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Gerard Barbara Obituary
Since Sept. 11, scores of well wishers have packed the small Staten Island home of Gerard Barbara, assistant chief of the New York Fire Department. Mr. Barbara's wife and two children recognize many of the faces, but not all of them. In an odd twist, they end up consoling some of the visitors, who appear lost. Many just want to hang on to any memory of the chief, who was widely respected and loved for his humanitarian spirit, said his wife, Joanne.
"People I've never seen before are saying, 'You don't understand, I loved your dad,' " said a son, Paul, 23. "I say, I do understand, he was my dad!' "
Mr. Barbara, 53, a 31-year veteran of the Fire Department, was one of the city's highest-ranking supervisors. He was walking toward the lobby of the second trade center tower when the building collapsed.
Paul said that when he and his sister, Caren, were growing up, they had no idea that their father was an important member of the Fire Department, because he was just a dad who was wild about the Yankees.
Caren said: "If the terrorists think they have won, they haven't. This whole thing just drove my dad deeper into our hearts. He died doing one of the things he liked best, trying to save people."
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A Dickinson
September 11, 2023
I still carry the funeral card Joanne gave me 22 years ago. Every year Chief Barbara gets younger. They say as long as one person speaks the name of one who has passed on, they live. Certainly Gerard Barbara lives in my heart. Rest in peace, Chief.
Robert Maloney
September 11, 2023
I worked with Chief Barbara when he was a Lieutenant in Ladder 102 = "Bedford Avenue Express".
I will always remember the incredible ultra fast pace we would turn out of quarters responding to a box.
I remember his knowledge of tactics / procedures and his cool demeaner while fighting fires. I will always hold his memory in highest regard.
September 12, 2022
21 years later, and we still remember Gerard as a hero. Never forgotten. Rest in Peace.
September 11, 2021
Thank you for your service. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for your love of your fellow man. Above all else, thank you for your sacrifice. May you rest easy in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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Cindy Roe
August 31, 2021
Remembering Gerard on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
August 26, 2019
Thanks for your service & sacrifice on Sept. 11th...
God Bless you.
September 10, 2016
September 10, 2016
Over the last 15 years I have seen the happy smiling face of Cheif Barbara in many places. I have seen it at the site, the family room, the FDNY poster, the 9/11 memorial and museum.
This past week I saw it again on the back cover of the FDNY Columbia Association Journal.
I am annoyed at myself for missing an opportunity to speak with the family at the dinner.
Another fine family like my own, it takes a tragedy to become aware of.
Dan D'Allara
twin of NYPD ESU John D'Allara LODD 9/11/01 North Tower
Del Newberry
September 9, 2015
As Patriot Day rolls around we think of you and the many others lost on that horrible day, but we honor your memory and service to this great country. Many of us will pause to pray for your wife and family, your many friends, and all of those co-workers who respected you so much. You are a true example of a hero. Much love from Texas
I took the photo at the memorial and wondered who it was. A great man.
Tatiane Romano
February 9, 2015
Stephanie Petith
September 20, 2014
I had the distinct honor of carrying your name on my helmet this year on 9/11 in the 2 Million Bikers to DC ride to honor all that were lost on that tragic day....may you NEVER be forgotten!!!!
barry adelman
September 11, 2014
will never forget the day, the bravery, the sacrifice. Thank you sir and my your family be comforted.
Eddie Finn
August 4, 2014
I ran four miles for you today Chief. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting you, I have always looked up to your larger than life legacy. Every time I pass your statue near Clove Lakes Park, or whenever I drive past your street sign, I am inspired. Inspired to fulfill my dream of getting on "the job" and continuing the works and deeds of men such as yourself. Your sacrifice has inspired, and it will never be forgotten!
Barbara Boam
January 7, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #126) on 1/7/13 as a dedication to your life.
Boal
September 11, 2012
My daughter just made you her profile picture on facebook. I am sorry you are not here with your loved ones. I salute your bravery to do what you did that day. Thank you for your service and sacrifice.
