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for Timothy Whittington
Sponsored by Diana "Genie", Tim's wife, friend, lover, and soulmate.
Dad & mom ready to go to mom's high school reunion, I believe.
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
How I chose to remember my dad... Loving & playing around with my mom, his soulmate.
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Our family's chosen photo of dad to be the way everyone remembered him
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Another one I edited
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
One of our family's fave pics of dad
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
My mom and Dad slow dancing at my younger sister's wedding just a month before his car accident.
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
One of My fave pics of dad that I edited
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Back when dad was the Title one aide at Stony Point South Elementary School.
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Timothy Ray Whittington Sr. as a young boy. His granddaughter Savannah looked & looks just like him.
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Dad holding his first grandbaby & grandpa Tim's kryptonite...Mikayla Rose... Miki Rose
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Dad and mom cuddling on the floor at my aunt & uncle's house.
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Dad with Tarah and Timmy before he met mom.
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Mom holding Miki w/my dad in the background making one of his popular looks!
Devon Rose Spears
April 30, 2020
Diana Whittington
August 14, 2014
It was a Thursday morning, 11 years ago today that I walked with you to the car and kissed you goodbye not knowing it was the last time I would see you alive on this earth. You are forever in my heart.
Kathy Silverman
August 14, 2013
Miss you as much today as I did when it happened. You touched and enriched so many lives.
August 14, 2013
It's been 10 years. A part of me never dreamed I'd make it this long without you. But in a way, I still feel you with me everyday, in every decision I make, in every action I take. I thank you for that. Tears rolling down my face, and my chest feels like it can't hold any air. My how I miss your smile, your voice, your eyes, your wit, your intellect, all of you. Sometimes it's hard, but you taught me well. I pray you're proud of where we are and who we are in Christ. I know there is definitely room for improvement. Sometimes I marvel that I've been able to survive at all. To Him be the glory! Your words are coming to pass. I wish I could remember more of what you tried so diligently to teach me. I know it pleases you that every time I think of you, I know love.
Crystal Culbertson(Buckmaster)
July 13, 2010
Still to this day, Tim, you will always be the closest thing to a real father I have ever known. I will always have an unspeakable amount of respect for you. I could talk to you and Genie about things that I was too ashamed of talking about with anyone else. It is truly you and you family that has taught me the very first things I know about our Lord. The wisdom that you shared with me has stayed with me all of these years. There are days that I am so sad and cry because I miss you so much. I remember how special it was at your home on Valentine's Day. You always brought home enough roses for Diana, Tarah, Devon, Jessie, and even myself. Those memories will stick with me forever. So many memories from your family...I believe the love, patience, and strength that I grew to know by being apart of your family has truly made an impact, and is what has influenced me in a way that I could never explain. I'm finally getting my life together, and wish so bad that you could know how much you and Genie's talks has made all the difference. So much I have to thank the entire family for...yet they probably have no clue. I love you all, thank you for sharing your memories with me, and for being my dad, when I never had one of my own.
I sure do miss the family.
Johnny Spears
July 13, 2010
whale what can i say , tim i wish i could have met you when you were alive i beleive we would have gotten along great . my wife your daughter devon tell me we have the same sense of humor sometimes i dont know if thats a good thing or bad thing lol. but i truly do feel cheated for not having ever met you ,but as much as i've heard i feel as if i've known you all my life . just wanted you to know im going to take care of your daughter to the best of my abilities . wow you would have been 50 today , you have an amazing family and an amazing wife that misses you dearly. whail until we meet in heaven your son-in-law. PS. Happy Brithday love ya even having never meet you.
Diana Whittington
July 12, 2010
Today you would have been 50 years old! Over the Hill! You were always older than your years... an ancient from birth I think. Things have changed so much in this world since you've been gone. How I wish you were here to discuss it all with me, explain it all to me. It's all coming to pass just as you told me it would. If only I could remember more of the details from those dusk to dawn nights of talking, and loving. I'm praying for the Lord's guidance for each step that I take... ultimately closer to you.
Donna Devosha
August 17, 2009
Diane,
I'm sorry I didn't know Tim. He sounds like a wonderful man. I know he must be part of the reason you shine in the light of the Lord. You make everyone you come in contact with see him in your eyes. I know you will see Tim again someday. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Love,
Donna D.
Diana Whittington
August 16, 2009
Tim,
Friday was the 6th year anniversary of your exit from this earth. At times I still feel your presence so strongly, it seems you never left and have just stepped outside for a moment. I like to think that's how it will be when we are all united again in heaven someday.... that you just stepped outside for a moment. I can never thank you enough for all you taught me, but most of all for how you loved me. You were so right about so many things that I doubted but now know to be true. God IS GOOD all the time! Love you forever and always...
Tarah
June 28, 2009
I miss you Dad!
