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Andrew Bacevich Obituary
His father, a veteran of the Vietnam and Gulf wars, has criticized the war in his writings and described President Bush's endorsement of such "preventive wars" as "immoral, illicit, and imprudent."
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Memories and Condolences
for Andrew Bacevich
Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki
June 2, 2023
To the Bacevich family,
Just a note to let you know that your son was remembered at our annual Northwood Gratitude and Honor Memorial event in Irvine, CA. Although there are other memorials situated in other parts of the country, our city has the only memorial in the U.S.A. dedicated specifically to American troops who died in Iraq and Afghanistan last Sunday. At the ceremony, roses are distributed to the attendees along with two tags containing the name of a fallen hero: The rose and one nametag are placed at the base of the granite pillar which bears the person's name; the other is taken home by an attendee so that we may look up the name; read the person's story; and remember their sacrifice. Your family and the soul of your loved one continue to be in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki
April 5, 2015
To the family of Andrew Bacevich sorry for your loss. Please find comfort by reading Micah 4:3,4
Joy Berends
May 26, 2013
Remembering those who gave so much.
May the Lord continue to comfort Andrew's loved ones.
Peggy Childers
May 13, 2013
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew J. Bacevich:
It has truly been my honor to sign Andrew's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Andrew will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
Anson Joyce
September 3, 2012
To Dr. Bacevich, my heart goes out to you and your family during this very difficult time. Your fight for international peace is an inspiration to us all. Thank you for all you do.
Peggy Childers
May 13, 2012
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew J. Bacevich:
Always remembering Andrew. "Some gave all."
Rich and Pam WIllett
May 13, 2012
We are thinking of Andrew and your family today .
Joy Berends
May 11, 2012
Thank-you again for Andrew's service and your sacrifice.
May the Lord comfort you.
May 10, 2012
I know God has you firmly held and your family is longing to be blessed with whatever God gives them.
I am confident in the hope to know you and to honor you forever.
Five years of not having you in their lives is simply not going to stand with God.
May God bless Nancy and Jennifer and your Dad before the sixth anniversary.
May 7, 2012
As the 5th anniversary of Andy's passing nears, please be aware that there are people that are strangers to you, like myself, that have not forgotten him. I still greatly appreciate his service as much today as I did 5 years ago. I thank his family and all that have shared his legacy with us.
Julio Rodriguez
September 1, 2011
To the families of our American Heroes,
I want to thank each of you for your personal
sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in
your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the
ages to come.
RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20
A greatful Veteran
MSgt USAF (Ret)
Vietnam 64,65,66,68-6
Timothy Ashcraft
May 19, 2011
When I relinquished command of 1st platoon to Andrew I felt relief that someone so talented and such a natural leader was going to lead the platoon into the next deployment. I was stunned when I heard of his death. When I returned from that deployment and ran into old friends from Warhorse, everyone would speak of him in the hushed voices of grief mixed with tremendous respect. I still think about the last time I saw him. He was running beside me down Hood St. encouraging me to move faster during my PT test and I wasn't even in his unit anymore. I'm a terrible runner. He had an amused and friendly sort of smile when he ran up and when he departed to rejoin his platoon. His sacrifice is a terrible loss. I will never forget him.
Mac if you ever read this, thank you for inviting me and insisting that I come to the get-together at your place with Andrew and his girlfriend. Although I would have liked to have known him better still, it would have been a shame to have only had a professional hand over to remember him by.
Peggy Childers
May 13, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew J. Bacevich:
Please accept my remembrance of Andrew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Jim
May 13, 2011
You have not been forgotten Andrew
Lt. Bacevich aka "Silver Fox"
Daniel Cowart
May 13, 2011
Daniel Cowart
May 12, 2011
I was Lt. Bacevich's gunner. I just want whoever is reading this to know that we will never forget. Your son was a good leader, and he was my friend.
1st Platoon D Co 3/8 CAV Iraq 2006
May 12, 2011
Elizabeth Raab
January 15, 2011
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
Joy Berends
November 1, 2010
I read the Memorial Day column in The Week and greatly appreciated your words of wisdom and encouragement to remember men and women like your son Andrew.
