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February 9, 2017
I can not say your name without crying. You where a great a cousin, and I miss you very much! I wish you could met my family and see the man I have become. But I know you are watching me and them. I talk about you too my wife. she wishes she could have met you. I love you Olivia!!! I am so sorry I never went to your graduation party. Every time I hear your name I have this guilt because I didn't go and just cry and cry. At the time I just wanted to hangout with friends, and now it eats me because I don't miss my friends that I had. I Miss my sweet big goofy cousin. No one knows how sorry I am and how much I miss you.
Tobi Garcia
December 21, 2012
I can't believe it has been ten years since you left us. I still remember attending your graduation reception and you encouraging me to go back to school, get my degree and better myself. I remember how hard you said it was, and the sacrifices you made to achieve your dream- receiving your BA. I always think about that moment, and how you inspired me. I hope you are proud of me, I did it and was successful. I only wish you could have experienced and shared more like a wedding, marriage and motherhood. I think in a way you have through your family and friends. I hope you are doing well.
Velenzia Vaca
February 7, 2012
So I really miss you ,and i just wish a could have one more day with you. I have so many memories with you at your house. Could you please come vist me in my dreams? I love you.
Joey Ojeda-Molina
May 24, 2011
Happy B-Day Liv!!! I miss you Lady and have been thinking of you alot lately. How the time flies by when you lose loved ones. I will never ever forget you and I will always remember the fun & great times that we had. I know you are up there celebrating your b-day with all of your loved ones and you have Lisa right by your side along w/Snap. Untill we meet again Lady!! Luv Ya and blowing you hugs & kisses!!!
Uncle Mario
May 24, 2011
Thinking about you today beautiful...I love and miss you very much. so much has changed since you left us here. I know alot of people would say you are in a better place, but what could be better than being with your family and your loved ones? I can only imagine the things you would have done with your life, the children you would have had...all of them looking Rodriguez, no doubt. Yay for us! :) You always were so loving, so giving so happy go lucky..even when you were upset you still manage to have a smile on your beautiful face. I miss you babe, I love you and give your grandpa a kiss from me. Happy Birthday Liv...
December 20, 2010
It' will be exactly 8yrs tomorrow since you received you angel wings! It's crazy how time flys.... Just want you to know that I think of you all the time, even more around the holidays! I just need a favor, can you please watch over my mom for me? I'm sure you know, but she could really use your help these days... Any way girl Merry Christmas!
November 12, 2010
Thought about you today and talked about you to a co-worker. I still miss you as much as I did the day you were taken. Just wanted to stop in and say "Hey Liv!" miss you always and forever...
Twin.
Mariza Correa Rodriguez Hernandez
May 3, 2008
i never new the family nor Olivia...but i know what the family es going through, and i empathize on this story. I came across the article from an online friend, that es the cousin of Olivia. Stay strong, be strong, and you will be in my prayers.
con mucho amor =y= carino
siempre,
Mariza
Catrice Alleyne
April 29, 2008
Words cannot explain the magnitude of love, friendship, and compassion that Olivia showed to others and me throughout her life. I pray that her sweet spirit will pass throughout this ugly cruel world. To the family having lost a brother, my deepest condolences go out to you. May the spirit of the Lord send you comfort in the tough times, joy in the sad times, and peace in times of anger. May grace and mercy be given to us all.
Erika Cunningham
March 18, 2008
God bless to the Raya family.
Erika
Northeast Class of 1993
Sidney Smith
February 11, 2008
Olivia,
Although i only knew you from afar and we didnt interact much while I was interning at Blue Cross Blue Shield, the brief interaction we did share will forever serve as a memory etched in my mind. Before we moved to the main building and the marketing department was at the building on the Plaza, I remember you always being so polite and supportive of me and my internship duties and how you were proud of me for going to college and keeping my grades up. And FYI... I graduated in 2004 and you would defintely be proud of me :) I remember Tony picking you up some evenings and how lucky I said he had to be. And whenever I ride past Hardesty on Blue Parkway, I always think of you and my gradmother who lives less than 2 blocks away before she passed. If only for a brief time, you left a lasting memory and you will never be forgotten. Thank you for those memories!
May 24, 2007
HEPPY BIRTHDAY, OLIVIA
Kathy Rodriguez
February 15, 2007
Liv, my baby girl, you are on the minds of many. Not just today, but always. Your Aunt Cathy is joining you. Look out for her. We miss you so much, but you see all the work we're doing in your name! Olivia Raya you made us proud! We love you and we miss you!
Lisa Ortiz
February 12, 2007
Today, as always, we think of you as your Tia Cathy joins you in our Father's Home. God Bless you always and forever. The Ortiz Family, Uncle Ish, Aunt Marcy, Stan, Lisa and Yolanda
Tammy Raya
February 11, 2007
Dearest Liv, We are thinking of you today as your loving aunt Cathy joins you. We love you and miss you very much. Love, Uncle Mark and Aunt Tammy
Uncle Mario
August 9, 2006
hey sweetie,
thinking of you...I miss seeing that smile of yours. You always were so beautiful..and so sweet...kiss your grandpa for me..I love you and miss you very much...
Marina Arroyo
March 6, 2006
Hey Liv~ I am so glad the people responsible for your death is finally going to be brought to JUSTICE although that will not bring Tony and You back but you two can finally Rest In Peace!! Your parents and sisters have done soo well and they are soo strong !!! I admire them! We all miss you two and love you!! Until we meet again!
