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R. Paul Cracroft "P.C." Ironic, huh? First time my pic's run in the paper in years, and I'm not around to clip the obit. Tough! I was called up by heart trouble, cancer, diabetes, etc. elderly man stuff. But few have had a more delightful time on Earth than I and you can bet your last buck I'd have hung around, given a choice. I was born at home at 821 Markea Ave. in Salt Lake City on Oct. 7, 1922, to Ralph and Grace Darling White Cracroft. I was educated at Wasatch, Bryant Jr. and East High schools where I made many lifelong friends. I decided at age 13 that I wanted to write. At 16 I was elected editor of East High's Red & Black for 1939 and won the first All-American rating for a high school paper in Utah's history. After working for a year to save the exorbitant tuition costs at the University of Utah ($30 per quarter during the Depression!), I enrolled there, majoring in English and writing for all of the student publications, winning campus and regional honors and editing the literary magazine, Pen, in 1948. My friend Heber Hart arranged a fateful blind date for me on Aug. 23, 1941, with Kathryn Storrs. She and I celebrated our 63rd wedding anniversary in 2007. From June 1942 to July 1944, I served in the North Central States mission, headquartered in Minneapolis. If the field was white and ready to harvest, I must have served out-of-season, but I enjoyed my 25 months away from my lady-in-waiting, making few converts besides myself. When I returned home in late July 1944, the draft board all but met my bus. Kay and I were married in the Salt Lake Temple by Elder (later President) Harold B. Lee on Aug. 16, 1944. Then I donned the uniform of a buck private at Ft. Douglas to train at Camp Roberts, CA. Kay went with me. When the Battle of the Bulge hit at Christmastime 1944, I was sent to Ft. Benning, GA, where I was commissioned a shavetail lieutenant. I shipped out on Aug. 12, 1945, on the USS George Clymer for what I later learned was the planned invasion of Japan. Messrs. Tojo and Hirohito had learned I was coming, so in wise terror, they surrendered when I was just two days at sea. Re-entering college in January 1947 (BA '48, MA '54), I worked as a reporter for The Salt Lake Tribune and then for Parry Sorensen as assistant director of public relations at the "U." From 1951 to 1955, I served in Washington, D.C., as first press secretary to the late Senator Wallace F. Bennett. Returning to the "U" in 1955, I worked for more than 35 years in public relations as executive director of the Alumni Association, director of Lectures and Concerts, instructor in Journalism and, until my retirement in 1990, as manager of Kingsbury Hall. In this last position I initiated the first serious considerations that led to renovation of that great hall. From 1959-1973, I hosted "Retrospect," a news analysis show on KUED, Channel 7, which, in those early years, made it the longest-running sustained weekly program on the educational channel. Walter Cronkite I was not, but then he was no Paul Cracroft! For 36 years I also served as statistician for the U's home football games, typing play-by-plays and spotting for Paul James at "away" games during many of those years. As an active member of the LDS Church, I have been blessed to serve twice as a member of the High Council of the University of Utah Stake, twice as a bishopric counselor, Bishop of the Parleys Fourth Ward (1977-1982), and Parleys Stake high councilman. I helped write the History of Parleys Stake from its official founding in 1958 to 2000. I have been an officer or teacher in all Church auxiliaries since I was 16. For four years, I was primary caregiver to my sweet Kay during her onset of Alzheimer's Disease until September 2004, when I underwent surprise surgery for a malignant thymus coupled with six-bypass heart surgery. There followed five weeks of radiation and months of rehab to learn how to walk and regain balance and how to talk and swallow again, thanks to a paralyzed vocal chord. My scratchy voice led me to rename myself "Golden Throat." Wherever life has taken me, I've kept writing. In 1979 I published A Certain Testimony, a 479-page epic poem based on the Book of Mormon. I have written several plays. Sam's Place dealt with the history of Sam Weller's Zion Book Store and was staged by both City Rep and the Babcock Performing Readers at the "U." Later the BPR staged Letter Perfect, a mixture of fact and fiction told through a long exchange of letters. Officer's Mess dealt with a personal experience during the occupation of Japan. Another play, Escape to Freedom, tells the true story of feisty Liuda Avizonis, who led her family out of Lithuania when she was just six years old, past Russian and German soldiers. In the days just before my death, I was putting the finishing touches on yet another play, Shadows on the Moon, based on the scriptural account of Coriantumr. I fully expect that I am now reunited with my sweetheart Kay, who passed away in September 2007, and with grandsons Thomas Paul and Bryant Jeffrey Parker, who left us early to gather bricks for our mansion in heaven. Immediate family who also did not "go gentle into that good night" are my parents and older brother Laurance White Cracroft. I hope to see the rest of you later! I leave behind my sister Helen Grace Cracroft White and my brother Richard H. (Janice) Cracroft; my children, Kathy (Don) Wilhelmsen, Shauni (Kent) Young, Patricia (Kent) Parker, David (Terese) Cracroft, Paul Jeffry (Kathryn) Cracroft, and Randy (Gwen) Cracroft; 19 grandchildren and 11 great-grand children. Funeral services will be Saturday, Feb. 16, 2008, at 11:00 a.m., at Parley's 4th Ward chapel, 1870 E. Parley's Canyon Blvd. (2330 South), Salt Lake City. Friends may visit with family Friday, Feb. 15, 2008, from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m., at Wasatch Lawn Mortuary, 3401 S. Highland Drive, Salt Lake City, and at the church from 9:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. prior to the services. Condolences may be extended online at www.mem.com Since I can no longer write letters to the editor, this obituary will be my last hurrah!

