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Martha B. Higgins
January 2, 2025
Connie was my dear cousin and I was so sad to hear she had died. When I went to college in Ohio (from Maine) I would visit her at her home and later when she moved to a lovely duplex, both in Hamilton. I was surprised when she said she was moving to Otterbein but she loved it there and it was a perfect fit for her. I did visit when she had the bungalow but not when she moved to the apartment building.
On one visit at the bungalow she asked which of her antiques I'd like to have, knowing I also had an affinity for them. I said I had all the antiques I could manage and would have a difficult time taking anything from Ohio to Maine. She was very insistent, so I finally said I'd like the doorknob collection and the Coca-Cola flat in which she housed them that she'd hung in her bathroom. She just laughed! Then I said perhaps the stories she'd written about growing up in Maine would be just the thing and she eventually mailed me a large envelope with copies of those. I wish she had complied those stories into a book, as she often said she might.
Since Trenton, Maine, where Connie and her parents lived, had only a grammar school, Connie went to Bar Harbor and lived with my grandparents during the week so she could attend high school. She and my grandmother had a very special and loving relationship and she always recalled her time in Bar Harbor fondly.
During one of my visits while we were reminiscing about my grandparents, I remarked that Grammie made a pineapple and cherry cookie that I just loved but when she died, at 96 years old, the last of the family except me, the recipe was nowhere to be found. Connie was so excited to tell me that she had that recipe, so now I have something to remember both of those special women by!
She was a joyous, loving, fiercely loyal to friends and family, Intelligent, and always smartly put-together (dare I say glamorous?, just look at the photo accompanying this obituary!). She was especially proud of her grandchildren, Josh, Ben, Brad, Julia, and Dan and delighted in relating all their accomplishments and wanderings.
Although we were 27 years apart in age, we were kindred spirits, and I will miss Connie so very much!
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