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Fred Watt Butler 1933 ~ 2008 Cherished husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, Fred Watt Butler, of Cedar Hills, Utah, age 75, left us on Sept. 14, 2008. Born April 30, 1933 in Wellington, Utah. Married the love of his life, Sally Brette Simmons. They danced their way from being Lagoon Ballroom Jitterbug Champions in 1953 to marriage in the Manti LDS Temple in 1954, and then through the next 54 years dancing through life together. "This is the true measure of love, when we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, and that no one will ever love in the same way after us." --Goethe Fred served in the U.S. army, revered four time scoutmaster, and greatly loved Little League coach. Our family "rock," always, who sacrificed everything for his family with a love and dedication unsurpassed. Devoted member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who faithfully served in many church callings. Preceded in death by sons, Jeff and Brad, and survived by wife, Sally; son, Greg; daughter, Taffi; daughter, Keelee; daughter, Marcie, nine grandchildren, Eric, Amber, Ryan, Ashley, Sara, Emily, Ben, Jon and Annie; and two great-grand-children, Vivian and one on the way, and Jordan, who stand as one in love and "Salute!" him (means I love you; don't forget it!) Funeral services for Fred will be held Fri., September 19, 2008 at 1 p.m. in the Cedar Hills 10th LDS Ward Chapel, 9737 North Chesterfield Drive, Cedar Hills, Utah. Family and friends may call on Thurs. evening from 6-8 p.m. at Warenski Funeral Home, 1776 N. 900 E., American Fork, Utah. and at an additional viewing at the church on Fri. afternoon from 12-12:45 a.m. prior to services.

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Published by Deseret News on Sep. 16, 2008.

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Frederik Dissel

September 29, 2008

Hello Butler Family,
I am Frederik Dissel and worked at Rocky Mountain many years ago. I have great memories of Fred. I was a young teenager in those years and he was always a great influence for good. One of my most vivid memories of Fred is when he talked to me at work and said he wanted to do something nice for my parents. I remember he came over early on a Saturday morning and helped me paint our patio as a surprise for my folks. Fred and my father, Mels, worked together. I also remember my mother, Gonny, who always thought so highly of Sally.
May I express my appreciation for Fred and Sally and make note that I'm sure there are so many others who have fond memories of Fred and his goodness. Please accept my sympathies and well-wishes as you deal with his passing. May heaven shower you with tender healings.
Frederik Dissel

Ron Vandermyde

September 21, 2008

Sally and Family,

My mother told me about Fred's passing. It immediately brought a flood of memories from boyhood years, with Fred as my Scoutmaster and mentor, and Greg as my good friend. Those were cherished, wonderful memories in an otherwise difficult time for our family. I am so sad that I could not attend the funeral or viewing. Please accept my love and appreciation for your valuable friendship early in my life. I loved Fred, and cherish my memories of him as I do those memories of your entire family.

Peace will come, and the good memories will remain. Thankfully we know what we know, as the void left at Fred's death is bridged by the hope of what is to come.

Teresa Wolfe

September 19, 2008

Taffi,
I am so sorry for your loss of your dad, you said to me he was your best friend. Don't be sad you are loved by many!!! I will always be here for you if you need a shoulder to cry on or just a hug. I hope you and your family the best and may God be with you in your time of need. Best wishes from the crew here at Meadowbrook
Love always,

Carol Prince

September 18, 2008

Sally, I was so shocked to hear about Fred. You and your family were blessed to have had such a wonderful husband and father. We will all miss him so much, I am so glad I got back in time to be with you. All my love.

