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Sherri Panhorst Obituary

HAYSVILLE - Panhorst, Sherri Diane (Frye), 33, Private tutor, and unborn son, Crew, of Newport Coast, CA, formerly of Haysville, KS, passed away May 28, 2007. Service is 10:00 AM on Friday, June 1, Huntington Beach Stake Center, Huntington Beach, CA. Survivors: husband, Zach Panhorst, Newport Coast, CA, mother, Glenda Frye, Wichita, KS, father and stepmother, Thomas and Olivia Frye, sister, Cindy Frye, nephew, Tanner Frye, all of Haysville, KS, mother and father-in-law, LaDonna and Mark Panhorst, Delta, Utah, brother-in-laws, Livingston and Levon, sister-in-laws, Keal and Heidi, all of Utah. Renaker-Klockgether Mortuary. Local memorial for friends and family will be set at a later date.

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Published by Wichita Eagle on May 31, 2007.

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Karen Stay Ahlstrom

October 1, 2008

I was getting in touch with old friends now that I've got my own life in order, and our old roommate Emily told me you were no longer with us.

Sherri, I'll always remember putting together that summer program with you, and teaching you about history and the scriptures -- and the way you made lunch for me every day so that I'd at least eat one good meal.

I never saw anyone so hungry for knowledge as you -- or anyone so eager to share what she'd found. I imagine that now you're just soaking in all God has to offer.

I saw a book on Egypt in the thrift store the other day, and thought of calling you to see if you wanted it.

I've missed you, and now, it seems I'll have to wait a little longer.

Glenda Frye

September 23, 2008

Happy Birthday to my beautiful angel. It's a beautiful day down here. We're going to release balloons today in honor of your birthday. I know you and Crew will be with us in spirit. I miss you so much.
Love and peace, Mom

Glenda Frye

May 28, 2008

Well, it's been a year ago today, about this time, when I got the call from Zach that changed our lives forever. It's still hard to believe its been a year, or that you and Crew are really gone. Thanks to my family and friends for their support today, I was able to deal with this date better than I thought I would. I tried to stay busy and preoccupy my mind, but I still feel the loss for you and Crew so deeply. I know you are in a better place. Tanner had a baseball game tonight in Clearwater, so that helped fill some of the time. You would be proud of their team, they haven't lost a game yet. Tanner even made a homerun a couple of games ago. I know you were smiling down on him. Cindy and Tanner are raising money for your memorial for a friend of Tanner's named Mikey. He is going through some rough cancer treatments for a boy of 9. I knew you always loved and helped kids so much and would be proud of Cindy and Tanner for doing this. I know this next year will be better and that you will have God send us his blessings. I love and miss you both so much.
Love, Mom

Glenda Frye

May 10, 2008

Sherri, Cindy made her college graduation today from Friends, and you would have been so proud of her. She graduated with honors. We missed having you here to enjoy this happy time in our lives, but I know your spirit was here with us. I know you and Crew were sending your blessings down to all of us on her special day. Tomorrow is Mothers day, and I will be spending some time with Cindy and Tanner. I will also be thinking of you and Crew, my angels in heaven. I count my blessings for my family here on earth and the family happy and at peace with God. Take care of little Crew.
Love, Mom

Cindy Frye

February 7, 2008

Hey sis and Crew. It has been a while so I thought I needed to write. I miss you both dearly, but am learning to go on with my life. There are some days that are a little sadder, but Tanner and I are doing really well. I am sure you both are watching over Tanner's new puppy Truffles and that is why he is training so well and falling right into place. Tanner would make you so proud as he is really providing well for Truffles and working hard to earn money to take care of him. This is the first pet we have gotten in a while that he hasn't tried to name after you, Crew. He thinks of you often and speaks of you both frequently. I have noticed that the sadness has faded from his eyes and is being replaced by sparkles again when he speaks of you both. Thank you both so much for watching over all of us and especially Tanner. We love you and miss you both very much.
Love ya sis and Crew!

