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BENHAM, Jay A.

Jay A. Benham, age 76, of Eaton, OH, passed away at home on Tuesday, May 11, 2021, after a four-year battle with cancer. He was a 1962 graduate of Jackson High School in Campbellstown, OH. He was active in the Jackson Alumni Association for many years. He was a U.S. Army

Veteran who served during the Vietnam War and an active member of the VFW Post #8066 in Eaton, OH. He owned and operated D&J Sales, a wholesale paint sundry business for 30 years in Brookville, OH. Most recently he was known as the "Roller Man" out of Eaton, OH. Jay was preceded in death by his parents, Russell and Grace (Dwyer) Benham, and brothers

David and Tom Benham. He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Jane "Pickle" (Bailey) Benham of Eaton, OH; sister and brother-in-law Ann and Arnold Boyd of Cambridge City, IN, and

Ann's daughters Lari and Mike Palocsik and Marci and Jason Saunders of Atlanta, GA; brother-in-law Pete Bailey of Naples, FL, and Pete's daughter Gina Bailey and Simplicio Paragas of Honolulu, HI; brother-in-law John Bailey of New Paris, OH, and John's children Steve Bailey of New Paris, OH, and daughter Laura Bailey and Kevin Wisecup of Centerville, IN; and numerous great nieces and nephews. Visitation will be held on

Saturday, May 15, 2021, from 10:00 am until time of funeral service at 12:00 noon at the Girton Schmidt and Boucher Gard Funeral Home, 226 West Main Street, Eaton, OH, with Pastor Ted Dennis officiating. Burial will follow at Mound Hill Cemetery in Eaton. Memorial contributions may be sent to the

charity of donor's choice. Online condolences and other

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Published by Dayton Daily News on May 14, 2021.

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BEN YOCOM

November 27, 2022

JANE "PICKLE "
So sorry to find out about Jay.
Have thought about you both for many years and always wondered what Jay got into after D and Jay sales.
I always enjoyed him calling on me at the store and always remember when he would wear his white shoes in the spring to let you know it was going to be summer time soon. We used to eat lunch at the store in Enon at the checkout.
Jay was a great guy with a big heart !
I will always remember his great smile and I'm glad I had the opportunity to know him.
All the best to you !
Ben Yocom
Naples ,Florida

Henry Avery

February 9, 2022

So sorry for your loss.

Jan Walters

May 17, 2021

Wow! So sorry about Jay’s passing. Just heard today - and we have missed the service. My husband was one of Jay’s best friends for many, many years.
Condolences to Jane and the family. On behalf of Commodore Preble Chapter, Daughters of the American Revolution, thank you, Mr. Benham, for your service to our country.

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