Devon Rose Spears (Whittington)
June 27, 2009
Hi Daddy,
It's getting close to be 6 years since you left this world to go home and I still miss you terribly!!! I'm finally getting through my grief and getting on with my life and I just married a man that you'd approve of. I know you two would get along so good. He's so much like you in ways. You know what they say about girls trying to marry men like their daddy's. Well I definetly married a man like my daddy. I know you'd be so proud of me and give your blessing. That's all I ever wanted, was for you to be proud of me. Your opinion and view of me meant sooooo much, you had no idea. I hope you know that now. I also hope you know how much I truly loved you and looked up to you. You were my hero, are my hero. If every man could be like my daddy, this place would be so much better. It makes me so sad that you're not here anymore to watch movies with and hear you explain the most dull movie or subject to me and make it so interesting. It makes me so sad still, that my kids' papa isn't here for them. It makes me so sad that you're not here for mom. She's such a beautiful, wonderful, talented, awesome, loving, caring, GODLY WOMAN and she's been without you or anyone for 6yrs and she deserves to have that kind of love in her life again. I know what soulmates you two were and I'm scared that she'll never find a man who loved and adored her as much as you did. I love you Daddy, and I'm happy you're not in pain anymore, and you're home!!! I just cant wait til the day when our family is reunited again in heaven .
PS I really miss you when my stupid computer acts up!! I wish I wouldve listen more when you tried to explain computer stuff to me.
June 27, 2009
Mrs Whittington,
I remember having lunch times at SPS and Mr. Whittington would be on lunch duty! He was always nice and talked to us during lunch and where ever else he would see us in the school. I hope that everything is going well, Nicole Woods
Kathy Silverman
June 27, 2009
Tim, You touched so many people in so many positive loving ways. We all truly miss you, even though there's a sense you're with us all the time. I didn't believe there was another perfect "soul" in the world other than my grandfather, but I had the honor of being blessed with meeting you and Diane. You would never know how much you influenced my first year teaching at SPS. You helped me through so many doubtful periods that I can't possibly begin to list. We truly lost a beautiful "soul" but the heavens have gained an angel worth waiting for.
Diana Whittington
June 27, 2009
My Beloved,
This year on our anniversary, June 13th, I was in Amsterdam. I thought about you so much while in Venice. You always loved the winged lion, the symbol for St. Mark and said that you identified with it. There were winged lions all over Venice. I felt your presence there. The beauty of it, the Doge Palace,...
In Amsterdam on June 13th, I toured the Anne Frank house and thought of you when I read and listened to the events that led up to Anne and her family being sent to prison camps. All but her father died in those camps. Later, after being released and finally reading her diaries, Anne's father said that he didn't think that any parent truly knows their child. He was amazed at the deep thougts that she wrote in her diary and that she had never shared with him.
I'm so glad that we chose to get married on the 13th so that I would always remember: Your birthday was July 12, mine - December 14th, and our marriage June 13th bringing us both together.
There are two more grandchildren since I've written last... Tarah had a beautiful little girl named Erynn last July and Jessie has a dark headed baby boy, named Ayden, that was born May 4th. His hair is starting to lighten, though, and in the sunlight looks to be dark red.. Time for sleep and wonderful dreams.
shannon Atchley-Thomsen
August 27, 2006
Diana,
I'm here, my friend, if you need me. I think of you often. You are in my prayers. I hope the kids are doing well.
We were lucky to have known such a great man. And beside every great man, is a great woman.
Love you much,
Shannon
Shannon Atchley-Thomsen
August 27, 2006
Tim,
My friend we go back many years. I remember when you and Genie met. What a great life you gave her and the girls. I never met someone so in touch with his love for a women, and so in touch with the lord. I think of you often, wondering if you look upon me and somehow I feel your presents on the days when being sick is very overwhelming. I am in hopes that you are sitting in heaven with my grandfather, "buddy", talking up a storm. You thought so much of him, and I know he of you. I'm sorry, I was unable to be there for you and Genie. Sometimes life throws you some curves, and time, well....it flies by. I cant believe that the children I once babysat, are now having kids and moving right along with life. I know they miss you dearly, as well as Genie does. It's hard for me to imagine the two of you not being together. Where there was Genie, there was you, and vise-versa. You and I had very long, and in depth conversations about anything and everything. I have taken so long to sign in this guest book, because it is hard for me to imagine, you being gone. I just want to call, and chat. So please forgive me for that of my selfishness. What seems fair to you, not being in pain and being with the lord, our savor, jesus christ, doesnt always seem fair to those whom miss you greatly.
You will continue to cross my mind freguently. Please look after me as I know you do. I'm sure you are one of the bright shining stars I view each nite. Until we meet again my friend..... I send you big hugs and kisses.
Love always,
Shannon
Tonya Greer
August 18, 2006
I just wanted to let you know that I have thought about you and Tim through out the years from the time that I worked up at SPS, I know you have my daughter(Michole Greer) in your class and I talked to her and she told me the news and it has been on my mind all day. I know I will be seeing you alot this school year and I look forward to that and to let you know that you are in my prayers.
Jessica Willey , Whittington
June 5, 2006
June 5,2006
Dad I never thought I could miss someone so much. This past year has been hard not having you physically here. I think I have missed you more this year than I did the first and that's alot! Your 8th grandchild was born Sept.17th 2005."Ethan Ray Willey" It's hard for me to know that it's up to me to tell him what a great Man His Grandpa was. Also with this being my first child I just wish you were here to experience the joy with me. I know you were there the night he was born I could feel your presence with me.
I see alot of your personality in him. He is a very Happy baby He is now 8 1/2 months old. Jeremy and I have been married almost 3 years and we are doing really good jeremy got a new job he loves.You would be very proud of him.