Glenda Frye

January 1, 2008

Hi Sherri,

Cindy,Tanner,Olive and I made it back from California yesterday afternoon. We brought back your belongings that Zach had been holding for us. I also have the photo album of Gene's that his sister's sent to you when he died. I sent an e-mail to Peggy and Kenny to see I can mail it to them and they can get it back to his sisters. I know they would like to have it back. We visited with Jill and her family and Mariola and her family. They told us how much they all loved you and how much you loved spending time with them. I think it helped us all with our healing process to be able to talk. After we got back to Wichita yesterday, Natalie called me. She was wanting to meet us for lunch, but I told her we were already back. So we just had a nice talk on the phone. I plan on keeping in touch with your friends, so we can help each other get through this. We met with Zach and his fiance, Hillary, and went to lunch together, went to the cemetary, and then went back to the apartment to decide what belongings we wanted to take back with us. Zach and Hillary are getting married February 2. I know this is what you wanted. I'm still moving slowly through the grief and healing process. Maybe it is because I gave birth to you and you were a part of my life for 33 years. I wish you could have experienced that bond between a mother and child. There is no greater feeling, or heartache when you lose that child. I know it will take time to get through this, but this will be a better year and I know you and Crew will be sending us lots of blessings.

Love you and miss you. Mom

Glenda Frye

November 22, 2007

Hi Sherri,

Well, I made it through Thanksgiving. I had a pretty rough night last night in anticipation of how I was going to handle this day. I didn't really care to celebrate, but I also realized that Cindy and Tanner are my family now and I wanted to be strong for both of them. We had a nice quiet dinner at Dad and Olive's. Peter also came and Olive had invited three women from the Phillipines who are here in Wichita as teachers. I thought of you when I learned they were teachers. I decided to go play Bingo tonight because I really didn't care to stay home by myself. I remembered when you and Zach came home last year and we went to the zoo and went to Bingo. I'll really cherish those memories. I also stopped at the cemetery on the way home from Dad and Olive's. I was surprised to see three other cars there. I guess there are quite a few other families that wanted to visit the spirits of the loved ones they had lost. The holidays are gonna be rough for a lot of people. You would be really proud of Tanner and Cindy. They're both doing great in school. I know Cindy will be relieved to finally get her Bachelor's degree. I know we all miss you and Crew a lot. Not a day goes by that I don't sit here and talk to your picture, wishing you had asked us for help. Your family loved you so much, and you know we would have done anything to help you. I am trying to accept what happened and move on. I plan on taking your money for Christmas and putting it in your memorial fund, too. I know it would have been what you would have wanted. It's time to say goodbye for now. I love and miss both you and Crew so much.
Love, Mom

