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Carla Ann Iverson Welling

Carla Welling Obituary

Carla Ann Iverson Welling 1933 ~ 2006 Our family reverently rejoices over mom's heavenly reunion on September 20, 2006. She passed peacefully at home surrounded by her family. Carla was born May 27, 1933 to J. Grant and Mercedes Richards Iverson. She attended East High and the U of U where she was affiliated with Chi Omega and made many life-long friends. It was there she met her eternal companion, Duane B. Welling. They were married Sept. 21, 1953 in the Salt Lake Temple. She lived by her family motto, "The gospel's true and we love you" dedicating her life to her church, family and friends. She served with her husband presiding over the Iowa Des Moines Mission and in the temple presidency of the Bountiful Utah Temple. She also served in many ward and stake leadership positions including Stake Relief Society President, but perhaps her favorite calling was that of nursery leader. She loved family, friends, gardening, quilting, the Tabernacle Choir, knitting, holidays, U of U football and basketball, dipping and indulging in chocolate, missionaries, traveling, entertaining, playing the piano, being a grandma, the scriptures, the temple, and life in general. Her example and love will remain with many, including husband, Duane, children Wendy (Clark) Hodgkinson, Brad (Susan), Richard (Rosanne), Darrel (Kim), Kathy (Steve) Wilson, 26 grandchildren, six great-grand-children and brothers Craig (Charlene) Iverson and Scott (Gloria) Iverson. Funeral services will be held Monday, September 25, 2006 at 11:00 a.m. in the Mueller Park Stake Center, 1800 East Mueller Park Road (1800 South). Friends may call Sunday evening from 6-8 p.m. at Russon Brothers Mortuary, 295 North Main, Bountiful and Monday from 9-10:30 a.m. prior to services. Interment will be in the Bountiful Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the LDS missionary fund. The family would like to express gratitude to Dr. Chris Jackson and to so many who have offered prayers, love and support. Online guest book at www.russonmortuary.com.

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Published by Deseret News from Sep. 22 to Sep. 23, 2006.

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Mitch Hill

October 11, 2006

President Welling and Family,
Words just can't express the gratitude I have for your fine family. You were all an integral part in my upbringing. Thank goodness for a plan that tells me we can stay together. Love to all.
Mitch

Deniece Frei

October 10, 2006

Pres. Welling
I want to say how sorry I am at your lose. Those of us that knew her hold her in our hearts. I had the privilege to serve with you and her in Iowa. She showed me how to love. She knew how to love unconditionally, something that I'm trying to practice everyday.
The gospel is true and I love you.

Deniece Frei

Scott Williams

September 28, 2006

Dear, President Welling and Family.
our Family sends Love and condolences to your family at this time. i served in the Iowa Des Moines Mission and was it was my honor anr privolege to have the Wellings as one of our Presidents.
When i first met sister welling i knew she was a very loving spirit and she treated all of her missionaries as her own children and was always there for us, even after our missions. we will miss her but we will see her again.
her spirit will always shine.

Curtis Sharp

September 27, 2006

Dear Pres. Welling,

We were deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your sweet companion. Please know that you are in our prayers. The promises of the Atonment and Resurrection are true. The greatest legacy is an exampalary life, Sister Welling certainly left a wonderful legacy for so many to follow.

Curtis and Kathy Sharp

Russell Miller

September 27, 2006

Dear President Welling & Family,

I received the information late about Sister Wellings passing. I would not have missed the services for the world. I considered Sister Welling like a second mother and in many ways like the mother I have always wanted. I will always carry the impressions that she left on me during my service in Iowa. What a wonderful woman, companion and faithful servant she was/is. I hope this correspondence finds you filled with strength, love and hopes and faith of that future day that you will see your loving companion again. What a wonderful blessing it will be for Sister Welling to hear those words “Well done thou good and faithful servant". Until you are together again know that you are loved and cared about more than can be expressed. All of our love,gratitute and sympothies to you and your family.

