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LADDEN, Bernard E., IV Bernard E. Ladden, IV, 20, of Newington, beloved son of Chip Ladden, of Newington, and Mary (Leonard) Ladden also of Newington died Monday, (January 29, 2007) of injuries sustained in a car accident. He was born in Hartford and resided in Newington all of his life. He was a graduate of Newington High School and currently a student at Porter and Chester Institute. Besides his parents, he is survived by his beloved daughter Taelyr Ladden and her mother Natalie Lawrence, his step-mother Lory Ladden, his brothers and sisters Megan Ladden, Melissa Ladden, Jason Ladden, and Christopher Jensen, all of Newington, his grandparents Bernard E., and Barbara Ladden, of Rocky Hill, Vicki Anderson, of Newington, Ron and Mona Zimmerman, of Vernon, and Ed Leonard, of MN, a great-grandmother Edith Anderson, of Newington. His funeral service will be held Friday, 9 a.m. from the Newington Memorial Funeral Home, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington, CT followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Church. Interment will be in West Meadow Cemetery. Relatives and friends are invited to call Thursday from 4-7 p.m. at Newington Memorial. Memorial donations may be made to Taelyr Ann Ladden for her Education. c/o Sovereign Bank, Newington, CT 06111 . To share a memory please visit us at www.newingtonmemorial.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Bernard Ladden
Susan Lane
June 1, 2007
Dear Chip&Lory,
I just heard today about the passing of your beloved son Bernie. I was so sorry to hear the news. Parents should never outlive their children. Take comfort in all the memories you made as a family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Love, Susan Lane
March 9, 2007
I just heard the news of Bernie's death and was devastated! For many years Bernie was a part of my family! (he was at my house that often) He was a lot of fun and always made me laugh! He will be truly missed! My condolences to all he left behind!
Sue Brock
February 8, 2007
Dear Chip and Lory, I just heard the terrible news. I can't express how sorry I am. I remember when he was just a little tike and how proud his papa was of him. I am so sorry for your loss.
Brenda Copithorne
February 6, 2007
Dear Megan, I just heard the sorrowful news of your brother's passing yesterday and I am so sorry for you and your family. I hope fond and loving memories help give you strength in the days to follow.
GEORGE & ANITA MULRY
February 4, 2007
IT IS WITH OUR DEEPEST SORROW WE SEND THIS MESSAGE TODAY. THE LOVING MEMORY OF YOUR SON WILL LIVE ON THROUGH YOUR PRECIOUS GRANDDAUGHTER. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS SORROWFUL TIME. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
Michael & Kathy Rogerson
February 3, 2007
Dear Mary & Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family with be in our prayers.
TOM GUZZO
February 3, 2007
My heart goes out to every member of The Ladden Family. Bernie was a very special young man. I got to know Bernie by working in town. He truly cared about everyone especially his daughter. He will always hold a special part in my heart.
Fr. Dennis Vincenzo
February 3, 2007
To the Ladden family,
Please know that your beloved Bernie will be remembered in the prayers and Masses of the Saint Mary's parish family. May his soul, and the souls of the faithful departed, rest in peace.
the Johnson family
February 2, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sadness. Bernie was a good man. He will be missed
Camilla Mastrangelo
February 2, 2007
Jay and family
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Christina Gavrilis
February 2, 2007
Meghan,Jay,&Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Danny & Sheila Rogerson
February 2, 2007
Dear Mary,
Our condolences go out to your entire family. You are all in our hearts and in our prayers. Judging soley by the many other messages left about Bernie, it is clear that he made a lasting impact on the lives of countless individuals. He is truly someone who will never be forgotten. May all these messages help bring comfort to all of you!
Love and God Bless especially you Taeylr, you were PaPa's little girl!
Becky McCloskey
February 2, 2007
Meghan and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tim & Jerilyn Gagnon
February 2, 2007
Dearest Chip, Mary and Lory (and the entire Ladden Family),
We are so saddened by the news of your son's passing. Please know that although we can't be there to help you through this difficult time, we are with you in thought, prayer and spirit.