September 10, 2012
Mr. Barbara, Although I have only been in the fire service for 1 year, I was assigned you for the 2012 9/11 memorial stair climb, not knowing much about you at the time, other than what the tag I was given to carry that just said "Assistant Chief Gerard A. Barbara Command WTC" and had your picture on it, I carried you all of the 110 stories making sure I hit each step. Once I finished my 5th round (22 stories 5 times), I looked at the tag before I was going to ring the bell and announce I got you to the top and was finished, I decided that I would go back down to the bottom floor to help motivate and encourage the other firefighters that had more to go as tired as and wanting a break I was realizing that you would have done the same thing for your brothers. Once I got home, I started doing research on you to figure out more on who I was carrying so it wasn't just a tag of a fallen firefighter I knew nothing about. You were already a motivation for my climb realizing what you did, but now you're a motivation for my career and made a positive impact on my life. It was an honor to climb to the top with you Sir. Thank you.
jacob soileau
September 10, 2012
im doin a tribute to mr barbara for a 9/11 project for my school im going to try to get to know him a little bit better as i celebrate his legacy
December 28, 2011
To The Family,
9/11 is a day that all of us will always remember. Mr. Gerard Barbara and all other firefighters fill the meaning of the word "heroes" simply because they are willing to risk their lives to save others. May God provide the comfort that you need and bless all of you.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
October 25, 2011
Hi I am trying to let the family know that on 9/11 this year in Denver, Colorado Gerard was not forgotten I Jeffrey Wayne Canada from Fountain Fire Department climbed in his honor with his picture along with 343 other firefighters from across Colorado. From what I have been reading across the internet on Gerard I feel truly honored to carry his picture on the stair climb.
Jeffrey Canada
October 25, 2011
Hi I am trying to let the family know that on 9/11 this year in Denver, Colorado Gerard was not forgotten I Jeffrey Wayne Canada from Fountain Fire Department climbed in his honor with his picture along with 343 other firefighters from across Colorado. From what I have been reading across the internet on Gerard I feel truly honored to carry his picture on the stair climb.
Kymberli Colbourne
September 11, 2011
We hold you in our hearts.
Cynthia Villarreal
September 11, 2011
We remember you today, Chief Barbara, and your ultimate sacrifice in the line of duty. As your daughter, Caren, has shared with us, you died doing what you loved most, saving lives. You are with God now and we are all blessed to have known about your beautiful life.
Gaylon Rodriguez
September 10, 2011
Chief Gerard Barbara,
My name is Gaylon Rodriguez and I am a firefighter with the Abilene Fire Department. On the morning of 09/11/11, I will be climbing 110 stories along with 342 other firefighters in Dallas,TX in honor of the 343 who sacrificed their lives on 9/11. Sir, I have been assigned your name and picture to wear on my bunkers as I climb, and I wanted to know who I was climbing for. My prayers go out to you and your family and I will never forget the sacrifice you made. JOHN 15:13.
Dave M
September 10, 2011
Heard your story on NPR. Your wife gave us a great feel of what so many went through and are still going through. Bless you all.
Rob Bissey
September 7, 2011
The LORD bless you and keep you;
The LORD make His face shine upon you,
And be gracious to you;
The LORD lift up His countenance upon you,
And give you peace.
Never Forget - 343 FDNY
April 13, 2011
r i p sweetheart
September 11, 2010
always in our hearts
<3
Joelle
September 11, 2009
Eight long years and it still feels like yesterday you were taken from us. You are in our thoughts daily, we miss you. To the world you were a hero but to your family you were the world. RIP Uncle J.
A. Dickinson
September 10, 2009
As the 8th aniversary approaches, I find my thoughts turn to you and your family, sir. You never met me; I was a Red Cross volunteer at Service Center 6 on Staten Island. I met your wonderful wife, Joanne and sat with her on the steps of the chapel at the retreat house where I was stationed.
We spoke about several things: how I had been chosen to work with the firefighters' families because I had been a firefighter, how much she loved you and how much your children loved you.
She gave me a laminated funeral card that day. I have carried it with me every day of my life since.
No, I never met you, sir. But we are bound together - thru the brotherhood of firefighting, thru our country and our state. So maybe I amy be forgiven if my heart grieves over you and my fellow brother firefighters in a special way.
May the Good Lord bless and keep your family especially close this Friday, September 11th.