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Published by Deseret News from Feb. 13 to Feb. 15, 2008.

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Karl Ryser Jr.

February 27, 2008

Dear Cracrofts- I was touched by your fathers self written obit. It was so like the Paul I knew from my youth. As a skinny scrawny young boy - Paul jr and I were the best of friends. I remember distinctly when the other boys in the neighborhood were teasing and making fun of me- Paul Sr. pulled me aside -very discretely - and told me to take heart- that I could be a real success in all my pursuits. He was such a voice of optimisim and strength. That strength resides with me today -his wonderful example will never fade. Thanks for sharing your Dad with us.

Colleen Hewlett

February 25, 2008

Dave & Terese and all the Cracrofts: I just learned about your Dad's passing today - I was busy having surgery on Friday, the 15th of February and just missed it. I'm so sorry - what a delight your Dad was! He left bits of his personality behind in at least one son (Dave) - and I'm sure you all have the very best of his qualities along with your Mom's. We love you and wish to extend our best wishes for peace as you say "goodbye". Love, Ernie and Colleen Hewlett

Jana Johnson

February 20, 2008

Dear Cracroft Family,

What a wonderful thing that Paul is together again with Kay. While we're sad to see him go, we'll miss his hugs and humor, we know he has missed his bride.

The Cracrofts were such a great example to everyone in the Parleys 4th Ward. We'll miss them swimming in our pool! What great fun they are. You've help to make our neighborhood wonderful!

Love you Paul and Cracrofts!
Brad and Jana Johnson

Madlyn (Gillespie) and Steve Tanner

February 19, 2008

The Paul Cracroft family was very dear to Bill and Norma Gillespie who shared fond memories and experiences in the Parley's 4th Ward. They often remarked to family members how they appreciated and were schooled by Paul's wit, sense of humor, and optimistic spirit. We have been honored with a 40+ year friendship with Dick and Janice Cracroft, and thus admiration for the Cracrofts expands and grows. We express our sincere sympathies on the loss of such a one as Paul Cracroft. Truly a remarkable human being.

Charlie English

February 19, 2008

I want you to know how Paul affected me early in my career. I was a new salesperson at the U of U Chronicle and he told me I was the best salespersons he had ever met. I had only been selling one month at the time. I now have sold over 39 years and I still remember his kind words. He was one in a million.

Karen Carlson

February 18, 2008

My sincere condolences to the Cracroft family. Paul was a wonderful, sweet-hearted man. What a great neighbor and friend. He was truly one of the finest people I have ever known. I will miss him very much.
Karen Kirkham Carlson

Chuck Binkerd

February 16, 2008

To Cracroft family, especilly Dave & Terese:

My thoughts and prayers with both you and your family at this time. Paul was a special man. I only met him once, but I also heard him speak at stake conference a couple of times. He was an inspirational man-"A Man For All Seasons". His influence on thousands of students and people that he came in contact with will be felt in the decades to come.

Paul Gibbs

February 16, 2008

It's great to read one last Paul Cracroft epic, and this time,telling his life story. To the very end, never at a losss for words. His wit, his kindness, and his sense of humor will be missed,but not forgotten. When I get to the afterlife, I'll look for his review.

Jen, Tom ,Izak , Jake . Lukas and Kira Erekson

February 16, 2008

Dear Family,
We were sorry to hear about Uncle Paul, but we are so grateful he is with Aunt Kay again. He was always so fun to be around and made us feel so loved no matter how long it had been between visits.
We are sorry we didn't get to visit with you this weeekend, but we are fighting a "bug" and didn't want to share! We love you!

Kenneth Brown

February 16, 2008

Dear Cracroft family

I have known Paul and his brother Richard for over 50 years and have loved them and their parents. I'm sorry Paul is gone, but when we are beckoned, we go.

Best wishes and condolences to all family members.