My son just finished 4 years with the Army and I try never to take for granted the fact that my son was able to come home. I am so sorry that Andrew did not.
I pray that the Lord will comfort you and I thank you for Andrew's service and sacrifice.
Austin, fall 2005
K Doleva
June 10, 2010
Bace,
I will never forget the memories made while training in Basic and OCS or hanging out down in Austin while at Hood. I just wanted to say that I miss you Bace. You are gone but never forgotten.
Peggy Childers
May 13, 2010
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew J. Bacevich:
Remembering Andrew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Jim
May 13, 2010
You are not forgotten Andrew.
John Hargrove
January 30, 2010
Skip and Nancy...Mary Cheryl and I now know that it is never too late to renew thoughts of sympathy. With our loss of Jimmy, we think of you two and Andy very often. My faith tells me that our boys have come together and are now friends like their dads. God bless both of them and you two as well. Most sincerely, John Hargrove
Michael Cassady
January 7, 2010
I, too, appreciate Col. Bacevich's books. The poignant end to his latest book, speaking of the memory of 1LT Bacevich's father and mother, was singular. From the home of the infantry, I salute you.
Jim
November 2, 2009
Not forgotten.
Rick Ehlert
May 28, 2009
Tonight, I listened to Andrew's father speak about his latest book, a book dedicated to Andrew. As Dr. Bacevich spoke, I could feel the passion in his voice, passion inspired by his son, passion for his love of a nation that Andrew gave his life for, and passion for this country to return to the fundamental values upon which it was founded.
Thank you for your presentation Dr. Bacevich, and thank you for your understanding of values that you retain in the light of controversy. Your son lives on through your words.
Jacob Uber
May 26, 2009
Two years later and I still don't really know what to say...I do know that having you as my Platoon Leader showed me what a officer should be like. I am trying to live up to that.
Miss you LT.
Jennifer Bailis
May 25, 2009
Would like to send my thanks and condolences to the family. Thank you for all your sacrifices! He will never be forgotton. What a true hero!
Peggy Childers
May 13, 2009
To the family of 1st Lt. Andrew J. Bacevich:
Andrew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Bacevich is all the way to the right.
February 24, 2009
Kenna Larra
January 20, 2009
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Sincerely,
Kenna
Patrick Hebble
November 23, 2008
Dear Mr. and Ms. Bacevich,
I am Patrick Hebble, a senior at Lincoln-Sudbury Regional High School. This Veteran’s Day, my World Crises class was encouraged to research a fallen soldier and contact his/her parents. I have chosen your son. While any man or woman willing to give up everything to protect his/her family, friends, and country is more than deserving of our admiration, I have come to realize what an exceptional man Andrew was. From comments made by various family members, friends, and co-workers, I realize that he was an incredibly hard-working, active individual who loved to have fun, yet always maintained a high level of maturity. Reading about Andrew and how truly loved he was has helped me to better understand that a death count is more, much much more, than a number. As I hold back tears while writing this letter, I cannot fathom how much Andrew’s death has affect your everyday lives. That the death of someone I know only from readings can cause me so much pain makes me wonder how people such as yourselves can find the strength to carry on. I have an ineffable respect for you, and the family members of all fallen soldiers. While Sudbury has not lost a loved one during this war and I cannot come close to understanding your pain, I can say with confidence that your son and his sacrifice will never be forgotten. Take comfort in knowing that your son has returned to God and that when you look to the Heavens, he will be smiling back. My deepest condolences go out to you and your entire family. I will continue to keep Andrew in my prayers, and most importantly, I will forever keep Andrew, both his memory and what he stood for, in my heart.
"Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright: for the end of that man is peace."
