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Theodore Shaver Obituary

Shaver, Theodore "Ted"
N. Cohocton: Passed away 10/14/07 at age 54. Survived by wife, Sandy Shaver, Rochester; parents, Norman and Thelma Shaver, N. Cohocton; siblings, aunts, nieces and nephews.
Calling hours 2-4 and 7-9 Thursday at the ST. GEORGE-STANTON FUNERAL HOME, Wayland. Funeral Service, 1:00 P.M.Friday at the funeral home.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Oct. 17, 2007.

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GAIL SHAVER

October 16, 2008

Ted, I can't believe you have been gone from our lives for a year!! I keep hoping that is was just a bad dream and that when I go home I will see you at the airport and then at home. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you, Brian and Jim. It has been hard to understand why 3 brothers are gone. I know that you are all together and you are playing the role of big brother which you were always good at. I love you and miss you so much. Until the day we are all together again. Love your sister, Gail
Hugs and kisses to you, Brian and Jim

Thelma & Norman Shaver

October 15, 2008

Dear Ted We miss you so very much. It has been almost one year . So many times I think a year a go I would say ask Ted. WE HAVE SO MANY GOOD MEMORIES' Dad and I miss you and love you always Mom and Dad O& K

lisa jones

October 11, 2008

Ted you will always have a special place in our hearts. Luv u always...

ANDREA GUILES

October 8, 2008

I cant believe that its been almost a year i miss you Ted.

Gail Shaver

November 15, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

November 3, 2007

Your the sugar to my koolaid. The ketchup to my fries.You'll always be a true friend indeed untill that day we cross paths again.We love you and miss you at (The Roc). You are truely a blessing to us all. Theres not a day that goes by that we dont think of you. You'll always in our hearts. I can say you will make a perfect angel. God only wants the best,and you are truely one of them.We all love you and miss you.You will forever be in our heart...Love always,untill eternity we will see each other again...

Pat & Jeanne Wolfanger

October 30, 2007

Dear Thelma, Norm, Mike, Barry, Keryn, and Gail,
We have known all of you forever it seems, and we know the terrible shock this has once again brought to a very loving, caring, family-oriented group of people. How do we ever reconcile so many tragedies in one family? God must have a purpose, but it seems a bit "gray" just now. May the Lord bless all of you and keep you all in his tender arms forever. With all our love and prayers.

Ivena Grantham

October 27, 2007

Ted had such a gentle and patient spirit. He will be missed. I remember seeing him at the airport and he gave me hug. Sandy you and your family are in my prayers for comfort and strength in the days to come. Take Care.

Eric Stringer

October 26, 2007

Ted was a wonderful person, a man of character, and will be a great loss to all who knew him. I feel privileged to have been given the opportinity to know him.

Cindy

October 25, 2007

Teddy Bear as I called him touched my life at a very early age. With him being such a good friend with my brother and the rest of the family, I will always be honored to have known him and see him as another brother. With such an age difference between my siblings and I, (I being the youngest with as many as 11 years difference between the oldest and myself,) I was able to enjoy the people that were amongst my siblings. That being said, I must say that Ted is one of my very favorites. When he would be at our house he would either hold my hand to cross the road or even better, carry me across the road. One of a child's best memories would have to be that of their most precious "teddy bear." Ted, you will always be in my heart and whenever the time comes, I want you to there to again carry me across that road. "That road" will be the one that crosses in to heaven. I hope all of you are having a good time up in heaven You all know who you are.
My blessings are with the entire Shaver family.

Love,
Cindy "Quanz" Perkins

Kenneth Klusek

October 24, 2007

To the Shaver family. You are in my prayers. I don't know what to say, I'm totally shocked. I will miss him dearly.

Connie Peart

October 24, 2007

Ted, Since you became a part of Sandy's family, you became a part of ours. We will miss you tremendously.Rest in peace.
Connie Peart & Family

Tina McClary

October 23, 2007

Dad,
I don't know were to start, all can say is that you were a sparkle in my eye that has been taken away. I know that you are never gone, but always here. You have touched my heart in ways that a father could only do and i am blessed that you married my mom and i can say that i have experience a great dad in my life. I love you dad, and i will see you again. love, Your daughter TINA

Tina McClary

October 23, 2007

I will miss you dad. There will never be anyone to take the place that you have reserved within me. Love, your daughter Tina

Joel Trommer

October 22, 2007

Ted, Although only a few conversations were exchanged, that was more than enough to show your calm demeanor, and you're uncanny ability to brighten up even the darkest days. Now that you have brightened up so many of our lives, its time for you to rest in a place where it is bright all the time. May you rest in peace, and your spirit live forever within the hearts of us all, and the walls of the ROC.

