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Robert Killian Obituary

KILLIAN, Robert K. Robert K. Killian of Hartford, former Connecticut Lieutenant Governor and Attorney General died Saturday, (June 25, 2005) at St. Francis Hospital and Medical Center after a brief illness. Killian was born September 15, 1919 in Hartford, the son of Edward F. and Annie (Nemser) Killian. He was married for over 50 years to his high school sweetheart, Evelyn Killian, who predeceased him in 1993. He and his late wife graduated from Hartford High in 1937. He attended Kingswood School for a P.G. year and graduated from Union College in Schenectady, NY in 1942. While at Union, he was quarterback for its undefeated football team, boxed, played lacrosse and chaired the Union Young Democrats for Roosevelt. As a 1st Lieutenant in World War II, Killian commanded an infantry company and in four years earned four battle stars and a Purple Heart in campaigns on the Pacific Islands of Kwajalein, Palau, Mindinao and Okinawa. Thanks to the G.I. Bill he attended the Hartford Law School (now UCONN). A few years after graduation, he, his law school classmate Judge Robert Krechevsky and the late Samuel Gould started the Hartford firm of Gould, Killian and Krechevsky (now Gould, Killian and Wynne). Killian drove to work at the firm up to the date of his hospitalization. Killian became Hartford Democratic Town Chairman in 1963 and was proud of his leadership in electing Hartford's first African-American Councilman and its first African-American State Senator. His friendship with the late Democratic Chairman John Bailey resulted in his appointment as Attorney General by Governor John Dempsey in 1967 to fill a vacancy and he won election in his own right in 1970, one of only two Democrats to survive a Republican sweep of the Governorship and other statewide offices. In 1974, he was elected Lieutenant Governor on a ticket headed by Governor Ella Grasso. After leaving state service in 1975, Killian spent a decade as Chairman of the Hartford Civic Center and Coliseum Commission. During that period, he and his fellow commissioners turned around an organization that had suffered recurrent operating deficits into one that showed operating profits in nine out of ten years. In his later years, Killian was particularly well known (though not always by name) as the dapper, elderly gentleman with the quick smile and friendly hello who strolled Hartford's west end, and particularly Elizabeth Park, with his handsome, snow white Great Pyrenees dog Moby who charmed people even as he drooled and shed hair in abundance. The wonderful, caring staff at St. Francis Hospital, floor 10-9, smuggled Moby in three times during the last few weeks, not an easy task with a 115 pound dog! Killian is survived by his daughter, Cynthia Killian Dodd and her husband, Mark, who live in West Hartford. Cindy was a great daughter who was constantly doing things for her dad and could coax a smile out of him right up to the day of his death. He is also survived by his son, Robert K. Killian, Jr, and his wife, Candace KilIlian of Hartford, and their two daughters, Virginia K. Killian of Chicago, IL and Carolyn K. Killian of Hartford. He called Candy, Virginia and Carolyn "the Momma and the Girls" and treasured their company and phone calls. He referred to his much loved son, Robert as "the Judge" when talking with his friends and strangers, but always called him his "Boy-Boy" around family. Killian is also survived by his younger brother, James D. Killian of Avon; a sister-in-law, Terry (O'Brien) Killian of East Hartford; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brothers, Edward F. Killian, Jr., David J. Killian and Rev. William A. Killian; and his sister, whom he always introduced as his "oldest sister," Doris Sturges. In lieu of flowers, Mr. Killian's family asks people to consider a gift to The Intensive Education Academy, c/o Sister Helen Dowd, 840 North Main Street, West Hartford, CT 06117, the Friends of Elizabeth Park, P.O. Box 370361, West Hartford, CT 06137, or to do an act of kindness in his memory. Calling hours will be Tuesday from 2-5 and 7-9 p.m. at the Sheehan-Hilborn Breen Funeral Home, 1084 New Britain Ave., West Hartford. The funeral procession will be Wednesday at 9 a.m. from the funeral home followed by a Mass of Christian Burial, celebrated at 10 a.m. at the Cathedral of Saint Joseph, 140 Farmington Ave., Hartford. Interment with Full Military Honors, will be at Mount Saint Benedict Cemetery, Bloomfield.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 27, 2005.

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Howard Greene

June 30, 2005

Dear Bob and Family:



I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My thoughts are with you.

Marilyn Montano

June 29, 2005

To the Killian Family - Mr Killian was more than a customer of Arrow Pharmacy, he was part of our family, and I felt a special bond because of his relationship with my Dad when they were so very young. We have truly lost a very gentle man in the truest sense of the word. Please take good care of Moby for him. My deepest sympathy to you all, may your memories sustain you and help you through this difficult time.

Marilyn Montano and John LaBruna

Malcolm Campbell

June 29, 2005

Bob and Cindy - What a wonderful and loving tribute to your dad (and mom). I well remember their gracious hospitality during extended visits from Washington. I regret that I could not be there today to personally pay my respects to The Governor.

Mal Campbell

Danielle Genovesi

June 29, 2005

To the Killian Family,

My deepest sympathy to you all. I had the great pleasure of being Mobys dog groomer. Mr Killian was always a breath of fresh air when he came to us to take care of his baby.He always had a kind word, a big smile and always a pat on the cheek. We will miss him greatly!