Morales family
March 2, 2006
Thinking of you Liv, and your family today and always!!Your missed by alot of us..
January 31, 2006
Hey cuz . Hope you and grandpa are really watching over me right now . I have alot of big life decisions and dont know what to do . hope you guys guide me into doing the right thing . hope your doing good . I miss and love you . please watch over me .
December 6, 2005
Well Olivia, a lot of things are going on here and I wish you were here to see them. Your famly is really holding up well, but the pain is still there. I know they miss you every minute of every day. Keep watching over us all and we will see again some day!!!
MICHELLE VITALE
May 24, 2005
HEY LIV.. HAPPY BIRTHDAY ... WELL TODAY YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN 29 YRS OLD AND AS ALWAYS WE WOULD HAVE KICKED IT FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY..
I THOUGHT ABOUT YOU QUIT A BIT THIS WEEKEND WITH VELENZIA'S B-DAY PARTY AND ALL... I KNOW YOU WERE THERE WITH US... VELENZIA REMINDS ME OF YOU IN SO MANY WAYS....
LOVE
MICHELLE
monique "twin"
March 17, 2005
hey liv i've been thinking about you alot lately and how things used to be when you where here (with ALL of us) i miss hearing you say whats up twin! i've talked to your mom a few times and sometimes i think its you through her telling me that things shouldnt be the way that they are. im sure you're looking down and are like "what?" lots of things have changed since you've been gone im sure you can see that, i just want you to know that "pooper" and raquel are still like my best friends even though things are the way they are. ever time i call sara "pooper" when im talkin to mel i see and hear your smile. i love u girl and i miss u
raquel raya
December 21, 2004
Olivia, my lovely, beautiful sister..
2 years ago today I lost you and girl, it’s been a crazy 2 years.. I am sure that you are amazed at all the things and people that have changed! I know that you see it all there is so much that we have to catch up on! I miss you so much it is unreal! there isn’t a way to put it in words how much I miss you, just knowing that I can’t call you and talk to you about the little things hurts the most. I know that you are watching over me and the kids making sure things go right because for the past couple of years they have for me, I have made some changes for the better not only for my self but for the kids and i thank you for watching out for us.
Velenzia misses you so much you are all that she talks about, all her pictures she makes at school are of her "Nina" she adored you, and still does to this day. I am sure you see it all. Everyone says that she looks just like you, and she does! she is getting so big. Julian sometimes reminds me of Tony I think it comes from all the time that he spent with him, and Gabrielle is still the same bad as ever.. I love you and miss you dearly! we will one day be together again.... love your sister...scratch.. Merry Christmas..
Always remeber that we are never going to give up until we find who the one(s) responsible for our tragic loss.
I know you are happy as ever because of where you are and because you are with Tony. I miss the both of you
Michelle Morales-Vargas
November 13, 2004
To Sylvia and Louie,Raquel,Sara..Liv was a good girl.. Very loving and caring young lady..I remember watching her and all the Rodriguez grandkids..Olivia grew up into a wonderful caring person..I remembershe had the most longest eye lashes.Long pretty hair and her Grandpa's girl..I even was able to work w/her at the Associated /school pictures.. Sylvia and Louie you did a great job in raising your girls.I will always think of you and your in my prayers.God Bless you and oneday you will be together.there is memorial to Liv & Tony there..-xoxoxoxoxo..
MICHELLE VITALE
September 28, 2004
HEY- I HAVE BEEN THINKING ALOT OF ABOUT YOU HERE LATELY AND MISS YOU A GREAT DEAL AND WISH YOU WERE HEAR WITH ME. I KNOW YOUR LOOKING DOWN ON ME AND MY SON AND I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE THINGS YOU ARE SAYING IN CERTAIN THINGS THAT I HAVE WENT THROUGH... ME AND RAQUEL HAVE GOTTEN ALOT CLOSER AND I AM GRATEFUL FOR THAT SHE'S MY NEW BEST FRIEND :)... I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH AND WISH YOU COULD BE HERE TO SEE VINCENT BUT I KNOW YOU SEE HIM UP THERE LOOKING DOWN ON US. I MISS ALL THE TALKS WE HAD AND I MISS THE LUNCHES WE USE TO HAVE HERE AT WORK. AND I MUST SAY I MISS KICKIN IT WITH YOU ...
YOU ARE DEFINITELY ONE OF A KIND.
ALWAYS THNKING OF YOU
MICHELLE
angie rodriguez
July 1, 2004
Hey cuz, I was looking through my emails and I thought of you. I find myself expecting to get one from you. I may not get a reply, but I know that you hear me when I talk to you. I missed having our birthday dinners. I can't celebrate mine the same without you. I wish you were here to see my son, he was born one day shy of your b-day. We were all hoping to have the same day but God knew if we was on the 24th I would have been in labor during a tornado! It's all good though, another Gemini to the group! Miss you, love you
angie
Uncle Mario
December 8, 2003
Beautiful Sweet Girl,
I miss you...
i think of you everyday and cant wait to see you again..you and snap.
although i spent my birthday with our family it wasnt the same without you & snap.last year was the best one ever and largely due to you and the long time we spent talking at the genessee after dinner at the golden ox...i love and miss you very much beautiful...
save a spot for me sweetie...next to you..snap and your grandpa....
