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Russell Westover Obituary
Russell Stowe Westover
Russ attended Washington State University in 1982, becoming a life-long devoted Coug, meeting Suzanne Kissee, his future wife. Twenty-one years later, the two still had eyes only for each other.
Russ worked on and off for the past 23 years at the Boeing Company, and enjoyed his recent projects. In his down time, Russ enjoyed the outdoors, fishing, boating, fixing anything, spending time at his cabin in Sun Cove or at Banks Lake with family and friends. Russ really enjoyed designing and building his home and cabin, taking great satisfaction in custom creations and ingenious solutions to building and landscaping challenges.
Russ and his family enjoyed traveling together, having recently journeyed to Maui, Canada, Yellowstone, Mt. Rushmore, San Diego, Arizona, Alaska, and the local Washington wineries. Russ loved his three wonderful children and shared these trips with them, encouraging them to try new experiences along side him.
Russ is survived by his wife Suzanne; his children, Alex, Christine and Gabrielle (new husband, David); parents, Susan and Robert Westover; sister, Debbie and her husband, Dr. Scott Winram; sister-in-law, Jamie Westover; nieces, Rachael, Megan, Siena, and Mary Helen; and nephews, Bert, Ryan, Sean and Cyrus.
While Russ' time with us was too short, we are the lucky ones for having known him. There wasn't a person he wouldn't help, a child he couldn't make laugh, or a new experience he wouldn't try. Go Cougs!
Russ was preceded in death by his big brother, Rob who died in 2008.
In memory of both Russ and Rob, an educational scholarship is being created in their names. Please make donations to the Rob and Russ Westover Memorial Foundation. Donations can be made at the memorial service or sent to 420 175th Ave. NE, Snohomish, WA 98290, in care of Suzanne Westover.
There will be a viewing from 11:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., on Friday, May 15, 2009, at Bauer Memorial Home in Snohomish. Short written personal notes or non-metal mementos may be placed with Russ to be cremated with him. There will be a memorial service 2:30 p.m., on Saturday, May 16, at the Granville Grange in Granite Falls, WA, with a reception immediately following at the same location. Cougar attire is welcome.
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Memories and Condolences
for Russell Westover
Sponsored by Robert W Westover Jr (Dad).
May 11, 2010
It is a year and not a day goes by without thinking of you, and wishing i see you, tell you how much we love you and miss you. you were such an important part of our life. I can still hear the "woo hoo" in your voice. you are on the surface of our hearts and we all miss you so much. you were such an inspiration to our kids and family, and everyone that you met. we are so thankful to have met your 16 years ago when you brought your family and friends into our lives. We were so lucky to have you in our lives. You will never be forgotten Russ. We love you and miss you so much.
Pam, Sonny, Tyler and Sabrina
May 10, 2010
Lighting a candle that will glow forever in our memories and our hearts until we meet again - and boy what a party that will be!!
There are no words to express the loss we feel but your friends and family cling to each other in your memory and from that we find happiness and laughter.
Thank you, Russ, for coming into our lives and showing us what it means to LIVE.
Forever...
Doug, Sherri, Beau, Brittany & Lucas
October 14, 2009
We celebrated your birthday tonight Russ, just like we used to and just like we will continue to do in the future. We toasted you with your favorite tequila and I made your favorite Sherri dish: chicken enchiladas. Suzanne brought your Margueritaville and we set it up in the same spot you always placed it. Christine is doing a great job of filling your shoes as the designated bartender. :)
Needless to say, a key ingredient was missing...you. I miss hearing "Hey Baby!" as you walked into the kitchen. I asked Doug if he misses hearing "DOUGLAS!" to which he would always reply "RUSSELL!" and his quick response was "Every day at work."
We remained in good spirits and spoke of you often. Your memory offers us an endless supply of stories and laughter but if there were ANY way we could bring you back to us...
Rest in peace and continue to watch over us all.
We love you.
Sherri
October 9, 2009
Little Brother,
I miss you and am so proud of you. Next week on your birthday I will be volunteering at Mary's pre-school. I promise to bake homemade cookies to take in for the class treat. You did that for your kids.
Your family continues to be a bright spot in my life.
You and Rob are with me every day. I love you.
xo,
'yer big sis,
Deb
Bonnie Slighter
July 26, 2009
Dear Suzanne, Christine, Alex, Gabrielle:
We recently heard of Russ's passing and we are deeply sorry. Even though we knew him a short while, he made us feel like special people everytime we would see him at the kids' soccer games.
Suzanne, if there is anything you need I am here for you....please call me
Christine- Mo is very sad to hear of the loss of your Dad. I, too, lost my father when I was 17. If you ever need to talk please come and see me!
Alex- Austin is very sorry for your loss and is hoping and praying for your comfort.
Gabrielle-you will always have your father with you in your heart and in your memories.
We wish you all our deepest sympathy...
Bonnie, Tom, Meaghan "Mo", Austin Slighter
360-668-8487
Gabrielle Dickhaut
July 22, 2009
Hey Dad!
I miss you so much! I know you are having a great time looking down on the family with Uncle Rob and watching over! Although I wish you were still here to see your first grandchild! She is perfect! She looks almost exactly like I did in the pictures with you holding me when I was really small... You were always SO good with little kids. You could make just about anyone of them stop crying by just looking at them. I think it was just a special gift you had. I really wish you could have seen Annabelle.
