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Barbara Findlay Obituary
Webster: Monday, November 12, 2007, at age 54. After a courageous battle with cancer, Barbara passed away peacefully while surrounded by family.
Barbara was a member of the First Presbyterian Church of Ontario, a school counselor at Harris Hill Elementary in Penfield and an unfaltering source of love and compassion for many. She is predeceased by her parents, Dick and Pat Johnson. She is survived by her husband, Ron Findlay; daughters, Vanessa and Chelsea Findlay; sisters, Deb Smith (Jim), Janie Wright (Rick); brother, Ron Johnson (Janet); nephews, Nick and Cody Wright; best friends, Sandy and Mike Kane.
A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, November 17th, 2007, 3 PM at the United Methodist Church of Webster, 169 East Main Street. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made via mail, e-mail or phone to: The National Brain Tumor Foundation, 22 Battery Street, Suite 612, San Francisco, CA 94111-5520, www.braintumor.org/DonateNow, 800-934-2873. Those attending the memorial are encouraged to wear bright colors in celebration of Barbara's life. Please bring a written memory or photo of Barbara for the family's memory book or to share at the memorial service if you would like. The family would like to thank people for their love and friendship over the past 17 months and for their continued support during this difficult time. To light a candle, visit: www.anthonychapels.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Findlay
Anmarie Rizzo
November 21, 2007
Barb was always such a positive spirit and wonderful person to be around. I am saddened by the news of her passing. God Bless you and your family
Jessica Herrmann
November 16, 2007
It has been a whirlwind of beautiful experiences growing up 'just around the corner' from the Findlay Family.
Your Mother and your family will always be close to my soul.
I will always remember her soft hands, her gentle demenor, and the way she said "Vanessa!" when we were growing up :) Mrs. Findlay will be missed, always. With all my love and all my heart. -Jessica Herrmann
Eliza Meyer (Hunt)
November 16, 2007
To the Findlays and the Johnsons,
I wanted to pass along my deepest sympathy to your family. It has been many years, but I can still see Barbie sitting on the couch in the family room on Westwood reading to Vanessa. Please know your family is in my prayers.
Tim Pinckney
November 15, 2007
Ron: I just saw the notice. Please accept my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Tim Pinckney
Steve & Chris Gambino
November 15, 2007
We send our love and prayers to all of Barbara's family and friends. We met Barbara in Raleigh via Bill and knew then and there that she was someone very special. Although time will separate you, eternity will bring all of us together again. In the meantime, with gratitude, we will remember the good and the joy that she brought to so many.
Jodi Casey
November 15, 2007
Ron, Vanessa & Chelsea - We are so sorry for you loss. Barb was a wonderful person and will be truly missed by everyone who was fortunate enough to know her. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love Jodi, KC, Jolyne & Christopher
Dan Starr
November 15, 2007
I was saddened to hear of Barb's death. I know she struggled for quite some time. She was a good counselor and a good person during the time I knew her in Williamson. My prayers are extended to her family during the weeks and months ahead.
Jake Pellicciotti
November 14, 2007
Hi guys,
Mrs. Findlay was the best counselor I ever met. I will really miss her and I hope you will be okay.:(
Jessica Pellicciotti
November 14, 2007
Dear Findlay family,
I will miss Mrs. Findlay alot. I enjoyed the banana split we had together the last day of club. She was a very nice person. I will be thinking about her.
Loron Oster
November 14, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of Barb's death. I think she helped "save" my life as I struggled to find ways to grow away from eating disordered thinking and actions. She was warm professional, welcoming and I learned so much from her. I know she will be greatly missed and feel blessed to have known her. My prayers are with you!
Michael Gotte
November 14, 2007
To Mr. Findlay and your daughters,
I am very sad to hear about Mrs. Findlay. She was a great person and always helped me with whatever I needed at Harris Hill. She would always make me laugh when I was sad or upset. She really helped me believe in myself more. My thoughts are with you during this sad time. I will miss her a lot!!!!!!!!!!!
From,
Michael Gotte
Mary Beth, Ted & Amanda Lacy
November 14, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Our prayers and love are with all of you at this sad time.
Harry and Mary Ann Chorpenning
November 14, 2007
We were so sorry to learn that Barb had passed away. She was a really special woman, and we'll miss her too. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Harry and Mary Ann Chorpenning
Thelma Hill
November 14, 2007
Through her brother-in-la Bill Findlay, I met Barbara and knew why Bill thought so much of her. It is hoped that her family knows that Barbara's soul is safe with our Lord and Savior and we will see her at resurrection.
William Begley
November 14, 2007
Ron, Vanessa & Chelsea: Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your wife and mother. We are at a loss for words to fully describe the sorrow we feel. Barb will always have a special place in our hearts; we loved her dearly. We still remember well when we first met, our first get together, the many times that followed and the fun we shared. Those times will always be in our thoughts.
William & Mary, Liam & Niall Begley.
Evelyn Laboy
November 14, 2007
Dear Ron, Vanessa and Chelsea,
I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling. Barb couldn't be more proud of her family! Everyone should be blessed to know a lady like Barb. She will always have a special place in our hearts. God Bless You and bring you Peace.
Love,
Ev, Brandon and Rachel
Gary, Mary, Cathy & William Findlay
November 14, 2007
Ron,
Our prayers are with you and the girls. Barb was a loving and caring sister-in-law and friend. We will always remember her love and many 'hugs'.
Love
Bill Worthington
November 14, 2007
Susan and I are saddened by the loss of Barb. I've reflected on so many happy times as next door neighbors growing up with all of the Johnsons as part of our extended family. We offer our deepest sympathies to Ron, Vanessa, Chelsie, and all of the Johnson family.
Sincerely,
Bill & Susan Worthington
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