Cindy Frye

November 21, 2007

Hey sis,
I don't know where to start, but I wanted to tell you that I miss you and Crew. It is so hard to realize that just 12 short months ago you and Zach were here celebrating Thanksgiving with all of us and brightening our worlds with the news of a new baby. We were all so excited. It is hard to look at last year's Thanksgiving and then realizing how different our lives can be in just one year. I know we will all be fine, but it has just been tough lately. I am down to my last three weeks of school and it has been rough. I have been writing a paper for one of my classes about your death and all I have learned from it. It has really been bringing back a lot of memories and sadness. But it has opened my eyes as to just how much I have learned from it that I can use down the road to help someone else avoid the pain we have gone through. I am also memorizing the poem I wrote to you after you died to recite in sign language for my final in that class. That is actually a pretty fun assignment, as I love learning to sign. It is a lot easier on me than the paper. As soon as I get done with school I am going to the evening shift at work. I just can't do the morning thing anymore. I have had a lot of problems sleeping lately so I figure working nights will pay the bills a lot better than calling in every other day. It will get better I know.
Tanner is doing awesome! He actually got the Star Student award last week. He was so proud and I was soooooo proud of him. Some days I think he is the more responsible one of the two of us nowadays. He is getting pretty excited about Christmas and has a pretty hefty wish list. He has narrowed it down to either a 4 wheeler or a pocket rocket. Hope he don't mind the miniture plastic kind. He has been pretty understanding lately so I am sure he can settle for something simpler. You would be so proud of him lately. I had my first positive teacher conference ever a couple weeks ago. I was so delighted coming out of there and I could hold my head up high for once.
I got your stocking from Zach's mom on your birthday this year. It is truely beautiful! We are hoping to finish putting up the Christmas decor tomorrow and I will have a special place for it. I am so thankful she sent that to me. I hope she knows how much it meant to me. You guys did an awesome job making it last year. Tanner loves how Crew's name is on it too.
Jennifer told me last week that they were purchasing some books for the kids with your memorial fund money and they are placing memory placards in the front of each one with you and Crew's name. She has been awesome helping me with all that. Your love for children is continuing. I decided to put your Christmas money in the account this year to continue that new tradition. You were the most amazing woman with children. Thank you for all you have done for Tanner and I in the past, present, and future.
This Thanksgiving I am thankful for our last year's celebration, all the memories we have, and the wonderful family and friends that remain in my life. I love you guys!
Cindy

Zach panhorst

November 6, 2007

I want to thank everyone who has supported me and sherri's family through all of this... there are so many people who were touched and loved by sherri.. time has gone by so slow but yet so fast since May 28th.. i dont even know what to say anymore except that i wish you werent gone sherri.. i wish you were still alive even if its not with me... you gave so much to so many people that there is a huge whole left behind..

Glenda Frye

October 31, 2007

Hi Sherri,

It's Halloween again, so I went to Bingo instead of staying home. Everytime I go to Bingo, I remember when you and Zach went with us when you came home at Thanksgiving last year. Doesn't seem that long ago. I found the Halloween picture we had taken in 1997 when you had your first teaching job in Andale and Tanner wasn't even a month old. I took it to my group last night and everyone thought it was great to see us all so happy. I will cherish those moments. I talked to Claudia yesterday at the eye doctor's office, and we were talking about you and Kevin. She stated that no matter how you lose a child, it is something you never get over. I told her about the memorial stone at the cemetery and she wanted to know where it was, so she can see it. I told her it was just down the road from Kevin's. I still miss you everyday, and know it's going to be rough getting through the holidays. But I know you will be sending us all extra strength and courage to make it through those days. I love you always.
Love, Mom

Frye Glenda

October 6, 2007

Sherri,

It's been over four months now since you and Crew have been gone. We celebrated Tanner's 10th birthday last night at Hooters(that's where he wanted to go).I still miss both of you very much, but I know our lives need to move on without you. I got a little piece of land at the Greenwood Cemetery down by Haysville and bought a stone with both you names on it so I and the rest of your family and friends will have a memorial place to visit for some peace and to be able to feel you and Crew's spirits here in Kansas. I know you will always rest in peace in California, but I wanted to give you a place here in Kansas. I know you are looking down from heaven and giving us all the strength, courage and patience to be able to let go and move on with our lives. I will always love and miss you both.

Love, Mom

Cindy Frye

September 23, 2007

Happy Birthday sis. I just wanted to let you know that I love and miss you. It has been almost four months and some days it still don't seem real. I missed getting your goofy card on my birthday this year. I always laughed at how you signed the "from your good looking sister". There have been days when I want to pick up the phone and call you and I realize I can't. I could really use your help with Tanner right now. Things have been pretty rough. Today he told me it was my fault you were gone. I know that's not true, but it still hurt really bad. He starts with a new doctor this week so I hope we can find out what's wrong finally. If you could send me any help from heaven I could sure use it! You would be so proud of me. I will be done with school in eleven weeks. IT sound so good, not years or months, but weeks! I know you have been sending me strength a lot lately to keep pushing forward, please keep doing that. I really need it. I think of you and Crew alot and miss you both. Please know that we all loved you before and always will.
Love you and miss you lots Big Sis.
Cindy