(Psalm 37:37)
Stay strong, and peace be with you,
Patrick Murray Hebble
Farshad Khounani
August 16, 2008
Dear Mrs. and Mr. Bacevich,
My name is Farshad Khounani. I am an Iranian and I just finished watching John’s interview with Bill Moyer. I just wanted to say that from the moment Jonh’s face took my attention. To me, your face portrayed something that I had a hard time pointing my finger on. Something heavy laden with pain and akin with wisdom, pain’s inevitable and bitter fruit. You kindness, thoughtfulness, integrity and earthly face emphasized the intelligence by which you so eloquently expressed your thought. The thought that I too have been feeling and dabbling with for years and yet have not been to articulate it.
Mr. and Mrs. Bacevich, I am angry and I hope that someday, I too am able to channel it into something constructive as you have. What I want to say is that I am so very sorry for the tragic loss of your son. I am sure that he was brought up to be a fine gentleman with high morals and character that guided him. I couldn’t help but to search for him and try to get to know him better. I found this guestbook. If you don't mind, I copy and kept your son John’s picture to my computer. I too am angry. Angry for the unjust and unfair war that like a wild beast is consuming millions of faceless, nameless Middle Eastern as well as fine sons like yours.
You have been able to channel your grief into writing a book that its good might just equate the evil you have suffered. I am proud of you and please accept my heart-felt sympathy. I pray for wisdom and patience for you and the rest of your family.
With love and kindest regards,
Farshad Khounani
"The LORD bless you
and keep you;
the LORD make his face shine upon you
and be gracious to you;
the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace." '
nancy mendes
August 16, 2008
I watched as you breifly struggled with tears on Bill Moyers . Mine flowed. I sometimes struggle with guilt that my son came home and my heart sinks in sorrow for those that didn't. Your son is remembered. Just someone who cares.
June 26, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Lt Bacevich!
the Buck family
May 14, 2008
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew J. Bacevich, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God comfort and bless your family.
In Memory of Andrew ~ (Debra Estep)
May 13, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Andrew, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
DONNA PIERCE
April 15, 2008
I LOST MY GRANDSON, JUSTIN DUGGER LAST MAY. I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, I KNOW THE PAIN YOU HAVE. GOD BLESS YOU.
Patrick Turck
February 29, 2008
Please accept my condolences on your loss. I represent the Central Texas Fallen Heroes Memorial Foundation in Killeen, Texas. We wish to add a photo of Andrew to our memorial at the Veterans Cemetery in Killeen. The memorial will be dedicated this Memorial Day. You can learn more about our efforts to honor Central Texas' fallen soldiers at www.centexfallenheroes.com . Please contact me through that web site to provide his photo. There are many people who care about our soldiers. God Bless You and Your Family!
Denny Quinn
December 7, 2007
Seven months have passed since Andy was lost to us - but this is still as harsh and sudden as it was in May. Eileen, Peter and I keep Andy in our hearts.
vicki terry
October 21, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I was researching people whoo have lost their only son for my sister who lost her only child on May 9 2007, and came across Andrew. I will keep you in my prayers. vicki terry (aunt of Justin Dugger, 17)
October 13, 2007
You are cordially invited to attend the “Celebration of Life” Event as we honor and recognize the lives of Our Community Members and Fallen Soldiers we have lost during 2006-2007.
The program includes, a DVD Pictorial Memorial Tribute, Music, Candle lighting, Balloon Release, and Refreshments. Each family receives a personalized ornament to place on a Christmas tree as a remembrance of their loved one.
Families who have experienced loss find this event a wonderful time of remembrance and healing. We would love your family to be apart of this event as our Community joins together to recognize and honor your loved one during this Holiday Season.
We will be honoring all the Fallen Soldiers that were assigned to Fort Hood Texas. If you are not able to attend and would like to send a favorite photo, please feel free to do so.
RSVP By Website www.col2007.com
Call Celebration of Life Staff at 254-245-7061
Kelly Evans-Warner
October 10, 2007
Dear Bacevich Family,
It isn't often that I watch the news due to the fact there is always something upsetting occurring so I was unaware of Andy's death until I read the Dickison Magazine just this past Monday. I wanted you to know how much I was touched by him in the short period that I was lucky enough to be in his presence. Andy and I met when he attended Dickinson College. I met him freshman year as we were living in the same dorm. Andy was one of funniest, sweetist, and most generous men I have ever met. We attended the Dickinson Military Ball together and had so much fun. Andy and I didn't talk much when he transferred due to the distance but I have never forgotten him. I will keep all the memories and crazy freshman year photos close to my heart. My prayers are with you and your family.