I miss your hugs too! when you hugged someone you didn't hug them just to be nice you hugged them because you really cared about them and you could feel that on the other end of a Russ Hug.
I love you so much and think about you every day! I want you to know I am helping mom whenever I can and David is trying very hard to help out as well.
Sheli and Mike Heltne
July 16, 2009
Russ was someone who made everyone around him feel special. He could take a story about something ordinary and make it hilarious. He was the one person I knew who could be counted on to have more home improvement projects going at one time than I did. It seemed that every time we went to the Westover house, he had added something or moved it to a different place.
I thought there would always be more time at some point in the future for our families to spend more time together. We'll miss him always.
Holly Lund
July 2, 2009
July 2, 2009
How is it that one can feel so “full” after such a great loss? The love you always new was there surfaces in new and profound ways. Suzanne and Gabrielle, Christine and Alex are deep in our hearts – Sue and Bob all like family. Our story began 21 years ago when Suzanne and I were pregnant together with our first girls. I remember that first winter when Rusty and Suzanne were living out of their trailer while building the house. Gabrielle would get snuggled down into the bathtub for her bed to sleep in every night, when one day the power went out because of heavy snowfall. We took them to our house for a week and it was not only a joy to spend that holiday all cozy and warm together, but so nature to invite them in. We spent a vacation together at Ohanapacosh on Mt. Rainier with our kids scooting all around the campground on their bicycles. Gene was down from Alaska and Jennifer came over, pregnant though she was. It was just Rusty’s sort of luck to take us all fishing and discover after pulling in more fish than we could count, that the river had just been stocked with fish. How could we convince our kids that every fishing adventure wouldn’t be this fruitful? We always had the kids at our feet helping working on our building projects, both families having 3 kids. And then there were the dogs. Rusty always had to have a dog. I remember Suzanne and him negotiating for more kids or more dogs. You just couldn’t have enough projects going. Suzanne said it was the way she was raised, dad always building something, and Russ fit right in. What amazed me was what an artist he was. Suzanne and I would gather around a table in early December to paint homemade gift tags with the kids, and there was Rusty and Paul starting a project of painted wrapping paper as well. He could draw anything – especially in 3 dimensions. He and Paul were always brainstorming ideas together for our houses and yards, problem solving together. Russ also didn’t hesitate in parenting our kids. One day my Heidi had a date with a guy Rusty didn’t like the looks of. He took the guy aside while Paul was off in the shop and gave him a talking to that left me with no doubts my daughter would be respected and home early that night!!! He had high expectations for all his kids, always looking out for their best interest. Now, a month after Rusty’s tragic death, the amazing feeling of “fullness” still lives on. The memories are rich, the love drawing me into new levels of connectedness and compassion for one another. Russ, we think of you with love and longing every time we walk in your home, see your beautiful yard, engage with your wonderful family. A breeze will blow when I’m out wandering about and I’m filled with the spirit of you and I smile for knowing you are blowing about encouraging us and inspiring us still.
Holly Lund Lake Stevens, WA
"One of a Kind"
June 19, 2009
There's not many people in this world who you can say are "One of a kind." Russ however was! He held a special place in everyone's heart and always will. The Westover Family is one special family filled with love, kindness, and adventure. We were lucky to have spent time with Russ and his family along with many other friends at their cabin in Sun Cove and camping at Pearrygin Lake. We also traveled to Cabo San Lucas in May of 2002 and celebrated the big 40 for Russ in October of 2003 also in Cabo. I remember on the plane down to Cabo, the flight attendants let the group of us sing Happy Birthday to Russ on the intercom and the whole plane sang along! We are very blessed to have had Russ in our lives and will forever remember and miss him. His Hugs cannot be replaced but the memory is always there. We love you Russ! Everyone here is watching out for your loved ones, just as you always watched out for all of us.
The Schwartz Family
Todd, Angela, Kaylene, and Kassie
Pat, Don & Bill Thompson-Moriarty
June 18, 2009
Bob & Sue Our hearts and prayers go out to Suzanne,Gabrielle, Christine,Alex and to you Bob & Sue & all our family members.God Bless all of you but especially in this particular time of your lose of Russ. May each of you find peace inthe days to come! Cuz Bill ( Moriarty ) Thompson, Cuz Don Thompson and Mom-Pat
Sharon, Jeff, and Aaron Willey
June 16, 2009
We were introduced to Russ, Suzanne, and their children through my sister, Pam. We will always remember Russ for his hugs, welcoming nature, genuine interest in others, and fun loving spirit. We had the pleasure of spending the last couple of years at Banks Lake with the Westovers and their friends and family. We looked forward to the relaxing boat trips to Russ’s favorite places and sharing laughs by the evening fire. It was a trip not to be missed and a huge part of the anticipation was knowing that Russ was going to be there and the fun and adventure that meant. When Russ walked into a room the atmosphere changed. It was energized and you couldn’t help joining in the conversation, laughter, and fun. Russ and his whole family radiate love, friendship, and fun.
Suzanne and family, we are so terribly sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Robert (Dad) Westover
June 15, 2009
Rusty is a joy to remember. Russ was born in Huntsville, AL, the youngest of three siblings; sister, Debbie was 23 months older , brother, Rob, was 34 month older than Russ. Being close in age the kids were very close and shared everything, and the older siblings delighted in teaching their little brother everything that they learned.
