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February 8, 2020
Thinking about you, Paul. I was reading some of your tributes and remembered a story that made me laugh. We were young, maybe 2nd grade, whatever age us girls started making friendship bracelets. Next thing you know, our bracelets were funneling through you and you were selling them around St Jerome School, taking a cut off the top. Became quite a big operation. You were stopped but probably not for long until the next scheme.
Think of you all the time, especially in pretty sunny places or around good music. Miss you. Leigh
mitch ciohon
August 20, 2011
hey waugs,
was just thinking of you today.....i think about you everyday. wish you were here brother....miss ya so much. keep a weathered eye on the horizon on sept 10th for me.........i will be looking for your smile.....
love, mitch
Richard Carr
April 6, 2010
Paul,
You are extremely missed. Not a day goes by where i don't think of you in someway or anther. You taught me a lot of lessons and continue todo so.
We will reunite when our time is right.
February 22, 2010
JUST PASSING BY WITH A HUG AND A "HI" !WITH THE RECENT LOSS OF JASON ODDSEN, I THINK OF HOW HEAVEN IS LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH WONDERFUL PEOPLE WHO HAVE TOUCHED OUR LIVES. ON BEHALF OF MY SON CHRIS CAVANAUGH AND MYSELF...... THEY ARE NEVER FORGOTTEN! WITH LOVE !
Russell
April 23, 2009
We will always remember.
April 2, 2009
We think about you everyday and always will. We treasure every moment that we did get to spend together....
Lv The C's
Lynch
April 1, 2009
I miss you more than ever buddy, and I think about you every day.
May 22, 2008
Happy Birthday, Angel. We miss you.
May 22, 2008
Today is Paul's birthday. It makes me think of a lot of fun times together. It makes me think of laughter, the lake, barbeque's and Paul's smile that lit up the room. We miss you so much, but are blessed to have shared the very special times we did spend together. We love you so much, here's to you Paulie!!
Lv The C's
Mike Rattle
May 4, 2008
Paul was a great person to have in class. He was even more layed back than I am. He was always telling me not to worry about anything. I still do inspite of his advice.
I was very luck to have him as a student and to have Joe in the class too. I love 'em both. And, still miss Paul more than a year later.
I don't plan to let his memory fade. He will live on in me and I hope that is true of all of you too.
Peace out brotha
Bill Dawson
April 16, 2008
It has been several years now since Paul has walked the halls of Oconomowoc High School. His memory however, lingers in my mind every time I pass the staircase in front of the library doors. It's here that I can still picture Paul, in the middle of 1500 passing students, totally engaged with school, family, friends, sports, community, saying "hi" to passing friends, acknowledging a high-five from a friendly instructor, gracing another student's smile with one of his own, scurrying off to the next class, mindful of not being late. One might think that these memories would become more distant with time but with Paul they just seem to be more vibrant. Paul is definitely that person so eloquently referred to in the poem "Some People". Recall the last line that reads "They stay in our lives for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same." How lucky I was to be a part of Paul's life and how grateful I am for the memories.
DWC
April 5, 2008
The memory of all the bright and sunny days will be a treasure in my heart forever.
Greg Bowen
April 4, 2008
Dear Annie and Joe, We miss Paulie and Toni as they were a blast of sunshine onto our lives. We are better knowing and losing than never to have known such innocence. May peace and memories fill your days. Love Greg and Cheryl Bowen
Cindy & Brad Dyer
April 3, 2008
Dear Annie & Joe,
Wishing you much brighter tomorrows when this difficult year has passed. In time, the many happy memories will outweigh the tears of grief. Sorrow is not forever. Love is.
March 31, 2008
HOLD ON
Hold on to this last day when one could say
"He" was still with us just one year ago-
Hold on to those deep soul-full eyes,
that said "I love you mom" without saying a word.
Hold on to those outward bursts of laughter, that echo thru-out the house that only brothers share.
Hold on to the rumble as in motion explosion to rush to lifes next current affairs.
Hold on to knowing that "He" shines
thru-out our lives,
ever reaching, ever guiding,
every one
.....like the angel " He" is !!!!!!
HOLD ON !!!
Scott Bakkum
March 31, 2008
I coached Paulie in football at Oconomowoc High School. His passion for the game was evident from the first time I witnessed him on the practice field. Paulie put the team before himself and was a very spirited player. Beyond that, however, he was an even better person and I am thankful to have had the opportunity to get to know him not only as a football player, but as a young man as well. You will be missed Paulie....but never forgotten.
Coach
Amelia Blaska
March 22, 2008
celebration of life
by amelia blaska
when goodbyes are said,
and we lower down the ones
we love so complicatedly,
water sprinkles,
stars begin their climb,
and inside
something pulls us.
to pass the time, waiting,
we may call upon candles,
hoping to illuminate
what escaped in our haste.
faces become frozen,
forever etched in minds,
raising us up to some newer place,
when all is not clear,
but where we know,
and can accept,
we have been touched.
in memory of my cousin,
paul anthony rietbrock,
april 2007
Paula Boyd Farrington
March 13, 2008
From the time Paul was born, he was an extra-bright light in the world.
Even as a toddler he was utterly charming and totally intense in whatever captured his attention and affection. His smile dazzled, and his resolve to bring things around to his point of view was both intense and awe-inspiring! (His "... WANT Mickey!!!..." refrain at Disney World when he was only two still happily echoes in my ears and heart all these years later!)
Your candle may have burned out too soon, dear Paul, but the glow of your spirit lives on and is an ongoing gift of Grace for everyone who loves you and remembers your mega-watt light.
Shine on bright star.
