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Deborah Greer-Costello Obituary

DEBORAH GREER-COSTELLO, 41 died on May 18 with family and friends by her side. Debby was diagnosed with leukemia in 2005 and returned to M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in 2008 when she suffered a relapse. A gifted writer, Deb began blogging online in 2003 and used her laptop as a window on her life with chemo, stem cell transplant and recovery. Her site, www.debutaunt.com garnered fans, especially other cancer patients, worldwide. Her funny, irreverent and often touching accounts made her a finalist in 2006 for The Best of Blogs in the Inspirational category. Deb's upbeat approach and advocacy for blood and platelet donations and the National Bone Marrow Registry won her local and state awards. She raised many thousands for the Leukemia/Lymphoma Societies in Houston, San Antonio and Austin. She was the keynote speaker for the 2007 Light the Night campaign in San Antonio. Deb graduated from Cypress Creek HS, Houston in 1985, and St. Edward's University, M.A. cum laude in Writing in 1991. She worked at the RGK Foundation, Pepsi Cola, Austin, and Price Waterhouse and as an editor at The Shaw Group, Houston. Deb was an avid member of the ACTS Communities at Prince of Peace, Houston, and Holy Spirit Catholic Church, San Antonio and the Houston Connect Singles Group. She is survived by daughter Zoe Costello, parents Jess and Marian Greer, sisters Michelle Greer, Jenna and husband Mark Whidby, Stephanie and husband Bill Stradley; and brothers Jeffrey Greer, Tom and wife Sonia Greer and James and wife Beth Greer; aunts Laura Axene, Joyce Jepson, Irene Santiago and Gladys Vietor; uncles David and wife Marcy Vietor and Bob Vietor, numerous cousins, nephews and nieces. She was preceded in death by her grandparents Jesse Greer, Jane Estes, A.H. and Gen Vietor; Anita and R.D. Borland, Delores Vietor and LeRoy Vietor. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, and she wants to encourage blood donations at M.D. Anderson or South Texas Blood Banks and participation in the National Marrow Registry. Deb was especially grateful for the college fund set up for Zoe; contributions may be made The Financial Advisory Group, Inc.; c/o David Jenkins; 5599 San Felipe, Suite 900; Houston, TX 77056. Please make out the checks to "College America" and in the memo field write "FBO: Zoe Costello." A vigil service will be Sat., May 23, 7 pm at St. Maximillian Kolbe, 10135 West Rd, Houston. Friends are invited to attend a celebration of her life on Sun., May 24, 2 pm at the Earthman Chapel, 8303 Katy Frwy, Houston. A funeral mass is pending at Holy Spirit Church, San Antonio. We thank the kind staffs at MD Anderson, Kindred NW and all the friends and family who cared for Debby and gave her nearly four years with us. For more information, visit mem.com.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on May 22, 2009.

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Tom Greer

May 28, 2009

To my big sister, I thank you for all you have ever done. You helped me become the person I am today.

Love Always,
Tommy

Traci North

May 26, 2009

I will never forget Deb. Her life and writing have forever changed me. My thoughts are with all of you. Peace.

Christopher Doughty

May 23, 2009

I met Deb December 2007 after reconcilliation at the Holy Spirit Catholic Church. She told me her father was one of the deacon's there. Wound up having dinner with her and a long conversation that touched me greatly.

It's been weeks since I learned of her relapse, so I got online to see if there was hopefully improvement. I was shocked and deeply saddened to find she'd passed.

One thing that amazed me about her was how, in my perception of her, she was battling for her life, but that battle seemed to be so tempered by her love for life and her daughter, that the battle with cancer was only a part of her life, and she was not consumed by it. I saw no fear in her eyes, or in her voice, only perseverance, strength, and optimism.

Compared to most...I knew her little. But I am proud to have called her friend if but for only a small moment in her lifetime.

Goodbye Deb and know that crossing paths with you was important to me, meant through God's will, I have been touched by you, my life changed because of you, and I am so deeply saddened that our good and merciful God has taken you from us.

Must close with this, and only Deb will understand...when we meet again, and we will, I promise to choose a word other than "frumpy". Hopefully by then you'll have forgiven me!

Karen

May 22, 2009

I read Deborahs blog on her website and felt that I got to know her. What a special person she is. I feel especially sad for her daughter Zoe that she truly adored. May God bless her and watch over her and just know that Deb is in heaven and making friends and no longer hurting. Thank you for allowing us to view her blog.

Mary Lyles

May 22, 2009

Deb was warm sunshine, inside and out. She will be missed by all of us who loved her. Prayers and peace to those she left behind.

Deeya Maple

May 22, 2009

I will always remember my online conversations with Zkat/Deb about dating after cancer and talking to her about the diease in general. All I can say is WHAT A WOMAN she was and will always be in our hearts and minds.

Cate "McSmile" Teague

May 22, 2009

Prayers to all the friends and family who had the pleasure to know and love you. You are unforgettable. You left your legacy and I hope we can all honor your memory in our own special way.

Debby Blue Eyes

May 22, 2009

Steph and Debby

May 22, 2009

Nicole Paul

May 22, 2009

thank you for the wonderful memories...going into "labor" in the middle of camp...double barrelled hand sanitizer...just for being you. God bless you and your family. ~~Nic

Nicole Paul

May 22, 2009

thank you for the memories. for terrorizing boyscouts and "going into labor" in the middle of camp. for the double barrel hand sanitizer...most of all, thank you for being you. God bless you and your family. ~~Nic

Rae Alexander

May 22, 2009

Deb was and is an amazing inspiration to many. As a single mother my heart breaks for her daughter, Zoe. We met through Houston Connect and while we were not "friendly" I admired her spunk, spirit and tenacity. She lived, loved and fought for her child and that is all any child can ask for. Her wit and sassy writings will be greatly missed. Peace, love and healing to her family.

Amy McIntyre

May 22, 2009

So very sorry for this loss. I feel for you all and know what it is like to loose a mother too soon. I pray for Zoe and the family that will raise her and keep her mother in her memories.

We will never forget her fiestyness and the way she love to dance. She's dancing with the angels now !!! Shake it girl !!

ABM - HC

D1 and Deb

May 22, 2009

Dione Marshall

May 22, 2009

Love and light to all Deb's family and friends. She will always be in our hearts and we were very blessed to have known her.

Amy Arnesen

May 22, 2009

Though we weren't "close" I always looked up to Deb for her strength. She fought Cancer long and hard, like we all knew she would. She will be missed by all that knew her in person or just through her blogs. My heartfelt prayers and healing thoughts go out to her family, espeacially little Zoe. RIP Deb! And I hope you knew(know) how much you were truely loved!

Linda Ingram

May 22, 2009

I miss Deb very much. She was and always will be a remarkable woman. May the Lord bless and watch over her daughter Zoe and her family.

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