Vonny Stuart

September 18, 2008

Fred always understood how 'still waters' flow. I respected his strength and resolve and observances. Marci and Keelee, I am so sorry for your loss, but Fred lives on in you and your little ones. Sally, 'adopted big sis', I love you so much and I know you'll be ok. A love like the two of you had is rare these days and I feel privileged to have gone on a portion of this life's journey with you and Fred. Please come and visit us. Love, your 'adopted little sis', Von

Angie Lindquist

September 18, 2008

My dear friend Keelee,
I know you have been through a lot of adversity lately, however this has to be the worse thing that has happened in your life...I can't even imagine losing a parent. I know you and your dad were very close and he will always be with you. As you told me when we talked on the phone, your priority now is to be a great source of support for your mom, but I also hope you remember to be good to yourself during this hard time. I will always be there for you! Don't hesitate to let me know if you need anything!! My deepest sympathies to your family...
Love,
Angie

julie briggs

September 18, 2008

Dear Marci and Jared and family, so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. We are praying for you. Love, Rob and Julie Briggs (Steve & Emily's mom & dad)

Larry Morris

September 18, 2008

When you say the name Fred Butler you immediately think of "A Rock" of a man who knew the true purpose of life. Stalwart in his beliefs and direction in life and a true example to those who sought his guidance, love and understanding. Thank You Sally, Fred and family for what you have meant in my life.

Louise Wilhite

September 17, 2008

We will truly miss our wonderful neighbor who knew how to grow trees better than anyone in our area. We love Sally also and will keep an eye on her and her house in case she needs us. Love, Louise and Bill Wilhite

Elmer Reaveley

September 17, 2008

Oh, Sally, I am so sorry for our loss, I am so in Denial. It was such a pleasure to see you both, and visit at the Hiawatha Reunion. I know Fred will be missed by all who ever knew him, but most by You! You are Loved!

Jodi Mascaro

September 17, 2008

Sally and Family I remember times at good ole Aunt Thelma and Aunt Elsie's. Owen was around Tammy Sally Fred ..My dear crazy mom loved to bring us there.(Charmaine). I wanted to say I'm sorry and would love to hear from you all. My mom and Fred will have some great talks I'm Sure...Jodi Mascaro Helper, Utah

Irene (Christensen) Dougherty

September 17, 2008

Dear Sally & family, Our thoughts & prayers are with you during the difficult days and weeks ahead....we are saddened about the passing away of your beloved Fred. I'm sorry we missed the Hiawatha Reunion Day this year..we might have been able to meet him. Fred's picture looks familiar to us...like we have seen you both in the Sealing Office on Tuesdays in the Mt. Timpanogos Temple?? May Heavenly Father wrap his arms around you & comfort you. Love, Irene (Christensen) & Mike Dougherty.

Dorothy O. Busath

September 16, 2008

Sally and family, We Have such fond memories of Fred and Sally and family. We pray that the Lord will bless and comfort you. We love you and remember you!
Dorothy Busath and Family

Randie Jones

September 16, 2008

Sally and Family,

Our thoughts are with you during this time. We will miss you Uncle Freddy!! May your next dance be with Tink.

Love and kisses

Ricky & B Morris

Myrna Wallace

September 16, 2008

Dear Sally and family....I'm so sorry for your loss of your Great husband Fred. I'm so glad I had a chance to see you both at the Hiawatha reunion. My condolances go out to all of you. May God Bless and keep you close to each other during these tough times! Your Hiawatha friend,
Myrna

Tam Morris

September 16, 2008

Fred... Always my Hero! Can this be true? From bouncing on your knee those many, many long years ago... to our last "heart-to-heart"... you and Sal, always my "safe place to land!" Your wise counsel, advice and support got me through some very tough "life times". Hugs and a kiss on your forehead until we dance again soon. Salute! o> XOXOXO

P.S. We won't do it nearly as well as you did... but we'll all sure try to look after your Sweetheart! I know you'll be close, watching over her, as always. Love You Forever!

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Susan Northington

September 16, 2008

My love and prayers are with you all at this sad time. Taffi, be sure to call me anytime that you need me. I will be here for you and help you in any way that I can. My love to you all - I will miss Fred and his cheery smile.

Amanda Knorr

September 16, 2008

I'm going to miss my Uncle Freddy.
Hugs and kisses...salute, and I love you all!

Mandi and Family

Jack Dunn

September 16, 2008

Dear Butler Family,

We were saddened to hear of Fred's passing. He was our Scoutmaster in the South Cottonwood 6th Ward. We had many great experiences with him. He was a wonderful example for us.

We pray Heavenly Father will comfort you at this time.

Sincerely,

The Don and Betty Dunn Family

Jack, Linn, Robert

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