Doug Abraham
March 17, 2009
Happy Birthday & Happy St. Patrick's Day!!!
b m
September 12, 2008
Thank you for everything you have done for us . I think you are a great role model for kids . You are very special .
Jose Orozco
April 14, 2008
Dear Gerard
Thank you for sacrificing yourself to help the people in the World Trade Center.
Doug Abraham
March 17, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Albert Petrocelli
September 9, 2007
Jerry,
Today is a good day to say hello. It's Sunday September the 9th. It's a nice sunny afternoon and Ginger and I, as we did 6 years ago today, are waiting for our "usual suspects" to arrive for dinner. What makes this such a good day to say hello, is that 6 years ago on this day, a sunny Sunday September the 9th, 2001, I had the pleasure to talk to you, unfortunately, for the last time. But that said, today, a nice sunny Sunday September the 9th, I remember you and our last conversation, with a smile on my face. Say Hi to Mark.
Your friend,
Al
Doug Abraham
March 17, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Joelle
February 8, 2007
Hey Uncle Jerry,
I miss you more than words could say... I never thought of looking for a website to leave messages for you to read from heaven until the other day when my friend Lauren (whose friendship I owe to you and her brother F.F. Lenny Ragaglia of E. 54 L. 4) made me read several messages she received on a memorial page for Lenny. I can't believe its over 5 years and although we weren't extremely close I am glad I have several memories close to heart of such a HERO. Each time we watch my sweet 16 video we all get tears in our eyes why did you have to be taken from us? you were such a happy go lucky, unselfish person, always smiling, At my party you sang into the camera "peaches and cream you come on like a dream..." My grandparents get so happy that party is on video and we can replay your voice over and over. My sweet 16 would have been the last family event for you to attend prior to 9/11 had Joseph and Lisa not got married, if only anyone knew at their wedding it would be the last time they saw you I don't think ANYONE would of let you go. I have to thank you for the impact you have had on my life Uncle J and everyone else's life as well, you have inspired my brother to follow in your footsteps and if he does we'll know it was because of you. You're wife is the STRONGEST woman in the world and I can only hope to be half as strong as her, please continue to give her all the strength you do because you are her angel that gives her that extra push. Uncle Jerry I miss and love you and whoever said it gets easier as time goes by lied because somedays are just extremely difficult to get through. I LOVE YOU see you when I get there.
Kristine
October 12, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
Paul Briggs, Firefighter.
September 16, 2006
May God Bless You for your bravery and that of all your colleages that perished on that terrible day. Firefighters around the world understand what we have to do by entering risk areas and carry out their duties without question and know that we may have to pay the ultimate sacrifice.
Evelyn B
September 12, 2006
The best lagacy we can ever leave is a legacy of love. It seems like Gerard not only accomplished this but also died a hero risking his life to save others. God Bless!
James Pellegrino
September 12, 2006
It is very touching to read all of the wonderful things that people have posted about my Cousin Jerry. But the truth is, words can not describe what an amazing person Jerry was. You had to live it, and thank God I was born into such a close family and had all those years with Jerry in my life. What I would give for another Sunday morning softball game. I can't believe it's been five years already. I think about and miss my cousin everyday. The world is lucky to be left with the legacy of such a great man, I'm luckier to be left with all of these memories.
Former New Yorker
September 11, 2006
Gone but not forgotten. Thank you for the sacrifice you made. God bless you and your family.
Samantha Pellegrino
September 10, 2006
Hey Cousin Jerry.
It's your cousin Samantha. You only met me when I was a baby. After my dad told me your story, I felt so proud to be your cousin. You died doing something so brave and may you rest in peace. I would like to send my condolences to the rest of the family. God Bless You.
P Tabbernor
August 21, 2006
In memory....
M J
September 11, 2005
Hi Jerry... It was months after 9/11 when I was reading the John Jay College Newsletter and I saw your name, I was at a diner having breakfast and the tears were pouring from my face and trying to keep people from noticing. I remember when you introduced me to your wife Joanne at an event in Queens... I will always remember you...