Russ Miller & Family

Tiffany Hill

September 26, 2006

Dear Pres. Welling and family,
I was saddened to hear of sweet Carla's passing. She has left a wonderful legacy of love and service....not to mention an eternal family for a short time. I am blessed to have met your family and recall so many wonderful stories of you all from Tom, Naida and Jim Hill. May God bless and keep you comforted. My prayers are with you. Love,
Tiffany Hill McMillan

Melissa

September 26, 2006

To the Welling family: I am so sorry to hear of your lost. I hope that these words will reach you with much comfort and care. Please bear in mind the words at Acts 17:31 of the guarantee furnished of seeing your lost loved ones again.

Jill (Hawkley) Peterson

September 26, 2006

President -
I will never forget Sister Welling bringing us English Toffee and hugs in the Salt Lake Airport on our way to Iowa. I was so confused as to why the Mission President was meeting us in Salt Lake instead of Des Moines! Your wife has always been my example of Christlike love and acceptance. Any time I have written a card or been to the bedside of someone in need, I have thought of her. I hope it will be okay with you for me to participate in a triathlon this weekend in her honor. I love her dearly, and will think of her. Thanks for sharing her with us missionaries!

Derek Crockett

September 25, 2006

Dear President Welling
I got notice of Sister Wellings funeral just a few hours late and wanted to give my love and appreciation for you and your wife's service to the gospel and missionary efforts. Serving so close to the both of you will always be a wonderful and perfect memory.
My Prayers and love are with you
Sincerely Derek Crockett

Lisa Carter

September 25, 2006

Dear Welling Family,
I have such wonderful memories of President Welling telling his stories as Stake President, and his lovely wife always smiling and kind. Such a sweet and wonderful woman...such little acts of kindness that helped shape my life. My family has always loved "The Wellings!" May you find comfort in the eternal knowledge that we have. Our prayers are with you all.
God Bless.
Craig & Lisa (Spjut)Carter

Thomas Child

September 25, 2006

President
Welling, Richard and Rosanne,
During this time of rememberance, may you know how much we love you. I
have such fond memories of you and your sweet wife. You always had a
smile for me. We enjoyed having you and Sister Welling come and share
you testimonies and wonderful spirit with the Bountiful 55th Ward this
past year. You whole family have been a amazing influence in my life.
Thank you.

Bonnie LeFevre

September 25, 2006

To the Welling family,

I went to Douglas School, Roosevelt Jr. High, and East High with Carla. I loved her all those years. She loved everybody. I have seen her in the temple many times and she was always so glad to see me. She has always been a beautiful lady. I was so sorry she was ill and saddened by her passing. I just want you to know my feelings and my prayers are with you. You have a wonderful wife and mother.

Stacey Atwood

September 24, 2006

Dear President Welling and family,

I send my love to you and your family. So sad for your loss.

But so excited for Sister Welling!
She fought a good fight. I loved her in IOWA. I loved her Halloween decorative cat- that had the long tail - the put powdered donuts on. So FUN!
Gospel is true - sure love you!

Stacey Parkin Atwood
Cardston Alberta CANADA

Dennis Wilson

September 24, 2006

Pres. Welling

I'm saddened at your loss. Sister Welling always made me feel loved and good inside after talking to her. She had a wonderful spirit that the Lord blessed her with and everyone that got near your sweet wife could feel that spirit.

Sister Welling will be greatly missed because of the love that she gave and showed to all around her.

Pres. Welling I know that the Lord will help you in your time of loss, for when I lost my wife three years ago He helped me make it through it.

Dennis Wilson
Temple Security (Ret)

David and Gloria Vance

September 23, 2006

Dear President Welling,

So many dear memories we have of the two of you together. Please know of our love for you and our prayers of comfort for you at this time of great loss. We extend our love to all your family and know that this will be a void in your family. How blessed we are to have the knowledge of the Gospel. You are incredible people and have blessed the lives of so many and will continue to do so. Carla is a great example of charity and goodness. You both have given your family a great legacy of faith and testimony. Thank you for your warmth and friendship always.

With love,
David & Gloria Vance

Marilyn Pannier

September 23, 2006

Duane and family, Craig, Scott, Barbara and Don.

We were so sorry to read about Carla. She was a great and giving person. Not only did we live next door to the Iversons, Carla and I were in each others wedding parties.
Although I have only seen her in passing the past 50+ years, I think it was called Uncle Sam, children and going our own directions. She will never be forgotten.