Ken and Beth Brown

Jennifer Hohl

February 15, 2008

Dear Aunt Patty,
I loved your dad...I always got such a kick out of his writings and when I got to talk to him in person! Such a wit! My thoughts and prayers are with you, Uncle Kent, and your growing family. With love, Jennifer

February 15, 2008

Dear Cracroft Family,
My sincere condolences to you all. The world was brightened and enriched by the life of this humble Renaissance man. I'm grateful to have been a part of the loving circle that your parents spread so widely. I will always cherish the bits of their spirits that I still have: wonderful memories, a song, playbills, a popcorn ball recipe, and my first author-signed book.

Love,
Charlene Durham and family

Stephen Cracroft

Stephen Cracroft

February 15, 2008

To the amazing family of Paul Cracroft,
I express my deepest sympathies to you at this time of Paul's passing. Although I am a distant relative, I didn't have the opportunity of meeting Paul, or his brother, Richard, until I was in my twenties. I didn't really have the opportunity to get to know Paul until much later, when we were both associated with City Rep (now the Children's Theater of Utah). I felt privileged beyond measure when Paul invited me to be in the City Rep readers theater production of his play, Sam's Place.

Although it was at another sad time in your lives, I was really glad to have been able to meet so many of you at your mother's funeral which took place not too long ago. Yours is a wonderful and talented branch of the family tree, and I am honored to be able to claim you as relatives.

I find the timing of Paul's passing to be excellent, since I know that he and his dear wife were reunited on Valentine's Day. I know he missed her terribly, despite his happy countenance, and I know that he and Kay had a joyful reunion.

I love you all and ask that the Lord's comforting blessings be with you.

Sincerely,
Stephen Cracroft

Lynnette Shipp

February 15, 2008

Pat and Kent and family, Your Dad's obituary was a delight to read. I am sorry I didn't know him personally. You have been truly blessed. It is such a blessing to have the gospel at a time as this. Our love to you and your family. Much Love

Susan Marzec

February 15, 2008

Dear Cracroft Family,
I didn't know Paul but the minute I read his story - in his own words as they say - I said, "Darn. He beat me to it." I've also written my own obit. - in the first person and I think Paul said it all. Obviously, he was a great writer and a wonderful person. Love the way he told it.

Don Swenson

February 14, 2008

Dear Dave, Terese and family, Nola and I are in St. George. We came upon your Dad's obituary this evening. What a legacy he leaves for you. His wit, talents, and humor were amazing. We had no idea of all of his accomplishments. We can see where Dave gets his sense of humor and wit. Know that we love you all and send you our sympathy and love at this time. We know that you were very proud of who he was and can understand why. Love, Don & Nola Swenson

Sherri Bird

February 14, 2008

Dear Cracroft cousins,
My thoughts are with all of you at this time. I just wanted you to know how happy I am for Uncle Paul to be with Aunt Kay on Valentine's Day. I am sure she didn't want to spend a Valentine's day without him. Uncle Paul holds a special place in my heart.
Love, Sherri, Ray, Trey and Keaton

Mary Laura Wilhelmsen

February 14, 2008

Grandpa,
I still can't believe you're gone, but I know that your charming presence will always abide with us and the many people whose lives you've enriched. I am grateful to be your posterity and your devoted children are a living legacy to your positive influence. Give Grandma hugs and kisses xoxo for me!! Until we meet again...
Mary Laura

Joe Mortensen Family

February 14, 2008

Dear Cracrofts, So sad to hear of Paul's passing but delighted to know he and Kay are together again. Our condolances for your loss, our prayers are with you.

Kaye Lund Wilson

February 14, 2008

Paul's brother, Laurie, was married to my mother's sister, Kathryn. He was a comedian and great writer as I realize so was his brother, Paul, after reading his obituary. We will all miss the Cracroft humor! I am sorry I did not get to meet Paul.

B.Gene Gonzalez

February 14, 2008

I enjoyed the terrific write-up on Mr. Cracroft before I found out he was the father of my Relief Society President..What a great life and a wonderful heritage to leave to your children.

Anne Cullimore Decker

February 14, 2008

Trust me, there will be plenty of us clipping your obituary, Paul, as an example of the perfect obit. Only you could have written such a gem which typifies the kind of person you were right to the very end. What wonderful memories we all have of you at Kingsbury Hall, KUED, Alumni Associaion events, letters, articles
in the SLTribune, and many other places. You are the epitome of a well educated man from our beloved University of Utah. Your positure outlook on life with your genuine humor has set an example to all of us. It was a privilege knowing you.May "flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."

February 14, 2008

what a wonderful tribute to this wonderful man...although i didn't know him, i feel i really missed out!we all need such a such a person in our lives. sincere condelences to the family....