We miss you and love you lots,
Jessica, Jeremy,Ethan
Diana Whittington
July 13, 2005
July 12, 2005
Today you would have turned 45. I'm wishing you were here so that I could grow old gracefully with you. Barry Gibb is singing "How Deep Is Your Love?" on the radio. Your love was deeper than anything I've ever experienced... a living example of Christ's love for us. You spoiled me with your love. You were so darn interested in me, when I felt so utterly shallow and boring. Your love grew in me like a seed, forming into a bud, opening into a beautiful flower. I can't let it wither and die. I feel compelled to love that deeply, that unconditionally... to love those that feel unloveable. I pray for God to give me wisdom and courage to obediently serve Him... to once again experience that love with another human.
Help me to not be offended or confused but to stay steadfast on the path He sets before me. I'm crying, not for losing you, because the love you gave is still alive in me. No, I'm crying for those who are too afraid to love, to take the chance, to be vulnerable. How sad that they may never know how deep the love of Christ truly is. Happy Birthday Darling. It occurred to me this evening that maybe we celebrate our day of dying here on earth as our new Birthday in Heaven so I'll plan to write again on your new birthday.
Diana Whittington
January 9, 2005
Hello Sweetheart,
I haven't written in awhile, but you've been on my mind alot lately. Lots of wonderful memories... like the time we had an ice storm worse than the one we recently experienced. Sam & Renee couldn't get home so they stayed at our house. You and I ventured out on foot for toilet paper and to let their dog out. We laughed while sliding down the hill and then had to crawl across the street. You pulled me across with me hanging onto the end of the dog leash. Today Trinity was talking about how much you loved ice cream sandwiches. She doesn't know it's because you couldn't stand popsicles because of the wooden stick. The thought of wood in your mouth made your skin crawl. (I won't go into the reason why here.) The new "Star Wars" movie is coming out in May. I plan on taking Mikayla to see it. I can't count the number of times you watched "Star Wars" movies with her. (Roger, Roger) I haven't seen the last "Lord of the Rings" movie because I'm afraid I wouldn't understand it without you here to explain it to me.
I have so much to be thankful for... all the wonderful memories, the time I got to spend with you, all the things you taught me, the wonderful example you were, how deeply and thoroughly you loved me, and how you could make ANYTHING fun and/or interesting! God has blessed me so much this past year and I thank you for being YOU. We've started reading the Bible in a year and already I'm reminded of conversations we had about Noah, the Nephilim, Abraham & Sarah.
So much has happened in the last year and almost 5 months since your departure. So many changes. So many blessings. It is my prayer to please God continually, because I know that would please you. There was nothing I hated worse than having you upset with me. I felt like dying. I don't know what kind of "pull" you have up there, but I have an idea. I also have a feeling that there are going to be lots of changes in the near future. I pray that I will seek to do God's will in whatever comes my way. I love you, as always.
Genie
Devon Heavner
September 16, 2004
Dad,
It's now been over a year since you've gone home to heaven, and I miss you more than ever. This last year has been so hard for me, with losing you and Terry and Timmy and Kevin. I need you. You were always there to talk me through my problems and you wouldn't stop until I felt better. I need that right now. Mom is amazing me so is Jessie and Jeremy, they are different people. They've changed so much since you've gone. Mom is more affectionate and assertive, and Jessie and Jeremy are more loving. Everything is so different now it's hard to get use to. I know you're home now and I rejoice for you, but I just miss you so much. I'm homesick, I want to be where you are, and I am anxious for that day to come.
I'll see you in Heaven daddy. I love you.
Devon
Sheryl Christiason
September 2, 2004
Hi Tim,
I cant believe a year has passed since I last saw you and Genie (Diana) at my house not long after I got Cooper . I can still remember and see you sitting on the floor with him that day you and Genie came out. Just a few days before you asked the Lord to ease your pain.
Its been a rough year on the ones that Loved you so Dearly, but I have seen alot of growing up also in your family. I Just wanted to let you know in words how much I cared for you and the good feelings you always set upon me after I talked to you on the phone. You no matter how busy always took the time to speak to me when I called you and Genie. As you know I have your picture hanging on the wall by Mom's and I on a near daily basis talk to You and Her. But of course you already know this.
Your loving Wife and my Lovely cousin Genie, well where do I begin, and I am sure I dont have to tell you how much she has Helped me since your passing. She is such a loving and caring person, but you knew this long ago, I think that is what made your relationship last and just get stronger over the years.
Hey I grilled at the gathering we had in your Honor on August 14th and all the Folks there had good Memory's of you and the life you shared with Genie. Ya know I could go on and on so I probally need to just close in saying, I miss you and Love you and You Tim were the best thing that has happened in this family in 20 years. You truly were a Man of Honor and Love.
Keep watching over me and sending me your love in the Moments I remember.
Sheryl
Dennis Gillaspie
August 16, 2004
Hey, Tim. I missed your memorial service Saturday, I had to work. Just wanted to let everyone know I thought of you Saturday morning. At 0840 hours, I raised a toast to you (coffee). Sunday I celebrated my birthday, which will forever be a reminder of the day before, when I lost a good friend and the world lost a great person. Here's to you, Tim.
Tim & I
Diana Whittington
August 14, 2004
A year ago on the night of August 13th, Tim and I went to our church where our pastor and the elders annointed him with oil and prayed for his healing. He had recently been diagnosed with a rare form of lupus, which we believed explained the pain he had endured for years. However, it was beginning to become unbearable for him, thus the request for the laying on of hands.
