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Joseph Cofrancesco Obituary
Joey was a gifted and talented musician. He played drums and harmonica and performed with various bands throughout San Diego. Joey took up the harmonica only because he wanted to play an instrument that was easier to transport than drums and his talent paid off when he won first place at the "Spring Harp Fest Harmonica Contest" in San Diego in 2005. He was always the first to volunteer and perform with family members during holidays and family gatherings. He was an exceptional musician and his love for music remained with him throughout his life.
Joey was also involved in the community and began coaching girl's soccer and softball teams in 1985. He served as Vice President of the Poway Soccer team and in 2002 was elected as Vice President of the Poway Bocce Club. Joey was a sports enthusiast and an avid sports fan. He was knowledgeable and informed about sports and enjoyed making the calls. Joey was witty, funny, and perceptive and everyone who knew Joey, enjoyed being around him.
Joey leaves behind his three children, April and husband Robert Ghionzoli of Texas, Amber Cofrancesco and partner, Britney Gonzalez of Poway, and Brandon Cofrancesco of Poway; his mother and father, Joseph and Ann Cofrancesco of Poway; his sisters, Rita Cofrancesco of Encinitas, Sara and husband Jim Cowell of Yucaipa, Elaine Cofrancesco and husband Roger Nedrow of Rancho Bernardo; and many other relatives.
Family and friends are invited to a memorial service to celebrate Joey's life on Friday, February 27, 2009, at 11:00 a.m. at Poway-Bernardo Mortuary in Poway. A private interment will be held at a later date. Arrangements are by Poway-Bernardo Mortuary in Poway. In lieu of flowers, anyone desiring to give a remembrance may make a donation in Joey's name to the Sharp Hospice Care Foundation, P.O. Box 3739, La Mesa, CA 91944-3739 or at (www.sharp.com/hospice).
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Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Cofrancesco
Lois Leonard
March 24, 2009
So sorry to hear about your loss of Joey. He was a fine person and will be missed by many.
claudette Craig
February 27, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Claudette and Bruce Craig
(parents of "Jude"Garoutte)
Larry McCain
February 27, 2009
I was friends when Joey would go to the concert at the Arena and SDSU. I had San Diego Ticket Exchange in San Diego & Joey loved sitting upfront and getting pictures to all the shows. Joey always had a smile on his face and loved his music store. Through all the changes and his life moving on he loved his kids. I last saw him at his house in Poway years ago but always thought of him. He was a great guy who really love music and the feel of being at live shows. I will miss him always and sen my best to his family at this time. He was a treasure and will always be a part of me.
Matthew Lutack
February 25, 2009
Thank you Joey for being my friend, believing in me, and giving yourself and your talent so freely. I will never forget the times we played on stage together. Writing and sharing music with you I will always cherish. God Bless...
Becky Brannon
February 24, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. Joey did so much for the community and left a lasting impression on so many children and adults. His positive attitude and happy smile let everyone know what a caring and sincere man he was. I know the time ahead will be difficult for you, but be assured there are many out there thinking of and praying for your family. Becky Brannon
Jackie and Larry Burton
February 24, 2009
To your enitire family, we send our love.
We know how much he was loved and how much he will be missed
We did not get to see him very often, but when we did he always made us laugh - that's for sure!
February 23, 2009
Joey,
I know you're in a better place,
I am so grateful to have been blessed by knowing you on Earth .
My heart hurts but its a different kind of pain.I miss you so much it hurts. I crave your
presence, your smile and your funny jokes,and
our conversations.... you are and will always be severely missed.
I love you forever and i will never forget you. I promise.
I know you live on...but I just can't help but be sadden cause
I don't know how long till I will see ya again. not a day goes by that I don't think about
you....I stood outside in the cold that day and watched the colorful balloons sail up into the
beautiful
blue sky to you until i could see them no more.
I hope you get mail call in heaven as there were several messages sent that day.
now you now why joey i never say good bye.Thats because angels dont have to
joey have fun see ya when i get up there
Until that day i see you again .....
LOVE YOU ALWAYS my friend
SUNSHINE
my condolences for your family
"I'm sorry about your loss,
just no my thoughts and prayers are with all of you
joey is in a better place and one day we will all be together again
Laura Terry
February 22, 2009
i just found out that Joey was called to heaven...i remember whenever I was down he made me laugh. He will be dearly missed.
Rest In Peace my friend,
Laura
Jim King
February 22, 2009
I wish to extend my deepest sympathies to Joey's children and their families, his parents Joe and Ann, his sisters Rita, Elaine and Sarah and their families, for his unexpected and untimely passing.
Nothing can replace the presence of those we love when they have departed our earthly domain. But, the treasure of their love in our hearts, keeps their spirit a living testament to their continued presence among us. May this fondness and love always bring you comfort and happiness in Joey's memory.
I knew Joey for only a shoth time during his youth, before he had his own family and career. Even then, it was clear that his that his humor, high energy, passion for life and unbridled love of music would serve him well in his journey through life. Clearly, form reading his obituary, this was the case, and his was a life well lived. Joey, I apologize that I never thought to mention that I had lost two toes on my right foot--the significance never occured to me until you had mentioned it to me. May you rest in peace and when you're not resting, which you seldom did, let the musiic play on.
Jim King
Remo and Irene Scarinci
February 21, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
February 20, 2009
“The Almighty Band”
Play that harmonica that you loved so well
Heck bang the drums, and ring the bell
For Joey’s playin in the house tonight
With “The Almighty Band” that’s right!
Now take a seat and sit right down
And listen to that Awesome sound
The sweet tunes of Heaven’s band
Joey’s solo as he takes a stand.
Wow, I heard one Angel say
This guy Joey, can really play
And as she turned her head to cry
Another Angel, stopped and ask her why
These tears are happy ones I shed
For his spirit for life, lives beyond those dead
Oh, and Joey’s spark can’t ignite everything dim
You see the lights will never go out in Heaven,
That’s why God chose him.
This poem I wrote for you Joey
Tera Seville 2/20/2009
Karen Reel
February 20, 2009
I am sorry for your loss. I'm glad you all have such wonderful memories of Joey.
Tera Seville
February 20, 2009
Joey, you will be missed! Jimmy and I had alot of fun knowing you and having those wonderful talents of yours in our band. You were an inspirartion to many of us. We were taken back by the news of your passing. I know the Angels are dancin to the sound of their newest member, (You) to "The Almighty Band" making heavenly sounds. See you again one day my friend! So glad that our paths crossed in this life! You were loved by many, us included.
Your Friends,
Jimmy and Tera Seville
A poem I wrote for you Joey:
“The Almighty Band”
Play that harmonica that you loved so well
Heck bang the drums, and ring the bell
For Joey’s playin in the house tonight
With “The Almighty Band” that’s right!
Now take a seat and sit right down
And listen to that Awesome sound
The sweet tunes of Heaven’s band
Joey’s solo as he takes a stand.
Wow, I heard one Angel say
This guy Joey, can really play
And as she turned her head to cry
Another Angel, stopped and ask her why
These tears are happy ones I shed
For his spirit for life, lives beyond those dead
Oh, and Joey’s spark can’t ignite everything dim
You see the lights will never go out in Heaven,
That’s why God chose him.
Written by
Tera Seville 2/20/2009
Jeff Modlin
February 19, 2009
I am shocked and saddened to learn of Joey's passing. My condolences to his family and his children.
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