Regards,
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 14, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Lt Bacevich and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Matthew Billingsly
August 8, 2007
I was very saddened to learn of the passing of this fine young man and I just wanted to express my sincere condolences to his family.
David Sushinsky
August 1, 2007
Andy, I thought some time would make this easier and let the words come to me, but that's not the case. Just know that the times we had in jr. high and high school will never be forgotten. The Number 47 bus to The Heights, you sleeping in the woods during preseason to avoid the senior hazing, the scavengers road trips, parties at the Bizzarro farm, driving the "Blue Beast" to prom, your famous shoulder move in soccer (that never really worked and probably cost us the game against Walter Johnson), when you and Justin had your own Spring Break down here at St. Mary's freshman year...I could write for days. Just know that you will forever be in my thoughts and I am proud of the ultimate sacrifice you have given.
Rick Kane
July 18, 2007
I and my wife would like to express our deepest condolences to your family on death of your son, although we understand and know that such grief is inconsolable. I once thought I could be a poet, but then read the words of Wilfred Owen and knew I could never offer such truths.
"He sleeps. He sleeps less tremulous, less cold,
Than we who wake, and waking say Alas!" From "Asleep," War Poems and Manuscripts of Wilfred Owen.
Matthew K. Tabor
July 9, 2007
My time at Boston University overlapped with Andrew's - though only acquaintances, I had a tremendous amount of respect for the presence, knowledge and attitude he brought to a class [and the enjoyment he exhibited outside of it]. I was discussing with a friend a few months ago how proud we were of the talented people we keow giving service. My friend remarked, "Is there anyone you'd trust more with our security than guys like Andrew and Dan?" When I said, "No," I felt the gravity of their decisions to serve and an intense pride in that service. It's a pride that won't soon wane.
Thank you, Andrew.
1LT Benjamin Carpenter
July 6, 2007
Andrew, you are missed and I will always remember your infectious smile and uplifting personality. You are a hero.
To the Bacevich family: I was in Andrew's OBC class where I had the pleasure of hearing his role model and mentor speak at our graduation. I remember thinking how lucky he was. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Kathryn Hardy
July 5, 2007
I am so very sorry for your loss! You are all in my thoughts and prayers!
God Bless You!
Glen
June 20, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Scott Morris
June 10, 2007
Dear Skip, Nancy, and Family -
After many years removed from Wildflecken and Fulda, I saw a name I recognized and was struck with sadness. Betsy and I mourn the loss of your son, a loss that is both personal and national. As the parents of four sons, one an Army 1LT who has already served one tour in Iraq, we share your loss as only former service parents can. We know the risks, sacrifices, and commitment of young leaders better than most. Raising children of character is the challenge that parents' aspire to achieve and you obviously did well. As members of this diverse American society, we share your great loss and hope you accept our condolences knowing that his sacrifice was not in vain. Although the pain of loss may never go away, Andy's time on earth made a difference and it is a better place because of him. We will keep your family in our prayers. Godspeed.
COL(ret) P. Scott Morris & Betsy Morris, formerly of the 54th Engineers
J Nichols
June 8, 2007
Dear Bacevich family,
I am deeply sorry for your families loss, and I know that it must be a struggle to find some way to cope and look ahead.
I knew Andrew as a Soldier, I remember the first day he arrived at his company as D CO "broke in" the new LTs. He earned the right to be known as a Tanker and earned the respect of the Soldiers around him.
COL Bacevich, I ask that you please continue to write and to fight...even when no one else will. You may feel that what you are saying is falling on deaf ears, but continue to do it, you are not alone.