At 8:40 the next morning, the prayers for his healing were answered and Tim was taken home. Home to heaven where he is no longer in pain. His departure came about due to a puncture in the side wall of the right front tire of his car which caused him to lose control and flip several times. He was thrown from the car and I have to believe that he felt no pain.
Words cannot express the emotions I've felt, nor the thoughts I've entertained. I've trusted God to the best of my ability and He has been so very good to me. Just know that God loves you, more than you could ever imagine. All the bad things that have ever happened will some day be explained. Put your trust in the Lord and learn to love the way Jesus loves. Don't take your loved ones for granted. They are a gift to you from God. I am so very thankful for the time I had with Tim. The time that we shared was a wonderful gift that I will forever cherish.
jeremy willey
August 10, 2004
Tim
now for an entry that is more personal. I want you to know that I have tried my best to be the man that you were and are. I have helped Diane as much as I can But, I know I could do more.
Here pretty soon Jess and I can start our own Legacy. Here in a short time we will be taking over the youth group something I know you really cherished. At times I worry if we are going to be able to do the right thing and help the teens. But sometimes things happen and I realize that you will be there to help us out in anyway you can.
I want you to know that I am and always will be honored to have met you and will always be honored to be your son in law. I THANK YOU for all of the good words of wisdom you gave to me and thank you for the courage to always speak up.
I will truely miss you plus I will always cherish the good and bad times we had together . Thank you for being my friend , my brother, and most of all my second dad..
jeremy willey
August 10, 2004
hey pops,
I cant believe it has almost been a year since you left us. But I see your spirit living through the kids more and more everyday. Like for instance I have noticed devon has finally learned to do some things on the computer without blowing it up. Jessica is getting to be more quicker on quirk comments.
Of course sometimes we always catch you coming out in one of your grandchildren. Like for instance just the other day was Christian's B-day. I tell ya what talk about a hand full. He kept everyone on their toes.
Pops, if you can see all of us now I know you would be very proud of us.
I just want you to know that we and especially I really truely miss you a great deal.
Love ya
jeremy
Vikki Ham
August 7, 2004
Diana and family:
It is hard to believe that it has been a year since your loss. It still remains so vivid in my mind. The call I recieved that morning hearing of the accident. My first response was to call Mark, who was shocked and saddened at the loss of someone he considered a friend. HIs emotions took over as he got off the phone. He was reminded of the talks they shared. I never knew Tim as personally as I do you Diana, but felt your pain and the pain of your children immediately. Just that morning I had left for work, having just had an argument with Mark and left the house without reconciliation. I then thought, what if something tragic had happened to either one of us that day? I would have felt awful to have left things on a bad note. I now remember that and try to smooth things over before we ever part. And, also to value, even more than before, the time I have with those that I love. I admired your strength that you showed and pray that I can be half as strong as you in the times that I need to. You are a woman that I truly admire and look up to as a godly person. Thank you for all the love you show to Jenna. She looks up to you as well. You allow that "free spirit" in her to shine. We love you all and pray that as the anniversary approaches, you continue to celebrate the love that you experienced with Tim, as father, husband, lover and friend.
Diana Whittington
July 12, 2004
On this day forty-four years ago a wonderful, magical man was born. I thank God for the time that I had with him. I have never met any one like him and probably never will. Even though he has been gone from this earth almost 11 months, he is still motivating and inspiring me to continue to seek to do God's will.
I'm including an excerpt from an email I received from a friend a few days ago:
"...everytime my car goes on the blink or my computer is acting up I immediately think of calling Tim for help. As I go into the computer lab or use the internet at school I think of Tim and his idea of using a remote control car to string wire through the building. We're going to be changing grade cards (I think) this year and one of the evaluaton criteria is "reading fluency." And again I think of Tim doing all those reading fluency tests for us when he worked at SPS. I know you feel the loss far more than I can, but I thought you ought to know he is truly, greatly missed by all who knew him. Heaven may be a better place now, but we sure could have used him here on earth a long while longer."
His legacy lives on.
I have cried more today, but that is OK. Tim is home. As much as I tried I could never really comprehend or appreciate him in the way he deserved. He was always a plane above. His brain power amazed me as did his communication skills. As time passes and events unfold, I am convinced he was a prophet sent by God to give us a glimpse of the possibilites.
Thank you Tim, for your love, your time, and the sacrifices you made.
Dennis Gillaspie
July 12, 2004
Happy Birthday, Tim. Miss you a lot.
Photo of fireworks taken by Tim
Diana Whittington
July 7, 2004
Timothy,
You created quite a custom with your annual fireworks displays. This year I was concerned about how we would celebrate without you here and apparently many other family members and friends were too. They all came to the new house for a cookout. Then we had fireworks. Everyone had a good time remembering past celebrations where you loved blowing things up. One of my favorite memories is of when the kids were younger and we were riding the Fury of the Nile at Ocean's of Fun when the fireworks display started. It was a perfect evening and no one else was on the ride so we rode it over and over again while watching the beautiful fireworks light up the sky.
Another earlier 4th of July memory is of taking all the kids to Liberty Memorial to watch the fireworks. There had been a downpour earlier and we all got soaked before we donned trash bags to protect us from the rain. Then it cleared off for a beautiful evening. The Kansas City Symphony played the 1812 Overture (I think that's what it's called) and we laid on a blanket looking up to watch the sky filled with glorious colors. Thank you for all the wonderful memories! I love you more than ever. This verse from Habakkuk 3:3b-4 reminds me of the fireworks: "His glory covers the skies, and his praise fills the earth. He is like a bright light. Rays of light shine from his hand and there he hides his power."