Syl Rodriguez
November 25, 2003
The other night I was lying in bed thinking about everything like I usually do , but this time was different I actually cried myself to sleep thinking about grandpa, my dad, and of liv . I know for a fact that it will be hard for all of us through the holidays not having her or the ones we love . I can remember last year on Thanksgiving when she walked in and was like syl i like your coat ,a coat in which my brother got me that looked just like hers , then she giggled . I miss that giggle . I love and miss you Liv
Love always Lil syl
Maria Alaniz
October 11, 2003
Just letting you all know that Olivia is still very much alive in our hearts and we miss her very much may she rest in peace..... May god bless you all.
Joey Ojeda
May 16, 2003
Dear Liv,
It's going to be five months that you've been gone from all of us and I pray every night to you. So much has changed since then!!! I also pray that those who took you away from us be caught one day. We are all striving to catch them. We will do so till justice is served. Liv I miss you sooo much but I know you're in a great place with Snap and your little one. I want to wish you a Happy B-day and untill we meet again you'll ALWAYS be in my heart,mind and soul.
Love You Always Your Girl 4-life, Joey R. Ojeda
Karen Hicks
May 9, 2003
As the days go by, you are still very much missed and loved. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you! I know you are looking down on us and smiling about all the work that is being done on your behalf! I just wanted to take this time to wish you a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! My prayers are ALWAYS with you and your entire family.
Yolanda Rios
May 8, 2003
May the perpetual light shine on you forever! I met you when you were a new born baby, now I know you as an angel in heaven looking down on us. Happy Birthday!
Love, Dee-Dee & Family
Laura
March 4, 2003
To the Raya and Rios families,
I just want to say how sorry I am about all that has happend in your lives. May God comfort you and hold you close to him so you will not feel alone at this time. I know time has passed and you are still looking for answers, keep up all the hard work you are doing. I have seen this story in newspapers and on the radio, even at Jesse's bar and grill. May the Lord be with you always. Love eachother, listen, cry and hold one another in Jesus name...Amen
Maria Hernandez
January 22, 2003
I would like to send my prayers and sincere sympathy to the Raya family.
Tahra Williams
January 15, 2003
I don't even know how to start. I just happened to come home from my second job and I saw a prayer vigil on TV that attracted my attention, and then to see Olivia and her boyfriend's picture on TV, it just tore my heart.
I was a senior at Northeast when Olivia was a freshman. We were on the cheerleading squad together, and I remember going to camp together and I remember how we would throw our fellow cheerleaders in the air and how we always would joke with each other about how high we were going to throw her up the next time...wow, it really hurts to know that such a warm, gentle and loving person would succumb to the madness in this world that she was not even a part of. I just want to let the Raya family know how deeply saddened I am and how it has really affected me. In May 2002, my sister Veronica Williams was killed in a car accident...2 weeks from high school graduation, so the devestation of losing a loved one who didn't really do things to put theirselves in situations like the ones that took their lives, is one that I unfortunately share and understand, but I hope and pray that Almighty God protects, secures and gives you peace of mind during this trying time. If there is anything you need at all, please, please don't hesitate to contact me at the email address listed.
Tahra Williams
Jackie and Jose Leon
January 14, 2003
To the Raya and Rodriguez Family:
Although this was a tragedy the Lord now has an angel working for him and her name is Olivia. May God be you all, much love and prayers.
Love,
Macky, Jackie, and Nicholas Leon
AnDray Strickland
January 14, 2003
Imagine walking and laughing behind someone (in alphabetical order)for graduation, and then to find out that one of your dearest classmates has been taken from this place. My heart has been too heavy for words, but I send my prayers and sincere concern to all of Olivia's family.
Grieve, but savor all memories.
Remember her smile, and remember her grace.
Yours in Christ,
AnDray Strickland
monique rojas
January 13, 2003
dedicated to Liv by Monique
Remember me this way, for it is my time to go.
To my true home God will take me and all this I want you to know.
I gave much respect and cared for all.
If you needed my help you just had to call.
A happy person I was all through the day
Please remember me this way.
A shoulder to cry on, and love for all
I was the one to count on, the one to catch your fall.
Good advice I gave if needed, and love, I gave that too.
All this about me I wish you only knew.
But now I must leave you and put an end to my stay
All I ask is for you to remember me this way.
Now, I am a person who gave much of my time.
But a person like you,
I needed love, love that was mine.
Someone to listen to my problems,
Often came my way
But I sat back and was for others
So remember me this way.
My smile seemed to brighten a room
And my laugh was heard much
A giggle you would hear with just a small touch.
A frown, what's that? I was not a person of gloom.
A trickle of sweetness when I entered a room.
Think of me at night, and don't forget to pray
Don't forget me, remember me this way.
My time came at the close of day,
I am leaving you now
I'm on my way.
Yes my time here seemed all too brief
But don't lengthen the sadness with undue grief.
Lift up your head, open your heart and smile with me,
God wanted me now he set me free.
I'll be your angel and watch over you all through the day and night.
When times are tough I'll put up the fight.
Under my wing is where you will be,
Remember me this way, I'm happy now and free.
Why I left so soon that I don't know
God held out his hand, and whispered "let's go."
Don't cry for me; wipe away your tears.
You have an angel now to calm your fears.
Remember the good times that were shared,
Remember me this way, the person who once cared.
Yes I will see you in my new home, but only when your time has come.
For when you cross over to heaven it's me you'll see at the gate.
I'll be there for you, I promise I'll wait.
God has called me to come his way,
My light has just been seen at an earlier day.
So don't forget my face or anything about me,
For you will be remembered always, up in heaven where I am free.