Rusty was creative from the time he was a baby and never lost his sense of humor and hunger for adventure. As an example, when Rusty was about a year old, I recall getting a call from Sue where she was absolutely beside herself. I had gone in to work early and it was about 9:00 AM when Sue called to tell me that Rusty had turned on the faucet at the bottom of the hot water heater in the laundry room and flooded the kitchen and garage, while she was cleaning that up, Rusty had found an indelible magic marker and written on all of the curtains that Sue had finished and installed the day before, and while she was attempting to the care of that he had gone in the bathroom and painted the wall with his dirty diaper. All before 9:00. All I could do was laugh and go back to work. Life was never dull with Rusty around.
By the time Russ was starting school he knew most of that being taught and frequently became bored and walked out of class to come home. This resulted in Mom taking him fishing at Pine Lake to discuss his truancy. During high school and college Russ worked summers for builders that I represented as a Realtor and he quickly picked up knowledge and aptitude for construction skills. Russ had a particular interest and ability in complex framing which he was often asked by the builders to do. He also had a strong interest in architecture. These interests lead Russ to enroll in Construction Management at WSU. After WSU he attended a CAD program at BCC, a skill he picked up very quickly. He then started working for Boeing as a CAD drafter and successfully took on projects there as a lead doing complex duct routing that had not previously been done using CAD. Russ progressed at Boeing to take on complex engineering projects for which he received management recognition. Russ became recognized as a qualified engineer and developed several patents that Boeing uses in airframe assembly.
Russ’s interest in construction and architecture lead him to design and build his residence in Snohomish and a vacation home near Chelan. He also designed and helped build homes for his friends and was constantly sought after for advice and help on his friend’s projects. He also helped us with remodel projects on our home.
Russ made friends easily and always stayed connected once he knew a person. He took great pride in being known as a person with a happy smile and helping hand. Russ always treated Sue and me with love and respect and I am very proud of his accomplishments and the respect and love that Russ has earned from everyone throughout his life
Rusty never did anything really bad, but he had this incredible curiosity and sense of adventure, characteristics that he never lost. He was riding a Shetland pony and doing back-flips off the high board and entertaining himself fishing in the swimming pool when he was 4. Russ was always very popular with his classmates and, with his good humor and friendly way, got away with almost anything . School came easily to Rusty and he had more time to play and get into mischief than he probably should have. He was a good skier, played golf on the Newport High Golf team, pitched was an excellent batter in little league hardball.
When Rusty was a high school senior and graduation was near, Rusty and one of his closest friends organized a senior escape where they set up camp on an island on the Stillaguamish River. There was beer and most of the senior class came for the week-end. The girls had made excuses that they were staying with friends, and everything was working out ok until the flood gates on the river were opened and the island was flooded. That resulted in the news media finding out about it and the whole event was recorded by helicopter on the local news, national news where his grandparents in PA recognized his truck, and international armed service broadcasts. The cat was out of the bag!This was an event that is still talked about among his classmates some 29 years later. They didn’t plan it that way but as usual everything turned out good.
Rusty was absolutely dedicated to his wife Suzanne and their three kids, Gabrielle, Christine, and Alex. Their time together was the most important thing in his life. About 10 years ago at the beginning of summer when he was finishing the cabin he was building at Sun Cove Estates on the Columbia River near Chelan, Rusty decided it was important to spend more time with the kids, so he went to Boeing management and told them that he intended to resign from Boeing. Boeing offered to let Rusty take the time he wanted as a leave of absence to accomodate him. Russ took every opportunity to travel with the family and took several vacations most years to give them the time and experiences together. Russ was active in school activities, all of the kids sports and helped them succeed in school. Russ gave his children everything that a father can give a child. I am so proud of his dedication to his family, although a bit jealous of not having more time with him myself; probably my own fault.
There was practically nothing that didn’t come easily to Rusty. He was considered good at almost everything by almost everyone he knew. He plowed ahead with things and succeeded more often than not. Many that knew Rusty have expressed love for him and have shown his mother and me how much he was appreciated throughout his life. The motto of his friends when faced with a challenge or difficult decision is "What would Russ Do?" A real stgatement fo admiration and love for a great friend.
I love you Russ and you will always be in my heart and prayers. Nothing can ever replace you in my life.
Dad
Susan(Mom) Westover
June 15, 2009
This is a love story to you, Russ, from your Mom….
From the day you were born, your red hair and freckles became your trade mark, a real Dennis the menace and the typical poster child for a Norman Rockwell calendar! You were so charming that you could get away with anything. Your antics and imagination challenged me every day! Your social skills won everyone over. You would climb trees, run away, hide, and think of something else to do. Your older sister and brother were constantly challenged by you wanting to do it all, of course they taught you everything that was fun. You ate crayons that they were using so they would pay attention to you! We started camping when you were very small and when we moved to Texas, you learned to fish in a swimming pool; always with the right attire, a cowboy hat, boots and jeans. You always wore a hat of every kind. With your fair skin and red hair we had to protect you from the sun! In Florida when you were about 3, you climbed a tree right outside the door to our cabin at a fishing camp after sneaking out of the house. We were terrified because we were on the Homosassa River which was loaded with gators! It took about an hour with everyone looking for you to find you. Of course we were all relieved to find you and bring you down. I think you were afraid of the repercussions for what you had done, and there were none…just relief!
