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Norman James Pico Sr.

Norman James Pico Sr. obituary, Livermore, CA

Norman Pico Obituary

Norman James Pico Sr. Dec. 17, 1939 - Oct.8, 2010 Resident of Pechanga Indian Reservation Norman James Pico Sr., Pechanga Gaming Commissioner, passed quietly away Friday, October 8, 2010, on the Pechanga Indian Reservation in Temecula, California. Born, December 17, 1939 in Arlington, California along with twin brother Gabriel, they were enrolled members in the Temecula Band of Luiseno Mission Indians (often referred to as the Pechanga Band). Norman was elected Gaming Commissioner and served 10 of his sixteen years in office as chair. The National Indian Gaming Association noted, "Pechanga is one of the top 10 regulated facilities in the United States". Norman lived in Perris, California and Pechanga most of his life. He attended Perris High School, graduating in 1957. After high school Norman served in the US Army, as a member of the famous 82nd Airborne Division, 504th Parachute Infantry Regiment "Devils in Baggy Pants." His career included being a journeyman, Operating Engineer Union AFL-CIO local 12. He retired from the Southern California Gas Company in 1994 as a field locator in the Damage Control Department. Norman, 70, was considered a heavyweight in Pechanga politics and was involved for decades as a tribal council member, Silver Feather (Vice President), the Tribal Water Board and helped draft the tribe's constitution and bylaws. He was also involved in Indian Education, Perris youth Baseball, and a Board member of Riverside San Bernardino County Indian Health (Executive Board, Finance, Grievance and Retirement committees) and Board member of Indian Child and Family Services. During the past 15 years, Norman, chaired the Pechanga Pow Wow committee. The 4th of July Pow Wow is considered one of the most publicly attended American Indian gatherings in the country, hosting an estimated 70,000 guests during the three-day event. Norman was initiated into the Golden State Gourd Society and enjoyed participating as a member of the society at Pow Wows and Gourd Society events; he truly cherished and respected the traditions and rich history of the Pow Wow. Norman is a descendent of several notable Temecula Valley historical figures such as, Luis Flores and Carlos Pico who played football at Carlisle Indian School for "the" Pop Warner; Daniel Pico (Pechanga tribal chair for 25 years), leader of the Southern California Mission Indian Federation; Luis Wolf merchant, magistrate and postmaster of Temecula. Norman was predeceased by his mother, Evelyn Clarice Pico, Father Carlos J. Pico, and brother Gabriel Pico. Sisters Germaine Arenas, Milless Shores and Marie Russell are still with us. Norman is survived by his wife of over fifty years, Deborah Pico, and three children; Randolph (Livermore, Ca.), Norman Jr. (Temecula, Ca.) and Kathy (Temecula, Ca.). A fourth child, Daniel, was tragically lost at the age of 17 years. Randolph (Randy) is married to Paulette Thomas and has three children, Elias, Cheyenne and Randolph Jr.; Norman Jr. is married to Kristen McKnight and has six children, Sheila, Cody, Megan, Randi, Savanah and Ella; Kathy is married to Harbhajan Saglania with three children, Brittaney (husband Victor) Retana, Brooke, Hardeep and great grandchild Leo Retana, and numerous nieces and nephews. He will be greatly missed by many for his leadership, guidance, wisdom and love. The family welcomes the pubic to attend his ceremony at the Pechanga Indian Reservation Government Center at 2:00 pm on Thursday, October 14, 2010, with a memorial dinner to follow.

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Published by Inside Bay Area on Oct. 13, 2010.

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Jim Fonseca

November 5, 2010

As I grew up, Mr. Pico was my Little League coach and picked me up numerous times when my parents could not get me to a game. I cannot thank him enough for for the example he left in my mind. After growing up, I remember the conversations and the feeling that he was proud of my achievements in life and I of his. I only hope I can one day be half the person he was. I will never forget him......

Ann Arzate

October 19, 2010

To Norman,s family, please accept our condolences. Ann Arzate and sons, Joe, Tony, and Vincent.

Margie Holmes

October 14, 2010

"MAY YOUR HEARTS SOON BE FILLED WITH WONDERFUL MEMORIES OF JOYFUL TIMES TOGETHER AS YOU CELEBRATE A LIFE WELL LIVED"...

april

October 13, 2010

As we bid Norman’s physical presence good bye, we will welcome his spirit into our hearts forever.

October 13, 2010

Norman we will always remember you. We send our condolences to all of your family.
David & Betty Amaya

Earl Neconie

October 13, 2010

I will miss Norman's guidance and example. He's set the bar pretty high with regards to family and devotion to tribe and his People. A veteran of the US Army; a Gourd Dancer, a wonderful man. A tremendous loss for the Luiseno/Pechanga People and all Native Americans throughout "Indian Country"...Earl Neconie, KIOWA

Kristy Lane

October 13, 2010

You will forever be missed in many hearts. I love you uncle Norman.

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