives",funny stories from students, and the read-athon plays that he was in. He was a great asset to Manor. I miss him and pray for his family and "many" friends.

Carol Moffitt

November 3, 2008

Alex's life has ended but the lives he has touched will live on forever in the many fond memories we share and hold dear in our hearts.

The Gilbert Family

November 2, 2008

My son, Peter, had Alex for a teacher last year. We look back at that year and think what a gift was given to our son! Alex had a way of making every child feel special and important. He was not only a great teacher but a warm and supportive friend to our son.
Our deepest condolences go out to Alex's family. Please know, your son made a difference in our son's life. We will be forever grateful and will always hold a place in our hearts for Alex.
Sincerely,

Jordyn

November 2, 2008

Mr.Reichman has been such an inspirational, JOLLY, caring teacher. He changed my life forever. I luckily I got to tell him how amazing and awesome a teacher he was when I was in 3rd grade. Every night I pray for him. He again changed my life in many ways. He was my Reading Together teacher. My friend and I went around the school asking the staff in HF-L what they remembered of him. I think it was a great idea because I got to learn about him, it was great! It was also sad. One of his friends/staff member said that on p.j day he wore cowboy pajamas:) I always thought he looked like Santa Clause. I will always treasure you in my heart.
Love,
Jordyn

Deborah King

November 2, 2008

Our hearts go out to Alex's family and to all the children and staff at the Manor School. Alex was an incredibly dedicated and talented teacher who really made a difference for our daughter and so many others. His inspired mentoring and love of reading will live on in the hearts and minds of so many young readers for years and years to come. We know they will continue to pass the torch to others and keep his legacy alive.

Ellen Reichman

November 2, 2008

As Alexander's aunt, my heart aches for this terrible loss. My memories of Alexander are wonderful and I will cherish them forever. My deepest condolences go out to his family. Roz, you are in my thoughts so much. I am glad Jim and Justin were able to be there. My health would not allow it for me to attend, and Alexandra and I send all our love from Seattle.

Chris, Steve, Nathan, Jenna, Kurt and Kelly De Rycke

November 2, 2008

Remember

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation

Dawn Stout

November 2, 2008

I am at a loss for words. Alex was my daughter's 2nd grade math teacher and most recently her coach for Reading Together. I consider Alex to be one of the most loving, caring, compassionate teachers I know. He will be greatly missed by our family and all those who knew him. Our hearts go out to his family at this terribly sad time. May loving memories comfort and heal. God Bless, The Stout Family

Sheryl Turner

November 2, 2008

I saw Alex frequently in the halls of Manor School and when I ate at Hicks and McCarthy. I will remember his smile and genuine caring nature for his students as he sent them on their way home each day. He will be greatly missed. My heart and prayers go out to his family.

Louise Wrate- White

November 2, 2008

I went to the cemetery and gathered the acorns which fell from the tree over his grave. I will bake them and give them to his friends and his school for students who especially miss Mr. Reichman or whose lives were imprinted by him and his teaching. An acorn is one seed from which whole forests can grow. We learn to treat others as we have been treated and truly make a difference in people's lives, as Alex did. This acorn will be a reminder of him, what he contributed on this earth and how he'd want us to plant seeds and grow from the positive lessons we have and are still learning from his life and death.

Tabetha Besanceney

November 2, 2008

Dear Mr. Reichman,

I miss you so much.
The whole class misses you too.
Thank you for being my teacher.
Your friend always.
love Tabetha

Melissa Newman

November 2, 2008

I have not seen Alex in quite a few years, but I remember him fondly. I wish he knew how wonderful I thought he was. My condolences to his family and friends. He was truly a great person who will be missed. I will hold on to my memories of him forever.

Alison Caso

November 1, 2008

I will always remember Alex when I think of high school. He was a wonderful friend to laugh with. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Stacey DioGuardi

November 1, 2008

Alex was my son's teacher last year. We all adored him. Alex was truly a gifted teacher with a compassionate heart for all of his students. He not only taught my son academics, but also stressed the importance of being a caring, honest and helpful person to others. I know that these lessons and other fond memories will be carried on with my son. He was a magnificent teacher who will not be forgotten.This is such a profound loss for family, friends, colleagues and students. How horribly sad that there are so many children out there who will never get the chance to have Mr. Reichman for a teacher. I am forever grateful to Alex for being such a positive influence in the life of my child.

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends as this time. I pray that he is at peace now.

Jesica (Solan) McNair

November 1, 2008

My thoughts go out to Alex's family and friends. He was a wonderful person with a radiant smile and it is of no surprise to read what a huge impact he had on the lives of so many, especially his students. I will always remember fun times with Alex on the field with the band. Alex, you are missed.

Mary Testa

October 31, 2008

Alex was an incredible role model for my children. We all adored him. He was teaching my daughter Reading Buddies and she loved and looked forward to those meetings every week. My son always got a warm smile from him and at least a little wave but mostly a Hello, Seth! (He never even had my child!). It's taken me four days to be able to sit and write this. I can't express how heavy my heart has been this week. I always enjoyed my talks with Alex both at school and at Hicks. We also ran into him around town and always got a reassuring smile and a happy update on his life with his home and dog and gardens.

Our entire family wishes to extend warm comfort and prayer to Alex's family, friends and colleagues. There are no words to express how sad we are at his passing. To his students I wish to say that I know he always considered himself the lucky one to have YOU in his life. But I know you must all feel blessed that he was in YOUR lives. He gave SO much of himself. He was a master at providing what each child needed.

