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Deborah Byrd-Williams Obituary

BYRD-WILLIAMS (Leffler), Deborah

age 70, of Kettering passed away on Thursday, May 4, 2023. She was a graduate of Bishop Ready High School (Columbus) in 1971, received her BS in Education from the University of Dayton in 1975, and her Masters in Education in 2000. Debbie was a member of the Gamma Gamma Kappa sorority, the Christ Child Society of Dayton, the John Stewart Society at the University of Dayton, and a former board member of the Wright Memorial Public Library. She was an active member of Christ United Methodist Church in Kettering, where she served on the prayer ministry, as a teacher of Divorce Care for Kids, and a leader of Companions in Christ and numerous small study groups. Debbie has an immense passion for educating children, and taught in classrooms across the Dayton area for more than 25 years. She taught middle school, offered home instruction, and coached track, volleyball, and softball at Van Buren Middle School; taught first grade at Holy Angels Elementary School where she was recognized as the State of Ohio's Teacher of the Year; taught preschool at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church; and taught health at Chaminade Julienne High School. Following her career in the classroom, Debbie tutored students across the Dayton area including members of the University of Dayton men's basketball team, and wrote proficiency tests as an educational consultant for the State of Ohio. Debbie lived for her family. Her greatest joy in life was spending time with her loving husband Frank, her children and their spouses, her sisters, her many grandchildren, and the many friends that she made everywhere she went. She greatly enjoyed baking and decorating for every holiday, particularly Christmas, and found joy in the many close friendships that she spent much of her time developing and nurturing. Debbie was an avid UD sports fan, and particularly loved UD basketball. Debbie is preceded in death by her parents William and Josephine, her sister Patty, and her daughter-in-law Melissa. She is survived by her husband Frank, her sisters Kathy, Peggy, and Mary Jo, her three boys Matt (Natalie), Brent, and Nathan (Charles), her step-children Molly and Graham, her grandchildren Jake, Sam, Henry, Liam, Clementine, Oliver, Owen, and Elin, her god children Marissa and Sam, and her numerous nieces, nephews, and grand-nieces and nephews in the Barnes and Byrd families. A memorial service with visitation afterwards will be held at 1:00 PM Friday, May 12, 2023 at Christ United Methodist Church, 3440 Shroyer Road in Kettering. In lieu of flowers, the family prefers donations to be made to the Comeback Scholarship Award at the Oakwood Schools Education Foundation, or St. Vincent Depaul's Society of Dayton, or Christ United Methodist Church. Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be made at www.routsong.com.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on May 7, 2023.

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Shelley Miller

April 29, 2024

Debbie would be so sad that Tank´s closed. We had many fun breakfasts there. We would probably have to buy it and she would start baking and cooking

Betsy Mues

May 9, 2023

Our sincere condolences to Frank, Matt, Brent, Nathan and their families. Debbie was the first person I met when teaching at Van Buren, then we both moved on to teach together again at Holy Angels. As our boys went to school together and were close in age we shared many times together on the soccer field and on fun outings together like going to the Bengals training camp. Debbie was such a fun, caring, and loving mom and teacher. Even with all life dealt her, she remained strong in her faith and had an amazingly positive outlook on life. She was a fighter, and will be missed very much.

Bob and Flo Francis

May 9, 2023

Nate, we are so sorry to hear about your loss. We will be thinking about you and your family! Bob and Flo Francis

Linda Lewis

May 9, 2023

To Frank and family, so sorry for your loss. Wishing you happy memories and peace. Bob and Linda Lewis

Mary Beth Coker

May 8, 2023

Frank, Jim and I are so very sorry to learn of Debbie´s passing. I remember you both from DivorceCare, our church dinners, and of course the basketball tickets you were so generous in sharing with us. May her memory be a blessing. Please accept our deepest condolences.

Daphne Warner

May 8, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss. She was always such a nice person.

Joyce and Gary Miller

May 7, 2023

It was such sad news to hear of the loss of our good friend Debbie. Frank, our sincere condolences. Debbie brightened a lot of lives, gave selfishly and we will miss her smile. God bless you Frank and your families.

Melinda B

May 7, 2023

I remember her as our PE teacher/coach at Van Buren. She was always so sweet and such a great mentor! She always had such a great smile! RIP Coach Byrd!

Billy Myers

May 7, 2023

Frank,

Ann and I remember Debbie well at our recent class reunions. May you be comforted in remembering her life. Grace and peace be with you and your family.
Billy Myers

Kelly Owens

May 6, 2023

It is been an honor to know Debbie and to work with her awarding the Comeback Scholarship Award. Through this work relationship, a friendship grew, one that I will forever treasure. I will miss our chats, her positive outlook, her caring/loving nature, and most of all, her friendship.
Frank, Nathan, Matt, Brent, and families, may God bless and keep you as you mourn the loss of your wife, mother, grandmother.

Alison Benford

May 6, 2023

We are heartbroken to lose a shining spirit and giving soul. Debbie showed bravery and optimism during these past weeks.
She will be greatly missed by everyone who was a part of her life.

Kristen Ramey

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Kristen Ramey

May 6, 2023

Debbie was a light in our lives- we are so lucky to have known and been loved by her.

Gina Towne

May 5, 2023

Frank, Matt, Brent, Nathan and your respective families, my deepest condolences go out to you today. I'm so saddened by the news. Debbie loved telling the story about how Brad would clear and shovel a path across Greenmount when it snowed, so we could still have tea and visit. Many memories like these and my admiration for her generosity in life and spirit will live on in my heart. She was a blessing to all she knew. May all your memories be fond ones.
With love and sincerity, Gina Towne

Mary Ann Hemmert

May 5, 2023

As Co-President for The Christ Child Society of Dayton we are deeply saddened by the loss of one of our respected members. Please accept our sincere sympathy, Mary Ann Hemmert

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