Kathy Weber

June 29, 2005

My sincere condolences go to Mr. Killians family. I worked with him at Gould, Killian and Wynne and enjoyed hearing his stories of the old days. He was a wonderful man and I will miss him very much.

Michael and Nella D'Onofrio

June 29, 2005

To Judge Killian and Cindy - We were deeply saddened when we read of your Dad's passing. We have fond memories of him while we were living on Tredeau Street. He was an honest, well-spected pillar of our State and will be greatly missed. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Sincerely, Mike and Nella D'Onofrio

Phyllis Zlotnick

June 29, 2005

I read this notice with a profound sense of loss. Bob Killian was a very important person in my life personally and professionally. Indeed the entire disability community owes him for the significant effect he had on achieving our freedom to be mobile in today's world. I will always remember his integrety, unwaivering commitment, and compassion.

Dora (Dooley) Flynn

June 28, 2005

The Dooley & Flynn families send our deepest sympathies on Bob's passing. We hope the Killian family will remember us from White Sands Beach & Wilson Street in Hartford. I know my now deceased mother & father (John & Elizabeth Dooley) & brother Johnny & sisters Lucy & Molly thought very kindly of him, as do I. I also remember fondly, Bob's parents' newsstand on Park Street in Hartford. He will not be forgotten.

Ken and Monique Kennedy

June 28, 2005

Our deepest condolences to the Killian family. We will miss talking to Bob on his strolls through our back yard with Moby and listening to his kind words of encouragement on everything from the state of our yard to managing our family and work life. His reassuring "You kids are doing great" has meant so much to us through the years. He will be greatly missed.

Brian Clancy

June 28, 2005

To the Killian Family- Your father and mine were good friends since childhood and your dad's assistance and guidance was always there if I needed it. His opinions and points will be greatly missed. Please accept our condolences. Brian, Colleen & Shaun Clancy

Dan Sclare Carol Salcius

June 28, 2005

Bob;

Our deepest condolences on the passing of your Dad. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

Pat Sheehan

June 28, 2005

Bob Killian proved that public service is a great calling, as well as a great adventure. As a young news reporter, I first met him in 1967 and had the pleasure of his company many times during his honorable political career. He fought hard for his beliefs and always defended the best interests of Hartford and our state. His service after leaving elected office was incredibly important to the vitality of Hartford. He had vision, a quick wit and a clever mind; he was faithful and "real." My sympathies to Bobby and the entire family on your loss. Your dad will be remembered fondly.

Stan Malis

June 28, 2005

My sincerest condolences on the loss of a great individual. I have nothing but fond memories of Bob.

Karen Renzulli Lynch

June 27, 2005

Judge Killian, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family on the death of your father.

He was a real gentleman.

Susan (Kuchta) Carone

June 27, 2005

Bob:



My deepest condolences on the passing of your Dad. We were neighbors on Montowese Street so very many years ago. May God Bless.

Ida D. McGhee

June 27, 2005

Cindy & Judge Killian, I remember your father very fondly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. In Sympathy, Ida D. McGhee (Northwest Catholic High School)

Gerald Crean

June 27, 2005

I had the pleasure of knowing Bob Killian as a fellow Democrat and his work as an attorney on the Travelers Insurance Company defense panel. He was always a great guy to work with. He will be missed. My condolences to his family.

Antoinette Ruzzier

June 27, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Antoinette and Lucio Ruzzier

Trish & Ralph Barker

June 27, 2005

Cindy Killian-Dodd and Family- We are sorry for your loss and our thoughts are with you. Trish & Ralph Barker

John Meinke

June 27, 2005

Bob -

I don't know whether or not you remember me, but you and I attended Kingswood together, back in the early 1960's. I was very sorry to read of your father's passing. He sounded like quite a man. Please accept my condolences.

John L. Meinke - Trumbull

Matthew Dowd

June 27, 2005

Thinking of you and your family.

Tom Redmond

June 27, 2005

The Redmond family offers their condolences to the Killian family. My late father and I worked in the campaigns of 74 and 78. Robert Killian was a true gentleman and the epitome of the "Happy Warrior."

Maryann Smialowski

June 27, 2005

With prayers and sympathy during this sorrowful time in your family.

Alex Rudewicz

June 27, 2005

Dear Mark & Cindy, Regina and I were saddened to read in the paper

of your loss.I Worked with Bob in the 50's when he was chair of the

Cancer Society Drive. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Alex & Regina Rudewicz

Dr. Arnold Goldman

June 27, 2005

To the Dodds, and to all the members of Mr. Killian's family,



I read with sadness about the loss of Bob Killian. Please accept my profound condolences. All of us at Canton Animal Hospital have always looked forward to Mr. Killian's vists with Moby, and also with his previous dog Nick, who died in 1998. He loved both dogs deeply.



I am so pleased you were able to bring Moby to Mr. Killian in his last days. I am certain that this mattered to him a great deal. He loved all animals, and especially his dogs, both of whom he doted on and worried about constantly. I'm certain he was comforted knowing Moby was safe and well taken care of by his daughter's family.



We will miss Bob Killian. His smile and cheerfulness and especially his trust were all precious to us. He had a kind of class you rarely see today. I was not surprised to read of his many accomplishments across a long and remarkable life. He was a member of that "greatest generation." He'll not be forgotten.



Respectfully,

Arnie Goldman

Kate Pascucci- Bentley

June 27, 2005

To Virginia and the Killian Family-

I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Kate Pascucci

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