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Tammy Martin Obituary

Tammy Denise Martin May 6, 1970 - May 13, 2008 Tammy Denise Martin died at her home in Grand Junction on Tuesday, May 13, 2008 following a courageous battle with cancer. She was 38. Tammy was born on May 6, 1970, in Durango, Colorado, to Dennis and Suzanne Beaty. She moved to Flagler, Colorado at age four. At age eight she moved to Cortez, Colorado where she attended school until the eleventh grade. In 1987 Tammy was one of six students from Colorado selected to spend her senior year abroad as an exchange student in Germany. Tammy returned to the United States in 1988 and completed her few remaining high school credits at Grand Junction High School. In 1989 Tammy moved to California, but returned to Grand Junction in 1991, where she lived until her death. In September 1991, Tammy met the love of her life. Tammy and Burke were married in Grand Junction on June 27, 1992. Four years later they welcomed a daughter, Erin DeLane. A year later, they were blessed with a son, Connor Alden. Tammy was a 1994 graduate of Technical Trades Institute with an Associate Degree in Business. She worked as an administrative assistant for Studio 119 Photography and Ed Bozarth Chevrolet before becoming a full time mother and homemaker in 1996. In 2004 she joined the creative team at Image Design Specialties as a graphic artist and copy writer. She worked for Image Design Specialties until her diagnosis in October 2006. Tammy led a life filled with family, friends and faith. An avid reader from an early age, Tammy had recently started work on her first novel. She also was devoted to her faith and was a long-time member of the Fellowship Church vocal praise team. Through her faith, she touched the lives of many in their time of need. Tammy had a love of theater that began in high school and continued into adulthood. Tammy devoted countless hours as volunteer for several local organizations including Homeward Bound of the Grand Valley, Habitat for Humanity of Mesa County and Caprock Academy. In June 2007 Tammy received the Habitat for Humanity of Mesa County Outstanding Volunteer Service Award for Public Relations. Tammy is survived by her loving husband Burke, her daughter Erin, her son Connor, her mother and step-father Suzanne and Dennis Overholt of Mesa, Colorado, her father and step-mother Dennis and Kim Beaty of Aztec, NM; two sisters and brothers-in-law Melissa and Matt Bashara and Teresa and Kirk Black, one grandmother Doris Cross all of Grand Junction; nieces and nephews, Stephanie and Jared Bashara, Rider Black, and Gregory and Kayla Stoneburner all of Grand Junction, CO and Dakota an Sierra Black of West Salem, OH and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. She was preceded in death by her grandparents Olton (Bud) Cross and Orin and Lida Beaty. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, May 24, 2008 at 10:00 a.m. at Fellowship Church. A reception will immediately follow at Church on the Rock. The family would like to express our sincere gratitude for the love, support and caring received over the past year and a half. Memorial contributions can be made to the Tammy Martin Children's Education Fund, in care of Bank of Colorado, 200 Grand Avenue, Grand Junction, CO 81501. Throughout her life, but especially in the last year, Tammy accepted all life had to offer with a positive attitude and a wonderful sense of humor. This last Easter, as the cancer took its toll on her body, including the loss of her hair, she was photographed holding an Easter egg in one hand while rubbing her bald head with the other. She was often heard saying "If you can't have fun with cancer, what's the point."

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Published by The Daily Sentinel on May 22, 2008.

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June 18, 2008

Tammy, wir werden Dich nie vergessen.

Teresa Black

June 12, 2008

It will be one month tomorrow since our Tammy left us. It is still so hard to think of the many years to come, and how she won't be there for them. Now that all the ceremonial part of her passing is over, we are simply left with the reality that she is not coming home in a few days from a writers conference or trip to see a play in Denver. That has been the hardest part -- the finality of it all. We all knew Tammy was sick, but none of us really beleived that a light like hers could ever just ... go out.