Katie Blaska
February 27, 2008
I cannot express how special Paul was to me as both an individual and a cousin. He had this amazing way of keeping our family connected, and some of my favorite times were spent with him during his visits to Atlanta. Paul just knew how to keep us laughing, and my brother Charles and I still joke about his obsession with token Steven Seagal movies (i.e. Casey Ryback in Under Siege 2). I also credit Paul for much of my taste in music, and still love listening to the many CDs that he made for me. I truly feel blessed to have had the opportunity to know Paul, and will love and remember him always.
Michele Carlson
December 31, 2007
Dear Annie and Family,
We didn't know eachother that well, however the spirit and enthusiasm you and Paul illuminate spreads like a ripple along the shore.....ever reaching and rejoicing ,embracing so many friends and captivating everything life offers. I am so happy to have known Paul and have the memories of friendship, fun, and life's milestones', he and my son {Chris Cavanaugh} shared. I know that Paul will always live on thru his friends, and will never be forgotten.
I am so proud of you Annie, and the Faith you have. Through you God lives.
The holidays come and go, and the memories will shine on...however, no one will know how sad you must be.
If you ever want to e-mail me and /or write or walk and share Your Paulies memories with me...I am here for you.
I write this on New Years Eve in hopes you will find comfort in knowing how much you are loved, and without you , your beautiful Paul couldn't be the "ANGEL" he is, an inspiration for all!!!!!!
Comfort, love, and hugs to you and yours. Sincerely;
Michele Carlson
Lisa Lindemann
October 2, 2007
October 2, 2007
Hi Annie:
Just saw you this morning...yesterday being six months since Paul passed. I can't help but have various beautiful pictures of Paul and company run through my head after watching the memorial video. I just wanted to tell you that we all love you and will be there for you whenever you need.
P.S. Father John was saying mass this morning....and he wasn't wearing a pink jumpsuit!!!
Love ya,
Lisa
Adam Schlosser
September 8, 2007
Paul was one of the best people that I’ve ever know and that I will know. He was a great friend. I played football and basketball with Paul for many years. We went to grade school together and Paul was best friends w/ my brother Danny from way back. Paul will always be in my memory and my heart for as long as my life lasts. I have a quick story that I’d like to share about Paul. It was very early in the morning (probably about 5:45a.m.) and I was up playing Madden football 1996. Paul spent the night at our house and heard me yelling “Avoid Loyde, Avoid Loyde!” because I was repeatedly sacking the QB w/ then Stealers linebacker Greg Loyde. I thought that nobody was awake but all of a sudden I felt a hand on my shoulder and a looked up and there was Paul with a huge grin on his face saying, “Avoid Loyde, avoid Loyde”. For the next few years Paul would bring that phrase up every time a saw him and we would both get a good laugh out of it. I miss you Paul and can’t wait to see you again!
Adam
Rick Daggett
August 7, 2007
Annie, Jim, Joe & Matt,
Albeit a late entry, I wanted to say that when I think of Paul, I think of so many different happy times and memories from my childhood because our families often hung out at parties and get-togethers when Joe, Paul and Rob and I were kids. Whether it was on the lake, in Minocqua, at the farm for the 4th of July or Christmas caroling, I always remember Paul being in the middle of the fun, if not creating it. He had a mischevious smile that was infectious and contagious to no end. His spirit is embodied in the fact that he called so many people his friends.
You'll be missed Paul, and thought of fondly.
With love,
Rick
Mike Olander
July 10, 2007
Paul was a student in my advanced biology class at OHS. Paul helped me write and edit a lesson for my class entitled: "Why Dogs Smile And Chimpanzees Cry." Paul did much of his work on the video portion while recovering from his football injury. Paul also created a worksheet to accompany the lesson and five years later, I still use both each semester with my students. I know Paul enjoyed these stories and research about animals. I know he really understood life and had an appreciation for its complexity and beauty that went far beyond his age as a high school senior. It was amazing the way he helped me weave this into a lesson for my students that continues to teach them to this day. Paul was truly remarkable and will never be forgotten.
daniel murray
July 3, 2007
I think of paul often, what a great young man, he would brighten the office and always engage in somthing wise and interesting, we miss him, his spirit lives on and continues to touch the lives of all that had the priveledge to know him, sincerely
June 5, 2007
Having read through these numerous tributes to Paul but not having known him personally, I truly believe your loss is our entire community's loss. What an amazing young man Paul was! His loving and generous spirit lives on in a scholarship that was awarded to a deserving high school senior who also has a great love of music. Our deepest condolences to all Paul's family and friends.
The Lake Country Women's Club
Annie Balestrieri
May 24, 2007
Great big thanks to all of Paul's loved ones who helped us celebrate his golden birthday. From the many phone calls, cards, and messages to the wonderful balloon-filled sunset celebration, you touched our hearts with friendship and love...Paulie's kind of love... lively, fun, smiley, sunny, sparky and memory filled! Let's make this an annual event to keep Paul fabulous spirit alive. Love and hugs from Annie and Joe.
p.s. special thanks to Fr. Yockey and/or "Shorts" for leading us in song.
May 23, 2007
Annie and Debi releasing baloons for Paul's Golden Birthday (5/22/07)
May 23, 2007
May 23, 2007
May 23, 2007
Peter Boumenot
May 22, 2007
Growing up together with Paul was always about life. About what was next and where he would lead us. I remember the summers on the lake being towed first behind the pontoon and then later on faster and faster boats. Pulling two tubes at the same time it was always scary for me getting paired up with Paul on those runs. You could see the glimmer in his eye that he knew exactly where he wanted to go. The boat would start up and immediately Paul would have his thumbs up to get us moving. I'd look over at him and there would be this smile that you just couldn't resist. I would be struggling just to stay on and he would be in complete control dancing in and out of the wake. So graceful in his movements and so strong in his actions. There was never any doubt about Paul, never any doubt that he was going to lead us somewhere in the way the he only could.
Happy Birthday Paul.
