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Liz
January 10, 2025
Hey Uncle Joe I´m expecting my first kid, it´s a boy his name is going to be Bradley Joseph Wade. I miss you so much not a days goes by where your name isn´t mentioned.
Charlie Gili
October 5, 2021
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this month and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Joseph B. Milledge US Army Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Mary cooper
June 28, 2021
Hey Baby brother it´s been a while ! A lot has changed since you´ve been gone ! Carlie´s has two babies Brayden Lee and Kara Michelle . Carlie finished a her dental hygienist degree and is contemplating on going further in her education and Michelle is married bought a house , car , truck and is pregnant with her first baby ! It´s a boy ( Hudson Phillip mikel ) and works for her husbands family buisness , Jeffrey is a correction officer and in the national guard and is going to college working on his criminal justice degree . Liz is back home working on getting back on track and works as a CSR with people with disabilities they are all doing great any way just want you to know there isn´t a day that goes by we don´t think if you ! Miss you always love you forever see you on the other side ! Love your big sis Mary
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Mary Cooper
June 27, 2019
Miss you always
Mary Cooper
June 27, 2019
Love you baby brother
August 21, 2017
Can't believe our son will be turning 11 tomorrow. He is so much like you and that is such a blessing. I hope you are looking down smiling. We miss you so much and will love you always and forever. My heart still hurts for you.....
Lindsey
August 9, 2017
Thinking of you. We all miss you so much. Even though it had been years, I always assumed that we'd run into each other someday and I had found comfort in that. Knowing our earthly paths won't cross again makes my heart hurt but I know that the grave is not the end. I pray that the Lord shines down on the lovely family you created while you were here and the rest of us still feeling the pain of your absence.
mom
May 22, 2016
you are forever my hero
Love Mom
Owen Milledge
May 21, 2016
It's alway sad to hear another soldier has fallen. I didn't know Joseph, I too served in the army, thank you for your service, God bless to your family.
Betty Nielsen
April 9, 2016
Take comfort in knowing you have an angel watching over you and that we still have not forgotten him or you. Freedom Quilts is here if you ever need a friend.
April 9, 2016
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
mom
February 3, 2016
Happy Birthday Bubba 32 but forever 23 I love you today as much if not more then the day you were born you will never be forgotten. I even bought your favorite snacks to eat today reeses and cheese. love you Mom
mom
January 1, 2016
Happy New Year Joe, another year without you makes me so sad, your son is growing so fast. Jeffrey went into the Army reserves can not believe how fast time goes, love you forever and a day.
Mom
December 3, 2015
Hey Bubba
A lot is going on this year another graduate you became a great uncle, Braydon Lee was born Nov,9 Carlie's baby, Jeffrey joined the Army Reserves, life is good and I miss you more everyday you are loved. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
December 1, 2015
Hey Joe,
So lately I have missed you a whole ton and just kind of wanted to give you a life update, even though you probably already have been watching. This past May I successfully and thankfully graduated high school. I got a full ride to college and will be starting paramedic school this week, which let me tell you is a whole new experience in its self. The last few years I have been with an amazing guy and am now engaged to him. We plan on finishing school first though. You would love him. On a smaller note, I made my first big girl purchase this year and bought my first car. I am in a good place right now and am ready for whatever life brings next. Love you lots.
Mary Cooper
July 2, 2015
Love u baby brother
July 2, 2015
Your going to be a great uncle hope he grows up to be just like you . Miss u baby brother
Bryan Souza
June 28, 2015
Been along time my friend, you are in my heart every day. I talk about you often and to make sure the world will always know who you are brother, I miss you man more then any song or poem can describe, I will never have another road dogg like you ever you were one in a billion man. Death before dishonor and you backed up every word to the very core of that sayne. It gets no realer then you DRASTIK. No matter what I do there will always be a hole in my heart and soul for your absence on earth. I am more then certain that you are a General in Gods Army by now soldier!! Love you bro and until the end of days or the end of my life what ever comes first, see you then my friend. Love Syck
February 5, 2015
Forever my one!
mom
February 3, 2015
Happy 31st Birthday Joey, I love and miss you more and more every day, you will forever be in my heart,
Love you
Mom
December 11, 2013
Another Christmas without you. Time goes so fast. Love you and miss you
September 20, 2013
Our anniversary was very hard on me this year. We were supposed to grow old together, oh how I wish that could of happened. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I will love you always and forever!!