Bud & I will not be able to attend the funeral as be have been under the weather the past year.

Our love and prayers are with you.
Bud & Marilyn

John Jorgensen

September 23, 2006

Dear President Welling
My wife and I are serving a Temple mission in Nauvoo and what a shock to learn about Carla's death. I worked in the Bountiful temple for several years as an engineer and grew to love you both very much. Both of you were a great example. Our prayers are with you always at this time.

Kimberly Sperry

September 23, 2006

Dear President Welling and family,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wonderful wife and mother. She was an incredible woman. She was a great example to all of the 'sister missionaries' in Iowa. I will be praying for your comfort at this time of great loss.

Pat Thulin

September 23, 2006

Scott and Family,

Having so recently lost your mother, my heart and prayers go out to you during this time of double transition. Words cannot express the peace and comfort I so want you to have, but I thank our Father in Heaven you have the knowledge that not only are these two good women in a better place, and together, but that you will see them and be able to be with them again in a place where happiness, joy, and lack of pain reside, and the Lord reigns supreme with a full measure of comfort and love. May He be with you and bless you with His peace and comfort as you weather yet another storm which will strengthen you. You and yours have more love and prayers coming in your direction than you can possibly imagine. Take care, and know you are loved.

Jane and Ed Shropshire

September 23, 2006

Dear Uncle Dusty and Welling Family,

You are in our hearts and prayers. We are sorry we can't be there in person on Monday, but we send our "virtual hugs" and want you to know of our love for Aunt Carla and all of you.

Scott Haslam

September 23, 2006

Duane,
My heart goes out to you and your family. What a great loss to be seperated even for a short time. Carla was always so pleasant when she came into the store. May the Lord be with and confort you.

Garry & Kathryn Bond

September 23, 2006

We enjoyed knowing Carla Welling while she was serving in Des Moines, Iowa with her husband as Mission President. Our PALS group were blessed with their company enjoying a dinner night out each month. Her sweet spirit made all feel welcome in the Mission home and at church meetings.

Kevin Palmer

September 23, 2006

President Welling,Wendi,Brad and family How blessed I have been to know sister Welling and your mother. She is one of those special people that you never forget. We send our deepest Love and Sympathy at her passing. Kevin Palmer

David Watkins

September 23, 2006

Dear Uncle Dusty and the rest of the Wonderful Welling Clan:

We love you very much, and our prayers are with you as they have been these last few months and always. Families are forever and we're glad that you will be reunited. Aunt Carla is a very special lady and I know she will be watching over you until we all see her again. May His greatest blessings of comfort be with you at this time. As you've all said it and shown it so well, "The Gospel's true and we love you" too!

David, Karin and Caitlin Watkins

Brian Rowley

September 23, 2006

President Welling,

I am saddened to hear about our loss. I am out of town for business meetings and will unfortunaelty miss the funeral, but know I wish I could be there. Ever since I heard the news, my heart has been saddened. My thoughts and prayers go out for you in this difficult time.
- - To our Missionary Mom, with whom I shared a common birthday. I'll cherish all the missionary memories, especailly the one of going to a birthday pancake breakfast with you and President in Iowa City. You made a great impact on many people's lives. Thank you for your example.
President! I love you and Sister Welling, and the gospel is true.

LuAnn Nelson Aldred

September 23, 2006

Uncle Duane and Wendy,
Don't know if you remember me or not but my mother was MaryEllen and Wendy you and I use to write to each other when we were younger.
Anyway, my aunt called me tonight and told me she had read of Aunt Carla's passing and I just want to offer my condolences for your loss.
I have been there and done that and understand your feelings at this time. Our family prayers are with you.

Herbert and Gisela Uhlstein

September 22, 2006

We were impressed by Carla the first time we met her. Too bad we did not get to know her better, yet her sweet spirit was dear to us. May you be comforted by the One who knows how dispense peace and comfort.

Calene Cox Saltmarsh

September 22, 2006

Sister
Welling took me at the age of four at the request of my mother to teach
me to play the piano, as I was was bored when all the children in the
neighborhood went to school. She started me on a life-long love of
music and the piano, one which I continue with today with my own family
and piano students.
She will be missed by many, but perhaps she is reuniting with her
family and friends, my mother included, on the other side.
Best to your family,

Norm & Sue Watkins

September 22, 2006

Uncle Dusty,

So much love from us to you and your family . . . many sweet memories with y'all.