Diana Whittington
March 29, 2004
Hi Darling,
I haven't written in awhile, but think of you daily. Here is what's been going on: Jan 14 (5 month anniversary) was Bobby's birthday. I took him a cake and the girls and I sang Happy Birthday to him. In Feb. your mom was in the hospital and we were afraid we were going to lose her, but she credits God with her healing. On her birthday, I closed on a "fixer-upper" and on Feb. 14 (6 month anniversary) we were painting it. I have been blessed with people to help me and hopefully Mikayla and I will be moving in a couple of weeks. I know you would love it, and Bobby even commented that it reminded him of a house you grew up in in North Carolina. Days are spent working, nights are spent at church activities or working on the house. Jessie has one of the leads in the Easter musical. Devon is having lots of dental work done and taught Wee Worship today. Tarah and Chuck have been helping your mom a lot. Tim Jr. is seeking the Lord. The grandkids are growing like weeds. Almost daily Trinity and Mikayla talk about you, things you did with them, and how much they wish you were here physically with them. Just tonight Mikayla talked about how you used to watch movies with her every night and rub her head. Mikayla has been getting 100% on her spelling tests and enjoys reading. You would be so proud of her. She talked to Bill last week about getting baptized. It's hard to believe sometimes that she is only 6. She has grown up so much in so many ways. I keep busy and keep praying. Love, Genie
Dennis Gillaspie
December 27, 2003
Diana, Devon, Jessica, Tara, Tim Jr, and all:
I was thinking of all of you on Christmas day. I hope the greatest of all holiday's was kind to you. I'm sure that Tim was with you all day, and watches over you even now. Please have a safe holiday season.
Diana Whittington
December 26, 2003
Our first Christmas physically apart.
The morning started with a prayer of thanksgiving; Devon, the kids, and I sitting in a circle holding hands and thanking God for His blessings. I cried, but not due to sadness. You would be so proud of Mikayla; how she reminds everyone to pray. It was a bountiful Christmas with the children receiving so much.
We had lunch with Jeremy and Jessie and met their new puppy, Lucky. (Mikayla's long-awaited chihuahua puppy has been christened "Tiny Tim" in honor of you and Christmas.) We then went to your mom's to open presents. After returning home, Sam and the boys came by and Amber stopped by to drop off pictures.
Immersing myself into the celebration of Christ's birth has helped me realize the gifts I can give to Him: trust, obedience, praise, and sacrifice.
This verse has become very important to me: "Blessed IS the man who trusts in the Lord, and whose hope is the Lord. For he shall be like a tree planted by the waters, which spreads out its roots by the river, and will not fear when heat comes; but its leaf will be green, and will not be anxious in the year of drought, nor will cease from yielding fruit." Jeremiah 17:7-8
During this, my year of drought, I am being watered by the river of God.
Merry Christmas, Darling. I love you more than ever.
Diana Whittington
December 13, 2003
Dearest Timothy,
Tomorrow is my birthday and it will be exactly 4 months since you have been gone from this earth. It is my prayer every day to do the Lord's will, to please Him so that someday I will be reunited with you. I have been reading a book called "Radically Obedient, Radically Blessed" by Lysa TerKeurst. From the moment I learned of your death, I have chosen to be radically obedient to the Lord and He has blessed me most radically. I am amazed every day with His blessings. I thank God for the time that I had with you. I thank you for all you taught me, for loving me so very much. I miss your voice, your laugh, and your touch, but the Lord has made your passing a reality that I understand and can grow from. Your life was such a wonderful Christlike example that proves Jesus is real to me. I know that God is using your life and death to help others experience Him personally. God's goodness is so great. I pray that others will know the truth and the truth will set them free.
Tim's Chief's Medal
Diana Whittington
November 23, 2003
The following is an excerpt from the November issue of the BNSF Resource Protection Solution Team Newsletter and was written by Senior Special Agent Dennis Gillespie:
Chief’s Award Presentation
On October 8, General Director Bill Heileman presented Diana Whittington with the RPST Chief’s Award. Diana is the wife of Desktop Engineer Tim Whittington, who died in a car accident on August 14. Tim was instrumental in several projects in the TIPS Center in Topeka, and became, over time, a close friend of the RPST, especially in Topeka and Kansas City.
Attending the ceremony along with Bill were SSA II Sydney Gomez, SSA I Dennis Gillaspie, and Information Officer Ray White, all of the TIPS Center, and SSA I Dick Brown of the Kansas City RPST Office. Over twenty family members and friends gathered for the ceremony, including Diana, daughters Tara, Devon and Jessica, Tim’s brother Bobby, and his mother Shirley.
This is the first time the RPST Chief’s Award has been awarded outside of the RPST Team. At the time of the presentation, Bill Heileman emphasized Tim’s lasting impact on the TIPS Center, as well has his dedication and world class service.
The Winged Lion
Diana Whittington
September 25, 2003
This was a favorite of Tim's and I enter it here in olde English just as Tim had it displayed on his desk. I do not know where it came from.