Lindsey
September 13, 2013
Was going through my high school scrap book and saw some pictures of you. You were a good influence on me; never wanted me to smoke, or drink, or run around with 'fools' because that was 'weak'. I miss you a lot and wish that I would have known the man that you grew up to be, met your beautiful wife and your little man. Keep your eye on them and the rest of your family. We all miss you, love you, and think of you everyday.
Liz
September 11, 2013
Today is 9/11 and I am think about you and wishing that you were here to visit with but your not you are up in heaven watching over us. I have started college it is hard to believe that it has been 7 years since we got the new about your death and I just wish that you are here to see all the success I have done in my life.
July 15, 2013
Joe, I have found a companion and he is a nice guy. I hope you are looking down and smiling. Love
Lynne Neibert
April 16, 2013
Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who work to send handmade prayer shawls and/or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one while serving our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church would like to extend our sincere sympathy and to honor your loved one's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a prayer gift which will be mailed to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses of those who would like to receive one and which gift they would like to receive. We will send our gift as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved on who died while serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne
riri
February 15, 2013
love you
February 14, 2013
Happy Valentines Day Sgt. Milledge, Love you very much.
Mom
February 3, 2013
Happy 29th Birthday Joey, hard to believe you have celebrated 6 birthdays in heaven, Hope you had an enjoyable day. I went to your gravesite and had luch and read Tupac poetry to you. Love and miss you more and more everyday.
January 29, 2013
I am really missing you today son. love ya.
January 1, 2013
Happy New Year! We're here worrying about fiscal cliffs and gun control issues and you're in a place where worry doesn't exist. I'm thankful for that, but I miss you so much. It really doesn't get easier as time goes by....no matter what people say. You were a bright star in our lives and we all love you so much.
December 31, 2012
Another year without you makes me so sad. You are greatly missed and loved very much.
mom
December 23, 2012
Sgt.Joe Merry Christmas
Jasmine Dunkirk
December 11, 2012
I miss you so much and I wish you were still here with us!! <3 Love ya
michelle cooper
December 6, 2012
love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you were the best uncle and i miss you like crazy!!!!!!!!!!!! But i hope your having fun now!!!!!!!!!!!1
November 22, 2012
Happy Thanksgiving Bubba, wish you were here. Love ya
November 20, 2012
A big part of me died with you. I will never be the same without you. I would give anything just to spend one more day with you. Why?????
November 14, 2012
I just wish you were here with us. It feels so wrong to keep moving forward without you, bud.
November 12, 2012
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you.
November 3, 2012
5 years ago today we had your memorial in Glenwood. The love of family and friends were there. Love and miss you very much. love mom
Jasmine Dunkirk
October 31, 2012
Just wanted to say I miss you so much and I wish you were still here with us. I Miss you so so so much Thank you for being there for us and you always had our backs and your watching over us and leading us in the right direction.. Love you
MARY COOPER
October 10, 2012
FOREVER REMEMBERED !
mary cooper
October 10, 2012
went to the cemitary today and cryed ! i so miss u ! i wish u could see the new house u would have loved it.and i'm a chicken farmer and have 1 very annoying goat.kids r getting big there all doin good in school jeffrey is doin well in crosscountry carlie took the year off to manage football she decided she didnt like it so next year she's goin back to running bell is bell she doesnt know if she wants to play sports she want to do karate or gymnastics or band well see well better go .love ya lil brother
October 5, 2012
Five years today, sgt. We miss you and love you.
mom
October 4, 2012
5 years you've been gone, and I miss ever so much. You were such a joy in my life and I hate that you are gone. Your son is quite the little man,so like you. You and Jason will always be my heroes. Love Mom
mary cooper
September 27, 2012
missing u so ! 1 of the hardest things i had 2 do is let u grow up and leave us and now i have to let liz go and be independant and i don't know how to do that i so wish u were here to help me through my crazyness.