Please keep me in your heart, this is all I wanted you to know
Remember me this way, for it is my time to go.
dedicated to Liv by monique
~i can't remember a time when she was mad or not smiling. I've known her and her sisters since i was small. I'll always have good memories of her especially when she used to pick me and my sis up in their little white car to go spend the night with sara and she'd end up taking us to taco bell late at night,no questions asked. my last memory of her was kickin it for her graduation. Sara, she couldn't stop saying how much she wanted you to have fun and kick it again too! anyone who knew Liv knew what a good spirit she had even if you just met her once. i'll never forget the goofey stuff she used to say or her smile when she would say "what's up twin". she'll always be missed but never ever forgotten.I'll always miss seeing you and talking to you Liv. "twin"
sylvia rodriguez
January 13, 2003
Although liv and i were'nt the closest of cousins ,like everyone else I remember her always being there to help . Like one time I was in a quincenera and it was all early in the morning and I asked her to come and do my hair but she went all out she did makeup and eveything I almost look like a miny-liv. I just always admired her style .... Im praying for you and I Love You ...Wish you were here , but I know youre in a better place.
Love You Always
Your cuz LIl Syl
January 13, 2003
You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Ellen ( ) Calderon
January 10, 2003
To the Rodriguez family (patty), words can not express your sorrow, but when a person like your niece are choose to leave this world, its because God needed an angel. I did not know Olivia personally but I do know her tia Patty, you are all in my thoughts & prayers. The Calderon Family (Cha-Cha)
Aimee Britt
January 9, 2003
My sympathy goes out to Olivia's friends and family. I met Olivia through classes at Rockhurst. She and I were in the same degree program. She was always so friendly. I know that she worked hard in school and I am glad to hear of her recent graduation. She was a beautiful woman and will remain so in the Kingdom of Heaven.
Melonie Rojas
January 7, 2003
I've known the Raya family since i was little and spent alot of time at their home. I can not think of one time when Liv wasnt in a good mood, she always had a smile on her face. I'll always picture her infront of the mirror with her long bright nails and hot rolled hair ready to go out ending everything she said to me with "Twin" :o) I could not begin to imagine what it must feel like to lose a sister. Your all im my Prayers.
Love always,
"Twin"
Olivia Vargas
January 7, 2003
To the parents of Tony & Olivia,
What words shall I choose, I have so much to say. I'll try as best I can, It's all for the love of you anyway.
As I dwell on the past I can't help but shed a tear. Why would someone do this to them, can't help but feel judgement is near.
Are there any words to say except,"Sorry for your loss." How about Mary and Joseph know your pain." Look as Jesus as he hangs from the cross!
Our loss is anothers gain. For this reason listen good as they say,"The Lord is here, he will ease your pain."
"Don't let evil turn your good hearts weak." Words of wisdom do these lips speak.
Olivia, I close my eyes and think of our last days together, never regreting words we've shared, never forgot me as you sent me letters.
Thanks for showing you cared, I never had just the right moment to thank you. I would've gave anything to take your place if only I knew what would become of you.
Tony, thanks for the advice, we've both been down that road. Words I'll live by Never knew are nights would be so cold.
So now it's goodbye, yet only for a short while, I'll never forget you both, can't wait to see your smiles!
MICHELLE VITALE
January 6, 2003
OLIVIA-
FOREVER MY FRIEND IS HOW IT WILL BE, WORDS COULD'NT COMPLETELY EXPRESS WHAT YOU MEAN TO ME.
WE WERE THERE FOR EACH OTHER RIGHT FROM THE START AND NOW THAT YOUR GONE IT JUST BREAKS MY HEART.
SO MANY MEMORIES TO LOOK BACK UPON YOU WERE THE ONE TRULY THERE FOR ME HELPING ME TO BE STRONG
WITHOUT YOU BY MY SIDE LIFE FEELS WRONG.
YOU WERE THE ONE TO LEND A HAND AND A SHOULDER
AS FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE I'LL NEVER COMPLETLEY GET OVER
I'LL ALWAYS ASK GOD WHY , CAUSE WHEN HE TOOK YOU A PART OF ME ALSO DIED.
MISSING YOU SO MUCH AND THE TIMES TOGETHER.
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY BEST FRIEND FOREVER.
I AM GRATEFUL TO HAVE HAD OLIVIA IN MY LIFE THE MEMORIES I WILL ALWAYS CHERISH. ME AND OLIVIA WERE BEST FRIENDS FOR 20 YRS. AND THE LAST 5 YRS WE HAD WORKED TOGETEHTER. SO BASCIALLY WE SAW EACH OTHER PRETTY MUCH EVERY DAY.
I KNOW TONY BROUGHT OLIVIA ALL THE HAPPINEES SHE EVER WANTED AND SHE DESERVED IT.
I WILL MISS YOU BOTH LIV AND TONY.
LOVE YOUR BEST FRIEND ALWAYS
MICHELLE
Juan Moya & Maureen Murphy
January 6, 2003
Lord make me an instument of thy peace.Where there is hatred,let me sow love.Where there is injury,pardon.Where there is doubt,faith.Where there is despair,hope.Where there is
darkness,light.Where there is sadness,joy.
O Divine Master;grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to consoled as to console;to be understood as to understand;to be loved as to love;for it is in giving that we receive,it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life
R I P
Marcellus Sinclair
January 3, 2003
To the entire Raya family,
Your loss is unbelievably devastating and totally unnecessary and senseless. Although I do not know any of you personally, my heart does ache for you all. I work with Tony's mother and I just wanted to extend my most heartfelt sympathies for your tragic loss. May Olivia rest in peace.