Respectfully,
J. Nichols
ROBYN Garside
June 6, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Jim Classick
June 4, 2007
I would like to express my deepest condolences for your loss.
Stephanie Goodenow
June 1, 2007
Dear Bacevich Family,
I knew Andy only through Amy, who bragged about him a lot. I have struggled for weeks to make sense of the loss of your son and brother. I have tried to find some words or some gift that might be of comfort to you now. There are none. I think of you and of Andy everyday, but especially in the quiet time I spend with our newborn son before bed each night. I pray for peace in your hearts now.
Michael Neiberg
June 1, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the Bacevich family.
Pam Annenberg
May 31, 2007
Dear Professor Bacevich and family:
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I heard about Andy on National Public Radio and I was also able to view the news segment on ABC news. I am deeply saddened by the loss of your son. I also have a son that graduated from the Army ROTC program at Boston University, and is a 2nd Lt. in the Army. I will always honor your sons memory when I raise an American flag. He was truly an American hero. I share deeply in your grief and my prayers are with you. May your memories of good times bring you comfort in these trying days ahead.
I pray that this war will soon be over, as it is very difficult for the families of those that stand up and serve.
God Bless
May 31, 2007
To the Bacevich Family,
Though we have never met you or your son/brother, as parents of three children (and two others who were taken away from us too soon), our hearts go out to you in this most sad moment of your family. Please accept our deepest sympathies and prayers.
Many who knew your son and your family, and even those like us who are total strangers to you, join with you in our thoughts and hearts in this sad moment. May Andrew rest in peace. May the Lord help you to find strength from all the treasured memories of your loved one that you cherish, to face this tragedy.
A mother and father from Victoria (Australia)
Jennifer B., Soldier's Angels
May 30, 2007
May God bless you and keep you in his love at this time and always. Your son's sacrifice is appreciated in the highest sense, and I am praying for you and for his friends as they carry on.
A Mother
May 30, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Tom Pennekamp
May 30, 2007
Dear COL Bacevich and family,
I was saddened to read about the loss of your son Andy. I had the pleasure of meeting him while serving under your command of the 2/3 ACR at Fort Bliss. May your memories of Andy help comfort you during this difficult time.
May 30, 2007
Dear Prof. and Mrs. Bacevich,
We grieve for the loss of your son. There are no words to express how you are feeling but please know there are many people in this country that are feeling your loss with you. God be with you.
From parents with a son in Iraq
Twin Kaminski
May 29, 2007
Dear Andy,
I am so blessed to have met you and your family because all of you are truly wonderful. Your sister is one of my dearest friends and I know how much she loves you and how excited she was to meet up with you after the Beanpot when you were here in February. In that short meeting, I could tell what a wonderful spirit you have and what a wonderful man you are. I thank you for your courage and for serving our country. I know you are greatly missed and thought about often.
Margaret Hickey
May 29, 2007
Dear Prof. and Mrs. Bacevich,
I just read the tragic news in the Memorial Day Washington Post article regarding the loss of your son. It is not only a terrible loss for the country, but a heartfelt loss shared by all who have known and had the deepest of respect for Prof. Bacevich. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sorrowful time.
Sincerely,
Leah
May 28, 2007
Andrew,
When you first got to Iraq you wrote to me in an email, "I need you to live it up for the both of us, I live vicariously through you." Now the only thing I can do for you is to live life to the fullest like you would want me to. I miss you so much but I can hear your voice telling me to be strong and that everything will be ok. I am so grateful that I had you in my life even if it was way too short. You will always be a part of me and I will never forget you.
Love Always,
Leah
May 28, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Anonymous Mom
May 28, 2007
Dear Prof. and Mrs. Bacevich,
This Memorial Day I find myself thinking about your beautiful son whom I never met. His picture in the Boston Globe has stayed with me. He was striking.
I have a 2 year old son with bright, blue eyes and an easy confident grin. He is the light of my life. I bet your Andy was like this at age 2, and of course, along with your other children, the light of your lives.
Although we have never met, I am crying for your son and for your loss. You are in my prayers.
God Bless You.