Elizabeth Cooper
September 27, 2012
Hey Uncle Joe I miss you a lot and wish you were here to see how much i have acccomplished this year. I am a Senior I am graduating and so far i have all straight A's i am so pround of my self!! I just wish you would be here to see me graduate. I miss you a lot Love You Joe
Eric Milledge
September 21, 2012
Your niece loves you and knows who you are and I just want you to know she will always know who her Uncle Joey is. She is so much fun for our family, and she is so cute. Wish you could have met her, but I know you will always be watching over her.
I love you Joey
Your big brother Eric
Eric Milledge
September 21, 2012
We are coming up on 5 years and I miss you everyday. You are truly my hero and I want everyone to know that you were a good man. We look forward to seeing you again and I know that we will.
MARY cooper
September 19, 2012
hey lil brother were getting old liz is A SENIOR this year .omg so impossible but true she made it so far no drugs no alcohol and no pregnancys and yes its true shes got straight A's right now you'd be so proud of her please keep a lot out for my kids love ya lil bro. LOVE YOUR BIG SI MARY
mary cooper
September 19, 2012
Missen u more then you will ever know!
September 18, 2012
Would have been our 8 year wedding anniversary today....oh how I miss you
September 18, 2012
I CANNOT BELIIVE IT WILL BE FIVE YEAR SEEN YOU AND JASON GOT LEFT KIA I KNOW YOU ARE WATCH OVER YOUE FAMILY LIKE JASON WATCH OVER US THANK YOU JOE YOU YOU ARE A HERO WE ALL MISS YOU TELL MY SON HELLO FOR ME AND I MISS HIM TO AND I LOVE HIM.
September 17, 2012
Sigh. I miss you.
August 30, 2012
Miss you and your big heart!
Mom
July 31, 2012
thinking of you
Mom
July 31, 2012
met Kevins mother today, very nice lady. We talked a lot about you and how Kevin still misses you very much. Living at Mary's right now until my house goes thru.Am moving back to Co. Blfs. Love Ya
Elizabeth Cooper
July 30, 2012
I miss you sooo much my senior year and ur not here to be with me through this
mom
July 21, 2012
Moving out to your sister's until I find a house, why don't you come with me. Love and miss you.
May 18, 2012
Miss you. Nuff said!
Carlie Cooper
April 10, 2012
I miss him sooooo much!!!
jack milledge
April 10, 2012
Love ya son...
mom
April 8, 2012
Happy Easter Joe, You are still so dear to my heart. Love ya
April 4, 2012
I will never get over you!!!! I love you!!
jasmine dunkirk
April 3, 2012
just thinking about you today and was wishing you were here with us. I really miss you and love you so much.!!!!
April 2, 2012
Still think about you a thousand times a day. You would probably tell me to get over it already, but I can't. I love you more than the stars in the sky.
mom
February 15, 2012
Happy Valentines Day son sorry I am a day late. Hugs and kisses
February 9, 2012
I'm still so absolutely devastated. Why did you have to go away? Everyone says time heals all wounds. I disagree. Especially when we lost someone like you, buddy. You're on my mind when the sun rises and on it when the sun sets. I'll never forget!