Drew Cherrington

February 14, 2008

What a kind and tender hearted man. I knew Paul through the Parley's 4th ward. I had the opportunity to work with Paul as part of our missionary efforts. Even at his age, he approached this calling with determination and love for all those he came in contact with. He will be greatly missed.

Dwight and Jillyn Epperson

February 14, 2008

Dear Cracroft Family,

Paul was such a wonderful neighbor and friend. For eleven years (1993-2004) we enjoyed his candor and wit in the High Priest Group of the Parleys 4th Ward. Some of those years were especially difficult for him, but you would never know it from his countenance or demeanor. He shared some remarkable thoughts with us on many subjects, particularly about celestial marriage with his sweet wife, that were unforgetable. You have our sincere sympathies.

elaine emmi

February 13, 2008

To the Cracroft Family,
Love and hugs to Dave, Terese and family as you celebrate the amazing life of Paul!
Elaine & Phil in SLC and Matt in Boulder

jessa knight

February 13, 2008

you sound like a wonderful person mr. cracroft. my prayers are wih you and your family. i read your obiturary and felt i knew you. rest in peace mr cracroft and i am sure there was a happy reunion in heaven

Keely Cofrin Allen

February 13, 2008

Rest in peace Paul and condolences to your family. You sound like you were a delightful person and I'm sure heaven is even better for you being there!

Bill Fowler

February 13, 2008

I loved my journalism classes from Paul. He was a superb teacher and great "Ute." I have thought of him
hundreds of times through the years. Bill Fowler, Ute Footballer from the 60's. My prayers to his family.

Ben Parker

February 13, 2008

This has to be the coolest obituary ever. I mean, who gets to write their own? Once again I'm blown away again by Brother Cracroft's humor. I'm still laughing as I write this. I enjoyed the countless years of your lavish praise on our humble community theatre whether we deserved it or not. Your humor and wit will be missed. Thanks for all the stories about Japan and the connection we shared. See you on the other side. Cheeky to the very end! I love it.

February 13, 2008

Although I don't personally know your father, as a U of U alumni I came to know his name. What a tribute to a great person! As I know there is humor wherever you look for it, I know that he will keep the angels' laughter afloat until we can all be reunited with loved ones again! What an inspiration to read his obit!

Connie

February 13, 2008

Dearest Cracroft Family,

My deepest condolences are for each one of you for such a great loss. What an awesome spirit who brought such joy to my daily reading. Thank you P.C. for doing that, as I needed to be lifted today. Thank you for touching my life as I'm sure you touched many lives besides mine whom you have not met; and lucky for them.

Lovingly,
Connie

Justin Cracroft

February 13, 2008

Grandpa,

You were most often not unpredictable in life, so your decision to leave this mucky mid-winter gray landscape for Paradise took us all by surprise. We're sure from your present perspective the trade off was well worth it, and we're delighted for your reunion on the other side!

Thank you for your example in life! You lived it well and fully. We love you and will miss you.

Dad, Kathy, Shauni, Paul & Randy, you are to be commended for being such great care givers. I'm certain Grandpa would extend his thanks. We are also grateful for your stalwart examples. Though you will all be feeling most heavy about this event, our prayers are for your comfort and peace.

Love,

Justin, Amanda, Caitlin & Will Cracroft

Tom Monfrooy

February 13, 2008

Sound like quite a gentleman. Sorry for your loss.

Norven Storrs

February 13, 2008

My buddy.....Hope to join you soon.
Love, Norven

Bob Callister

February 13, 2008

My sincere condolences to Paul's family. I first met Paul in the first day of Kindergarten at the Wasatch School. We bonded immediately and have been friends ever since. Although I have spent almost all my life in California Paul and I have kept in touch throughout the years. Paul was one of the most talented, energetic, sincere, likable persons I have ever known. He alwsys spoke lovingly of Kay and his family. And he had a deep testimony of the Gospel. We'll miss him greatly.

Darrell Orgill

February 13, 2008

Did you know, when you smile and cry at the same time your smile diverts the tears from cascading to your tie?

Thanks, Paul.

Jo Ellen Ashworth

February 13, 2008

I know Paul Cracroft only by name and fame, but his obituary is probably the best I've ever read--and I've read a lot of obituaries. I really enjoyed it and laughed out loud while I read it. Condolences to his family on the loss of such a bright spark.

Charlene Bradley

February 12, 2008

Dear Family,
I just want to express my love for Uncle Paul. One thing I will miss is his entertaining Christmas letters. I am so grateful for the gospel and know that he is with Aunt Kay. My thoughts and prayers are with his kids and grandkids at this time.
Love,
Charlene Bradley

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