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Richard A. Nurmi Loving husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather BREWSTER Richard A. Nurmi, 66, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, Dec. 3, 2008, with his family at his side, after a seven week courageous battle with cancer. He was the loving husband of Beverly (Veryard), and Madeline Dauphin, his first wife, and the mother of their children. Born in Fitchburg, he was the son of Tenho Nurmi and Evelyn Nurmi (Clouet). A graduate of Fitchburg High School. He enlisted in the Air Force and served as a medical technician. Upon his return to the Fitchburg area, he worked in a bakery for a short period of time, mastering his pie and fudge making skills. From there he began his career at Bay State Curtain in the shipping/ receiving department were through hard work and dedication he climbed the ladder and was ultimately promoted to the Company's Vice President. He served in this capacity for over 10 years before moving to Brewster in 1993. While in Brewster, Richard worked at the Post Office for many years allowing him to quickly establish a network of friends in the community. Over the years, Richard enjoyed travelling (Aruba, Hong Kong, Beijing, Shanghai) and walking along the beach, collecting seashells, smooth stones and listening to the soft sounds of the waves. He was an avid gardener, and golfer; he loved the outdoors. He planted tens of thousands of flowers, plants and trees throughout his life, whether at his homes or his Church, Northside United Methodist, making the world a more beautiful place. His green thumb legacy goes on through his daughter, Christine and daughter-in-law, Lauri. He loved his family dearly and is survived by his siblings, Margaret Cavoli and her husband, Norman of Marborough, CT, Philip Nurmi and his wife, Janice of Fitchburg, MA; and his brother-in-law, Albert Lussier of York, PA. He is predeceased by his sister, Ruth Ann Lussier. Richard is also survived by his two children, Christine A. Bianchini and her husband, Nicolas of Leominster, MA, and Richard A. Nurmi, Jr. and his wife, Lauri of Hong Kong, China. He was the beloved grandfather of seven grandchildren, Anthony, Brianna,Olivia, Joseph, Michael and David. He was predeceased by his grandson, Nicolas. Richard was also the proud great-grandfather of Jordan and Juelz. He is also survived by 21 nieces and nephews. NURMI The family would like to thank the caring, professional teams at Cape Cod Hospital and Epoch of Brewster for their compassionate care. Friends and relatives are invited to visiting hours on Sunday, Dec. 7, from 4 to 6 p.m. at the Morris & O'Connor Funeral Home, 58 Long Pond Drive, South Yarmouth. A funeral service will be held on Monday, Dec. 8, at 11 a.m. at Northside United Methodist Church with lunch following. Memorial donations may be made to the Northside United Methodist Church, 701 Airline Rd., Brewster, MA 02631.

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Published by Sentinel & Enterprise from Dec. 6 to Dec. 7, 2008.

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Cheryl Slattery

December 26, 2008

Jan & Phil.......
I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing. I am even more sorry I am so late in finding out! You are always in my thoughts and prayers and I miss you very much. May you find peace in knowing he is in a bette place but I know you know that. Love you ........
Sheri

Marty and Emily Rosenbaum

December 19, 2008

Chris and Richard,
We are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Tony Freda

December 7, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the Nurmi family at this testing time.

J S

December 7, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Lee and Michael Pepin

December 6, 2008

Dear Bev and Family -
We are saddened to learn of your loss, and know that our prayers are with you. Dick was a wonderful man, and a great teacher of many things.

Dotti Johnson

December 6, 2008

I worked with Richard at the Post Office. My condolences to his entire family. Richard was such a good man, always willing to help someone. I will miss him dearly, he was a true friend! R.I.P.

Eileen Bourque

December 6, 2008

Dear Bev.
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked for Dick for 13 years at Bay State Curtain and always respected him. He was always so friendly.
He was much too young.
I always wondered what had happened to him after the company closed. I moved to Foxboro in 1985.

Eileen Bourque

Steve & Debbie Jeffries

December 6, 2008

Chris,
We are sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Peggy Vincent

December 6, 2008

Nurmi Family: I pray for your peace...I am friends of Phil and Janice...It is difficult to lose such a special loved one. God Bless...Peggy Vincent (Brewster,MA)

Pete Rousseau

December 6, 2008

Phil,
Sorry for you loss, Richard was way too young.I remember hearing about Ruth passing some time ago, we were classmates.
Keep a stiff upper lip, you need it to play.

J

December 6, 2008

What a beautiful story. Your family has been blessed by having Mr. Nurmi in it. May your blessings continue to grow in those he left behind.

cindy cash

December 6, 2008

Dear Bev,
I am so sorry to read this sad news, as you and Dick were some of my favorite people in Brewster. You two were always so kind to me, and I will always remember that. We will see him again someday in Heaven...untill then, you are in my prayers to heal the hurt of missing him.
Blessings to you and your family,
Cindy

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