May 22, 2007
Happy Golden Birthday, Paul! Paul and Joe were best friends and the best brothers they could be, always rebounding for each other, together every step of life. Paul will always be Joe's Best Man, and vice versa. All brothers should be lucky enough to share the special bond they had.
May 22, 2007
It is hard for us to imagine what a heavenly birthday party might be like but in my mind Paul, you will be surrounded by all the saints and relatives and friends that Cy-Cy has found in heaven that share your birthday on the 22nd of May! It must be quite a list! You are in our thoughts and our prayers today on your golden birthday and always dear Paul. Have a wonderful celebration! Love, Aunt M
Leigh
May 22, 2007
Happy Golden Birthday, Paulie! I'm sure you are having your own party today, but we are celebrating for you here too. I bet you and Cy and everyone are jamming out. He might be beating you at cards but that's only because he always cheated! Tommy sent me a text message this morning that said "PAR forever." I couldn't have said it better. Even though we miss you so much, your fun and lively spirit is living with us every day, and it will forever and ever!
Happy 22nd Golden Birthday...PAR Forever.
Lots of love,
Annie Balestrieri
May 22, 2007
Happy Golden Birthday Sunshine! Thank you for showing me how to love and showing me how to live.
Love, Mom
Debi
May 22, 2007
It's a Golden Day!!
Please share a smile, a laugh or a hug in honor of today. Paul loved to laugh and could always make you laugh. He wanted his memory to be a happy one that left a million smiles.
Happy Birthday Pauly,
We'll take care of the smiles & hugs. Love you so much!!
Debi
Linda Shores
May 22, 2007
Hey Paul,
Happy 22nd Birthday!
You know, as adults we’ve lost the ability to be completely open and honest with others. We’re so afraid of being vulnerable and eventually getting hurt.
How Ridiculous!
If I could only go back and say all the things I should have said to you in person.
What was I afraid of?
A sweet kid??
Man, we just don’t get it do we?
But you did. You showed love and grace to everyone, even us old annoying women who thought we were cool....
It was Thursday, I’ll never forget, and I brought you a gift. Of course I thought it was up your alley, the Jerry Garcia speed trip art work and music (I swear I had no idea!) I was really there to tell you how much I loved you and how I thought you were a fantastic young man.
But (see paragraph 1) I’m a chicken so I brought you a gift instead, no words.
You graciously accepted, said “Thank you, this is great!” and gave me in return something I’ll hold dear to my heart forever....the warmest, sweetest hug.
If I concentrate I can still feel it Paul. Still feel that open honesty of youth that was lost so long ago. I’ll pass your hug along to your mom today Paul, Happy Birthday.
Love,
Lindapie
Please give your kids (and your friend’s kids) a hug today. Tell them you love them before it’s too late. Paul wasn’t afraid, why are we?
Joel Patton
May 22, 2007
Hi Paul,
How is the music there? I am sure that jamming and hanging with the likes of Hendrix, Garcia, Stevie Ray , Janis, Etc. is awesome.
We didn't get to spend much time together but I've come to know you and of your zest for adventure through your family and friends. Life lived at half speed was not a thought that you relished. From all accounts you were the kind of guy I would have liked to call a friend.
You left us behind too early for our agenda but were right on time for God's plan. We will continue the struggle here and you will be missed. Chill awhile then watch over us. Happy golden 22nd.
greg and cheryl Bowen
May 22, 2007
Happy Birthday Paul we are having a bbq tonight to honor you and remember you kind ways and gentle spirit. You are missed but never far from our thoughts. Your smile shines on in our memories. Love, Greg and Cheryl Bowen
Ellen
May 21, 2007
Happy Birthday Paul. Just spent time with your Mom, hearing about your entry into our world on the first May 22nd of your life. You brought a lasting joy to your Mom from that very moment. Your life may have been short, but it touched people in a way that others, if they live to be 100, will not achieve. God bless you.
LISA LINDEMANN
May 21, 2007
HAPPY GOLDEN BIRTHDAY PAUL....MAY 22. I'M SURE A B-DAY IN HEAVEN IS THE ULTIMATE...THE GOLDEN OF GOLDENS. I'LL BE SURE TO CHECK IN WITH YOUR MOM.
LISA LINDEMANN
Bill Kreutzmann
May 20, 2007
To Annie, Paul's family, and all of his friends. As most of you know, the burial of Paul's cremains will not take place until a later date. I know that some of you need a place to go now, for your special time with Paul. It would be my suggestion that to do this, you choose a place of special meaning to you or to you and Paul. A place of peace, happy times, and a place of special memories. When you are there, think of Paul and his family, and say a prayer for Paul, his family, and yourselves as well. To visit Paul, you may do so at that special place or in your heart.
I hope that I have been of some help, my love to Paul, his family and his many friends, Love, Bill Kreutzmann
May 19, 2007
Annie:
I never really got to know Paul during high school, but I do remember the smile he always had on his face and his great hair! I am so sorry for your loss, but just remember to take one day at a time. We are so happy you've joined the "DH family"
Love you!
Jim Balestrieri
May 15, 2007
Paul made you feel special. From the first time I met him when he was five years old, I knew he was special too. As his stepdad he always accepted me as his own. I knew this was no ordinary child. He was an explorer and I went along on many of his journeys. He taught me about football during a coaching journey we had. He helped me overcome a bad fear of flying I had developed. He got me to go down a black diamond ski run rather than the blue by telling me it had less ski traffic. He was always on to the next journey. He did things in his teens that I would have trouble doing at my age now. How could he move 2,000 miles to California to go to USD for college not knowing a soul? How could he go to New York and ride the subways exploring the city at 15 or 16 years of age? He motivated our family to travel more in the 15 years we had than I would have traveled in three of my lifetimes. These journeys I will always treasure.