Heather (Ogg) Haynes

August 5, 2007

I have been looking and looking and looking for Sherri's guest book. I did not know her married name and did not want to burden her close family and friends to get that information. I was incredibly sad to hear of her passing, and that her son had passed as well. To her family and close friends, please accept my heartfelt sympathy. I pray that you feel the comfort and peace that Sherri and Crew are with their Heavenly Father. I fondly remember many good times with her and several Mary Kay parties. I don't think she ever realized how special she was, and I hope she now realizes how amazing she was and always will be.

Cindy Frye

July 21, 2007

Sherri,
Hey my "good looking sister". I miss you so much. I know that you and Crew are watching over Tanner and I everyday and keeping us safe. There have been some rough days, but through all the guidance you have always given me as a big sister it has made them days much easier. I just want you and Crew to know how much we all love you and miss you. Please give Crew a big hug and kiss from his "Auntie" for me. I love you lots!!!!!

Cindy Frye

June 24, 2007

I would like to thank everyone who has kept our family in their hearts and prayers. The support we have all received during this tragic time has been amazing and has really shown me what wonderful people we have been surrounded by. Thank you all and God Bless.

We have also started a memorial fund here in Kansas in Sherri's honor to continue Sherri's dream of helping children. The fund will be donated in her name to the Early Childhood Center in Haysville, Kansas. Anyone that wishes to contribute can mail donations to the
Boeing Wichita Credit Union
1425 W. Grand, Ste. 105
Haysville, Kansas 67060
payable to the Sherri Panhorst Memorial Fund.
Thank you all again and love you all.
Cindy

Carol Nielson

June 18, 2007

1 Peter 3:12 The Lord is watching His children, listening to their prayers. You've been in my heart and in my prayers! Just wanted to let you know that I've been thinking and praying for you.

Lee and Becky Tanner

June 18, 2007

We express or sorrow at the loss of your wife and son. Our prayers are with you. Our testimony is that someday all things will be known, all things will be understood, all things will be made right and that you will have great comfort in living a life that leads you to God's presence.

Melissa (Phillips) Miller

June 17, 2007

I did not know Sherri well, but I remember how kind and giving she was. She just had such a wonderful spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Dayna Lebbon

June 14, 2007

To All Who Have Experienced This Tragic Loss,
It will forever be a loss to our family too. We grew up with the Panhorst family and they are our closest cousins. I feel sorrow for Zach and his loss. "Sherri, sounds like you were a good friend to all and take care of Crew til we meet him"
Zach-please take care and hope to see you soon.
Love you and Missa you
Dayna and Lataya Lebbon

Dayna Lebbon

June 14, 2007

To All Who Have Experienced This Tragic Loss,
It will forever be a loss to our family too. We grew up with the Panhorst family and they are our closest cousins. Even though our meeting with Sherri was years ago,my memory of her was great. She came to my 21st birthday party with the family and friends and was a sweet girl. I feel sorrow for Zach and his loss. "Sherri, you were a good friend to all and take care of Crew til we meet him"
Zach-please take care and hope to see you soon.
Love you and Missa you
Dayna and Lataya Lebbon

Vicki Judkins

June 14, 2007

It was like being suspended in time to hear of Zach and the Panhorst family's tragedy. My heart ached for them and what it would be like to suffer this trial. Gary and Chandler were sad to learn of this as well, responding mostly with silence. That evening, as I was painting walls in the basement, I couldn't quit thinking about the boy Zach in Primary, his mission farewell and homecoming reports, wedding reception, and other events in his life that I have been privy to. How little anyone knows what lies ahead for any one of us. It was truly a continuous prayer in my heart all evening long for Zach and his family's comfort. The way the Lord works is interesting though. While I was praying for their comfort, a calm came to me that the Panhorst family was strong and would see this through with Zach. They are always there for each other. The Ward family would support them in Utah and CA, and the Lord is over all.