Jim Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Maureen Beyers
September 11, 2004
Dear Mr. Barbara,
I listened to your story this morning as I walked my dogs on this, the third anniversary. Your wife shared with radio listeners on NPR her life with you, her love for you and her grief over the loss of her best friend and husband of 30 years. She brought to us one of the most compelling stories I have ever heard. You must be as proud of her as she is of you, although I am not sure that is possible. She said that together you enjoyed for 30 years what most people don't have for 30 minutes. That is one heck of a legacy. The blessing that God gave us in you continues to live in her.
Thank you, sir.
Pamela Long
September 11, 2004
God bless you. After three years, the pain isn't any less nor is the emptiness that we feel. But we know you are in a better place and that God is watching over your loved ones. May the angel that you are protect those that you love.
John Barbaro
September 11, 2004
Hello cousin Jerry,
I am writing this note to you as I watch the third anniversary ceremonies of the 9/11 attacks. I think about you and the events of that day, every day. Your picture hangs on my cubicle wall at work and it reminds me of your heroism and what you and so many others sacrificed that day to save the lives of others.
I am the youngest of all the first cousins in our family. My memories of you are few and far between, but I do have many wonderful memories of those family barbeques at your mom & dad’s (Aunt Margie & Uncle Matt) house in Lake Carmel. I was the little kid who always wanted to be around the big kids. And, from time to time you and the rest of the older cousins would let me hang around.
I attended your memorial service at St. Patrick’s Cathedral and was overwhelmed with deep sadness for your family and all those who knew and loved you. I gained a new appreciation that day for you and all men and women that put their lives on the line to serve and protect.
Rest in peace Jerry and may God Bless you and your family.
John Foulks
April 21, 2004
After reading about you, I know that you are in heaven, a person like you have to be.
Teresa Jahn
November 3, 2003
As our hearts, thoughts and prayers focus on our lost loved ones and their families, may God’s loving hands cradle their hearts, minds and spirits with His peace, comfort and love. I am extremely sorry for your tremendous loss of Gerard and for America's loss of a hero. Teresa Jahn
Michelle Boxer
September 11, 2003
Although I only lived next door to you for a few years I will never forget the gifts you gave to my family. The tickets to the Staten Island Yankee's opening day at the Richmond County Ballfield. Also the NY Yankee tickets that you knew you couldn't use for the end of Sept. 2001 that you told Joanne to give to my brothers. You will always be in my heart and not a day goes by that I don't think of you.
Michelle Boxer (formerly Gordon)
michael baffuto
September 11, 2003
I am a fireman's son from New Jersey and a lifelong Yankees fan.
I never met you in life, but I attended your memorial service at
St. Patrick's Cathedral. I found it
a heartbreaking, yet oddly comforting experience. Your children made it clear what a good father and man you were, and I hope you are with my father in that special place in heaven for firefighters. I shed some tears that day, but I think they were
more for those of us left behind,
without men like you.
Patti
July 11, 2003
Congratulations !!!Now its official you were always our chief and now the writting is on the wall.
Thanks for giving Jo the stregnth to follow through. So proud of both of you.
LOVE YOU, Patti
Assistant Chief of Department Gerard Barbara presenting a Retirement Plaque to his longtime friend and co-worker Chief Al Petrocelli at the FDNY Fire Chiefs Association retirement ceremony, June 2001.
Albert Petrocelli
March 17, 2003
Happy Birthday Jerry!
9-11. It feels like forever ago. It feels like yesterday. Memories. Thank God we have memories. We went to the same high school. We both worked for the TA. We were both electricians. We worked in the same firehouse for a while, and our paths would continue to cross for the next 25 years, right up to the morning of 9-11 when you as a City Wide Tour Commander, FDNY, responded to the WTC and tried to save my son Mark, giving your own life. I'll never forget the last time I spoke to you. It was always good to hear your voice, it would bring a smile to my face. And it still does when I think of you. It was Sunday night, September 9, 2001, about 7:00 p.m. You had called to tell me that you and Joanne had decided to go on the trip to Italy that the Fire Chiefs Association had put together for about 20 couples, and that Ginger and I should go also. We'd have a lot of fun, you said. We would have, we always did when we were together with the girls. I'll never forget that night for another reason. That was the last time I saw or spoke to my son Mark. Mark and his wife Nicole were over for dinner that evening, together with other family members. Memories, till we meet again. Say "Hi" to Mark for me.