When you started school, I sat on the curb with all of the other mothers crying and waving goodbye as the bus left with our loved ones. My grief was really relief that God had let me live long enough to see you go to school. Your boyhood adventures included hiking, bicycling, pockets full of frogs, bugs, and fossils. You attracted girls like bees to honey and your friends continued to be close for ever…As a natural athlete, you were active in many sports including golf team on Newport High School, baseball, skiing…downhill racing, and swimming. Your interest in construction skills, and a developing work ethic continued to increase your sphere of influence. Your days at WSU, experiences in education and fun, your intense need for more information, and curiosity resulted in your looking at every challenge and besting it with pride. Your wonderful family and beautiful wife were among of your greatest accomplishments, and your bond with them will remain forever. Your friendships developed during your married life became bonded with love and trust as you all helped build each other’s houses, take care of each other’s children …..a bond that will always remain. And you continued to wear a hat, a wonderful collection that seems to be “one in everyone’s closet”. I know it was very difficult to lose your older brother a year ago and it encouraged you to take the lead and remember each of us needed to get our ducks in order. And now, your sister, and I talk daily about all the good times. The strength of your father has kept me sane. I miss our lunch dates very much when we got together at Canyon’s and talked about what has happened during the last month. We were scheduled thru Aug…..
I love you and miss you Rusty,
Mom
Deborah Winram
June 12, 2009
I met my brother Rusty on October 14, 1963 when Mom and Dad brought him home from the hospital to our little house in Huntsville, Alabama. I was two years old at the time and my older brother Rob was three. I don¹t remember much about those days except that we were inseparable. My parents successfully taught us how to grow up liking each other, effectively diffusing sibling rivalry. Throughout childhood, adolescence and into adulthood, both of my brothers were my closest allies and friends. They often gave advice that didn¹t fit with my plans but their unconditional acceptance and love made it ok to for me to make mistakes since they were there to pick up the pieces when things didn¹t work out. Eventually I forgave Russ for eating my crayons, torturing me with spiders and for biting my nose.
More than anything, Russ was an example of living life fully. He manifested his dreams with gusto, building whatever his imagination cooked up. Long ago when his first daughter Gabrielle was a newborn, I was visiting from college and he said he wanted to show me where he was going to build his house. We drove through the woods along a dirt road for what seemed like miles and then hiked down to a small creek. We sat down. I am sure it was probably raining as it does in the great Northwest, but it didn¹t matter. Russ smiled his huge smile, opened a beer for each of us and said this is where I am going to build my house¹. We toasted and I knew that he would do it along with his wife Suzanne, who he built a lasting, loving partnership with.
When our daughter Mary Helen was three months old, he packed up his whole family and came to Maryland to visit Scott and I. It was delightful having them here to share our newest joy. Russ even mowed the lawn and cooked meals.
My brother was an exceptional father to his three children leaving a blueprint for them simply by providing an example of integrity, honesty and kindness. He was friendly to everyone he met and always there for family and friends. I am grateful for the opportunity to have shared lasting memories with him and to have stories to tell my daughter Mary Helen. Last summer after Rob¹s untimely death, Mary and I spent a month with my parents, Russ and his family. We simply hung out. Nothing more than sharing time together, and in the end, that is what I value the most. I will miss Russ, his giant hugs, quiet contemplation, and easy laughter.
Deborah Winram, Frederick, Maryland, June 12, 2009
June 10, 2009
Dear Suzanne, Gabrielle, Christine & Alex, It is very hard to drive past your driveway every day, knowing we will never see Russ driving out in his awesome truck or jeep. The last time I (carol) talked to Russ, was when I called to see if the brown dog that was hanging around our house was Rainy. As usual, he was very cheerful and thanked me for checking with you guys. We are still in shock that he is gone...he will obviously be missed by many...forever! We will never forget his smile & his wonderful hugs!
Lots of love,
The Janssen Family
Mark, Carol, Justine, Marcus
Tammy Moore
June 9, 2009
Dear Suzanne and Family - I want you to know you and Russ are in my prayers. I worked with Russ in CATIA training at Boeing. we became good friends. One of the things I admire most (not admired, I still admire it), was his love for you and your children. He was truly exceptional. The last time I saw Russ was at your neighbor's funeral. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Cabo San Lucas 2003
Sherri Maben
June 9, 2009
Nearly a month has gone by but the sorrow and disbelief remain. I heard his voice on the answering machine and was quickly reminded of how deeply we miss him. We were fortunate enough to be able to call Russ one of our closest friends for the past 20+ years. Co-worker quickly turned to friend which encouraged the opportunity to be neighbors and travel partners. Russ broadened our horizons and took the Mabens out of their backyard to places far (Mexico, Yellowstone, Vegas) and near (Chelan, Banks Lake, numerous campgrounds, and countless backyard barbecues). We had many travel plans yet ahead of us. Losing Russ has forever altered life as we knew it. He was the most giving, caring and fun-loving person. We were blessed to have him as our friend.
One of the things we will miss most are his hands because he used them in so many ways to show us he cared: a handshake for the guys, a hug for the ladies, high fives for the kids, a pat on the back, a helping hand with the hardest of tasks and the simple ones, too (helping you out of the car or across a log on a hiking trail) – and we can’t forget the back rubs! His hands were always extended to offer you food or drink, and hardly a day would go by that we didn’t pass on the road and see his arm extended out the truck (or jeep) window waving “hello”… a fly-by high five.
He would do anything for anyone but he adored Suzanne and his kids. His family will continue to be our family and we will make every effort to “Be More Like Russ” because Russ was LIFE.