Dave & Kathleen Noah

June 13, 2007

Psalm 118:14 The Lord is my strength and my song: his has become my salvation. May the Lord bless Zach during this very difficult time. Our prayers are with you. love,

Ray & Mary Anne Johnson

June 13, 2007

We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are especially with Zach. Jed told us about it and there are no words that can express our sympathy except to say you have friends who are thinking of you.

Rick & Calleen Archibald

June 13, 2007

No words or deeds can take away the pain of lost loved ones, but perhaps just knowing how extremely deeply we care for your loss will bring some peace to you. When the load seems to heavy to bear , we always know the Lord will carry us through.. May the Lord's blessings be with you and may you feel the warmth of our great comforter wrapping you in a blanket of peace and love! much love-

Joe & Rose Ann Young

June 13, 2007

Oh the hard times! Please know the Comforter is near. Our love to Zach- our hearts go out to him.

Craig & Krista Hansen

June 13, 2007

We're sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

The Stumph Family

June 13, 2007

Our prayers are with your family.

Calvin & Shauna Peterson

June 13, 2007

Our hearts go out to Zach at this time. Please know that you are in in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord comfort you. with all our love,

Deb & Darwin Bills

June 13, 2007

We are thinking of Zach at this time. Know our prayers are with you and that we care and love your family. We are here for you.

Gary & Gerry Sperry

June 13, 2007

We are very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Shayne & Carrie Crapo

June 13, 2007

Please know that you are in our prayers. May the Lord comfort you!! Always know that you are not alone- the Lord knows and loves you!!

Betty Remington

June 13, 2007

My heart goes out to Zach & family. Zach has a special place in my heart. My prayers are with you and family.

Craig & Shannon Young

June 13, 2007

We are sorry for your loss. We love your family and pray for your healing at this time.

James & Michelle Burr

June 13, 2007

Please know that you are in our prayers. We hope you find comfort in knowing that we care!

Bryon & Elaine Griffiths

June 13, 2007

Words cannot express our sympathy. We care for you and our prayers are with you!

Peggy & Glenn Bryner

June 13, 2007

Oh how our hearts hurt for your family. We'll keep you in our prayers.

Ken and Michelle Nielson

June 13, 2007

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mitchell Jim and Kari

June 13, 2007

May you be comforted at this time of deep loss. You are in our prayers.

sherri with zach, leah and chad

June 9, 2007

pregnant sister in laws

June 9, 2007

first prego shot with teddy

June 9, 2007

dinner with zach, leah and chad

June 9, 2007

Duane DeLong

June 9, 2007

I can't imagine the pain of losing any of my sons or daughter. May the knowing that so many people love and care about you be of some comfort. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Roger Rausch

June 8, 2007

Glenda,
I was shocked when I recently heard of your tragic loss. I can imagine no pain greater than losing your child. You will be in my prayers.

Shannon Muirhead

June 7, 2007

Dear Sherri,
I just found out today that you are gone. The terrible pain I feel right now is evident of the incredible love I felt for you, and from you. I considered you one of my truest friends, and enjoyed spending time with you at the ice cream shop, and looking at the cute puppies in the pet store. I know who you are- I know you loved your family, your friends, chidren from all walks of life, and especially the savior. I remember when we were roomates and how you used to sit with me on the couch outside and help me tackle my quandries, however insignificant they were. You loved me so much, you cared about me so much, and I didn't know why I deserved such a friend, but I was grateful, and I still am. You were one of my most spiritual examples of someone who always hoped for the best, and remembered to love everyone. I will miss you tremendously. I pray for you and that you have found peace. I look forward to seeing you again someday.