With sincere sympathy and condolence,
Tim, Jerilyn, Hillary & Troy Gagnon
AnnMarie and Darren Nash
February 2, 2007
Mary+Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son,brother.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May Bernie's memory live on it that beautiful little girl.
meghan bullard
February 1, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. I will always remember Bernie and the good memories I had with him along with the rest of the Ladden family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Valerie Leon
February 1, 2007
I met Bernie while at a friends house last spring. I didn't spend a lot of time with him but I remember we shared one common interest... guinea pigs. At the time, I had only one and I was looking to possibly get another. Bernie's had recently had babies and he was showing them to me and telling me about all their funny quirks. It makes me really sad that someone with so much of a laid back and free spirit could have something so tragic befall them. My sincerest condolences go to his family and closest friends.
Ericka Stephens
February 1, 2007
Im very sorry for the Ladden Family's loss. He was a great kid & i hope hes in a better place. Just try to think of all the good times youve had instead of the bad.
Richard and Heidi Millbury
February 1, 2007
our sincere condolences We are very sorry for the loss son brother. god bless
Amy Grenier
February 1, 2007
My deepest condolences go out to the Ladden family. May your family and loved ones bring you comfort at this difficult time.
Jennifer McGowan
February 1, 2007
To Bernie's Family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I am a teacher at Martin Kellogg and have fond memories of Bernie and his infectious smile. I remember him making me laugh when we were on the Williamsburg trip. In more recent years, I would run into him getting my morning coffee at Goldberg's. He still had that smile and was so proud to tell me he was going to be a father. I hope that you and your family will find comfort in knowing that Bernie's smile brightened many people's day.
In deepest sympathy,
sheila lawrence
February 1, 2007
Sincere condolences to the Ladden family on your loss of Bernie. Thinking of you all in your time of sorrow. His daughter Taelyr is a beautiful child and will be looked after by all those who love and cherish her.
Rhonda and Rach
February 1, 2007
Dear Mary, Megan, and Chris,
Rach and I are so sorry we can not be in Ct with you at the time. We are so sorry for your pain. I just keep thinking about the days when the kids were little, playing on your couch and life held so many promises. Mary I am so sorry. We loved Bernie so much. We love you, Megan and Chris. We just don't know what to say...we will miss him so. Talk to Andy. He really cares about you.....rhonda and rach
Creatura Family
February 1, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Kriss, Jim, Maggie & Kathie Hansen/Batista
February 1, 2007
Chip, Lory, Jay & Melissa
Our deepest sympathies go out to you over the loss of your beloved son and brother. May your memories of Bernie bring you peace and comfort. Bernie will be remembered forever.
Lynda and Steve Campbell Nancy Berger's cousin
February 1, 2007
To the Ladden Family,
Our condolences to you at this time of sorrow.
Linda Rubera
February 1, 2007
Natalie and Taelyr,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care and God Bless. A friend of your Nanna Sheila.
Gail Cyr (Daigle)
February 1, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Natalie, Bob, Chris, Nicole & Ryan Botticello
February 1, 2007
Mary & Family,
My memories take me back to our play dates when the children were young and all the fun we had, especially the boys. How time passed and the boys found each other again. It was wonderful to find Bernie, Natalie and Chris walk through the front door as if they never skipped a beat. Bernie is in our hearts and prayers.
May God be with you and your families at this time of need.
Mary, if you need me I'm always here for you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Marva, Andrew, Anjali, Christopher Rowe
February 1, 2007
Mary, Megan, Chris,
Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Bernie will always be remembered for his loud burps and his enthusiatic personality. Take comfort in knowing that God is with him. He will also get you all through this.
Rich Lavariere
January 31, 2007
To the Laddens,
I am so sorry for your loss.
"The bell doth toll for him that thinks it doth; and though it intermit again, yet from that minute that this occasion wrought upon him, he is united to God."
Cindy & Richard Jones
January 31, 2007
Dear
Mary, Megan, Christopher & Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. I remember when you all came to pick out Simba--Bernie must have been around 8. He was a great kid, and we know you have many happy memories. We're thinking of you with prayers and much sympathy. If there's anything we can do, please let us know.