Here’s to Russ! (clink)
The Maben Family
Doug, Sherri, Beau, Brittany & Lucas
Steve Baird
June 8, 2009
Suzanne and Family,
I will never forget one of the first times I met Russ... I went out to your place, and met this confident, hard working guy in the midst of building their own home, he was tossing milk jugs full of used motor oil under an old stump to burn it out. Black smoke billowing up in the sky, cut trees laying around, chain saw, 2x4's, nails... Arr Arr Arr (Insert Tim Allen ape noise here). It was paradise to me. He stuck out a sweaty, dirty hand with a smile and said "Hey Man". All I could think as I shook his hand back was... Geez, is this guy cool or what.
Russ was larger than life to me. From his love of working hard and building things, to his love and commitment to his family. Daph and I wanted to let you know you are in our prayers. Please, let us know if there is anything we can do.
Chris Kissee
June 7, 2009
June 7,2009
Dear Suzanne and family,
When Gene and I learned of Russ's terrible accident, we were stunned that he had died.
Suzanne your wonderful friends and family love you and the children. Russ will be missed in so many ways by all of us. He was the one person that we could all count on. He could always find a solution for any challenge.
When we go to our cabin at Rush Lake, we often remember that Russ made a special trip to Alaska, by himself to help raise the walls and put the roof on the cabin. Gene had some medical issues at that time and would soon have surgery. The weather was wonderful those few days that Russ spent with us and it was so much fun to have him there. And certainly, he made the work easier for Gene and the other helpers.
Russ once told us that he owed his success to Suzanne because she kept him in "line", most of the time. I know that Bob and Su Westover played a big part in the fine man that Russ grow to be. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Suzanne we sincerely want to help in any way that we can. It would make us happy to spend time with you and the children when ever you feel the need for us to be there.
Rusty left us with so many happy, happy memories, good humor and welcome back rubs. It was our privilage to have known him and to have had him for a son-in-law.
Chris and Gene Kissee
Suzanne's parents
Eagle River, Alaska
Gordon Granger
June 3, 2009
Dear Suzanne and Westover family,
I wanted to share a story with you that I thought was important to let you know. I wish I could of told Russ this in person but, her it goes throughout my life I have always tried to challenge myself to be a better person, a better father and a better athlete. In my younger years I would challenge myself in sports by picking someone who I felt was better then me (I would never tell them and they would never know), this worked in school as well as other parts of my life. I would mimic or try to copy or do the things that I thought would encourage me to do better. All the people that I selected played a part in who I was as an athlete, as a student, as a person. As I grew older as a person I became very selective of the people I identified with in my own circle. During this time it became less and less about athletics and more about personal growth and becoming the best person I could be. During this time my Father and Grandfather and other family members were the people I looked to for growth and not until I was in my 30's did I come across 2 or 3 people that I could identify with or thought highly enough about to use a benchmark for my standards with regards to being a better person, father and husband and Russ was one of these people in my life.
Some of the things that struck me with Russ was that he was always upbeat, positive and always had nice things to say he was always smiling, personable, cordial and gave good advice, not afraid to say what he felt but delivered it in a way that made sense. He was encouraging to people around him and supportive of the teams that he was associated with. I liked how he spent time with his family you could tell how important it was to him and he liked to take pictures and one of my all time favorite pictures of Miranda was emailed to me from Russ. I'm always striving to be a better person and even though the amount of time I spent with Russ was not really that much he made me want to be a better person and helped me set the bar for my life. I'm sure I am not the only one who's life Russ has affected in this way. One other thing that I have tried to do since getting older is to let the people know that have affected my life in a positive way and this just reiterates the importance of that. I can only hope that I can be that person to someone else, because positive action creates more positive action.
He was a great inspiration and made a huge impact in my life and I will miss him.
Gordy
Pam, Sonny, Tyler and Sabrina Roberge
June 3, 2009
We met Russ and Suzanne in 1994 when Tyler and Christine were just 1-1/2 years old and Gabrielle was just starting kindergarden. 3 years later Sabrina and Alex were born just 3 months apart. With our kids so close in age we had a lot of common interests. We have had some amazing times with all of you camping, watching movies, traveling and just being together.
One of my more recent memories I would like to share is about Russ and his jeep. When he got his, he was determined to help us find one too. We did get one, but his seemed to be on the road more than ours. He was so proud of that jeep and had a lot of fun with it, day and night. Russ even had his own special backwoods entry way he would adventure through sometimes to our house. He loved that air horn his brother Rob bought for him. He would come to our house and pull up in ‘his’ parking spot (right at our front door) and lay on the air horn. Many times I was in the other side of our house, and it would make me jump a mile. He just loved to do that to me! He would then come in our house, laughing so hard just to see what I may have dropped, then give me one of those amazing Russ hugs.
He left his amazing mark of friendship, kindness, and love on all of us which I am very thankful for and will miss, but I will remember forever. We will cherish all of our memories we had with Russ and new ones we will continue to have with all of you. Suzanne, thank you for sharing Russ with us, I feel very lucky to have had him in our lives.
I miss him so terribly and I know you all do too. Russ was such a very special friend to us and our kids and my family. He always put a smile on our faces, warmed our hearts, and gave us a special friendship that I feel so lucky to have had with him. Words cannot express the huge loss we all are feeling. We will miss him and I will miss those incredible hugs!
