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Janet Flaherty
November 8, 2020
Dear Deborah and the Barlow Family, I will always remember Elizabeth's (Mrs. Barlow to us then) liveliness and generous energy. She was the heart of you all. She was always in high gear, busy with life, which she seemed to love. She always welcomed Deborah's friends and I loved spending time there, with Rebecca playing piano, the younger noise makers, and us, with our music. She was passionate, with a big presence, and once, we surprised her and Mr. Barlow making out on the sofa, which they did often, we heard. They didn't care. They were still in love. I hope they found each other's arms again. She lived her life fully and loved it all. I remember you all with love, Janet Flaherty
Kaaren Nokleby Fisher
October 14, 2007
Dearest Barlow Family,
I wanted you to know how much your dear mother meant to me and the Nokleby Family. Hope you know how much we loved David too. I grew up listening to stories of David and Elizabeth in college, in Boston, in California, and so on. Elizabeth is so dear to us. She always felt like a second mom to me. She made anyone she met feel so special. So positive and so fun. Mom (Rusty) couldn't have had a dearer, more wonderful friend. It was so fun to see Mom and Elizabeth being able to laugh and enjoy each other in Boise when Dad had passed away last June, eventhough Mom suffers from Alzheimers. There was a special bond between them. What an amazing woman Elizabeth was. And how lucky are those on the other side to be with her. How wonderful that she and her best sweetheart are together. I adored Elizabeth and love the Barlow family and your dearest Dad. What a blessing to know you will all be together one day. Was so sorry I wasn't able to be in SLC for her funeral. Love to you all.
Love, Kaaren Nokleby Fisher
Paul & Deanna Young
October 10, 2007
Dear Tom, Jonathan, and family,
I just learned of your Mother's passing today and feel bad that I have missed the opportunity to greet you personally at this tender time.
I ask that you will be blessed to feel the peace that the Gospel brings, and retain every wonderful memory of your Mother until you are able to hold her in your arms again.
Best wishes to you,
My mother, Alice Shields, and me on a recent visit.
Karen Nations
October 10, 2007
Dear Betsy and all the rest of Elizabeth and David's children,
I have such wonderful memories of so many times in your childhood home in Redwood City. I thought that your mother's sugar cookies were the best. I remember how your mother kept a plate of food all prepared for your father when he was gone late taking care of stake business. Then when he came home I saw her get his plate of food that she had kept warm, set it down on the table for him, and then sit down with him as he ate. I don’t know if she always did that, but I've never forgotten it. I thought that her actions showed sincere love when she did that little act of service for him. I could just tell that she loved him in other ways too. How wonderful that they can finally be together again. I’m sure that you will all miss her.
God bless you all.
Love, Karen Shields Nations
Susan Schulthies
October 6, 2007
My Barlow Cousins and their Families,
I want to express my love and appreciation to each one of you for the love and kindness you have shared with me throughout my life especially, the last 2 1/2 months since your mother's accident. You have included me in your joys and heartaches. I wouldn't trade the time I was able to spend with her, I only wish I could have spent more. I enjoyed laughing, reading and singing with her. The time I spent with your dear mother will be cherished as some of my life's most treasured experiences. I love her, I respect her, and feel so blessed to have had her a part of my life. In many ways I felt like the 8th child. I have years of wonderful memories with her, as well as your father and her dear husband, David. I miss you Aunt Elizabeth but, have peace knowing you are with your Eternal Sweetheart. Thank you for your love, support and example. I love your children and want to stay close to them! I know how much your family means to you. Until We Meet Again! I love you, Aunt Elizabeth!
Susan
Julie and Hazel Schwerin
October 6, 2007
Our thoughts, prayers, and love are with Deborah, David, Bryce, Kellin, and Clayton at this time of the loss of Deborah's mother. We know she will live in your hearts as a woman of true grace and we are sure she is as proud of you as she could be. You will have our friendship, love, and admiration now and always.
Matrina Barry
October 5, 2007
My love, thoughts, and prayers are with the Barlow family. Elizabeth
"Mema" was a gracious, beautiful lady and will be missed by everyone.
May you be blessed with the comfort and peace the gospel always brings.
Love, Matrina Barry
Diana Johnson
October 5, 2007
My deepest Sympathy for your loss. I never knew Elizabeth but in reading about her attributes; a loving wife, devoted mother, a confidant and friend who genuinely is interested in you, who loves art and literature, someone who makes a difference in knowing her and leaves a footprint that you want to follow, I realize I have met her in her daughter Deborah, and I have seen glimpses of her in my brief encounters with Betsy and Rebecca. Somehow I feel I will meet her many times in the people who knew her.
Love, Diana
Terry & Eileen Wilcox
October 4, 2007
What a Grand Lady! We will ever be grateful for her love and hospitality at the most difficult time of our lives. Her life was such a wonderful example to us all. She has left a beautiful legacy and example for all of us who were privileged to know her.
May the Lord bless her descendants with her continued influence.
Gerry Wright Young
October 4, 2007
Hi to my Barlow friends,
Your mom and dad have always been some of my favorite people from Redwood City and San Carlos. I spent many hours over at your house, babysitting and visiting. Your Mom was such a lady; so sweet, friendly, and always interested in me and Fern and Bill.I know Fern and your Mom are having a great catch-up chat right now! My Dad is still alive and remarried down in St. George, Utah. He's 87.