Christy Alaniz
January 1, 2003
Words can't express how sorry I am for the loss of your daughter, your sister and a sincere girl that I am glad to have known. We'll all remember her bubbly personality. I can't think of a time that I saw her and she wasn't smiling that perfect smile of hers. Her phyical life was cut short for reasons that we may never know or understand, but her spiritual life will live on from now to forever. She's got Tony, she'll be okay. Raquel, you're the big sister now....take care of Sara, your mom and your dad. You have so much family and so many friends, call on them if you need anything. You're in my thoughts and my prayers.
DEBBIE & PAUL BRIONES
December 31, 2002
TO THE FAMILY OF OLIVIA, I WANT TO EXPRESS MY SYMPATHY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVED ONE. I KNOW THAT WHEN I SEEN OLIVIA,I ALWAYS SAW MICHELE OR RAQUEL, IT WILL BE HARD THE NEXT TIME I SEE THEM BECAUSE I KNOW THAT OLIVIA WON’T BE THERE. I ALSO KNOW THAT SHE HAD A SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HER MOM, JUST KNOW THAT YOU ALL WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS,& ALTHOUGH TIME PASSES BY I WON’T EVER FORGET YOU & OLIVIA. ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY, BUT HE CALLED HER HOME, SHE WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED BY MANY. I REMEMBER OLIVIA FROM WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER,SHE & RAQUEL USE TO PLAY SOFTBALL WITH US,THEN OVER THE YEARS WE SHARED SOME OF THE SAME FRIENDS, THEN EVERY ONCE & AWHILE I WOULD JUST SEE HER AROUND… IT SADDENS ME TO SEE SUCH A YOUNG INNOCENT LIFE TAKEN, BUT I DON’T THINK OLIVIA IS FAR AWAY FROM HER LOVED ONES…YOUR PAIN & TEARS ARE NOT IN VAIN,WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER & WILL ALWAYS KEEP YOUR FAMILY IN OUR PRAYERS. ALTHOUGH SHE IS NOT HERE PHYSICALLY, I KNOW THAT SHE SHARED A SPECIAL BOND WITH HER MOM & SISTER,& THAT IS SOMETHING THAT CAN NEVER BE TAKEN AWAY,& SHE IS CLOSER THAN YOU THINK. MAY SHE REST IN PEACE WITH THE LORD,& MAY YOUR MEMORIES OF HER BE WITH YOU ALWAYS & COMFORT YOU,GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH THIS,& KNOW THAT SHE WILL BE RIGHT THERE WITH HIM WATCHING OVER YOU.
SINCERELY, DEBBIE RAMIREZ
Raquel
December 31, 2002
Im not to sure where i can begin to express the loss that i have come to. me and my sister had a very special bond between eachother that goes beyond sisters. she was my best friend that i could tell anything to and she was always there for me when i needed her, no matter what the time or situation. there was never a time that we had a fight or went a day with out talking to eachother, and now i dont have that anymore, i am the big sister now and i know you are watching to help me out along the way when i need you. olivia you will truly be missed forever, but its up to all of us that new you to keep your memory going. there are so many good memories that we all have, where do we begin right? if you knew liv the times that we were out we kicked it and boy did she kick it!!! she always made it an interesting night, with her walking up and saying" girllll" or "oh crap" cause you know she never said a cuss word in her life. she touched so many people with her beautiful smile, and bright personality. my sister set such high goals for herself and accomplished all of them. its some kind of comfort to know that her and tony are together cause we all know that she loved her some tony!!!! i love you liv and you will forever be with me in my everyday living. you are a true angel now that can watch over all of us forever!!! i love you sister, until the time comes for us to be together again....scratch
Joey R. Ojeda AKA Sco-Dee J
December 31, 2002
To Olivia AKA Bo:
Dear Heavenly Father,
I have a request. I'm in a need of a favor so please say yes. Please send a message to someone I think of. To an angel that is now in the havens above. An angel of ours that truly is loved. I know you'll tell them because I have faith. So, please tell them I'll miss seeing their face and hearing their voice. If I could I'd bring them back if it was my choice. Please say, now that their gone life won't be as bright. And that I'll think of them each day and keep them in my prayers at night. Please tell them it hurts so much to face reality and that never again in my life will I meet no one with their unique personalities.
Please tell them I just wanted them to know, that all of the memories will be cherished for life and never letting go. Please tell them the pain will never come to an end. They will always be remembered in life or death and please tell them they'll always be my bestfriends.
I will never forget all the GREAT times we had together. I will cherish those memories FOREVER. Love you always and 4-ever.
Patty Duran
December 30, 2002
My sincere condolences to the Raya family, especially Sylvia and Louie. I can't even imagine losing one of my children. You are in my prayers.
Cheryl Whitley
December 30, 2002
To the parents and family of Oliva Raya:
I was very surprised and sadden of hearing about the tragic loss of your daughter, grand-daughter, sister, niece, and aunt. I did not have a personal contact with Oliva, but knew of her and Raquel from my cousin Dennis. I don't know if there are any words to express the saddness and how sorry I am to hear about this. Only know that she is being watched over and is looking over those who loved her also. May she rest in peace.
rochelle vega
December 30, 2002
To the family and friends of Olivia:
Olivia and I worked together years ago at the "Old Spagetthi Factory."
She was a tremendous sweetheart who wore her heart on her sleeve.
May she now rest in peace with the Lord.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You Always.