We love you all!
Jennifer kissee-stephens
June 2, 2009
In 1996, Russ, Suzanne, and Baby Alex came to visit us in Germany. In true Russ fashion, he communicated just fine with the locals, and finding a beer wasn't a problem.
We traveled for fun to Italy, where Suzanne blended in just fine, but Russ and Alex were true novelties. The Japanese tourists were supposed to be looking at the Italian works of art, but instead they were much more interested in Russ and his beautiful blue-eyed boy. Imagine Russ standing in a sea of tourists, a foot taller than everyone else, and, of course, grinning from ear to ear.
On our last night in Italy, we sat outside and enjoyed wine and cheese, and as the sun set, fireflies came out. We sat in awe of the twinkling lights before us. That trip was nearly perfect. I think Russ' only real complaint would have been that I rented a 10-person van. He still managed to drive it like a Ferrari! I love and miss you terribly Russ.
Tara Farnsworth
June 2, 2009
When I think of Russ I am reminded of a trip I took to Alaska many years ago. Gabrielle was just a little one at the time wearing her grandmothers sunglasses and watching her daddy water ski. She clapped and smiled each time he would stop and so we all clapped for him. His smile was contagious... and every time he looked at his family it was there! What a wonderful trip I had that summer. I will never forget!
My thoughts are with all.
blair
May 27, 2009
russell-
i remember you coming to machias elementery to come help all of us kids out..u probably dont remember me much but i was your son alex's friend...u were an awesome parent..coming to the field trips with us and the moms and muffins and dads and doughnuts..hmmm great memories with you..makes me all teary eyed..well i hope i will see you again someday..stay safe....i will pray for you
Natalie Stien
May 26, 2009
Rusty is how I remember you wrote Dean Reese. I too knew him as Rusty. He was a 3rd grader in my 1st class at Eastgate Elem.Among my fond memories of Rusty are he and David Valenti taking me to the nearby creek and introducing me to the fossil clams there. I enjoyed his sense of humor and caring nature. I'm so sorry for the loss to all his friends and family. Had I been in town I would have attended his funeral.
Natalie Stien aka Ms. Stien
Waide Adams
May 25, 2009
It’s so rare in life these days to come across a person so genuine and nice. My first time meeting Russ he was building the cabin for his family at Sun Cove. There was a particularly windy evening when he was raising the street side wall. It was a huge section that I figured he would need a crane for, especially with the gusts of wind. I couldn’t believe it when him and another man started raising it. They got it in into position easily, I was shocked! Before they could join it to the other walls already standing, a gust of wind hit and blew it off the second story. Soon after many of the neighbors including myself were there helping them hoist it back up to the second story. I could tell there were not many parts of his life where he didn’t try his hand at a task few would take on and accomplish. He was very knowledgeable, always willing to teach and share, whether a conversation or a smile. I always looked forward to seeing him. He loved spending time with his family at that cabin. They were there what seemed like every weekend. He left us too soon, but the time he was here he didn’t waste. He lived more in his life then most could in two. We will miss him, as I’m sure anyone who has met him for even the briefest time will. A smile and a laugh was the way he lived, not a tear. We will always have happy memories.
Dean Reese
May 24, 2009
RUSTY is how I will always remember you. We grew up together, going back to Eastgate Elementary, Tyee Jr. High, Newport H.S and WSU (1982) and I will always remember you as a dear old friend. I only wish I could have been part of the last 27 years of your life. It sounds like you had a wonderful life, loving wife and family which I am sure you were so grateful for. I do know that I am a better person to have known you and that you will be missed but never forgotten. Thank you Bob & Susan (Mr. & Mrs. Westover) as I knew you, for sharing your son with me and so many others which I will hold dearly in my heart his memory. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and with Rusty's family (Suzanne & the kids) May god be with you through this difficult time and with the help of family and friends that you are able to carry on. Memories last forever.
Mike and Mary Gilbreath
May 24, 2009
We are very sorry for your loss.
Lizzie Lee
May 22, 2009
I always called Russ "My Favorite Coug". His smile, his love for his family and his friendship were his mark at the work place. I am sorry for what the family is going through and I know there are no words that can ease this pain. It is a long process. My deepest sympathy to his family. To his mom, my prayers with you. You have gone through so much lately. You have a place in my heart.
Kathy Davis
May 22, 2009
Search Light Mom's wants to tell you how sorry we are for the passing of your Russell. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know. We as mothers understand the day to day pain as we search for answers.
Love and Blessings,
Search Light Mom's
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Denise (Smith) Krouskop
May 19, 2009
Westover Family - my heart aches for you all and what you must be going through. I grew up with Rob and Rusty - he, like is big Brother was such a wonderful spirit filled with such exuberance for life and so much love for everyone they came in contact with. Both will be greatly missed - we are all better people for knowing and loving them. You are in my heart, thoughts and prayers.
May 19, 2009
Suzanne and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time in your lives. Russ will be missed by many.
Joel and Kacey Brotten
Pete and Charlie Rodgers
May 18, 2009
Rusty, you changed our lives! It is comforting to know that your legacy will live forever and your impressions cherished in our minds. Thank you for the lasting memories that make life so wonderful. Your spirit will live for eternity. :-)
Pete and Charlie Rodgers
Jerry & Georgia Wolfe
May 18, 2009
Bob and Sue & family-Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are for your loss of Rusty. We are praying God will give you the strength to endure this difficult time.