Paul abhorred conflict. He always strove to resolve it quickly and effectively both for himself and for others that he could influence. If conflict could not be resolved, he moved on. He had adult-like wisdom knowing that his journeys required team work and that conflict interfered with exploration.
Paul, I ache for your companionship and will until my last day. I hope you will look out for me and that your spirit will guide me everyday until we meet again.
Love, Jim
Richard Meyer
May 14, 2007
Please accept my sympathy for your loss. Loosing a child is one of the worst losses. The last time I saw him he was smiling, optimistic and in a good place. He was a positive force in our community.
Dave and Lynn Warltier
May 9, 2007
Dear Annie and Jim,
We are so sorry for your loss. Paul was a wonderful young man who touched many people in a very positive way.
allen leofilos
May 9, 2007
Annie Jim and family
My sincere sympathies go out to you all. I met paul from my salons and he was very frendly and easy to like im very proud to have had the opportunity to get to know Paul. all my girls at the salons always called paul the hottie they always went kinda crazy after he tanned i always enjoyed paul and pauls company he was a great listner and great person to talk to he was a very cool guy for pauls age he had big dreams and he can live it out cuz now hes living like a rock star in the heavens above.
paul u always kept it real
Allen from Gold n Tan and Travel
Greg unofficial Mayor of Pismo ct
May 3, 2007
Annie and Jim, Everyone from Mission beach hurts for you and your loss. The Freak Factory, Volteros deli, Rosario Pizza, Liquid Foundation, Pilar's Swimwear,Guava Beach, The Boardwalk, Hub Liquor, Mission Beach Silk Screen and all of the people Paul touched when he lived here. Scott from USD sends his sympathy too. He is getting in touch with Paul's friends who would BBQ on Pismo and we'll have a night to celebrate the person who we all enjoyed. Maybe we'll have another BBQ on Paul's Birthday May 22nd. He will be missed. God Bless
Cleo Wright
May 3, 2007
Dear Annie, Paul was a nice addition to our neighborhood in Mission Beach. He was full of life and energy. He loved his dog and took him out for a walk by my house. I remember how kind you were to bring me a bottle of wine when you came out to visit your son. I am so very sorry for your loss and I am deeply hurt about the news of Paul's passing. My family has lived in mission beach for many years and I know a good family when I see one and you are a good family. All of us on Pismo court will have a cook out in Paul's name and we will share the wonderful experience we had when Paul graced us with his spirit. We will miss him and you too. May your sorrow's pass with each sunset but your memory live long of the times you had together. Sincerely, Cleo Wright from the stone house on Pismo
Aunt Moo
May 2, 2007
One of the lasting memories I have is the confusion over whether Fr.Yockey has a double named "Shorts" or whether "Shorts" has a double named Fr. Yockey....
Only Paul knows for sure!!
Love Aunt Moo
Joe Haas
May 2, 2007
What an amazing life. With so many interests and passions. Paul's passing was a tremendous loss. But it was also a tremendous inspiration. Love every day of Life. That is what seems to be ringing through my brain. So many smiles, goofy moments, gatherings, adventures, and a whole lot of love. It was a great honor to put together the slideshow for Paul's service. It gave me a good chance to realize what is important.
Bals and Brocks, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Grinch
May 2, 2007
Paulie, you will always be remembered. Long may you run and I'll see you on the other side where we'll pick up where we left off. Your generosity and smile is something to behold. Paul always looked out for the people who needed a hand up or were in need. Qualities for all of us to live up to. Thanks for the memories your friend Grinch
April 30, 2007
As most of you know Paul's golden birthday is approaching. He'd be 22 yrs. old on the 22nd of May. It would be really great if each of you could make somebody laugh or smile on Paul's Golden Day.
Thanks & Love,
Annie Bal
mitchell ciohon
April 30, 2007
waugs,
we had such an amazing connection for as long as i can remember. some how we just clicked from the start. lived, laughed, loved, and ate! There are to many great memories and stories we shared lake parties, cys farm, pool parties, buffet buses, road trips to festivals, christmas mountian when your mom got hurt and sat at the bottom of the hill in a lawn chair and watched us ski cause she didnt want to miss anything :), late night culinary conquests in the balbrock kitchen and jim would walk through at two in the morning and give us that "what the hell are you guys up to look" and we would just laugh, sitting in the way back of the jeep (with the wood pannels) eating original krunchers and drinking sprites on the way to the zoo, just sitting in your room not doing anything but having a really fun time doing it, shootin pool with the sable stick, parties at the san rafel with micheal,crusin in the phoon or the jeep., xtreme tubing, what ever it was that we were doing together we always were smiling and laughing and i jus wanna thank you for that! so thanks bro! i will miss you. you were one of a kind, the awesome kind!
"me hearty matey be holdin' down the sweet trade jus waitin' for me to join you on the fiddlers green"
onelove,
mitchy
(yarrhh)
Chuck Rosien
April 28, 2007
Hi Paul:
It was nice seeing you again. Thanks for all of the exciting times. You always made things awesome. I will never forget how inspirational you were. Thanks for being such an excellent friend.
Very truly yours,
Chuck Rosien
Roz & Albert Katz
April 27, 2007
Dear Annie & Jim:
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Paul. Even though we didn't have the opportunity to meet him, from reading the wonderful things folks from your home up North have said, we know he was a special person. We were glad to have had the nice conversations down here in your Southern home about Paul and especially about his interest in the marine environment. We sincerely wish your memories to be sweet ones and that the pain of such a loss will swiftly depart.