Joey R. Ojeda AKA Sco-Dee
December 30, 2002
Dear Heavenly Father,
I have a request. I'm in a need of a favor so please say yes. Please send a message to someone I think of. To an angel that is now in the Heavens above. An angel of ours that is truly loved. I know you'll tell them I'll miss seeing their face and hearing their voice.
If I could I'd bring them back if it was my choice. Please say, now that their gone life won't be as bright. And that I'll think of them each day an keep them in my prayers at night. Please tell them it hurts so much to face reality and that never again in my life will I meet no one with their unique personalities. Please tell them the pain will never come to an end.
They will always be remembered in life or death and please tell them that they'll always be my best friends. ( My Girl ALWAYS and 4-EVER )
I will never forget all the GREAT times we had together. I will cherish those memories FOREVER. Memories are forever. Love you always & 4-ever.
April Fonseca
December 30, 2002
To the Raya Familia: Sorry for your loss of Oliva. I know Liv is looking down and smiling at all her loved ones and friends remembering her as she was right here with us. She will always be in our hearts and one day, in time we will all meet again. I always remembered Liv as a very sweet, kind and loving person. She was always smiling and happy. And that's how I will always remember her. With a smile on her face. She won't be alone because she will be with the one she loves...Snap and her unborn child. Now they can be a family again. To: Liv, I will always remember you and keep you in my heart memories.....Love April
Graciela (Chela) Millan
December 28, 2002
I will never forget the times we spent together. You are one of the few people, that I admire the most.Not just for accomplishments, but just for your beautiful spirit. I always knew you would come out on top.It just makes me sad that we lost touch after junior high. I will never forget all the fun we used to have at school,talking on the phone, and let's not forget the slumber parties you used to have,because yours was the best! Until we meet again.
love always, Chela
Susan Sitton
December 28, 2002
To the Raya Family,
I would like for you all to know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless
Nicole Turman
December 28, 2002
I would love to take this time to thank Mr. and Mrs. Raya, for giving me the oppertunity to know and love Olivia!!!! Even though still today it is sooooo hard to believe she is no longer with us. She will always be in my heart and memories forever!!!! I deeply miss you my dearest friend!
Yours Truly,
Nikki
Victor Rodriguez, jr.
December 28, 2002
Many of you have your own memories of Olivia, but I wanted to share some of what I remember. She was born back in the days of disco, and in case none of you knew, my sister Sylvia was the disco queen. I remember one time down my mom’s Saturday Night Fever came on, and Olivia who was only 3-4 started doing this number with her fingers in the air, dancing in imitation of John Travolta.
*Back then the only big family restaurants around were Pizza Hut and McDonald’s, and my mom, Sylvia and little Olivia would always get together to go eat there. One time we were all driving somewhere and we happened to pass a pizza hut sign and Olivia just went CRAZY, saying “look, mama-mama pizza hut-pizza-hut, pizza, mama pizza-pizza hut-pizza hut. She just went kind of nuts like little kids do. It was a riot.
*I lived with Sylvia and Louie back in the 80’s. For any of you that know our family EVERYONE has lived with Sylvia and Louie at one time or another. Olivia must have been 8 years old when I moved into their house. She and Raquel had taken their school pictures and that particular year, their hair, the outfits, everything, had turned out perfect. Louie had shown me their pictures and said how ‘cool’ they had come out. First of many.
*Breakdancing was the big thing then and I remember Olivia and Raquel practicing doing something called the spider and the worm. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, the spider is when you bend over and grab your calves and then try to hop around. The worm was when you kind of laid on the ground and tried to roll forward, like an inchworm. (Well, it was cool then).
*As she got older, I remember Liv watching Mtv or something and really liking the New Kids on the Block, an all boy group of singers who had...one hit, I think.
*In junior high Liv and her friends wore the infamous hairdo known as the high hair look. For those of you who don’t know what I’m talking about, this consisted of Olivia, Raquel, and their friends using great quantities of gel or hair spray to make their hair kind of wave and go straight up from the top of their foreheads. As if they were constantly in a state of fright, but I guess it was cute.
*Sylvia had her headaches with Olivia as parents do with all kids. One time Olivia and Michelle decided to ditch school and they went to Church’s chicken on Independence Avenue…the only problem was that as all well thought out plans go, they didn’t count on someone’s mom showing up to buy some lunch! Needless to say, they were busted.
*Anyway, the years went by, I grew up and married and Olivia graduated from high school, got jobs, met Tony and graduated from college last week. I remember the last thing I said to her, which was this: ‘Remember, that now, as an older sister and college graduate, you have a responsibility, to your sisters, to get them on their way, and see that they go back to school, and make something of themselves, too.” And she said, “Yeah, I need to do that.”
And those were the last words she said to me.
love always,
From Uncle Jr.
Liz Alaniz
December 28, 2002
Your loss has turned out to be a loss for many people. Know that you are not alone as you go through this very difficult time. Olivia is not far away, keep her in you hearts. It must make you sad to know that she is not here, but time will make you smile again when you think of her. You are in our prayers, Jesse & Liz Alaniz
Jo Marie & Philip Tinoco
December 27, 2002
Are hearts go out to you and your family. May God guide you through this hard time.
Paula Alaniz
December 27, 2002
To the Raya and Rodriquez Family's Olivia was a very special person to us and we loved her like a little sister. She will so deeply be missed by all of us and we are truly sorry for your loss. WE WILL NEVER FORGET HER OR HER PERFECT SMILE, WE LOVE YOU ALL, GOD BLESS AND TAKE CARE.