Cecelia Maben
May 18, 2009
To the family of Russell Westover
I am so sorry for your loss and you will be in my prayers. Having lost a son in a tragic way(the brother of Doug Maben at the age of 38)I can relate with your feelings. One cannot feel the same kind of pain that you are experiencing unless they have gone through it as well. Even now, 6 years later, I can feel the same pain and perhaps more than then. My neighbor lost her 26 year old son in a tragic kayaking accident. We just do not think our children will leave this earth before we do. I did not know Russ well, but met him years ago at Doug and Sherri's for a BBQ. Then I would hear about their family trips together and the annual backpack/fishing trip that he would do with Doug so I felt, I kind of knew him. Also, the fact that he was a neighbor to Doug and Sherri and worked on Doug's team at Boeing makes it more difficult to have this big empty spot in so many lives. And to have lost 2 sons in such a short time. Wow, that has to hurt deeply. So again accept my condolences and prayers and I wish you all well and to find peace. Sincerely, Cecelia Maben
Jackie Lake Robinson
May 18, 2009
I have many wonderful memories of Russ, his brother Rob and the entire Westover family from my junior high and high school years. My heart hurts for you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Much Love,
Mike Mulligan
May 17, 2009
Boundless energy and irrepressible joy. That is Rusty.
I met Rusty in our first year at WSU. Everyone was drawn to him immediately and he embraced all of us. He cared so much for people and gave of himself so freely. His example helped shaped my life and the lives of so many others.
I am a better person for having known Russ and I miss him terribly. Even so, I feel so very fortunate to have known him.
Thank you Westover family for sharing him with us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mike Mulligan
May 16, 2009
Russ,,,Rusty,,,,I never knew your name until I saw your obituary,,,WOW,,I only knew you from the gym at Boeing,,,,You were always positive, running hard on the treadmill, telling me to have a good day while running and reminding me,,,when I wasn't working out,,,,that I was "quote,,unquote" "missed",,,and where have I been??" ,,,,,Suzanne,,,,I am very sorry for your loss,,,, take care and let the memories help you through this time....Debbie Read (from boeing)
John and Joann Stager
May 16, 2009
To the Westover Family,
John and I are recent neighbors and didn't know you well, but we wanted to extend our sympathies and respect for what you have all built together. You will find the strength in each other and Russ will always be found in yourselves.
Barbara Shelton-Gough
May 16, 2009
Suzanne, Alex, Christine and Gabrielle
Thinking of you with Sympathy, Russ was a great person and he will be truly missed, someone so special can never be forgotten.
May the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead.
You are in our thoughts and prayers,
The Gough Family
Christopher, Barbara, Holden, Collin & Makenna
May 16, 2009
Rusty will be sorley missed, he always reached out for everyone. He was such
a wonderful man and always so nice to me, I will miss him dearly.
Wendy Lou Winslow
Don Jones
May 16, 2009
Dear Suzanne and family, My deepest sympathy for the tragic loss of Russ. In recent years I would occasionally come up from Boeing, Renton and work the day in Russ's work group, I will always remember his natural friendliness and how easy it was to feel at ease and welcomed in his presence. I will miss him much.
Diana Bailey-Hays
May 16, 2009
The Bailey's have lost their "brother from another mother" I have no words to express the grief I feel, and I know that Bruce is experiencing even more deeply. The Westovers are the dearest friends and neighbors anyone could have and will always be in our prayers. Oh, Rusty, you are missed so much, and will be remembered always for your smile and loving spirit.
Maryann and Jerry Lund
May 16, 2009
Dear, dear Suzanne, and children,
With every moment since Sunday, Mother's Day, we have thought of you, Suzanne, and prayed for you and your children - aching for you at the loss of your wonderful husband and father. We also have been praying for you, Bob and Susan, as you have lost another lovely son and as we prayed for you last year at this same time when your Rob was summoned Home. It just seems too much to bear! Rusty was always such a loving young man - equally at home with us "older folks" as he was with those his age. . . always sweet and fun. We continue to pray for the comfort of our loving Lord as he surrounds you with his arms and strengthens you through the love and fellowship of your friends and family. We give thanks for him and cherish our memories of him.
Lovingly, Maryann and Jerry Lund (Paul's parents)
Michael Hansen
May 15, 2009
I remember Rusty for his laughing smile and the way he could fill a room with his presence. Rusty and Suzanne were destined for good things from the day they met and I was glad to know that they shared a good life together. Suzanne, I am so sorry for your loss.
Brian McDowell
May 15, 2009
I was talking with a group of people at Bruce and Karen's wedding last month when the guy standing next to me said my name. I hadn't seen Rusty in years but was instantly delighted to see his big smile and kind eyes. What a joy it was to ski with him that day and listen to him talk about his family and property. He helped Bruce build the wedding alter out of snow (to strict specifications of course). All you engineering friends would be proud. I want to reach back to that day and grab him so he can be with us.
I learned of a poem a number of years ago. This wont stop the crying but I hope that it can help start the laughter again. Perhaps Russ would say something like this.
I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways.
Of happy times and laughing times and bright sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun.
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
"Afterglow," author unknown.
Sunita & Ajay Dankar
May 15, 2009
Sorry for your loss. We did not know Russell but we knew Rob well. our thoughts and prayers go out to the Westover family.