Sincerely,
A Mother
Robert Bezucha
May 28, 2007
We spoke together about your son and the war when you were in Amherst in January. I was out of the country when he was killed & only learned yesterday of your loss by reading the Washington Post., Please accept my deepest sympathy, and also my personal conviction that you, his father, are a true patriot in the greatest traditions of our country,.
Arnold Haake
May 27, 2007
Skip and I are West Point classmates and we served together in the same unit in the Central Highlands of Vietnam. My son is also an Army officer and a Blackhawk pilot in Balad, Iraq. Skip and I have shared a way of life and we must also share its grief. Grip hands and strengthen our hearts
Arnie Haake
USMA 1969
Peter and Debra Bunce
May 27, 2007
We were deeply saddened to hear of your son's death in Iraq.
Lauren Cahoon
May 27, 2007
Mr & Mrs Bacevich and family,
I remember well the day I met Andrew for the first time at your home in Germantown. He truly was a person who could light up a room. I am so sorry for your loss. My the Lord bless you in this time of heartache.
Sincerely,
Lauren Cahoon
Morris and Rocio Wood, Harvard NSF '88
May 26, 2007
Dear Skip, Nancy and Family,
We mourn with you in your tremendous loss. May you find solice in having a son who loved to serve in the face of danger. We're certain that he served proudly and with honor.
Our heartfelt love to you.
Yun Gao
May 26, 2007
Dear Prof. and Mrs. Bacevich: I heard the news of your son's death in today's Wall Street Journal. Please accept my condolence and also my admiration to your son and your family. I have the deepest respect to Prof. Bacevich whose moral standard and writings have set the greatest example to everyone in the US and the World. I hope through your example and Prof. Bacevich's teaching and writings,we will have less conflicts and more peace and better understanding of history. Thanks for your sacrifice and May your son rest in peace.
With respect and sympathy.
Bill & Monica Bryson
May 25, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May your memories sustain you through this difficult period and bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Katy
May 25, 2007
Dear Andy,
My heart breaks a little more every time I am reminded that you are no longer here on this earth physically with us. I always whined about how over-protective you were, and how much you teased me. If it would bring you back to me, I would let you tease me all you wanted and would never complain again. My favorite memories with you are from when we were young—like when we used to put on big skiing gloves and pretend we were boxing opponents. We’d hold our boxing matches in the basement, and you would announce “in the first corner, weighing 300 pounds, our champion, Andy “the beast” Bacevich (or some ridiculous name like that)..and in the second corner, his challenger, weighing in at 60 pounds, Katyyyy!” Then the boxing turned into a wrestling match, and you would sit on me until I said “uncle.” Cue in the imaginary audience cheering for your victory. Andy, I so looked forward to you getting married one day and starting a family. You are such a funny, kind-hearted man. You would have made such a wonderful father. I also regret that my own future kids will only be able to experience your vibrancy and fun-loving spirit by the stories our family will never stop telling. I am so proud of you for all you accomplished in your 27 years on earth, and for being so brave as to serve our country in such a dangerous situation. I take comfort that you are in an even better place now, watching over our family, but I wish I could have given you one last hug and kiss before you had to go. I love you so much big brother!!