"This Lyon cannot well abide the field. Wherefore? Because ye woulde take him to be a coward. Not so: in that he is simple, gentle, and meeke of nature, he hath therefore more neede of wings to flye. Yet the bearing of such an ensigne is noble, and conteineth in itselfe an hyghe mistery. A prince given to vertue and godliness can seldome escape th'assaults or malignities of his owne vassals and subjects, wherefore such his innocencie flyeth unto the heavens and there purchaseth an immortal Crowne, for the earthly which would have perished, to the confusion of his enemies, and th'advancement of the glorie of the high God."
Scott Kysylyczyn
September 8, 2003
I worked with Tim at BN when I was a contractor there. I was based in St. Paul Minnesota. He and I would always talk, sometimes several times a day, discussing work problems and life in general. We never did have an opportunity to meet even though we had talked about it several times. As chance has it, I decided to call Tim today and found out that he was gone. It hurts a lot as I considered Tim a friend and liked him as a coworker. I will miss him the rest of my days. God Bless.
Jessica (Whittington) Willey
September 7, 2003
I am Tim's youngest daughter, Jessie. I had a very special relationship with my father. He was my friend and my teacher. I remember when I was little we did everything together. We went fishing, we painted houses, and we fed ducks and geese at the lake. We even watched football together although most of the time I would fall asleep with my head on his stomach.
Most of all I just remember he was always there when I needed him. One of the happiest moments I had with my dad was this last June when I got married. He wasn't exactly thrilled about giving away his youngest daughter, but he made sure that it was one of the best days of my life - because he loved me.
He always did things out of love for his family and friends. One of the things I loved about my dad is that he always knew when something was bothering me, and he always knew how to cheer me up.
That's how my dad was... he lived to serve, anyway he could. He told me once that it's not what you get out of life, it's what you give to the lives around you that matters.
I always knew that my dad was a special man, but I never really knew how many lives he touched until after he died.
I will miss him very much, but I know he will be waiting for me when I reach heaven. I only hope that I can follow in his footsteps and be the good servant that he was.
Dave ( Killer ) Burgeson
September 5, 2003
Tim was a man I always looked up when I heard he was working in KC. We oftened discussed children, outsourcing , work ethics and coping with life by doing the next right thing. I will miss him and that quirky smile, with - whats up Killer? I know he had alot on his plate. Tim always helped, never looked down on the less informed, and never let on like his brand of magic was anything out of the ordinary. I had goose bumps during Amazing Grace, what a wonderful job by strong women. I will wrap up by saying Tim's example in life makes me want to kick my show up a knotch or two.
Ann Klein
September 4, 2003
His journey wasn't all that long,
But every day he stayed so strong.
Every day he did his best,
Went the extra ten miles, whatever the test.
He was the one you'd want on your team,
When hopeless everything seemed.
He'd get the job done with competence,
Everything he touched was stamped with excellence.
Leading by example was his creed,
Didn't matter, whatever the need.
Giving to others was his call,
For his heart just knew to give his all.
Heading to work last week,
Things would change and many answers to seek.
It was just a day like any other.
Now we must comfort one another.
He has gone to a better place,
With his presence he will grace.
He was needed there,
His love and countenance to share.
God needed someone who could teach,
Who knew how to lovingly reach.
He also needed someone who would learn,
As God has much for him to discern.
Even though, right now we feel so low.
Take hold of God's loving hands,
He's offering as we pray to understand.
To lean on Him when all seems lost,
For He truly knows the cost.
Tim's journey is now complete,
He's walking with our Savior, as he did eagerly greet.
His eyes are seeing such beautiful things,
His spirit soars, he's been given wings.
A wonderful gift, this man Tim,
Only glowing accolades are given when remembering him.
Each day we live, it is our gift,
So thankful for the gift of Tim Whittington,
Such a wonderful life, in a few years so much he'd done!
Dear Lord, take care of our Tim,
Use him, mold him, tell him,
How much he will be missed,
How much our lives he blessed!
(Written for Tim on 8-18-03)
Timothy Ray Whittington, Sr.
Diana Whittington
September 4, 2003
Everytime I look at this picture, it makes me smile. May it be comforting to others also.
Tim Whittington
September 3, 2003
Days of lonliness consume my will to keep going, yet out of my father's ashes rise a pheonix of hope for me to honor his memory...
Tarah Whittington-O'Brien
September 2, 2003
I will live with the comfort of knowing when it is my time to go I will not be alone.
Sheryl Christiason
August 26, 2003
Tim was a great guy and will be missed by me and others. I am so proud of Tim, for all the things he did for his Family and for me and my Mother while she was living. Tim was a wonderful person and I knew he would be very special to our family and he was. Diana was brought out of her shell by Tim, and she grew to be strong. I am so pleased to have had the privilage to know Tim for 18 years. He was Truly a loving caring person and for that I am thankful to have called him Family!
Rebecca Clatanoff
August 25, 2003
Tim was a shinning light, his personality was amazing. He always had a wonderful story to tell, and made every one laugh. He will be sadly missed.
Randy Ridgway
August 21, 2003
I am glad that I was able to get to know Tim he was a great man and I enjoyed working with him I will miss him and so will many others. My condolences to the family and loved ones.
John Miles
August 21, 2003
Without words. A great loss to this world and those who loved him. We will miss him greatly.