Jay & Joanne Van Den Berg
April 26, 2007
Jim & Ann,we are so saddened to learn of the passing of your Son, Paul. You had to be very proud of him for his love,accomplishments and a dear Son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
warczyglowa's
April 26, 2007
Annie, Jim, Joe & Matt
The words have been said over and over again. We as were so many others sadden with Paul's passing. You asked us not to dwell on this, but instead celebrate his life. So whenever I think of Paul, two points immediately come to my mind. One is that I always picture Paul smiling, and the other is Jerry Springer. I'm not sure exactly how old Paul was, I think about 12 years old. Anyway, he purchased a VHS of Jerry Springer Unrated. He proceeded to make copies of this unrated version to sell at school. I think he charged $5 or $10 a piece for them. The memories line up, but this one will always come in first. Warczyglowa's
April 23, 2007
Dear Paulie
Life is short
Live Loud
Love with all your Heart
Laugh uncontrollably
and never regret anything that made you smile.
Lots & Lots of Love
Jessica
My & Merry Jo Ubl
April 20, 2007
My condolences to the Rietbrock and Baliesteri families. Paul and Matt Ubl (our son) met in 5th grade for the Youth Tackle football league in Oconomowoc. Paul came over for parties at our house was part of the team with Matt that won two back to back football division championships when they were juniors and seniors in high school. It was so much fun to go to the Friday night games. We came to know Paul as "Rock Star" because his coach (Mark Jonas) called him that because of his long hair. He always got a kick out of that! We remember his free spirit and his kindness when seeing us even though we were "the parents". Rest in Peace.
PAM CLARK
April 20, 2007
Annie ---
There is absolutely NOTHING clever I could say...that you would remember. But please know I am thinking of you and you certainly CONTINUE to be in my prayers. Additionally, I find the following scripture EXCEEDINGLY comforting:
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
PSALM 147:3
Blessings,
---PAM CLARK
@BLASKA & ASSOCIATES
April 20, 2007
I was reading today's entries and I saw the one from Marcy(SanDiego),who was an upstairs neighbor of Paul's. Her entry reminded me of a story Paul once told. Somehow he had something to do with the breaker box for his place and upstairs--I think it was located in his apartment. There were two beautiful girls that lived upstairs, and Paul realized he had complete control of this situation. Knowing that if one of these breakers would "happen" to click off, the girls would be apt to run downstairs for his help, in whatever they WERE or WERE NOT wearing at the time.
"Very Neaky Paulie"
Love D
LISA LINDEMANN
April 19, 2007
DEAR ANNIE, JIM, JOE, MATT & FAMILY:
I WANT TO TELL THE STORY OF WHAT I RECALL AS THE FIRST TIME I MET PAUL. I KNOW THAT I HAD SEEN HIM AND KNEW THAT HE WAS THE FAMOUS ANNIE BLASKA'S SON, BUT "UNCLE BUCK" CALLED HIM OVER WHILE WE WERE CHATTING AND ASKED HIM TO "DO YOUR IMITATION OF CY LINDEMANN" PAUL DID HIS IMITATION...AND IT WAS RIGHT ON!!! CY IS ABOUT 6'4" AND A BIG GUY WITH A DEEP VOICE AND A CERTAIN TYPE OF DISTINGUISHING CHIN! HE USHERED QUITE A BIT AT ST. JEROME WHERE PAUL ATTENDED MASS...AND PAUL WAS PROBABLY 6 YEARS OLD AT THIS TIME. TOM AND I WERE LAUGHING SO HARD, THEN TOM SAID, "DO YOU KNOW WHO THIS IS? THIS IS CY LINDEMANN'S DAUGHTER!" WELL, POOR LITTLE PAUL LOOKED LIKE HE WANTED TO DISAPPEAR...HIS EYES WERE LIKE SAUCERS AND HIS MOUTH HUNG OPEN IN SURPRISE. I LET HIM KNOW THAT IT WAS OKAY AND THAT IT WAS GREAT. HE NEVER WORRIED ABOUT DOING IT AGAIN...AND HE DID WHENEVER CALLED UPON.
I DIDN'T SEE PAUL OFTEN, BUT WHEN I DID IT WAS ALWAYS AT A GREAT "HAPPENING"...CY BLASKA'S 4TH OF JULY PARTIES...ANNIE'S & JIM'S 4TH OF JULY BLOW OUTS (LITERALLY!), PAUL'S HIGH SCHOOL GRADUATION PARTY ETC. I WAS FORTUNATE TO WATCH HIM GROW.
I LOOK AT PAUL'S BEAUTIFUL PICTURE EVERYDAY NOW AND TALK TO HIM BECAUSE I KNOW HE CAN HEAR. I KNOW THAT HE WILL BE WITH YOU ALL SENDING HIS LOVE AND INSPIRATION...AND PROBABLY PLAYING A FEW TRICKS!!!
I LOVE YOU GUYS,
LISA
marcy jorgensen
April 19, 2007
Paul and Tony were my downstairs neighbors when I lived on Pismo Court in Mission Beach. Paul was one-of-a-kind. He was a free-spirit (and so was Tony). My favorite memory of Paul was the night there was a fire on Mission Blvd. Some people were panicked and calling the police but not Paul. Paul pulled out his guitar and started strumming The Doors tune that goes, "Come On Baby Light My Fire."
Marc Schober
April 18, 2007
Paul-
I always remembered you as a very accepting person. You always would hang out with us younger kids. It was really nice to see someone that truely did accept everyone. I'll always remember the good times with ya from lifting at OHS to running into you at New Years. We all miss you. Have fun up there & we'll see ya before too long
Jenny Fell
April 17, 2007
Balestrieri Family and Joe,
'When I felt secure, I said, "I will never be shaken" O LORD, when you favored me, YOU made my mountain stand firm; but when you hid YOUR face, I was dismayed.' Psm 30:6-7 So that is my prayer for you as you grieve your precious son and brother. That you will feel secure, remain steadfast and not be shaken. Our FATHER is not hiding HIS face; HE will give you refuge and deliver you to righteousness.