Nancy Bacevich
May 24, 2007
Andy, dear boy, so many kind people have helped shape you. There are so many memories they have shared; I thought I would mention a few. Prosobee kid...no eggs, just like Stacy next door...cowboy boots...Chris V. and you painting the glass palace in Amberg...playing with the Busby girls...walking to second grade with Nick G....winning the Pinewood Derby with your second model...resisting sleep on my shoulder at a soccer game:"Mom, will you hold my eyes open? ZZZZZ"...kindergarten with your pal Adam...Sr. Rosa at St. Pius...evaluating "car-trucks" in the carpool with Mark and Chris...lead singer in "Steamboatin'" in Ansbach...Peter and you playing Dungeons and Dragons...the surprise party you absolutely didn't want at 16...McDonalds, the Stop N Go, installing sprinklers, and other hard summer jobs..."king of the prom"...cigars...all the lawns you mowed...Archy...asthma..."That's 'diculous!"..."High Five for Adults!"..."we're staying at the hulltel!"...Ishkabibble...Grandpa Jack...burple..."Neener, neener!"...stuffing the blanket in your mouth while you slept at ages 2-4...eating all the turkey stuffing as a snack at midnight...same with the manicotti...deciding at age four that you'd no longer suck the blanket because the dentist said you'd have buck teeth..."kick the can" with the cousins...fishing off Grandma's pier...night soccer games...basketball in the backyard..."Erie Canal"..."La di da di da, A&W Rootbeer"...altar boy at age six...retired at age nine...tidiest bedroom in the house no matter what age...polishing boots and shaving with Dad...geography meister in grade six...sitting in the way-way back seat...running the Boston, Philadelphia, and New York marathons, with and without training...your one week with football...your lifetime with soccer...punching my bottom whenever you wanted attention...being coerced to play Barbies under threat that Amy would tell Mark about it if you didn't...rolling your pants to a perfect cuff...gelling your hair with Peter...haircuts at the Korean barbers.... It all passed too quickly. I love you, Sweetie! Mom
Chris Gray
May 24, 2007
Andy Jr.,
Although I am a close friend of your Dad, Andy Sr., I only was with you twice. Dad talked to or e-mailed me about you all the time; he was always proud of how hard you tried, usually successfully, to be a Christian gentleman, dutiful son, and Army officer.
I will always remember Andy Sr. and Andy Jr. walking together around Scott Circle in DC, happy to be in each other's company. You are in Heaven now, but still grieving that your premature death has caused Dad, Mom, Jenny, Amy, Kate, your aunts, uncles, living grandparents, cousins and your many friends such agony.
May God relieve the suffering of all those who love you and help us to patiently endure our own journey to Eternity.
Krissy Goff
May 24, 2007
Dear Bacevich Family -
You have been a close part of my life for as long as I can remember. Andy was like a second little brother to me. I will never forget him and pray for you during this time of loss and sorrow. The memory of Andy and all our fun times together will forever be in my heart. I love you guys!
SGT Scott Moore
May 24, 2007
We served together in Iraq, and went out on a couple missions together. My prayers and support go out to 1LT Bacevich's family. In your grief, keep room for pride. He will be remembered. Hooah!
Jeremiah Bridgwood
May 23, 2007
To the family and friends of Andy;
I am saddened by the death of such a great, funny, and enjoyable person. I enjoyed the all the times I shared with him and the rest of our mutual friends at BU. He will be sorely missed.
Judy MacLellan
May 23, 2007
To The Family of Andrew J. Bacevich,
May God Bless you all. I pray that this War will end so that not one more family has to feel the pain that you do. May Andrew rest in peace.
the lydon family
May 22, 2007
God bless your family during this difficult time. Andrew is a true American hero.
Lauren Barnes
May 22, 2007
Dear Bacevich Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies during this very difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Andrew at the State House and he left a lasting impression with me - he made everyone laugh and smile and feel at ease. He will be terribly missed.
Jane Garrity
May 22, 2007
Dear Bacevich Family,
I am Peter Quinn's, Aunt Jane, I had the pleasure of Andy's company during Peters graduation celabrations in Boston, Peter,loved his frienship with Andy. I will never forget your son he was a fine gentelman and I am heartbroken for your family, this is a loss that cannot be expressed in words. all my heartfelt sympathy to all of you.
Amy Person-Townsley
May 22, 2007
Although words are but a small gesture, may you find peace during this difficult time. You and your family are in our prayers. God bless.
BU IR 2004
Tom Gugliuzza
May 22, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Bacevich family in the loss of Andrew. I did not know Andrew, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Andrew you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
James Schena
May 22, 2007
To the Bacevich Family,
Though I don't know you nor did I get the chance to meet Andrew, my heart goes out to you in this time of pain. The sorrow I feel for a complete stranger is no comparison as to what Andrew did for me. He went to war for me, a complete stranger. That in my mind is a hero and therefore, he and all of you are in my prayers. No words can express what I feel but please take comfort in the fact that all of us (Americans) are greatfull for him and all of those who fight for us. God Bless.
