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Shirley GILLESPIE Obituary

Shirley Ann Barker Gillespie May 11, 1949 ~ Nov. 1, 2010 Resident of Dublin Shirley Ann Barker Gillespie passed away on Monday, November 1, 2010, after her battle with brain cancer. She was a beloved woman who touched many lives with her kindness and friendship. Shirley was born in Oakland, California to Olen and Lorene Barker. She graduated from Tennyson High School in Hayward, California in 1967 and went on to earn an Associates Degree from Chabot Community College in 1999. She was married in 1969 to Donn Gillespie, and they had a daughter, Crystal Dawn Gillespie in 1972. Shirley enjoyed a long career with Safeway at their corporate office for the past 37 years. She was involved with organizations such as the Tennyson High Alumni, the Safeway Employee's Association, and the Association for Retired Safeway Employees. She had a special talent for keeping people connected. Shirley was a friend for life. Shirley is survived by her loving daughter Crystal Lawrence and son-in-law Michael Lawrence, and her three grandchildren, Cobi, Sophia, and Savannah of Portland, Oregon; her mother Lorene Barker of Fallbrook, California; her uncle Roy Keck of Fallbrook, California; her sister Loretta McCullough Langston of Stockton, California; her brother Charles Barker of Copperopolis, California; and her brother William Barker of Stockton, California. She was predeceased by her sister Doris Savage. Her generous loving spirit will be missed by all her friends and loved ones. A Memorial Service is scheduled on Saturday, November 13, 2010 at 2:00 in the afternoon at Chapel of the Chimes in Hayward, California (510) 471-3363. A Celebration of Life reception will immediately follow at the same location. Donations in lieu of flowers may be made in Shirley's memory to the National Brain Tumor Society at www.braintumor.org or to her granddaughters' school at: www.woodhavenschool.com

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Published by Inside Bay Area on Nov. 10, 2010.

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Isabel C Martinez

November 4, 2025

Always a friendly smile when we would meet. A wonderful neighbor for many years. I was Crystal´s after school caregiver. Miss you.

Joe and Isabel Martinez

November 4, 2021

Our neighbor Shirley was a lovely, friendly lady to us. I did after school care for her daughter for a few years. Gone too soon and she is missed.

Isabel Martinez

November 15, 2010

Shirley, May you rest in peace in the
arms of the angels and your loved ones.
We'll miss you........

Lois Meyer

November 12, 2010

Fun times with Shirley will always be remembered with her Funny post cards and pictures.
She was a Wonderful, fun talented friend,never to be forgotten.
Lois Meyer, Portland,Ore

Aida Malsi

November 11, 2010

I am so lucky to be one of Shirley's friends. She was always fun to hang out with and she's willing to share all the good and the bad in her life to her dear friends. I will miss her dearly. It was a fortunate opportunity to see her and was able to say goodbye to her few days before she passed away. May God bless her beautiful and loving soul.

Amber Love-Jones

November 11, 2010

My condolences to Shirley's entire family. Although I only communicated with Shirley via e-mail for the THS website, her words were always kind and friendly. After following Crystal's journal during Shirley's fight, it was evident to see that she was a very special woman and had touched many many people.

Winnie Toro

November 11, 2010

Shirley touched all of us who knew her. Always with a smile on her face and a willingness to help others. It is an honor to have called her my friend.

Winnie Grimmett Toro (Olympia, Wa.) Class of '67

Sandra Bivens

November 11, 2010

Can't wait for that big reunion in Heaven Shirley till than know you were loved and admired...
Crystal God bless you and your family always know your mama was Loved by all...Your a great Lady also and we're all Blessed to have had you as Shirley's Daughter...& we're looking forward to seeing your Family grow even if it is in pictures...Sonny & Sandy Vasquez Bivens

Char Diaz

November 11, 2010

Dear Crystal,

Your mom was a very special person in our family - we enjoyed having both of you in our family. She was always so good to all of us and her Spirit just lite up for all to see. I still have the Xmas ornaments she made us all and I enjoy them every year. We will miss her greatly. Char and Family

Carol Bontz

November 11, 2010

God Bless you Shirley,may you rest in peace now. My condolences go out to you and your family......With Love, Carol

November 10, 2010

God bless and be with you Shirley and with your family who have been so strong in your support...........John

isabel martinez

November 10, 2010

Our sincerest condolences to you and all of your families. We will see you on saturday. With sympathy, Joe & Isabel

November 10, 2010

Shirley you will be missed, Crystal you wrote a beautiful obituary for your mom, were going to miss her smiling face and her cute laugh, she was truly a wonderful friend! xoxo Martha,Donald, Derik & Dawn Silva

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