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Seth Coellner Obituary
He was born Feb. 5, 1973, in Exeter, the son of Mark J. Coellner and Eleanor (Hilliard) Cormier.
He was a graduate of New Hampshire Vocational College as a master plumber. He served his country honorably as a seaman and as a small craft boatswain with the United States Coast Guard aboard the Tamaroa based in Portsmouth.
Mr. Coellner was the founder and owner of SMC Plumbing and Heating Contracting.
He is survived by his wife, Siobhan (Meehan) Coellner of Kensington; two daughters, Penelope Wren and Piper Blue, both of Kensington; his father, Mark J. Coellner of Hampton Falls; his mother and stepfather, Eleanor and Kenneth Cormier of York, Maine; two brothers, Silas and his wife Diane (Fortini) Coellner and their children, Cedar James, Seth Paul, and Sage Eleanor, of Fairhaven, Mass., and Samuel Coellner of Hampton Falls; his grandmother, Mary Barker of Stratham.
WE REMEMBER: He is also survived by five aunts, Susan (Hilliard) Noble of Marblehead, Mass., Allysan (Hilliard) Drew of St. Augustine, Fla., Nan W. Coellner of Boston, Mari Crane of Georgia and Roseanne Chang of Winchester, Mass.; three uncles, Frank Hilliard of Reading, Mass., Russell Hilliard of Hampton Falls and James Coellner of Philadelphia; and 16 cousins, Cathren Witteveen, Chrisie Noble, Caren DiNardo, William Drew, Carolyn Drew, Taylor Hilliard, Spencer Hilliard, Mary Sanchez, Raymond Chang, Anne-Marie Chang, Katie Chang, James Chang, Paul Crane, Catherine Crane, and Melissa Crane.
He was pre-deceased by his grandparents, Robert C. and Margaret T. Hilliard, James A. Coellner and Edmund Barker; and one cousin, Matthew R. Drew.
He was blessed with many gifts and talents. He was an artist as well as a craftsman. He could design and craft whatever he needed from custom fishing rods to a home he built for his family. He was on the leading edge of developments in his chosen trade. He personified independent thinking never accepting status quo always thinking outside the box.
He was a leader with a magnetic personality. People were drawn to the positive energy he brought to his work and recreation. He was loyal to and always looking out for his closest of friends.
He loved fishing and won many tournaments along the east coast. He held a USCG captain's license, and had a dream of being a charter fisherman. His final known act in life saved the lives of the three men aboard the downed vessel.
Mr. Coellner was a committed husband and devoted father. Siobahn and his two girls were his pride and joy. He became an integral part of the Meehan family who loved and cherished him as their own. He often spoke glowingly of the relationship he shared with his father-in-law Joe and his mother-in-law Rosalie.
His family members express their deep gratitude for all the men and women who risked their lives to rescue and continue to search for him tirelessly.
SERVICES: Visiting hours will be held Wednesday, July 1, from 5 to 8 p.m., in the Remick & Gendron Funeral Home-Crematory, 811 Lafayette Road, Hampton. Services will be private.
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Memories and Condolences
for Seth Coellner
Stephanie Lane
June 24, 2019
Remember you every day, Buddy. Still have your commemorative sticker on my car sop each time I see it, a prayer goes up to Heaven for you...
Erin Ahearn
July 17, 2009
There are few people you meet in this life who make you laugh till you cry. Thank you, Seth for all the tears of joy! I only wish you knew how much your life touched people. It was a priveledge and an honor to know you!
Chrisie Noble
July 7, 2009
I dipped my toes in the ocean yesterday and wondered if you knew. If you could feel me there, thinking of you. I watched the surf as it drifted away and thought of all the things I wanted to say.
I WILL MISS YOU SETH!
Siobhan, I am so happy Seth brought you into my life. All my love to you, Penelope, Piper, Silas, Sam and my entire family. I am truely blessed to have you.- Chrisie
Aaron Epstein
July 6, 2009
I had the distinct pleasure of being stationed with Seth when he was in the Coast Guard. He was always a good laugh with some of his unique tricks. I am sorry for your loss but he will always be remembered.
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Mike & Sue Vadeboncoeur
July 5, 2009
We are both very sorry for the loss of Seth. Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of his family and friends... I remember growing up in Hampton Falls & playing with Seth at his grandparents house on Drinkwater Road. Seth was always up for having fun - tag, wiffle ball, kickball, sledding across the street from Blue Chip Farm, exploring the woods, catching chickens, camping out, riding go-karts, building forts... I will not forget the fun we had growing up together. Seth is in our thoughts and prayers.
