HAYES, Lenora "Lee" (Tompkins) Lenora "Lee" (Tompkins) Hayes, 81, formerly of Elmwood died peacefully on Sunday, (August 7, 2005). She was the beloved wife of the late Robert L. Hayes. Born and raised in Sharon, daughter of the late David B. Tompkins and Nora (Walsh) Tompkins, Mrs. Hayes was an Elmwood resident since 1951. She was a longtime West Hartford school crossing guard and a member of the Elmwood Community Club. Lee was an avid bowler for many years and had a real zest for life. She enjoyed making friends wherever she went. A loving and devoted mother and grandmother, she leaves her daughter and son-in-law, Lynn and Bill Kelly of Newington; her son and daughter-in-law James and Susan Hayes of California; five grandchildren, Scott, Robert, and Laura Kelly and her fiance Mike Kelliher, and Matthew and Jessica Hayes. She also leaves her sister Henrietta "Tommy" Shaw of West Hartford; and many nieces and nephews. She was pre-deceased by seven brothers and a sister. Her family would like to extend its appreciation to Dr. Harry Morgan and the caring employees of Andrew House, New Britain. Her funeral service will be held on Thursday, at 9:15 a.m. from the Newington Memorial Funeral Home, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial, at 10 a.m. at Church of the Holy Spirit, Newington. Interment will be in Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford. Relatives and friends are invited to call on TODAY from 5-8 p.m. at Newington Memorial. Memorial donations may be made to the Society for Progressive Supranuclear Palsy, Executive Plaza III, 11350 McCormick Road, Suite 906, Hunt Valley, MD 21031. To share a memory with the family, please visit us at www.newingtonmemorial.com.
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Jim, Ginny, Tim & Jeff Buell
August 18, 2005
Lynn, Bill & Family: We are so sorry to learn of Lee's passing. We always enjoyed talking with her at family gatherings. She had a beautiful smile, and a great sense of humor. We will miss her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sandra Stoughton
August 10, 2005
Laura & Family,
My deepest sympathies to you all--thinking of you and your family through these times.
Newington Memorial Funeral Home
August 10, 2005
With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.
Mary Ann Halligan
August 9, 2005
Dan, Anthony and I want you all to know how very sad we are to here about Lee's death. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all at this time.
Love,
Mary Ann,Dan and Anthony
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Susan Hayes
August 9, 2005
Matt and I want to send our love and sympathy. We are glad that Jim and Jessica were able to make it back. Our thoughts are with everyone even though we are not there in person.
Love to all, take care.
Matt Hayes
Susan Hayes
Lucy Nadeau
August 9, 2005
Lynn, I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. I met your wonderful mom and she had a great spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lynn Boorman
August 9, 2005
It is with love and prayer that I am sending to you my deepest sympathy. We all loved Lee very much, she was a part of our lives, as you are. In this time of sorrow, just know you are in my prayers and thoughts.
Love,
Lynn
Nancy & Philip Kneese
August 9, 2005
Our thoughhts are with you all at this sad time. Nancy & Philip
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