Love,
Raeleen Benjamin
January 31, 2007
Dear Chip and family,
Please know that your friends at Stop and Shop share your pain thru this difficult time. Remember what the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose. May your loving memories of Bernie carry you thru the days ahead. You're in our hearts and prayers, God bless
Linda and Bob Koetsch
January 31, 2007
To 'Uncle Bernie' and family;
All of you are in our thoughts, and we are incredibly saddened knowing the pain you must be feeling in losing Bernie. We will always remember 'Little Bernie' as the towheaded little kid with the perpetual smile! With love and hugs, Linda and Boa
Holly Perkins
January 31, 2007
I am so sorry to hear this. I give my condolences to Melissa Ladden, and the whole family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bernie wearing the usual mischievous grin!
January 31, 2007
Bernie with Mom, Megan & Chris
January 31, 2007
Phil and Jane Bullard
January 31, 2007
Chip, Lory and family - we want you to know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Sorry we are so far away and will not be there to extend our sympathy. We will always remember and treasure the memories of the many good times we shared at Piper Pond with Bernie and the rest of the family - We love you all. Jane and Phil.
Aaron and Jessica Vancini
January 31, 2007
Chip, Jason and Family-
Know that you are in our thoughts and hearts through these tough times. We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
Melissa Carolino
January 31, 2007
To the Ladden Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. I graduated with Bernie and he always made me smile and I will never forget him. He will be very missed.
Meg Deguzis
January 31, 2007
Lory,Chip and Melissa,
We were shocked by this news and cannot even imagine what you are going through. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Meg,Ed,Ryan and Taylor Deguzis
The Vaillancourt Family
January 31, 2007
To all the Laddens we are deeply saddened by the loss of Bernie. He will be in our thoughts and prayers forever. Rememeber the good memories of Bernie and hold them close for years to come. Forever Wayne, Dawn, Brooke, Megan, Tommy and Jenna
Meaghan and Joe
January 31, 2007
Jay, Megan and Family-
Our condolences go out to you in your time of mourning. They say the good die young. Bernie was an amazing guy and we know for you Jay, an amazing brother and best friend. Stay strong and remember the memories, for they last forever. Our prayers are with you.
Lillian Brabner
January 31, 2007
I would like to give my condolences. I grew up with Bernie throughout school and he was always such a funny guy; someone who could always make you smile.
He will be missed and my sympathy goes out to his entire family.
Mike, Tina, Erica, & Mikey Forrest
January 31, 2007
Chip, Lory, Jay, & Melissa -
We can't imagine the pain you all are feeling at this time. Bernie was an outgoing fun person to be around. All my thoughts of Bernie are good thoughts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. If you need me Jay I am here for you.
Love,
Erica and Family
Susan Weber
January 31, 2007
Dear Ladden family,
I still remember Bernie's infectious smile, and his so very blond hair. He was a dilegent student who often brought a smile to my face. Bernie was a member of our 7th grade team. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Your loss has saddened us all at Kellogg. Sue Weber
Lisa Alexander
January 31, 2007
My thoughts and Prayers go out to you and your family.I was a friend of Bernie's in high school.He was a wonderful person he always knew how to make people laugh and have a great time. let the memories get you by at this hard time. My Prayers are with you.
The Lund Family
January 31, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories of Bernie bring you comfort. Remember he was a great person and will be remembered forever.
Marjorie Rancourt
January 31, 2007
To the Ladden Family,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Lorraine M. Grodovich D.M.D. and staff
Erik Mills
January 31, 2007
Chip, Lory, Jay, Megan and family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Bernie. He was a great person and I am glad to have known him. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers in this devastating time. Remember the good times and memories that were shared by all those who knew Bernie.
Morgan J. Beaudoin
January 31, 2007
When I heard the news, I couldn't believe it, I think because part of me didn't want to believe it. Bernie, Mike and I had some of the greatest times of my life. There was never a time when Bernie didn't make me smile. I will keep all of those amazing memories forever.
I know now that you watching down on us. I just miss and love you so much Bernie... Rest in Peace..