mom
February 3, 2012
Happy 28th Birthday Son. Love and miss you
mom
December 24, 2011
Merry Christmas Joe, this will be your 4th Christmas with Jesus. Enjoy. Love ya
December 4, 2011
I miss you. Nuff said. :)
Tina Lamason
December 3, 2011
The Holidays are upon us and you are greatly missed. Were it not for your ultimate sacrifice we wouldnt be living in freedom. Love you and miss you
Aunt Tina
howard deihl
December 2, 2011
Joe-
Thinking bout you and how i wish you were hear for your family during this holiday season. I think about you everyday as i wish you were here and i see my son and it makes me sad to know one of my best friends isnt with his. I love you bro and you will forever be missed. And to joes family i wish you a happy holidays and wish i could say something to make things easier or help make your holiday seasons better. I wish you all the best, and amanda im sure you are taking great care of joey as i know joe would have wanted you to, god bless the milledge family as you are forever in our hearts and prayers in my house.
amanda
December 1, 2011
I love and miss you more than ever!
mary cooper
November 30, 2011
love you brother ...miss u bunches merry xmas and happy new year.
mom
November 25, 2011
Love you son
November 9, 2011
I just want to have one dream about you. I want to see your face again. I feel like I'm starting to forget. My memories are fading. Please visit me in my dreams Joe. Let me know that you're okay.
Peggy Childers
October 5, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Joseph B. Milledge:
Please accept my remembrance of Joseph on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
riri
October 5, 2011
I love you and miss you so much! i cant wait for the day I get to see you again
mom
October 4, 2011
Four years in Heaven. I hope you and Jason as enjoying yourself and watching how your children are growing. Joey is so much like you. You will always be in my heart and I love you more and more everyday. RIP son
October 4, 2011
You've been gone for four years. I can't believe it. My head understands it, but my heart will not accept it. It still feels like yesterday. Your absence has affected so many people. However, I know the moment you left this earth you were surrounded by a thousand angels and you were at peace and in a new body. We all love you more than words can express. RIP Soldier.
Linda "LuLu" Blanks
September 27, 2011
RIP SGT. Joseph B. Milledge. Thank You for all you gave. May you have sweet rest in the arms of our LORD.May your family find peace in knowing you are with our LORD.
riri
September 23, 2011
love you !
mom
September 5, 2011
Love Ya son
August 10, 2011
Joe,
You'd be so proud of your boy. They were here for nine days and everyday I looked and Joey and I thought about how much you'd enjoy him at this age. He's almost five. Wow! You gave us all such a little miracle.....thank you! =)
mom
July 26, 2011
Your wife and son are coming for a visit next week. yea. Will be good to see how much Joey has grown.
Love ya
mom
July 4, 2011
Happy Fourth Of July Son. Love you bunches
Betty Nielsen
June 27, 2011
We are asking as many people as can come including the family of Joseph B Ryan Milledge Sr to join us in honoring our Fallen Heroes and their families. On September 11th Freedom Quilts will be honor both the 9/11 and Fallen soldiers families. Honor guest will be the families of our fallen heroes. Will be at Storm Lake St Mary Catholic Gym at 3:00. Come all and help us honor our heroes.
mom
June 19, 2011
Happy Fathers Day Joe, You were such a good daddy to your son and he is quite the young man and such a good little boy. Amanda is doing a wonderful job raising him. We all love and miss you very much.
mary cooper
June 14, 2011
I love you today tomorrow and forever you are my hero lil brother u will always be in my thoughts and prayers and u will always be a name in my home. love you lil brother.... see you in heaven....
Tracy Milledge-James
June 13, 2011
Those we love never be more than a thought apart,for as long as there as is memory they'll live on within our heart..Tracy James
Mom
May 29, 2011
Thinking of you and all the other Fallen Soldier this Memorial Day. Love you
riri
May 8, 2011
i love you
May 3, 2011
Words cannot describe how much you are missed. We had a great day on Sunday, when we were informed about the death of the man who shook our world. Man, if it only were sooner, you would still be here with us. I have to trust that this is all a part of some greater plan, but your absence is constant. I miss you buddy. You can rest in peace and celebrate with the Almighty because justice has been served. With much love, a thousand kisses and a huge hug. You are MY HERO!
Jasmine Dunkirk
April 30, 2011
I love and miss you so much.
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