REGINA SHOCKLEY
December 27, 2002
TO THE RAYA FAMILY:
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, OLIVIA WAS A LOVING AND A GIVING PERSON YOU WERE BLESSED TO HAVE HAD SUCH A DAUGHTER FOR HER 26 YEARS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND CONSOLE YOU. WHAT HELPS ME IS TO REMEMBER HER AS SHE WAS WITH HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE AND SHE HAD A WAY OF CHANGING THE ATMOSPHERE OF THE ROOM WHEN SHE CAME AROUND. SHE AND I WORKED TOGETHER AT BCBS AND I COUNT IT A PRIVILEGE TO BE A FRIEND OF HERS.
GOD BLESS
REGINA SHOCKLEY
Celeste Ortiz
December 27, 2002
Liv, I will always treasure the moments and laughs that we had. Also not forget what great times we spent with the little crew we hung out with. I am really happy that we got in touch one more time before your passing, I realize how much of good freinds we were and what we all mean to each other. Love ya!
Your friend,
Celeste
Christina Roseburrough
December 27, 2002
My deepest sympathy is with you at this difficult and confusing time. Both families will remain in my prayers. God bless you.
Joe Caudillo
December 27, 2002
To the Raya Family:
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy at the loss of Olivia. I had the opportunity to work with Olivia this past year and she was a real pleasure to be around. She was a friend to all of us she worked with and we will miss her very much.
Frank Raney
December 27, 2002
"O", You will be deeply missed by me but I know God called you home to be an Angel to watch over us all. I will remember your beautiful smile and our wonderful personality. I will think of you everytime I go to the 6th floor at Blue Cross and when I go to the gym to our workout class. O, you were not only beautiful on the outside. You had a beautiful soul that could not be matched. I will pray for your family and friends but I know you are already watching over us all!!!
natalie & julianna tinoco
December 27, 2002
Mrs. Raya my family and i send our condolences to you and your family in this time of need. She is now in a better place. She was loved by all and will be missed by many. Our heart goes out to you
April Williams
December 27, 2002
Olivia,
I will miss you. I remember when you first started at Blue Cross and Blue Shield and Michelle introduced us, it was kind of like I had already known you because some of the stories Michelle use to tell in general coversation. We had some laughs when we use to eat lunch together at Manny's laughing at Michelle. I will never forget your beautiful smile and face. May God bless your family.
Jeannie Loya (Lopez)
December 27, 2002
To Olivia Raya's grandmother, Pat Rodriguez:
Dear Pat, I am so sorry for the loss of your granddaughter, Olivia. I think I met her at my dad's wake service back in October - she was with you and Sylvia. My sister, Toni explained the connection and how she was related to you.
Pat, my prayers are with you and Sylvia, and the rest of your family. You were a good friend of my mom's, Josephine, and have always been a good friend to me and my sisters.
May Olivia's soul rest in peace!
Sincerely,
Jeannie Loya (Lopez)
St. Louis, MO
monica MUZQUIZ
December 27, 2002
SYLVIA, I CAN'T EVEN BEGIN TO IMAGINE HOW YOU FEEL, I ONLY KNOW THAT OUR FAMILY GRIEVES FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, AND WE'RE HERE IF YOU NEED US.
MONIE
Tasha Word
December 27, 2002
My heart and prayers goes out to the Raya family. Olivia was such a great lost to everyone, but I know she is smiling down on us. She is someone that we will always remember.
Glenna Scott
December 27, 2002
With Deepest Sympathy
Coworker at Blue Cross Blue Shield of Kansas City
CHASITY RUIZ
December 27, 2002
WE WANT TO EXTEND OUR MOST SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO LIV'S FAMILY. WE ARE SO SORRY ABOUT OUR LOSS. WE'RE GONNA MISS SEE'IN LIV WITH MY CUZ JACQUIE AND MICHELLE. WE'RE GOING TO MISS SEE'IN HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE, AND THE WAY SHE WOULD ALWAYS MAKE US LAUGH. MY DAD(RUDY)ALSO SEND'S HIS CONDOLENCES. LIV PROTECT & WATCH OVER US UNTIL WE SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN. WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU.
LOVE ALWAYS & FOREVER
CHASITY RUIZ & VENUS HERNANDEZ
Brian Hernandez
December 27, 2002
It saddens me to see such a young innocent life taken from us. She was a good friend to me and to everybody she knew. She will never be forgotten and her memory will always live on through her friends and family.. Rest in Peace! 12-21-02
LAVINA WOMACK
December 27, 2002
TO THE RAYA FAMILY: I AM DEEPLY SADDENED BY YOUR LOSS OF OLIVIA. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. I WORK AT BLUE CROSS AND BLUE SHIELD AND BARELY KNEW OLIVIA BUT EVERYONE THAT DID KNOW HER HAS SPOKEN VERY HIGHLY OF HER.
Elizabeth Ramos
December 26, 2002
To the Raya family:
Although I only saw Olivia occassionally everytime I saw her she was happy,always with a smile and always with Tony. She was a kind,friendly person, she will be greatly missed. My condolences go out to your family in this time of sorrow. Your family will be in my prayers. Once again I am truly sorry for your loss.
Irene Eredia-Alvarez Family
December 26, 2002
To The Raya Family I extend my deepest condolescences to your family for such a tragic loss. May god be with you to help you see threw this hard time.