Your friend,
Al
Patti
February 13, 2003
Jerry, I thought of you today as I do most days but today I thought I'd stop and let you know. I really miss you, not that I talked to you every day or even once a month but I knew you were here and there and now I know you're not. You know I talk about you just about every day, because as before I am so proud of you and all that you have accomplished, not just the FDNY accomplishments but the family you and Josie created and nurtured and grew. I love you and I miss you and I don't really know why but,today I felt compelled to let you know this way.......keep watching over us..until we meet again...Patti
Frances Florio
September 12, 2002
Dear Jerry, I knew you since you were a baby, attended your wedding and my mom lived in your mom's house on 60th Street. May God Bless You for being so brave. We were truly blessed by you. Words cannot express my sorrow. I saw you just two weeks before at Joseph's wedding. You expressed your condolensces for the passing of my Mom. Thank you Jerry and all who protected us.
Fran and Patricia Florio
Linda Merola Ciasca
September 11, 2002
Dear Barbara Family....although I never had the pleasure of meeting Gerard... I feel like I know him through the stories of kindness and professionalism I have heard from my bother Lenny and mother Libby...God bless you all...you and Gerard are in my prayers and thoughts each and every day.
Salvatore Castillonese
September 10, 2002
Cousin Gerard,your are always in our hearts . Rest in peace with our dear lord Jesus amen. LORD Jesus watch over Joanne and their children. Love & Peace always cousins Anita Sal & PETER
Linda, Patty & Michele Shanahan
September 7, 2002
Dear Joane and Family,
Just wanted to say how sorry we are for your loss. We knew Jery and know what a wonderful husband and father he was. We know he will be greatly missed. Each day when we leave our house and pass by where once the WTC stood we think of Jerry and say a prayer for him.We will never forget him and all the souls who lost their lives that tragic day. I also have been wearing Jerrys braclet and on Sept.11 I will wear his braclet and shirt in his memory. You and your family will always be in our prayers and we will never forget you.
Maria Garcia
September 4, 2002
Dear Mr.Barbara
Gracias por salvar a muchas personas de
las tores jemelas yo se que tu eres un errue
Mrs.Maria GARCIA
Stacy and Anna
August 27, 2002
Dear Paul and family,
We came across this website and saw that we can tell you and your family , how sorry we are and how we think your father was a very brave man. We love you and our prayers are with you and we are always here for you.
Marcio Cardenuto
August 8, 2002
I'm brazilian, and, on that day, I felt much pain.
I pry for all firefighters on the world.
In each country, they are heroes.
I pry for them, and I pray for their families.
I'm sure that God is taking care of anybody that died on that day.
I'm not american, but, on that day, I suffered like one.
Laurie Makrancy
May 30, 2002
Joanne, Paul & Caren, I have read what others have written here and it seems I am not the only one who wears a Mercy Band with Jerry's name on it. I've worn it every day since I got it in January. Every morning when I put it on I pray for Jerry, and for each of you. I lived in NYC for 39 years before moving to NJ years ago. In my heart I will always be a New Yorker. Many years ago I worked on Broadway & Vesey and watched them build the Trade Center. It was heartbreaking when my husband & I went to Ground Zero in March, it truly is Holy Ground. May God bless Jerry and all those who died that day, and may He hold all those left behind in the Palm of His Hand until you all meet again in heaven. God Bless America.
VINNY TUMMINO
May 28, 2002
DEAR JERRY,
YOU WILL BE MISSED BY SO MANY, I ESPECIALLY WILL MISS YOU, AS YOU ARE ONE OF MY CLOSEST FRIENDS. I WILL THINK OF OFTEN OF ALL THE TOURS WE WORKED TOGETHER AND TRIPS WE MADE TO OUR BOARD MEETINGS. I WILL REMEMBER YOU UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.
YOUR FRIEND , VINNY
Michael Iezzi
April 25, 2002
Father we entrust our brother Gerard to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Alison Ennever
April 22, 2002
To the Barbara family, My name is Alison Ennever and l am a 7th grader at Poughkeepsie Middle School. My teacher Mr.Dempsey is also from Staten lsland. We have made a Tribute to all the heros of 9-11. l picked Lt. Barbara to write to because he had a nice smile and he looked like a strong leader. l am sorry that you lost your family member. l lost my great-grandma and l miss her .