Karen Grey
August 20, 2003
Days later, I am so touched by the funeral service for Tim. The strength the family must have had to speak of memories is overwhelming to me. I knew Tim as "Diana's husband" and "Jessie and Devon's Dad", only having an opportunity to say "Hello" at church or meet at staff gatherings or when he would drop by school to take Diana out to lunch. The service left me a feeling of unfortune never getting to know him personally. Wow, what a wonderful human being and Christ-like figure. I know he was your world Diana and you are suffering a tremendous loss. I can't help but know that he IS with you every moment, every minute. He will live through you. I especially like how you said your story is "to be continued". A wonderful life of eternity someday. So true...Our prayers will continue to be with you and your children and beautiful grandchildren.
Diana Whittington
August 20, 2003
This in no way tells all that Tim was and is to me, but I wanted to share what I said about him at the memorial service:
Friend, Teacher, Husband, and Lover are the roles Tim had in my life. We met at the playground behind his house. I had taken my two daughters there to play and his daughter Tarah approached me and said, “You have to meet my Daddy.” I didn’t meet him that day, but eventually I did and my life would never be the same. We started out as friends, but I soon learned that practically everyone who met him considered him a good friend. Not long after that, when some trouble came my way, I called him and discovered what a truly wonderful friend he was.
He was so different from any other person I’d ever known. He made me laugh. He wanted to know all about me. He flattered me with his interest; yet, he was genuinely interested in everyone. He made everyone around him feel special in some way. I saw his unique magic work before my eyes thousands of times whether he was talking to a homeless man on the street, a gang member, a coworker, or a person in authority. People mattered to him.
Before long, I opened my heart completely to him and fell deeply in love. Within a year, we married and I became the mother of Tarah and Tim, Jr, and he the father of Devon and Jessie. As you may know, a blended family has its trials and we had more than our share, but our love for each other never faltered.
I had considered myself a Christian growing up, but Tim introduced me to a Christ I had never known before. A real Jesus who truly cared about our, sometimes, pitiful existence and would respond to our prayers. Tim taught me to see the miracles of God in our life.
Tim also taught me how to think. It felt like a light came on in my head and I suddenly could understand and learn like never before. He made everything interesting. The year we married, he got me interested in baseball and the Royals won the World Series. He taught me how to play chess. He loved history and made it real for me with his sometimes extremely long talks about events from the Bible, or the fall of Rome, or Alexander the Great, or Napoleon, or hundreds of other subjects. Often the sun was coming up before he felt I had a good enough understanding of the subject to let me go to sleep.
He knew so much about so many things. He was a voracious reader and read every thing from computer manuals to bestsellers to classics. You would be amazed at the number of books we have and Tim read them over and over again. At the time of his departure he was reading the Chronicles of Narnia again for probably the 10th time.
He taught me that love is a verb – an action word. He showed love to others with his actions repeatedly. He demonstrated unconditional love continually. He helped me understand authority and submission. He believed every word of the Bible and strived to serve God continually. And I think most importantly, he took his responsibility as a husband and a father extremely seriously.
In a way he was a paradox. In many ways he was very humble, yet could be so arrogant at times. (Or at least that is what he called it.) He was extremely outgoing and yet so very private. Also, Tim was far from perfect and he would be the first one to tell you that. He smoked too many cigarettes, his language was sometimes very colorful, and boy! did he LOVE bacon! (I think he holds the record for having the highest cholesterol level!) But today he is with our glorious Father in heaven. I know that he does not want you to mourn him, but be more like the ONE he modeled himself after. Today, Tim IS perfect.
I just thank God for the amazingly wonderful private adventure I had on this earth with a special, magical, memorable character named Tim. Our story has not ended. It’s to be continued.
Bob Flohrschutz
August 19, 2003
I was blessed to know Tim as a co-worker and a friend. In the past few months I was able to talk with him about troubles & triumphs as we went through many changes in life together. I'll miss seeing his smiling face and hearing his laughter. I thank God for the time I did have with him. May God watch over his wife and kids as I know he is in a better place.
Greg Dunn
August 19, 2003
Tim was one of the best people I knew along side his wife Diana. I was a student at Stony Point South when Tim worked there. He was also a friend of my mom Vanessa who he worked with in the cafeteria. Everyday Tim would be there and he would play with me and make me happy when I was sad or in a bad mood. Tim was always happy and cared for everyone around him. I also remember how he use to volunteer at Stony Point Christan Church Weekday school and how much he belived in God. Since his death all of my friends from elementary have also shared the same sadness that I do. Thanks for being here the time that you where and making everyone around you happy. I know you are in a better place now.
Tracy Rhodes
August 19, 2003
Diana,
I regret that I didn't know Tim personally. I just wanted to tell you that the service for him yesterday was a beautiful tribute for an obviously wonderful Christian man. I listened with great admiration to the words you spoke about him and your life together. What an impact he had on so many and what a legacy will continue on because of who he was.
Prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Tracy Rhodes (Nick's mom)
Ann Klein
August 18, 2003
Although I never met Tim, I remember him through conference calls. He was always eager to find out an answer, or help with a question.
Hearts ached when we got the news last Thursday, as well as a feeling of shock.
I have heard nothing but glowing accolades of Tim; his dedication; honor; Christian example; wonderful friend; father; husband; just positive feedback of a precious life and wonderful man.
Please know you are in the thoughts and prayers of the BNSF community, as well as the IBM community where he served the last year, a shining example of how we should all be.