-Morgan
Joann Pappaceno
January 31, 2007
Chip and Lory,
I am so sorry for your loss. Bernie's memory will live on in that little girl. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
January 31, 2007
I'm not sure where to start. I have known Bernie for years. He was my best friend for most of them. Then we started dating. I will never forget all the memories we shared. Whenever I was upset or mad he always knew what to say to make me smile. Bernie and I went through a lot in a short period of time, and I'll never forget him! I know that he will forever look down upon all of us and some how always make us smile. I love you Bernie! RIP...
~ ~ never forgotten ~ ~
Darryl & Sandra Shaw
January 31, 2007
Dear Jay and family,
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your brother, Bernie. Although we never met him, we know how close you two were. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Darryl and Sandra
(Erica's aunt and uncle)
Dan Rich
January 31, 2007
Words alone are not adequate to express my sorrow to your family. You are all in our thoughts.
Michael Fredette
January 31, 2007
Bernie
has been my best friend since the early days in high school. It didn't
take long for us to start finishing each others sentences and thinking
identically. I considered Bernie my brother and i will miss him more
than i can explain in words. I have never trusted or understood anyone more than Bernie and I know he felt the same way about me. He will always be in my heart and he will
watch down over all of us.
I love you so much Bernie, you will always be a part of me.
Your best friend forever,
Mike
Patrick Daw
January 31, 2007
Bernie and Barbara,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Knowing how close you both are with your families makes it even more devastating. What a waste of such a young and vibrant life. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carrie Hastings
January 31, 2007
Chip & Lory
We are so very sorry to hear about your beloved son. No one knows why these things happen, but please know that you guys are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Tom and Carrie Hastings
and family
Jaclyn McLean & Family
January 31, 2007
Dear Ladden Family,
I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss. Bernie was one of my classmates, and an amazingly funny and animated one for that matter. He always knew how to cheer me up or light up the room. My heart and memories go out to you and your family.
Renee Reis
January 31, 2007
Mary, Megan, Chris & Family,
No words can express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. We have so many fond memories of Bernie. Especially for me, I had the opportunity to watch Bernie grow from a strong willed, energetic, loving baby to an extraordinary, caring, handsome young man. He will never be forgotten. I'll never forget all our memories together. From the days of babysitting him to the joys and memories of Cape Cod. I am grateful that my family had the opportunity to become close to Bernie and share in fond memories, as well. I know Rob will never enjoy a Yankees/Red Sox game as much as he did with Bernie. Alyssa & Robert looked up to him as a big brother. Alyssa's admiration of him is unexplainable. Her eyes would light up when ever he walked into a room. He has a special place in her heart. He will forever be in our hearts, memories and prayers. We will never forget the joy and happiness he brought into our lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of need and always. We love you.
Love always,
Renee, Rob, Robert & Alyssa
Jessica Vasile , Joe and Adriana Romano
January 31, 2007
Lord God, you gave us Bernard for so short time. His life had so much promise. His future was before him. His life has passed too quickly. Make Bernard worthy to share the joys of paradise. Grant him full life in Christ, and may he stand with all the angels and saints before your throne for all eternity. Amen.
Mary,Megan,Christopher,and Natalie,
It will be the little things that you will remember the quiet moments, the smiles,the laughter.
And although it may seem hard right now,it will be the memory of these little things that help to push away the pain and bring the smiles back again. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you always and forever.
Taelyr,
Remember papa as a loving father, Every time he saw you, his eyes glowed with joy and love. He loved you so much! You are a split image of your father, your eyes and your beautiful smile. We all love you very much especially Adriana (nana)
Love,
Barbara Howe Ege
January 31, 2007
Chip,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I can only imagine the pain you are experiencing right now. May the grace of God uphold you and your family during this time.
Love, Barbara and family
Diane (Kacmarcik) Augustus
January 31, 2007
Dear Chip & Lory,
I haven't seen you in quite some time, but I was so sad to learn of your son's passing. One should never outlive their child. May the love & support of your family and friends and the memories you hold sustain you during this incredibly sad time. You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers.