Sincerley yours, Alison Ennever
Teresa Pellegrino
March 25, 2002
Hi cousin Gerry, it's Teresa just checking in. I just wanted to tell you how much I miss and how much dad, mom, and Samantha miss you. You were born a leader and died a hero. You gave up your wonderful life to save others. Those few words describes you right there! We have all wept and have all been deep in thought and in disamazement of this tragedy and I'm still waiting for someone to pinch me so I can wake up. You should be very proud of Caren and Paul foor how well they have been handling the situation. I know you would be proud of Paul for being Robert's Confirmation Sponser. I have so much to right, but I know I can't remember all I want to write, so I thought that I would just summerize it in these few, but meaningful words: I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER!!!!!!!!! I know you are enjoying heaven and i know that you and all of the other heros are highly respected up their and here on earth. Have fun and I will make sure to keep in touch through prayer. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL OF MY HEART!!!!!!!!!!
Mary-Jo Alliksen
March 18, 2002
I would just like to tell the family of asst. Deputy Chief Gerard A. Barbara that I have been wearing his name on my wrist for the last 3 months. I pray for your famlily and all those who have lost love one's in the terriable attack of the World Trade Center's and the pentagon.
Karen Anderson
March 12, 2002
As a Canadian just transplanted to the USA, I want you to know that those who lost their lives will never be forgotten nor far from my thoughts and prayers. I wish you and yours find peace and healing. May you take comfort in the love of family and friends...as well as from the knowledge that there are those of us, who though we have never met, feel your pain and grieve silently in our hearts alongside you. God bless and keep you safe, you are always close in my heart.
Valerie Winship
March 11, 2002
Dearest Family & Friends of Sergio
I'm very proud to say I had the pleasure working with Sergio in the 46th Precinct. He brought joy to all of us. He was greatly loved and he will be greatly missed.
Jeri Lynn Barth
March 11, 2002
From the bottom of every American's heart, thank you.
Paul T. Devine
February 9, 2002
Gerard Barbara you are a very brave man. May God grant you eternal happiness and peace for all the courage that you displayed on that terrible day in September 2001.You will never be forgotten. My grandfather was a Boston firefighter and a brave man.God bless you both.
Teresa Jahn
January 9, 2002
We thank Gerard with all our hearts for devoting his life to saving people and fighting fires. Such a deep devotion to others can only come from a heart full of compassion, warmth, caring and love for mankind. May Gerard's humanitarian spirit, his courage, life and love live on in those who love him and in those who have been touched by his life. May warm memories of moments shared with Gerard lighten the sorrow in your hearts. May you always feel the warmth of his love radiate into your hearts. We are deeply sorry for our nation's great loss of Gerard. Our hearts cry with you in America's loss of a hero.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Linda Roark
January 2, 2002
Your husband and father was a brave man and was obviously loved by many. May your memories of him bring comfort to you all.
Shastina Fuhrman
January 1, 2002
Dearest family and friends of Gerard Barbara,
You may be familiar with the organization Mercy B.A.N.D. The group has created bracelets in which bear the names of every victim of September 11th. Only one is made per fatality. I have recently been blessed with receiving the name Asst. Deputy Chief Gerard Barbara on my bracelet. Through reading the touching article about his dedication to his important role at work and his family, I feel my life has been deeply impacted. At the young age of 16, I know that wearing my bracelet will impact others, too.
You are in my prayers, always and forever.
Love,
Shastina
Judy Cherbonneau
December 16, 2001
I never met you, Gerard, but I wanted you and your loved ones to know your are in my thoughts, prayers, and I share your tears. I know Gerard must be in Heaven, with God. That is where Angels live. I hope your loved ones can find the sunshine behind the clouds. God Love and Bless you all! I am so sorry for your loss.
IRENE STAPINSKI
December 4, 2001
GOD BLESS GERARD BARBARA AND MAY HE
REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY
AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA FOREVER AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
S. Arellano
November 5, 2001
God Bless You and your family and friends. Thank you!
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