Love in Christ<><
Fell Family
Ann Pottage
April 17, 2007
Dear Annie, Jim, Joe and Matt - Paul was a blessed member of your precious family and you will all be together again one day. Like the song says "The Circle is Unbroken" and while his absence today is tearing out your hearts, I tell you it is not forever. Paul left you so many great memories, and I know those will help sustain you until you are all together again. From reading all the emails and from the stories I have heard from Annie and Uncle Buck over the years and from having known Paul a little bit throughout his life, I know he lived life to the fullest. He was blessed to have each of you and you were blessed to have him.
Cheryl Bowen
April 17, 2007
My memories of Paul are numerous. I didn't know where to begin to write my feelings and express my sympathy to all who love and lost Paul...
Annie came first to San Diego to set up Paul's hip appartment by the beach. She set it up Tiki sytle. COOL. The neighbors waited for his arrival. As Annie told us we would, we loved Paul instantly. Who wouldn't?
We shared a friendship and became his family away from home.
On his first visit home for Thanksgiving I decided I would clean up his place for him. He was definitely a bachelor when it came to cleaning... To my surprise there was cheese everywhere! (It must be true about WI loves cheese.)
Next on our journey as neighbors and friends was Paul's parenting Tony the puppy. Paul loved Tony! We all loved Tony - just like Paul. I would walk Tony in the mornings while Paul slept in. We felt like family - Paul was living just feet away from us.
Now Paul is living in our memories and hearts. I will never forget his smile and love of life.
I loved meeting Paul.
I loved living next door to Paul.
I love Annie and her Family.
I will always love Paul's spirit and will cherish his memory.
Ciohon's
April 17, 2007
S-miley
U-nique
N-"eaky"
S-oo Adorable
H-appy
I-nnovative
N-ever said Never
E-xuberant
Paulie each one of had a special relationship with you, which we will cherish and hold in our hearts forever. Thank you for all the Bright and Sunny Days!!
Love You So Much! Shorts,Debi,Mitch & Collin
Lindy Schrader
April 16, 2007
Paul-
It's hard to say goodbye to someone with such a big heart and glowing smile. I will miss all the great times we all had together. You'll forever be in my heart and memories. Thanks for everything and I'll see you someday!
John Allegretti
April 16, 2007
Paul and I met as we were both moving FROM San Diego to Milwaukee. Paul was amazed that anyone would want to move there!! I carried back a very expensive piece of his furniture that could have easily "fallen off the truck" but my higher intentions prevailed and we started a great friendship. Pauls spirit was evident in the band he booked at clubs in the area; Fat Maw Rooney. Their music is definitely following a "different drummer" as did Paul. I respected and admired Paul for his upfront promotion of this band and his life. He definitley saw something none of us did. I am always grateful to my lontime friend Greg and Cheryl Bowen for introducing me to Paul and then meeting Pauls wonderful parents, Jim & Annie. I am thrilled that Jim, Annie and Paul accepted me as family immediately. Its nice to feel welcome when one is far away from their own.
I will miss Paul beyond words, but treasure the family that he belongs to and accepted me into. God Bless all.
Julie Moore
April 16, 2007
Jim, Annie, Matt, Joe, and family:
I am very sorry for your loss. Paul was such a nice young man, and so full of life. I remember when I first met him working at Paragon; he had a big smile on his face, and would always make the clients smile too. They loved him and he would always take the time to speak with them. Every time I would see him, he would give me a hug and would ask how I was doing, and of course...he would always smile. I will miss Paul, but I will always remember his smile and the compassion he had for all. I want you to know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan Thorning
April 16, 2007
When you live in a place where the houses are close, you get to know your neighbors. Pismo Court is just such a neighborhood. While I can't say that "his faithful companion" ever got used to being the only dog in a cat neighborhood, Paul quickly made himself a fixture. It is hard to believe that someone so full of life is gone. He is missed.
Rob Daggett
April 15, 2007
BalBrocks,
When I think of Paul, I will always think about his humor and his determination. When you were around Paul, you knew that you would have a smile on your face. I have so many memories from when were little kids from watching wrestling to hanging out at the lake, and most of all, the Fourth of July. Paul is such a huge part of these memories because he always added to the fun with his infectious personality. For as long as I can remember all of you have been as big a part of my family as anyone and I will always be thankful for that. I love you all.
Nick Collins
April 15, 2007
Paul (Smooth P)
I can't put into words how much I valued our friendship. It seems surreal that you are gone. We could've written a book on all the rediculous things we accomplished from traveling around the midwest catching shows, playing football and basketball together, and many other fond memories that will never leave my heart. There is no replacing you and what you mean to all of those who know you.
Leigh
April 15, 2007
Paul brightened so many lives just by being himself. My heart pours out to everyone who knew Paul, especially his dear family. He loved and admired each of you with all of his heart. You brightened his life, and because of that, he brightened so many other lives. I think he lived to make others happy and to make others see life just as he did—a fun journey with something exciting around every corner. In grade school, man, did he shake things up at St. Jerome’s. He was a hero in every sense! There was the infamous stink bomb, cross-dressing cousins, breaking gym class records, always sporting the latest hairdo, and dominating in Tag Football at recess (the girls, we were his loyal cheerleaders). If something fun was going on, you knew Paul was at the center of it. Everyone wanted to go along for the ride, the journey that was Paul’s life.
In high school, nothing changed. Our summers would have been monotonous had we not been able to count down the days to Jimmy Buffett and the amazing bus rides Paul single-handedly organized for all of us. He even made certain everyone was decked out in Jimmy Buffett gear. He always got there early to make sure the buses were decorated and that our drivers were indeed Parrotheads, just like us. With Paul, it was always “the more the merrier.” He wanted everyone on his bus, whether that meant riding along to Jimmy Buffett, or joining him for good times and laughs in his nonexistent basement. I’m so glad that no matter what happened, Paul always kept open a seat for me on his “bus ride” of life. Thank you Paulie.