Mary Ann Droney
January 31, 2007
Bernie will be missed dearly. Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Mary Ann
Keven and Melissa Crawford
January 31, 2007
Bernie and Barbara, we are so sad to hear of your loss. We know how close you were to all of your family and this is a tragic loss. Take care and our prayers are with you all.
Janice and Sal Di Luciano
January 31, 2007
Mary, Megan, Chris, Natalie,and family,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. If there is anything we can do to help you please reach out to us.
Sandra Buonannata
January 31, 2007
Ladden Family-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Samantha Carney
January 31, 2007
Dear Ladden Family,
I'm Very sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you in this time of pain. Bernie was a good friend to me and mary i can still remember when you watched me if beth DeRubbo Couldnt. I wish he was still here with us today, but I know that he will be missed by all and we will always keep your family in our hearts. God Bless
Samantha Carney & The Carney Family
Erin DeRubbo
January 31, 2007
Mary, Megan, Chris and Family
I don't even know what to say. I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many fond memories of all of us growing up. The snow storms and playing together outside, even the few times I came over to babysit. (When Christopher clearly disliked me and Megan and Bernie were my only allies.) Bernie was such a wonderful person and he will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. I found this poem and hope it brings you a bit of comfort in this terrible time.
The Broken Chain
We little knew that morning that
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly.
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you.
You did not go alone,
for part of us went with you
the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories.
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing will ever be the same the same,
but as God calls us one by one,
the Chain will link again.
Bruce and JoAnn Frye
January 31, 2007
Dear Mary,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this time. Please accept our sympathy. Bernie was a good person.We will always remember the good times our families had together when our boys were young.
Krystal Frazao
January 31, 2007
Mary, Megan, and Chris:
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Most of my childhood memories are filled with your family and Bernie at your house. They are all memories full of fun and laughter. Bernie was always tagging along with me and Megan and I remember him always trying to make us laugh. He was a great guy and I'm happy that he was and always will be a part of those memories for me. I wish you all of the support, hope, faith, and love in this time of need. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Connie Lustrinelli
January 31, 2007
Chip & Lory
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.I met Bernie about 4 years ago through Jay,when me and Jay worked at Big Y together. They used come over my house all the time. Bernie always had a smile on his face, whenever we talked he just look at me and smile.I will never forgot that smile. Chip & Lory you both had a wonderful son. He will be sadly missed. My thought and prayers are with you and your family
May God and your friends and family help you through this loss.
Sandy Cunningham
January 31, 2007
Dear Chip, Lory and Melissa, We were shocked and saddened to hear of Bernie's passing - there is nothing more difficult than losing a child. Wishing you comfort from all of us, The Cunninghams
Cindy & Fred Lynn
January 31, 2007
We understand, our son Jensen gained his wings in 2003.Children are the light of every parents heart and when we are left to grieve them we sometimes feel so alone with our overwhelming pain, please know you are not. There are many of us that walk this journey with you and we are always here if you ever need.During this time hold each other close and we will hold you in our prayers.
The Ledoux Family
January 31, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Barbara Welchman
January 31, 2007
Megan and Mary-I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Please convey my condolences to all your family. I feel so close to both of you. Know that you are in my prayers day and night and He will get you through the next few days. God Bless.
Cindy Ochankowski
January 31, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Beth DeRubbo
January 30, 2007
Mary, Megan, Chris and family,
I can't even imagine the pain you all feel. I only know the pain I feel, it is nothing compared to yours. We met when we moved into our house, right across from you. Bernie was just a baby with a set of lungs that could pierce your ear drums! We had so much fun during the snowstorms when Jerry was plowing, most of all putting the kids in a sled and going to Friendly's for dinner. Remember being outside on my driveway with our daycares(remember I had no front or backyard that year, because Jerry wanted new grass). Mike and Bernie were so protective of their Fisher Price tricycles. So many memories, I know I drove Bernie nuts calling him Nardi Bernardi, and Nardo Bernardo, but he always smiled that handsome smile and showed dimples. I will miss him. I can only hope that your happy memories help with the pain you will face in the future. Remember I'm right across the street. I am so very sorry for your loss and I love you all. Beth
Newington Memorial Funeral Home
January 31, 2007
With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.
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