Love shannon

Shayna Chambers

June 7, 2007

Tommy, Glenda, Cindy & Family
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Sherri. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Cindy Frye

June 7, 2007

I just wanted to let everyone know that I have gotten some pictures submitted to Sherri's Photo Album for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to view them and add any you would also like to share with others. Please continue to cherish all the great memories you may have with my wonderful sister. Love you all!

Sherri, Zach, and Olive November 2006

June 7, 2007

Our Family Picture 2005

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Auntie and Tanner holding on tight, 2005

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Sherri and Tanner being goofy in 2004

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Auntie and Tanner hanging around in 2004

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Sherri and Aunt Roxie Easter 2004

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Sherri and Heather in front of the Las Angeles Temple

June 7, 2007

Sherri and Bishop Lang

June 7, 2007

Sherri and friends

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Sherri and Mariola

June 7, 2007

Sherri and Mom at the Wild West Saloon, Nashville 2005

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Tanner and Auntie 2003

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Auntie and Tanner at Disneyland 2003

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Tanner loving his time at the beach with his Auntie 2003

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Our beautiful trip to the beach 2003

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Sherri and Kat at our Easter party 2000

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Our family picture March 2000

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Miss Sherri with her kids at Andale Elementary 2001

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Miss Frye Andale Elementary 1997

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Dad, Sherri, Cindy, and Olive at her Pittsburg State graduation 1996

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Sherri, Mom, and Gene at her graduation from Pittsburg State 1996

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Sherri and Cindy 1993

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Our family picture March 2000

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Miss Sherri with her kids at Andale Elementary 2001

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Miss Frye Andale Elementary 1997

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Dad, Sherri, Cindy, and Olive at her Pittsburg State graduation 1996

June 7, 2007

Sherri, Mom, and Gene at her graduation from Pittsburg State 1996

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Sherri and Cindy 1993

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Sherri and Kevin Howell

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Sherri's High School Graduation 1992

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Sherri's Senior Picture

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Sherri's Senior Picture

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Sherri, age 8

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Sherri and Cindy, ages 5 and 2

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Sherri and Daddy

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Sherri, age 2

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Mom and Sherri

June 7, 2007

Beautiful Angel

June 7, 2007

Mommy's Little Angel

June 7, 2007

Precious Little Sherri

June 7, 2007

Judy Stengel

June 6, 2007

Glenda, I just heard about your terrible loss. I am so sorry. I cannot imagine the hurt you must feel. You are in my prayers.

Ryan Bridwell

June 6, 2007

Sherri was a great person who had such a positive impact on me and my family. It has been extremely difficult for us to accept. We are all so sad she is gone. My heart goes out to her family and husband. Sherri brought so much to my life for such a long time. I am so very thankful that I talked to her a couple of months ago to find out how happy she is living by the ocean with her husband Zach. She told me how excited she was to have a son and she couldn’t wait to become a mother. Sherri would have been a great mother; she had such a way with kids! I know she is in Heaven now with her son. I also know she is at peace. We will never forget her and the time we had together. She will be missed greatly by everyone who knew what a special person she was.
Love, Ryan Bridwell & Family

Natalie Kelley

June 5, 2007

Dear Sherri, You were my friend and my children's teacher. Each week, we watched your belly grow, shared the joy of the ultrasound photos, and felt your baby kicking. Words cannot express our devastation over losing you and your little child. Last night, my daughter Cameron (10 yrs old) brought me some of the artwork you did together and we both cried again. My son Timothy (12) seems to be at peace and said, "Mom, I know Sherri is in heaven." For this I am grateful. I reminded my children that passing is part of life, and the lesson in it is that we are rewarded with greater appreciation for those who are still with us. May your spirit find the peace and contentment it could not in this life. I feel certain it will, for your heart was truly good and kind. -- Natalie Kelley

Tricia

June 5, 2007

Dear Sherri,
I have been at a loss since the news of your passing. I just can't believe it. You were such an incredible person. Nick and I thought the world of you. You will always be in our hearts. We will miss you. I know you are now at peace. Love Tricia and Nick.