I hope to see you at the funeral or viewing. Merlyn Leetham is the one that let me know about your dear mom's passing.
May the Lord bless you all with peace, comfort, and wonderful memories of your Mom and Dad. They are choice people that I love.
Love, Gerry Wright Young
Marilynn Ricks Bair
October 3, 2007
My family fondly remembers "Mema" through her daughter Betsy and husband Tim Ricks who is my brother in law. My children and I visited her home often when Tim and Betsy were visiting from NY, Elizabeth was always so charming, a wonderful hostess and fun too!
We send our love to all of the Barlow family and pray that the Comforting Spirit will be with you.
Marilynn M. Ricks-Bair and children
John Ricks, Ryan, Jeannette Adams, Michael, Wendy and Barry Ricks.
Sandy, Utah
Susan Walker Anderson
October 1, 2007
Bonnie called you "Mother B". Thank you for creating an environment that allowed Rebecca and Deborah and friends to laze away the days talking and laughing still in pajamas. You tried to get us to "mop and talk", but we would not. Thank you for creating space for friends of your children. I have always admired your love for your children, your energy and zest. Whenever we met, I felt your true interest in me and my family. I will miss you Mother B. My heart aches for those who love you and will miss you, especially Rebecca and Deborah and their families.
Linda Ohran Soderquist
October 1, 2007
Elizabeth Barlow and her husband David approached life with great enthusiasm. Elizabeth was most gracious to her family, her friends, and friends of family and friends. In short, she had room enough in her heart to love everyone. She was a wonderful, devoted wife and a kind loving mother. I know that she will be sorely missed by everyone, but especially by her children and grandchildren. What a joyful reunion is happening now with David. Hurrah, Elizabeth, for a life well lived! Condolences to her great family and friends.
Janet Flaherty
October 1, 2007
I remember, as a teenager, how passionately in love with her husband, her family and with life she was. I admired the strength of that passion and the endurance through the changing tides.
My sincere gratitude for the family she created that gave me one of my best friends in my life.
Please know that while I cannot be there, I always hold you in my heart. My deepest sympathy to Deborah, David and your family and all the Barlow family. She lives in all of you.
Love, Janet
Razovich Family
October 1, 2007
Our thoughts, prayers and love are with the Barlow family at this time.
Juana de Porres
October 1, 2007
To all the family, especially to Deborah, my most heartfelt thoughts that Elizabeth is now in a beautiful place that God has chosen for her. My prayers are always for her and her family.
Love,
Juana de Porres
Merrill Higham
October 1, 2007
Dear Barlow Family: Elizabeth is one of my most favorite people in the world. Her husband, David, called me to be a bishop and I've loved and admired both of them for decades. God bless you all.
Mark Dayton
September 30, 2007
Dear Barlow Family,
Although we are not directly related to Elizabeth, she has also left a wonderful legacy for us. Many of us have enjoyed the kind, generous, and gracious behavoir that so exemplified her life. We are grateful to have known her.
The Mark and Cynthia Dayton Family;
Jonathan, Lindsay, Joel, Britta, Jacob
Sylvia Wilcox
September 30, 2007
I met Elizabeth years ago when she lived in the Bay Area and visited her with her niece and my good friend Susan Call. She was so easy to get to know and I immediately liked her. Our paths crossed once or twice since she came back to Utah and she was always delightful. I know she will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to all of the family and extended family.
Karen Marshall
September 30, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathies. My vivid memories of Mrs. Barlow are of when I was in her home. With her cheerful attitude she always made me feel welcome. I was in the Barlow home many, many times as a child because Rebecca was my very best friend.
I have very fond memories of the Barlows and think of you often.
It broke my heart when the Barlows moved to California; but Mrs. Barlow graciously invited me and my sister, Ramona, for a stay at their beautiful home in Redwood City, She went out of her way to show us a good time in San Francisco and surrounding areas.
To lose a mother leaves a big void in your heart. But the memories of her, and the knowledge that you'll see her again, are so very comforting.
Regretfully, we have reservtions and a family reunion out of state at the very time of Elizabeth's viewing and funeral.
Until we meet again,
Karen (Gilbert) Marshall
Ramona Gilbert Rudert
September 30, 2007
Dear Call and Barlow Families,
Although many years have passed since I last saw Deborah, Rebecca or anyone from the Barlow family, I've enjoyed hearing your news occasionally from Susan Call Schultheis. However, it was while reading the Sunday paper over breakfast that I learned of Elizabeth's passing. Having lost both of my parents in recent years, I was saddened not only by your loss but by a sense of nearing the end of an era. There are precious few remaining of the old Val Verda generation of parents who had a hand in raising us all.
I have many fond memories of the warmth with which Elizabeth welcomed me into the Barlow home, whether in Val Verda, Bountiful or Redwood City. She was truly a gracious, witty and lovely lady. What a ready smile she had--and with such a wonderful, talented family, she had a lot to smile about!
I know Elizabeth leaves a great legacy and will be missed by all. My regrets for missing the services, but the Gilbert family reunion will take place at Yellowstone that morning, so unfortunately none of us will be able to attend. Please accept my sincerest condolences and greetings to your entire family.
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