He will always be missed; we are grateful to have had him in our lives; he made a difference to each of us in small and profound ways.
May God bless and strengthen you each and every day, as time heals your hearts, and Tim's lovely memory lives on in your lives, hearts, and the faces of his children and grandchildren.
Always,
Ann Klein
BNSF - TS - Ft. Worth
Bill Pogeman
August 18, 2003
Just a quiet word to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Rod Say
August 18, 2003
Tim was a dear Brother in Christ and I enjoyed our times of brief fellowship here at BNSF. He was always uplifting and a true encouragement to me.
I ask our Father for the Peace That Passes All Understanding for the family Tim loves so dearly in this time of their intense sorrow.
May all of us who are blessed to be called the children of God find solace in knowing that we will one day be reunited with Tim and all of our loved ones who have died in Christ and we will live together throughout eternity with our Lord.
Thank You, Jesus, for sharing Tim with us.
Dennis Moore
August 18, 2003
Tim was a very stand-up guy. He was very hard working, and extremely dedicated. He would do anything possible to help you out. He will be sorely missed by all. His family, friends, and coworkers will be in our prayers.
Barry Clute
August 18, 2003
Tim always offered a helping hand regardless the time of day or night. Time takes what it gives and Tim took time to give. God Bless.
Jeff Miller
August 18, 2003
Tim was someone that could always be counted on. He was a good man and a proud father. I will miss him.
Sherry & John Gezel
August 18, 2003
Our condolences to the family.
Kris McManaman
August 18, 2003
In God may you find the strength to continue his story and live life with loving memories and honor.
Shirley Proctor
August 18, 2003
God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I Cannot change…
Courage to change the things I can
And Wisdom to know the difference…
Tim was a wonderful person...hard worker and would give his shirt off his back for you..I will miss him terribly..
Jim Peters
August 17, 2003
Tim was a good man. He had a good family. I greatly enjoyed working with him. He will be missed.
DONNA BECK
August 17, 2003
TIM, DIANA AND FAMILY,
MY SWEETHEART OF A GRANDDAUGHTER SPOKE SO MUCH FROM HER HEART -
IT ECHOES SOME OF MY THOUGHTS, BUT SO MUCH MORE PROFOUND.
I'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE FUN IN OUR CHURCH DRAMA REHEARSALS -
-THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN THERE WHEN I
NEEDED SOMEONE - HOW MIKAYLA LOVED
HER "PA PA" - SHE WAS PRESSING ME
THURSDAY TO MAKE THOSE "PORCUPINES"
FOR YOU. I KNOW THE KIND OF HUSBAND,
FATHER, GRANDFATHER AND FRIEND YOU
WERE. WE WILL REMEMBER, ALWAYS,
WHAT YOU MEANT TO US ALL.
LOVE TO ALL,
DONNA BECK
Devon Rose Heavner
August 17, 2003
I am one of the daughters of Tim. He was the best man I ever knew and not just because he was my father. He was a very special christian man to my family, to anyone who met him, and most of all to our Heavenly Father. I am so happy he is home now, I just pray that my mother, his soulmate, can endure life without him. He was the rock in our family and many other's lives. I owe my life, my mother's life, and my sister's life to him. Without him we wouldn't be here today and we wouldn't know God. I will miss him more than anyone will ever know, but I look forward to the day when we will be reunited with him in heaven, our true home.
I love you Daddy, Love your Rosebud
Carl & EllaRae Tucker
August 17, 2003
Greetings: Diana, Jessica & Jeremey! O! How God loves you in the valleys of life, TOO! ...We pray you feel his loving arms around you and
seek his wisdom and counsel as you go forth on this earthly life for God's purpose. "The Lord is your Shepherd"...seek Him & let him lead you. Your SPCC Christian Friends, Carl & EllaRae
Barbara Berry
August 17, 2003
A truly great man has entered the gates of Heaven. I am going to miss Tim's unique wit and friendship. He was a very special person. I am happy for his gain, but am sad for our loss....
Stasha Beck
August 17, 2003
Tim,
This is Stasha, i am the grand daughter of Donna who watches Mikayla. I am also a past student from stony point south. I remember i used to be scared to go in the lunch room because thats where you would always be!! You always made fun of me and would joke around with me. You would yell if the stop light on the wall would go to yellow.You were someone that i was scared to get to know but when i did i was glad. You are very kind and caring and i loved to see you with mikayla. It was weird how you had two different lives. Seeing you at school you were completely different then when i would see you outside of school or at church. I know that you will be greatly missed not just by me or your family but by everyone. I know that you are watching over us all, making sure that we live everyday to our fullest abilities possible.You are now able to do the job God had planned for you all along. And that was be an angel and take care of the things most important to you. Watch over everyone who is important to you and take good care of them because i know that if you were here those people would be taking good care of you. You will be greatly missed but you will be in our minds and hearts forever. Love always
stasha
Chris Fischer
August 16, 2003
Tim was one of the finest persons I had an opportunity to work with. He will be greatly missed by me and several others. He always took time to care.
Denise Sibert
August 16, 2003
Tim gave so very much and felt often that people didn't notice his efforts, but they did. I have not met or talked with one person who at hearing of Tim's death did not speak kindly, highly and fondly of his non-stop caring and helpful manner. Truly a day will not pass when Tim is not greatly missed. I share your sorrow and offer whatever help I may lend.
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