Can't wait to see you again soon. Save us a seat up there.
Loads of love,
Jason Oddsen
April 14, 2007
I speak on behalf of the whole Oddsen family in sending out our thoughts and prayers to your family. My favorite memory of Paul is when we were in middle school and Paul would get back from the Cayman Islands after spring break and would bring Cubans back for all to enjoy. The angel inside of you has been let free. I know you will be looking down at all of us smiling. Oddsy.
Michael Perna
April 14, 2007
To the Rietbrock Family,
I am so very sorry that it is like this we have our first correspondence. I was roommates with Peter Boumenot in college, and had the honor of spending Paul’s 14th birthday with him when he visited us in Boston. There were five roommates in the apartment and Paul befriended all of us immediately. It was only a long weekend, but the lasting impression Paul left on the roommates at 23 Cummings Road absolutely affirms that “No matter how long you knew him, Paul's trustworthy nature and strong personality made him everyone's best friend.”
I remember we had a party that weekend and I am not ashamed to say that the majority of the ladies there were far more interested in Paul than me. For a 14 year old at a college party, that speaks volumes.
It made me happy to hear about your many athletic accomplishments from Peter. I would always look forward to getting the update about the things you were doing. Please know that you will be missed very much, even by those who never got to know you well.
Lindsay Plate
April 14, 2007
Dear Paul and Family,
I will never forget all of the wonderful memories we shared together! You and your family opened your home to us kids and I will never forget the great the times we spent in your nonexistent basement! My all-time favorite memory was the blender, cheese and crackers, and walks around your house! I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to be a friend of yours, as well as getting to know your family. We laughed, we cried, we fought, we made up, and in the end you were always there for me. You helped and supported me through the rough times in my life. I could always count on your phone calls whether it was during the day or in the early morning hours, with some kind of interesting story to tell. Or a good cry over old memories. I hope I was a good friend to you as you were to me. And to the family of Paul, my condolences go out to you all. I appreciate the concerns and love you have given to me, as well as the rest of Paul's friends. Paul always talked about how he loved and appreciated his family. God bless.
Love always,
Lindsay Plate
tom randy
April 14, 2007
Paul was a great person and we will miss him and the cheese his mother Annie sent us from Wisconsin.
The staff at Hub liquor, Tom Randy and Zeke
Brenda Hoeft
April 14, 2007
Jim,Annie,Matt,Joe and Family~
My prayers and thoughts go out to your family. A memory I have working with Paul at Paragon will always be his HUGE smile and compassion for the staff and clients. Listening to the clients tell Paul anything and Paul listening with his whole heart. A big memory that I have is talking with Paul about high school football,Paul was a senior and my son was a freshman, he was so helpful and had alot of great advice.I'll miss your HUGE smile and the chats we had in workshop #2. Keep a watch over us at Paragon Paul.
Matt Ubl
April 14, 2007
To the Rietbrock Family,
My condolences go out to those who are family members, friends, and aquaintances. There are so many memories I have of Paul. From playing football in 5th grade up through Varsity, to TV Productions, to the many parties where we all came together and shared the good times. It is very sad that a person like you is not with us anymore as we go through this journey of life. You will always remain in our hearts forever. R.I.P. Rockstar
pappas
April 14, 2007
paul- i remember one of the first times i came to your house down the block i was so impressed that you had the new coolio cd with gangsters paradise on it. You noticed and decided to just give it to me. Also i remeber doing our wrestling act in 8th grade for the talent show, and when we were practicing my brother challenged you to a wrestling match and you offered him GTA if he won, famously and predictably you won using the paul rietbrock finger lock on matt. you were always a good guy paul. see ya sometime.
Andy Lawton
April 13, 2007
Dear Paul and Family,
I remember attending grade school with Paul at St. Jerome Parish School and going to his house during those years. Paul was indeed a leader during our time at St. Jerome. My prayer is for peace, both eternally for Paul, and in the days ahead for his family.
"Restless is the heart, until it comes to rest in You." -St. Augustine
God's Blessings and peace for Paul and his family.
sincerely,
Andy Lawton
St. Jerome Grade School '99
Brian Nord
April 13, 2007
Landers,
You were great loving firend and you will never leave my heart, I will never forget all the shows we went to, especially M.O.E. in Chi-town when you,me, Lynch and Collins were outside on top of the roof at our hotel in the pouring rain with pizza boxes on top of our heads....what were we thinking. You can never forget the wednesday nights(classic) with class the next moring and of course our routine trip to Mcdonalds before we started our rough thurday mornings. The stories could go on forever and that truly says a lot about how much fun we had together and our great friendship. You will be greatly missed but never ever forgotten.
Much Love,
Nord
April 13, 2007
I have one memory of Paul -the one time I met him. A few months ago Joe introduced me to him. My only interaction with Paul was a brief introduction but it was remarkably warm and sincere. He made a great impression and I wish I would’ve had the opportunity to get to know him.
nico cebreros
April 13, 2007
you will be missed my friend...
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Jill Fohr-Fick (formerly Helwig)
April 12, 2007
Sweet Paulie....You touched my heart, and I hope I did the same for you....Pat was soo blessed to have been your very good friend and able to go on the special trips and concerts with you, as well as working at Paragon! You were the most sincere friend he had and I know his heart is broken! I loved you like you were my son, and I thank God that I met you. Peace always!! Love to Annie, Jim, Joe and Matt! My prayers are also with you. Jill
Lindsey Switalski
April 12, 2007
Paul—We all had so much fun together and I know a lot of that had to do with you and your presence. You were a great guy and a great friend to so many of us. It’s still incredibly hard for me to fathom that you aren’t here with us but I know you are up there looking down on us everyday. I’ll never forget you and J-Bird at Driscoll’s graduation party—Montezuma’s Revenge! I love ya buddy.