Ron & Wendy Gardner

September 22, 2006

How hard it is to not be there to personally express our love and support. We loved Carla as we love all of you--as family and forever friends. Please accept our sincere sympathy and gratitude for the opportunity to know and love your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers even though we are far away.

Gloria Simpson

September 22, 2006

How blessed I have been to call Carla a friend. I served with her in the Bountiful Temple and she was a very special friend to me. She even witnessed the sealing of me to my family and she felt like family. We joked often about me being "the oldest". We could have met many years ago in Haiti, Mo., but missed each other by a few months. My love to all of her family and especially to dear Pres. Welling. She will always be in my thoughts.

Lois Morrell

September 22, 2006

Dear Wendy & Brad,

We send lour love andsympathy at your mother's passing. She was a special lady. May God be with ALL your families.

Grant & Lois Morrell

John Wright

September 22, 2006

President Welling,



I am truly sorry for your loss. I really enjoyed the time I spent with both of you in Iowa. My families prayers and thoughts are with you during this time of loss.

Roy Giles

September 22, 2006

She was a really good person. Im sure she is still doing her missionary work

Teague Bengtzen

September 22, 2006

What a wonderful woman! I served with President and Sister Welling in the Des Moines, Iowa Mission. From the day I met her, I knew she was a kind loving person. I have never met anyone that smiled more than Sister Welling. She constantly looked for ways to help others. When you first met the Wellings you felt as though President Welling ran the house, but it quickly became apparent that Sister Welling wore the pants in the family.



One of my favorite experiences with the Wellings (and one Sister Welling talked about every time we got together)was when they first got to Iowa. We took one of their garage door openers and told them that Iowa had a strange phenomenon called "Electrical Storms". These storms could make certain electrical appliances turn on and off at will. For the next week we drove by their house periodically and open or close their garage door. Every night we would stop by to see them and she would tell us how another storm must have passed by.



Sister Welling will be greatly missed. How grateful I am for the knowledge that I will see her again!

william Brown

September 22, 2006

May time ease the sorrow and loving memories bring you peace. Know that others are thinking of you and remembering you in their prayers.



In thoughts and prayers.

Brenda Schlender

September 22, 2006

I have been a business colleague and friend of Darrel Welling's for several years. He has spoken so lovingly of his mother so many times, that I feel I know just a little of what a wonderful person and mother Mrs. Welling was. My husband, Alan, and I send our deepest sympathies for your great loss.

Sincerely,

Brenda Schlender-Bucher and Alan Bucher

David & Annette Stanley

September 22, 2006

Our callings into the mission field at the same time and our beautiful experience in the Bountiful Temple has bonded us into eternal friends. We Love You.

Ilona (Syme) Whittle

September 22, 2006

Brother Welling, Wendy and Brad,

Sorry to read about the passing of your Mother.

I extend my love and sympathy to you and the rest of the family.

Calvin & Ruth Mills

September 22, 2006

Dear Duane, Ruth and I want to let you know how much we thought of Carla and you. It was a pleasure to be your home teacher and for you to be ours just before we left to come here. We will miss her, but look forward to the time that we can be with you again. May the Lord bless you and your family at this time of sorrow. We know you have a sound understanding of how much better off Carla is now, to be free from all the pain that she must have suffered for these past months. we feel badly that we didn't get a chance to visit with her after your cruise and before we entered the MTC. Our prayers will continue with you and your family at this time of transition.

Don Gibson

September 21, 2006

My deepest sympathies to the Welling family. I remember Sister Welling fondly from my mission in Iowa. Great memories from the Mission Home, the strawberry butter, the motto: "The Gospel is True and We Love You!" She will be greatly missed. Until we meet again!

John McFarlane

September 21, 2006

President Welling,

You and your wife have touched the lives of many people around the world. Thank you for all the love that you have given me. I wish that I could be there with you as you start this temporary separation from your dear wife. My love and prayers for comfort are with you.

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