Melinda Bonner
May 15, 2009
I knew Rusty when we were kids in elementary school...he was the same kind-hearted person then. He was so funny and was friends with everyone. My sympathy goes out to all of his family. Warmly, Melinda (Dailey) Bonner (from the old neighborhood-Cougar Mountain)
David Albin
May 15, 2009
The world will be missing a great guy. Knowing Russ in high school and at WSU, he always seemed to be in a good mood, and would bring smiles to peoples faces. My thoughts and prayers to the family.
Don & Christena Van Driel
May 14, 2009
We were never blessed to meet Russ and his family but we know how much our son Mark, his wife, Debbie,and sons will miss him as their friend. Tenderly may time heal your sorrow. Gently may friends ease your pain. Softly may God's love and peace replace your heartache. May warmest memories remain. With deepest sympathy to the Westover family. .
Gates Family
May 14, 2009
We only knew Russ for the shortest of time, but he always greeted us as old friends. His kindness and willingness to help will be remembered. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Westover family.
Shawn, Lisa, Shailee and Kendall Woodard
May 14, 2009
Russ,
You've been truly a great friend since our WSU days. Your passion for life and your expression of love for your family and friends will live on as an inspiration to all lucky enough to call you friend. You and your family are in are in our thoughts and prayers. We're going to miss you!
Anne Megis
May 14, 2009
We have special memories of Russ and Alex cheerfully serving coffee at Machias Elementary for Mom's and Muffins. We are so sorry for your loss.
Bruce and Elaine Nickolson
May 14, 2009
Russ and Suzanne Westover achieved a very special level of friendship among their family and friends that only a few could possibly imagine. Russ will always have a special place in their hearts and will never be forgotten. We will forever be thankful to have known Russ.
Bart, Cathy and the Minogue Family
May 14, 2009
Suzanne and Family ~ we are truly saddened by your loss. Russ was a wonderful person with an infectious smile. We are very lucky to have known Russ. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
May 14, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss.
Brett, Carol & Kayla Dreysse
Michelle M
May 14, 2009
Russ, I will always admire the true love and care you so galently displayed for your children and all children. I always saw this in you at the kids schools and functions you attended. Your family ment the world to you and it showed. God bless you and I will always give extra prayer to your beautifal family, thanks so much for being such a great support, friendly face and a parent helper to the kids at the schools my sons will always remeber this about you as I'm sure all the children and parents will, thank you Russ.
Ron Marth
May 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers to the entire Westover family. I did not know Russ but knowing Suzanne and watching her talk about Russ you could tell what a wonderful person he must have been.
Casey and Linda Watts
May 14, 2009
Many thoughts and prayers are with you Suzanne, children, and extended family. May God bring comfort to your heart each day forward through this difficult time. You have our continued support.
Jamie Templeman
May 14, 2009
Some of my fondest childhood memories were spending summer-evenings (in the late 60's & early 70's) at the Westovers playing huge games of "kick-the-can" and "capture-the-flag" with Rusty & Rob...We grew-up together (If you don't remember these games, then you are probably under 40-years-old)...Life was so simply & fun...Sue & Bob treated me as one-of-there-own...I remember Sue making us sandwiches at lunch...Once refueled, we headed outside to continue our adventures...The Westover Family played a significant role in my early years...Having a direct impact on who I am today...My heart goes-out to all of the Westovers during this very difficult time...THANK YOU SO MUCH RUSTY, ROB, DEB, SUE & BOB...I LOVE YOU GUYS !!
Shawnmarie Waterbury Sullivan
May 14, 2009
"Rusty", that's how I remember him as my childhood pal from accross the street. Sympathy goes fourth to Suzanne and the kids, Bob, Sue and Debbie. My heart has skipped a beat over this one. Deeply in my prayers during this time and the months to follow.
May 14, 2009
Westover family - our thoughts and prayers are with you. We enjoyed all the fun times we shared with Russ - he will be missed, especially that great big smile he always had for everyone!!
Jim and Debbie Carlson and family
Bill Haas
May 14, 2009
I always enjoyed Russ's creativity and love of projects. I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to family and friends.
Russell Bertolli
May 14, 2009
I'll always remember Russ with his constant smile as I worked with him on and off thruough the years here at Boeing. Everytime we greeted each other by saying "Hey Russ". He will be soarly missed. My prayers go out to his family.
Arlo Palmer
May 14, 2009
Russ, you will be missed. May God bless you and your family throughout eternity.
Jim Dohr
May 14, 2009
I worked with Russ at Boeing on the 787 Program - what a fantastic guy. My heart goes out to his friends and relatives - God bless.
Ted Barry
May 14, 2009
We will miss you
Rick Simonsen
May 14, 2009
Russ was always a fun person to be around and we could tell he loved life and his family so much - I will always remember spending time with him and the rest of the "gang" putting up the trusses for the house - we all had good laughs! So sorry for the loss -
May 14, 2009
We are so very sorry for your loss. We did not know Russ that well, but he always greeted us warmly. Jose, Laura, Anastacio and Nicholas Rivera
Brian Lennon
May 14, 2009
We were in different groups at Boeing, our part respsonsibilities crossed paths from time to time and just wanted to say that his 'infectious exuberance for life' was very apparent, he left an impression on me that I will not forget.
Thoughts and prayers for friends and family.
Douglas Freeman
May 14, 2009
Russ was a great guy to work with and will be missed at Technifab, Inc. in Avon, Ohio.
We've lost a friend and advocate.
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