David Nagy
April 12, 2007
Annie, Jim, & Family -
Our times shared with Paul were somewhat limited through the years, however, we carry fond memories.
Paul made a particularly profound impression on me. I'll remember him as one of the most sincere of individuals......................
Someone who.....would cast a warm smile in another's direction. And really meant it.
Someone who.....would show respect of another during conversation. And really meant it.
Someone who.....would extend his hand to greet another with a firm shake. And really meant it.
Thinking of you with heartfelt sympathy.
The Nagy Family
Maggie Voigt
April 12, 2007
Paul
I can't say enough about you. Every chance I had to spend with you was a blast. You some how always knew how to have fun, never a dull moment. You have always been a joy to be around, nothing was ever impossible for you. I feel honored to call you my friend and will never forget all the laughs, concerts, and flip cup races.
Ricki Keepman
April 12, 2007
Annie, Jim, and Joe,
I know I already wrote in here but I just had to say one more thing..I think of Paul and my heart melts because no matter how little or uncool I was, (according to Ryan) Paul was always the one to come over to our Maple Terrace house and invite me along to go tubing(even though Ry always gave him that dirty look!)! He had an incredible heart... and if each one of us could have just a small piece of it; there's no doubt our world would be a much better place. Paul made a difference in just 21 years..much more than most people make in a lifetime and he will always be in my memories and most importantly, my heart! Love u guys and constantly praying, Ricki
Nathan Egholm
April 12, 2007
Paulie- I couldnt ask for a better best friend. From the girls in Florida at the ALCS to the to high school football. I will never forget all you have done for me and i couldnt ask for a better Guardian Angel. I love you man
Jessica Bruett
April 12, 2007
Paul & I had speech together many years ago, he was a senior in high school and I was a freshman. Though we never became close friends, I remember that every time we met in the hallways after that he would say hello. I always thought this very sweet, that he treated me as an equal, even a friend, and not like someone four years his junior. Thanks for brightening my freshman hallway experiences, Paul.
April 12, 2007
Annie,
You asked for me to come over and share memories with you, but I thought I would write one on here. When I heard about Paul of course I didn't really believe it for the first few days. Then one morning I woke up and this memory came to my mind, I don't know why, It was in the hallway at St. Jeromes, Paul and Danny must have been in 5th or 6th grade. Paul was SOO excited showing Danny this locked little box FULL of all this different candy, they were both soo excited, Paul thought it was the greatest thing in the world, especially because you know how St. Jeromes is! Well they were just so excited about it, I can see Paul's excited grin right now. I didn't know why that memory came to me and then later realized because that's how I will remember Paul, SOO excited, so full of life. I hope this memory will make you laugh or at least smile, because that's what Paul did for all of us. Still thinking and praying for you guys.
Love always,
Kahlie
Tom Stapleton
April 12, 2007
It's been a wonderful time, years of laughter and a lifetime of love. You did things the right way and were the best friend anyone could have. I'll miss you forever but know that you will always be with me.
Don't cause too much trouble up there -
Meghan Goeglein
April 12, 2007
Dear Annie, Jim and Family,
I wanted to extend my deepest sympathy to your family. I was fortunate enough to work with Paul at Paragon Industries. He displayed warmth to his co-workers as well as the clients that we served. I remember on several occasions, Paul entering the room at Paragon and several clients calling out his name all at the same time. Paul always responded to each client and met their needs with his warm smile. He would take the time to speak with each client and displayed compassion towards them on a daily basis. He never let any of the clients go unnoticed. That is the way I will always remember Paul. I was very proud to have him as a part of our team. I will continue to keep your family in my prayers.
Stub
April 11, 2007
Annie, Jim, Joe,& Matt-
No one should have to bare losing a child, a brother. So my heart aches for your loss. Keep in mind Paul is in such great company now, especially with Gracie and Cy. Hopefully that will give you some comfort, along with all the great memories you hold. Know I am here for you for anything, anytime.
Greg Bowen
April 10, 2007
Annie Jim and family, I am so sorry for your loss of such a fine wonderful soul. My wife Cheryl and I got to know Paul when he attended college in San Diego. He impacts my life to this very day.His kind way and gentle soul is what I'll always remember. He always will be the son that I never had. We are kindered sprits. I met Paul when Annie was looking for an apartment for Paul to live while he was going to college at the University of San Diego. Annie was checking on an apartment while double parked and I asked her what was her hurry. She said she needed a safe place for her Paulie to live while he was in school. I assured her that the place was safe and I would personally look after her loved one. Little did I know that we would fall in love with this special soul and form a loving long term relationship with him. Paul was more interested in life than going to school so he got a puppy and named him Tony. When he told me he was getting a dog I said don't do it. Well you know Paul, he said its too late I'm going to get him now. Tony and Paul were both puppies learning to grow, getting in trouble, and cute beyond words. This probably wasn't the best decision for a freshman but you know Paul, He was going to do what he needed. My wife and I did what we could to bring both of them along. They had eachother and that was all that mattered. Paul and Tony's innocence was angelic. They warmed our hearts. My heart is shattered knowing Paul is gone and Tony and all of us are left behind. I am a better person knowing and loving Paul. He has taught me many lessons and I know he is always going to be an angel for Cheryl and I. Some people live long lives and some people live long in our hearts. Paul will live forever in my heart and in every heart that knew him like we did. He told my wife and I he was the son we never had.I feel like I lost my only son. I am sad beyond words for this, but I know it was only by chance that I got to know Paul and I'm thankful for that because if I never knew Paul I would not have been the person I am today. Let us all become better people in the name of Paul. Let us honor his spirit and dare to be kind, dare to love and most of al dare to feel. God Bless you Paul. Love Greg and Cheryl Bowen
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