Teal Davis

June 5, 2007

I wish I had known Sherri more since she was married to my brother & would be the mother of my Nephew. I am thankful that she was able to bring love into my brothers life & that he felt so much happiness with her. My love will always be there for my Brother and his Son Crew. My prayers go out to my brother & sherri's family as I know this is a horrible loss for everyone.

Avery

June 4, 2007

Dear Sherri,
I miss you soo much... you were the best tutor that i have ever had. you improved my grades and you would always make me smile. thank you for all the help that you have gave to me and all the fun times that we have had together! I love you dearly and i miss you soo.
love,
Avery

Phil

June 4, 2007

Sherri (and Crew) will be greatly missed. Sherri was a great friend and home teachee. We had many long talks before she was blessed with her husband Zack. Its hard to believe she is gone. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends that loved her.

Sherry And I enjoying fish taco's at a Favorite HB locale

June 4, 2007

Auntie and Tanner Summer 2006

Cindy Frye

June 3, 2007

To my dearest sister,
You have always been my rock to keep me strong,
And shown me the path to travel along.
In the last week I have been so lost,
Just trying to pass the time at any cost.
With it just being the two of us we were so close,
And I think that is what hurts the most.
I have had so much trouble being a single mom,
But you always gave me the strength to carry on.
Nobody could ever fill the shoes you have worn,
And only time will mend my heart that is torn.
I know I will never be able to hold you tight,
But I can look up and see you sparkle at night.
It gives me peace to know you are no longer in pain,
And that I will see you in the rainbow after the rain.
I know you and Crew will keep us safe from above,
And we will still feel all your tenderness and love.
Nobody could ever take your place.
And I will always see your smiling face.
We will get through this, and we will be strong,
All of our precious memories will carry me on.
I love you so much and it hurts my heart,
To know we were together, but now we're apart.

I love you Large Frye!

Small Frye

Glenda Frye

June 3, 2007

TO MY DARLING BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER AND GRANDSON

When you came into this world, you had the biggest brown eyes, beautiful brown hair, and the biggest smile. As you grew, I could tell how special you were. You became a loving, caring, generous woman. You, Cindy & Tanner are the loves of my life. When you and Zach married, I was so happy for both of you.When you told us about Crew, I was so looking forward to coming to California with Tanner, to help take care of you and Crew. It was going to make our little family complete. I know you were having feelings inside that you didn't know how to deal with. I also realize that what happened was beyond your control. I forgive you. Even though you and Crew are gone, we will have the memories of all our great family times. We will all love you & Crew forever. I pray that God has let you find the peace and happiness you yearned for so long, and deserved. We will miss you and Crew, and you both will always be loved and remain in our hearts forever. I know God will give us the strength and courage to ease our pain and suffering. Goodbye forever, Sherri and Crew. Love, Mom and Grandma

Suzanne Lewis

June 3, 2007

If you need any help with the memorial services I would be honor to help with it.. I am always just a phone call away.... Dont be afraid to ask.....

Zacharia Panhorst

June 2, 2007

Sherri was my wife and mother to be of our son Crew. She meant everything to me and our life together was tragedically cut short. Sherri saved my life. She touched so many lives especially those out here in California. Any one that met her fell in love with her instantly. One of Sherri's last journal entries read about our son saying: "I can't wait to wait to get him outside and meet him so I could see him and get to know him." Her eyes sparkled everytime she rubbed her belly and felt him move. We all lost someone special on May 28th, I love you Sherri. I love you Crew

Stacy (Schneider) Poindexter

June 1, 2007

Glenda, Cindy & Tom,

I was so saddened to hear of Sherri's passing. I have such fond memories of us playing at Grandma's house when we were kids. I had forgotten that we also share middle names.

I will keep you all in my prayers and in my heart.

Love,Stacy

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