Alex will always be remembered by me for his kind, loving heart and his warm compassionate smile. I know he is at peace with the angels now.

My best to everyone who loved him, and there were so many...

Jill Rivard

October 31, 2008

My heart breaks for Alex's family.There is no heart that breaks more than a Mothers from the loss of her loving child. RIP dear sweet Alex I enjoyed the laughs we shared in the copy room! May memories of happier times comfort your family in the hard times that lie ahead.
Jill Rivard Crane Elementary

Susan Salmon

October 31, 2008

The Geneseo School of Education is saddened by the loss of a truly amazing person and teacher. We will keep the Reichman family in our thoughts.

Kathy Lincourt

October 31, 2008

To Alex's Family,
I had the opportunity to teach with Alex at Crane school. He made everyday great as soon as he came in with his special smile. Nobody loved kids or teaching more than Alex. He was a remarkable friend and teacher. Most people never find their passion in life and live it but Alex did!! My heart is very heavy these days without him! He will be missed sssssoooooo much!
Sincerely,
Kathy

Sandy, Jerry, Keegan and MacKenna Rhoads

October 31, 2008

We were fortunate to be one of Alex's neighbors, and are truly saddened of his passing.

It was a pleasure for us to know him in the short time he was there, and will miss his smiling face and his wave of hello. Our hearts go out to his family, friends, and the many students that he loved.

He will truly be missed.

Doris Bobry

October 31, 2008

I will miss Alex, as will all of the students, staff, and parents at HF-L. Alex touched many lives.

Steve Callahan

October 31, 2008

Alex,

You are the best friend anyone could ever have. Of all the people that I have known and met during my 28 years, you are truly one of the few people who have made a difference in my life. I wish you peace and happiness; and my deepest sympathies go out to your family and friends.

I will forever miss your friendship, but I will be forever greatful that I was blessed enough to have you as a friend.

Your friend,
Steve

Douglas Allen

October 31, 2008

I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Alex this week! I remember the times that me and Alex spent together driving around and talking about life. He was a caring, loving and compasstionate man. My heart goes out to his family in a time of need. May God Bless.

Michael Bevivino

October 31, 2008

Alex, you will be missed.

Jennifer Wilson

October 31, 2008

The saying that "no bond is as great as the bond between a parent and child" is true. I am sincerely sorry for your loss and give my sympathy to Alex's family and friends.

Dana Handelsman

October 30, 2008

You have left us too soon dear Cousin. I will love and miss you always.

Lyn and Rob Kalnitz

October 30, 2008

Alex was our next door neighbor. We were delighted when he bought the house. He was just as he seemed, a compassionate, dear, sweet man. He had a beautiful yard and was generous with his lilacs. Our dogs played together along the fence, creating paths in the grass. He was quick with a smile and a joy to talk to. It breaks our hearts to look at the empty house next door. Our sympathy goes out to his family, friends, and students. He often spoke of his love of teaching, he was so very dedicated to it. We will miss him dearly and will find comfort knowing he is at peace.

TABETHA,SHARON,MICHEL Besanceney

October 30, 2008

Our daughter Tabetha was blessed by Alex in just the short time that she was in his class. He made an impact on her that will last a life time, as he has in so many other children.
Alex was truelly blessed with a gift to touch the hearts of many children. To all children whom he has blessed he does not leave you alone, he has know become your gaurdian angle. From our family to yours we leave you with this memory. for every tear shed it is not just a tear of sadness but a memory of Alax.

Tabetha, Sharon, MIchel Besanceney (MENDON, N.Y.)

john & kristen pangia

October 30, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to the Reichman family. Alex will be sorely missed here by the teaching staff at HF-L. Will misses you. We hope you have found peace

Denise, Chuck, Chelsea and Jake Sachs-Mishalanie

October 30, 2008

We were blessed to live next door to Alex and his brother, Aaron, since they moved into our neighborhood in 1990. Both boys were delightful. Of course, we missed them both as they went to college, and moved away with their carreers, but we always looked forward to seeing them when they came home for a visit - even if it was a brief conversation on the front lawn. Our neighbors have always been an extention of our family, and we feel the loss of one of our own. It is no surprise to us that Alex was so well respected and loved as a teacher and a friend - we felt his warmth and always enjoyed our visits. It's hard to believe that we won't see Alexander again. Our family will miss him a great deal. We are thankful that we have many fond memories of Alex and Aaron.

Anthony Brigano

October 30, 2008

Alex, it has been heartbreaking to see this story unfold. Your family and friends love you and miss you already. The only positive to me is knowing that where there was sorrow in your heart, now there is peace. God bless you, and we will all see you again someday.

Angel Vizcarra

October 30, 2008

Sending our condolences and support to Aaron and his family in these hard times.

ian thompson

October 30, 2008

Dear Mr. Reichman,
I miss you so much. I loved you so much.
Love,
Ian

Samantha Grillo

October 30, 2008

To Mr.Reichman
You made such a big impact on my life. When I was a tutor for you, you always told me to keep trying and never give up even when the kid you turtored was being rude. You are the reason that I miss being in the Manor School. You always put a smile on my face. And because of you I now know how much little kids need attention, and because of that I thank you.

Leanne Stegman (Sessa)

October 30, 2008

It's sad how you never really know how much someone will be missed, until after they're gone. I am so very sorry for Alex's family and friends, near and far. Though far too short, Alex's life was one that was filled with love and compassion, and while he was here, he made this world a better place.

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