I know I'm supposed to look forward to a day when we will all be reunited in heaven, but that is not enough for me right now. I want her back. I want to conitue the life we had before Ocotber 2006 -- before CANCER.

There are so many things I would go back and do over if I could. Most importantly, I would go back and stop living my life as though she was going to beat this terrible thing. I would actually call her all the times I just thought about it, and stop by to check on her instead of hurrying on to this appointment or that meeting. And on May 13th, when I stopped by to see her, I would have gone over and just sat and held her hand like I had wanted to, without worrying about disturbing her as she slept.

I hope I have learned that we have to live in the present and stop leaving the important things in life -- namely family relationships -- for next week. The great thing about me and my sisters is that we haven't had a fight in more than 20 years. We each knew that the other two loved us, and it didn't need to be said out loud. Of course, that was also a curse, because none of us ever say it, it's just understood.

So here I want to end by saying that I LOVE each of you -- Mom, Dennis, Dad, Kim, Melissa, Matt, Burke, Tammy, Stephie, Erin, Jared, Connor.

To the extended family and friends -- Thank you all for the words of encouragement, kindness and sympathy.

Keleen Lambert

May 23, 2008

Dear Dennis & Suzanne, you are in my thoughts and prayers today as is all your family. We did not know Tammy, but Dennis, we were once family and we still have many fond memories of that time of my life! Please accept our condolences and loving support through a sad time of a premature loss that we understand so well. It was just a month ago that we unexpectedly lost my husband, so I understand the depths of your grief. Blessings to You All, Kelly (Overholt) Lambert, Dayne Hutchison & Betty Talbott

D'Ray Canaday

May 22, 2008

My heart and prayers go out to Burke, Conner, Erin, Suzanne, Melissa, and Teresa. My deepest sympathies for your loss. I feel so fortunate to have known her and to have had her love and friendship in my life, Tammy was an amazing person and was truly one of the kindest people I have ever known. She will be greatly missed.

Melissa Bashara

May 22, 2008

It is hard to look forward at a future without my sister and friend. We shared so much – childhood memories, graduations, weddings, children and everyday life. But, because of Tammy, I have a wonderful brother-in-law who is more like a brother, a niece and nephew who bring great joy to my life and 36 years of memories that I will cherish always.
Tammy will be greatly missed, but will live forever in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know her.

BJ Thompson

May 22, 2008

My heart and prayers go out to Burke, Conner and Erin. Tammy was a wonderful person and she will be missed greatly. I had the oppertunity to work with her for a very short time at Fellowship Church and I loved getting to know her. My prayers are with you.

BJ Thompson

Misty McManus

May 22, 2008

Burke, my deepest sympathies for your loss. It is a difficult time but love of your children and family will sustain you.

Kelli Sparks

May 22, 2008

I have fond memories of Tammy-one of the few truly nice girls in high school! Tammy was bright, sweet and always helpful! May your family find comfort in the memories you have of her!

Dea Sidener

May 22, 2008

Burke,
My deepest sympathy, Tammy was an amazing person but what I remember most was her love for you and her children. She worked several christmas's at the portrait studio for me , tho I have been gone a long time I have never forgotten her. May the Lord give you the strength you will need during this very difficult time.
Dea Sidener

Loni Brown

May 22, 2008

Burke, Erin and Conner: My love and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Tammy was a strong lady that believed in her Heavenly Father. I will remember, always, the sound of her laughter, and the way she always wore that wonderful smile...the most treasured memory, for me, is the angelic sound of her voice when she sang a song. God loves you and so do I.

John and Evan Linko

May 22, 2008

Our late wife and mother Jan Zeller went to be with her Lord last year after battling cancer as well. Tammy's words of encouragement and faith at that time, even in the face of her own illness, were most appreciated.

Tammy was a shining example of courage and of God's love on Earth. Missing her will be hard, but know that she is with her Lord and watching over you every day.

Our thoughts, tears, and prayers are with you.

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