Cara Martinez

October 22, 2007

Ted, When I started at McNeil as an "OJTer" I was nervous and knew no one! My first day of training I was paired up with you and Mel and I knew that day that I had gained a friend. You were always there to lend a hand, and a smile to all and you always brighten up days with just a simple "Good Morning!" even when you didn't know it. You touched so many lives, including my own, and I'm privledged to have known you for a short period of time then to not have known you at all!

Renee Edwards

October 20, 2007

Ted,
You will always be in my memories and you will be missed greatly. Your one of the great ones. Always kind,always honest and genuine.Everybody loves you.And for that,you will never be forgotten.I think everyone feels a little piece of them is missing.I will always remember you.

Mary Anne Greninger

October 19, 2007

A loved one is never truly gone, when they live in our hearts. Ted, you touched so many lives and so many hearts, hopefully a piece of your love has remained with each of us. Maybe we too can learn to be a little like you. I will miss that smiling face and upbeat attitude. I am lucky to have known you. I love you. Sleep well my friend. Until we meet again...

fishman

October 19, 2007

Ted or Theodore is what I called you when we talked. I will remember your quiet demeanor and stillness in character. You have a great chuckel and you understand good humor. Thanks, hope and faith to you your family, Love will never cease, your face will never fade. FISHMAN

Jay Surowy

October 19, 2007

Ted,
I didn't know you very well but you always took the time to stop and say hello. You were a kind, hard-working, and easy-going fellow. This tragedy serves to remind us of how often we take our friends and family for granted and always expect them to be there. All the best.

October 18, 2007

Ted, you always had our back in the
Delta pod! You are a loveable, kind, caring person and a wonderful friend. You will be greatly missed!!!!
Love, your friends at Delta

Desiree Wright

October 17, 2007

Ted was such a nice guy. He will truly be missed.

Mary Snyder

October 17, 2007

To all who knew and loved Ted, like me, I will miss and think about him often. He always was a good friend and a strong man to know and love. Its hard to imagine life, work, without him. My friend I will always have you in my heart and have learned a great lesson. Keep those you care about close and let them know you love them everyday. Life is too short. I will see you in a better place I'm sure. Rest my friend. You deserve it. Love always,

Jean Bost

October 17, 2007

Ted, a true gentle soul!! I always admired your calm demeanor. I feel blessed to have known you and will very much miss seeing you whenever I am at the airport. My heart aches for your family. Sandy, what can I say??? Just know that you do not have to walk this grief journey alone. God Bless

Eric Streb

October 17, 2007

Ted, you touched more people than I think you knew. Your strength, courage and perseverance in good times and bad are an example for us all. My only wish is that I had a chance to say "Goodbye my friend". May your sudden passing be an example for us all to treat each other like today is the last day we will see each other. Hey Ted, Thank you for being you, I Love you, and finally, Good Bye.

Nick Amendolare

October 17, 2007

Truely a great man and a good friend to many. His passing will be a great loss to all who ever had the chance to know him. I am grateful that I was one of the lucky ones who could call Ted a friend.

Mary Ann Cotter

October 17, 2007

Ted was one special guy to our family. We were so blessed to have known him. He always, always has a special spot in our hearts. He truly will be missed by many. Our prayers will be with his family/friends all in mind.
Mary Ann Quanz-Cotter/Quanz family

Meg Williams

October 17, 2007

Ted you will be missed more than you know. No matter what was going on you were always a pillar of strength and could find a humorous side to anything. I will miss your smile and your laughter. To those left behind, find strength in the memories of a man bigger than life. God bless, my thoughts and prayers are with all whose heart Ted touched.

Lisa DeMetsenaere

October 17, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lisa Jones

October 17, 2007

To the Shaver family. My deepest condolence. I feel like part of my heart has been tooken away. Ted is more than just a friend. He is a very loving,,strong,unique man. Ted is one of a kind. I feel blessed to have been giving the oppurunity to have him in my life. He will be truely missed. Luv Always.

Dawn (Arber) Traxler

October 17, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the entire Shaver family. Ted will always be one of the "big boys" on bus 16 that didn't pick on me when I was little. THANK YOU!!!

Tom Sharpe

October 16, 2007

We're going to miss you at the ROC Ted. Everyone's friend and a nice word for word for everyone. You will be missed much buddy.

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