Eileen McLoughlin Christiansen
May 21, 2007
Dear Col. Bacevich, Mrs. Bacevich, Jenn, Amy, and Katy:
I'm an old friend of Amy's from your time living in Wellesley, and I wanted to let you know how sorry I was to hear the news of Andy's passing. He's a hero, and he exemplified the values of your family by committing himself to his education and the service of our nation. He will be dearly missed, and I hope that you all stay close during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you!
John Lucas (USMA '69)
May 21, 2007
Skip, Nancy and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this terrible time. God bless you all.
May 21, 2007
God Bless you all for raising such a brave & devoted son. This country is better for having known him.
Up in angels arms he is safe.
John Andreini (USMA '71/ C-1)
May 21, 2007
Professor Bacevich and Family:
Skip and Nancy, I am truely saddened by the death of your son, Andrew. The pain of your loss must be unspeakable. Andy represents the best and the brightest of our nation and that makes his ultimate sacrifice all the more unbearable. May his service and that of all the brave men and woman fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan inspire us and may his sacrifice be never forgotten. And may we all work for a lasting peace in his name.
Fred (USMC Ret)
May 21, 2007
It is with the deepest sadness that I ask the family and friends of this brave young Soldier to accept the offer of my most sincere and heart felt condolences. I hope that you know that your loss is shared and mourned by millions of Americans. Most of whom you don’t know and in all probability will never meet. We sincerely appreciate the sacrifices made by your patriot.
Freedom is not free; it is paid for by our heroes, and for those who fight for it, Freedom has a flavor the protected will never know! This soldier made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.
WE MUST NEVER FORGET!!
I know the pain parents feel when they loose a child. I lost a son 19 years ago. It is a pain that defies description. It is a pain that never goes away. It is a pain that will never end. It is a pain that is all consuming.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless and keep you today, tomorrow and forever!
Rest in Peace brave soldier; you did your duty with great honor, dedication, distinction and in the highest traditions of our great country.
Semper Fidelis
Diane Chotikul
May 21, 2007
Dear Professor and Mrs. Bacevich and Family:
We are thinking of you and grieving for you today as you lay your beloved son and brother to rest. May the love and support of the extended BU community help to comfort you through this difficult time. Andrew meant so much to so many and will be remembered always with great fondness and admiration.
With deepest condolences,
The Chotikul Family
(1st Lt. Justin Chotikul,USMC; BU '03, Comm.; currently serving in Baghdad)
Ann Marie Holder
May 21, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I knew Andrew from our time working in the Governor's Office. He was a great coworker; he was a smart young man who took his responsibilities, not himself, seriously. He seemed to be living by the guiding principal of others (or a greater cause) above self. Mr and Mrs Bacevich you did an amazing job in rearing a son of great character. My prayers are with you during this time of grief. May God provide comfort and hope to you and each member of your family.
Donia (Schanthal) Zilles
May 21, 2007
My deepest sympathies for the loss of your son and brother. I went to school with Jen and Amy when my father was stationed in Ansbach.
May God bless and watch over your family.
May 21, 2007
Our thoughs are with you and your family. I am so sorry.
Aaron and Alana Weinberg
Debbie Whitfield [email protected]
May 20, 2007
Allow me to extend my sympathies to your family on the loss of your son. I pray that God gives you strength in dealing with this terrible tragedy. My daughter lost her husband in Iraq. While I can not begin to know how you feel, I know how we feel and want you to know that if I can help in any way, please feel free to contact me. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers.
Greg Lockhart
May 20, 2007
Andrew,
I am going to miss you Brother. I do not have a memory of Fort Knox that doesn't include you in some way. You are truly one of my best friends. You made me laugh through some of the worst situations, and I know you have them laughing in Heaven.
To the Bacevich Family: My prayers are with you.
1LT Greg Lockhart
Schofield Barracks, HI
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