David & Marce Hernandez
December 26, 2002
We are very saddened with your loss. This is devastating for the Hispanic race. Olivia is now God's Angel and she will be with you forever!
shavelle christian
December 26, 2002
I was not real close to you in school but I am truly sorry that this has happened to such a beautiful person, I will pray for you always and i know that you are truly an angel above.
P. Martinez & Family
December 26, 2002
Our heart goes out to Louie and Sylvia and The Rodriguez Family. You are in our prayers and in our hearts in this most tragic time. Liv will be missed dearly. May she Rest In Peace and In Gods arms. Liv and "Snap"-Together Forever...
Urbie,Valerie & Nicole Chavez
December 26, 2002
We are very deeply sadden at your loss, and we pray that God will comfort you during this time of sorrow.
My mother and I worked with Olivia for a couple of years at Associated Photo. We always enjoyed her company, and how she always made us laugh. She was a very caring person. She will be missed. Your family is in our prayers.
Raul & Sarah Gonzales
December 26, 2002
Liv,
I'd like to be able to say I'm happy you're in heaven, that you're in a better place now, because that's certainly the truth. However, I am a selfish person, who misses you so much and wants you back here with us, your family and all your friends. I love you and will miss you always. I'll never forget all of our talks, our secrets, and advice we gave each other. You were one of my driving forces when it came to school, family, and work, always encouraging me and pushing me forward when I was ready to give up. I'll never forget the times we "kicked it", because we most definitely did, to the fullest! My prayers go out to the rest of our family, especially your parents and sisters, because surely they will miss you the most. Once again, I love you, Liv, and will never forget your beautiful face.
Until I see you again,
Your cuz,
Sarah ("Rogge") G.
December 26, 2002
For the families of Olivia and Tony, May god give you comfort and peace of mind, that your childern are together safe and in the Fathers wonderful loving hands. We have so many questions as to why something so tragic would happen to our family and friends, but only the Father himself knows why? We cannot question Why? He has taken two people who loved eachother and will forever be together. We will all be reuninted with our love ones gone on before us, ONE DAY! Please, be kind to one another, pray for each other everyday and night. Keep Olivia and Tony's spirit alive by talking about them and sharing stories about them. They are both ANGELS in HEAVEN........GOD BLESS THESE TWO FAMILES NOW AND FOREVER, MAY GOD KEEP YOU AND PEACE BE WITH YOU NOW AND FOREVER...
Margo Campbell
December 26, 2002
I just wanted to say, Thank You....for sharing her with all of us. she became part of our lives and will remain a part of our lives. but if it wasn't for her family sharing her with us, our hearts would of never had the pleasure. Again thank you for sharing.
Kimberly Kennedy
December 26, 2002
Raquel,
I don’t know where to start. I’m sorry is not good enough in this situation. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything at all please let me know. I have called my church from back home in California and they have added you and your family to there prayer list. May God be with you and your family during this difficult time. My thoughts are with you, Kimberly Kennedy
Eddie Valdivia Jr.
December 26, 2002
With Deepest Sympathy we want to let you know that you are not alone, others are near to you with caring hearts. We wish you patience, presence of mind, and courage during this most difficult time.
With much love & respect
Eddie Valdivia Jr. and Family
California Taqueria Inc.
Charise Garcia
December 26, 2002
To the Raya family,
My heart is breaking for your loss. It's so devasting for such a beautiful young woman with so much ahead of her in life to suddenly be taken from you. We pray that she is at peace and we pray for all those suffering from her loss.
Charise & Dewey Garcia
Francine Garcia
December 26, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Olivia's family and friends. May you find comfort in knowing she is with God and one day you will be reunited. God bless you all.
Dominic Ramirez
December 26, 2002
Hi Im Dominic Olivia's cousin and i just wanted to let the Raya family that they are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
God Bless
With love always
Dom
MONIC ARENAS
December 26, 2002
TO THE FAMILIES OF TONY AND OLIVIA,
MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILIES DURING THIS TIME OF SADNESS, MAY HE ALSO GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH YOU NEED TO GET YOU THROUGH THIS TIME OF MOURNING. MY PRAYERS TO ALL OF YOU.
Angela Metcalf
December 26, 2002
We used to have so much fun together when we were younger. You were like a little sister to me. Then as we got older we went our separate ways, but remained friends. You will ALWAYS have a special place in my heart. To the Raya and Rios Families.....you will be in my prayers.
Love ya Liv-
Angie
Melissa Rodriguez
December 26, 2002
To the Raya family:
My deepest sympathy to the Raya family. I knew Olivia when we were kids and in High School. Hearing what a beautiful person she had become only makes me wish I would have kept in more contact with her more. So she too could have blessed my life like she had blessed everyone she knew. May God be with you in your time of sorrow.
Melissa Rodriguez
April Del Valle
December 26, 2002
My deepest sympathy to the Raya family. My name is April I am a Nevada Telephone employee who calls the KC office for repairs. This is how I know Raquel. Please accept my condolences. May god be with you now and forever. God Bless
April
Angelique Rodriguez
December 26, 2002
To my Cuz...Olivia, you have brought many happy memories to my life those of wich I will never forget. I praise you for your accomplishement and I salute you on your new journey, for you are celebrating a new life with our Father. Without any fear you embraced life to the fullest and with unconditional love, you have opened you heart to us all. I love you cuz.
Always and forever your cuz,
Angie
Kim Tozier
December 26, 2002
I worked with Olivia at Blue Cross Blue Shield and she always had a smile on her face, always laughing and in great spirits. My deepest sympathy is with Olivia's family. Olivia was a very special person, and very kind hearted. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
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