Audrey Dean
July 4, 2009
Seth, you were a kind, smart,and very fair business man who helped us greatly with our home and we miss you. Most importantly, we will always remember the stories you told regarding your love and appreciation of your wife and daughters. The last story you told about teaching Penelope how to track an animal's footprint was so endearing. There is comfort in knowing your wife and daughters will be loved and cared for by both your families and so many friends. . God Bless you always. With deepest sympathy and prayers for Gods Grace to touch all of those who had the honor of knowing you. Phil and Audrey Dean (Exeter,NH)
Jason, Jenn and Meryn Grzybowski
July 4, 2009
Although Seth may not be here in body, he will forever remain in spirit. Just look down into his daughters eyes, and know, he will ALWAYS be with us. With deepest sympathy and love.
CHRIS CAMERON
July 4, 2009
SETH COULD ALWAYS MAKE ME LAUGH, YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE GROWING UP HELPING ME WITH MY CARS OR ANOTHER PROJECT. yOU WERE A GREAT NEIGHBOR, CLASSMATE AND FRIEND. CAM
Christy Cox
July 1, 2009
Siobhan and family, I am so sorry for you loss. I wish I could come and fix it all! My heart has really been broken for you and your family! I wish I was there to help you with the house and kids! We may never get the answer to "WHY?" Please find peace and KNOW God never makes mistakes, and He never separates Himself from our needs. You all are in our thoughts and prayers!
Suzi Beaupre
July 1, 2009
Seth, when God needed the best plumber, he got you.
Thoughts and prayers to the Coellner Family. Gods gain was all of our loss.
Deb and Jeff Garand
July 1, 2009
Seth was a gift to the Seacoast NH community. We pray that his family and friends find solace and peace.
Jeremy Boyd
June 30, 2009
To Siobahn and the girls, Sammy, and all other friends and family members of Seth, Im so sorry for your loss and my heart is with you. As the tears run down my face i cant but to smile when i think about Seth. He was the only guy willing to lookpast your every flaw and still give you a second chance. i cant say im fortunate enough to know alotta guys like Seth, i wish i knew more!!! He will be missed more than he knows! He will alwayas have a place in my heart.
June 30, 2009
To Seth's family, especially Mark, Eleanor,Silas and Sam, our thoughts and prayers are with you, may your many memories bring you comfort.
With Sympathy, Becky and Tim Mcgrail
Vivian and Joseph Marland
June 30, 2009
To all of those who knew and loved Seth, we extend our deepest sympathy. Because of his heroism, my great nephew
survived this terrible tragedy. We are totally indebted to him and his unselfish deed, and our thoughts and prayers go out to Seth's family at this terribly sad time. May he forever rest in peace.
Kristen Daniels
June 30, 2009
"The Captain is solely responsible for the ship and answerable only to the owners, with regard to the safety of the passengers, crew and cargo. Therefore the Captain resolves to get everyone off the ship safely and is the last to leave or goes down with the ship." -- U.S. Coast Guard
~Seth took these responsibilities seriously. If he did not there would be more than one man to say goodbye to. He is a hero and will remain a hero. Siobhan, my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort and support in all those who love you, Seth, and your family.
June 30, 2009
We did not know Seth Coellner but we want to give our sincere condolences to his wife and family. Our great nephew Jacob Clark was on that boat that night and was one of the men that was rescured. It was a tragic accident
and we are sorry for your loss, may God
be with you at this time.
Earl & Carolyn Yoder, LaPorte, In.
Caren DiNardo
June 30, 2009
With his gift of gab and infectious laugh Seth touched more lives in his far too short life, then most people in an entire lifetime. Seth, I will miss your laugh.
Love to Siobhan, Penelope and Piper
June 30, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Eleanor Montague
June 30, 2009
To Seth's wife, children and family - our deepest sympathy and regrets for your loss. Seth will be greatly missed by all of us in the Building Department.
Traci Anello
June 30, 2009
Seth was a wonderful person and a true professional. He was truly dedicated to his family and his profession. I'm very fortunate to have met him and will cherish our conversations. Today when I tossed flowers into the ocean, a beautiful rainbow appeared.
My condolences to his family.
Katie Rogers
June 29, 2009
My heart is broken for my dearest friend Siobhan and her beautiful girls. My deepest sympathy for the whole Coellner/Meehan family. Our thouthts and love are with you all.
jennifer Coniglio
June 29, 2009
we are friends of Kim and Jimmys in florida, our hearts go out to you in this time of grief.
Jenn & Scott Coniglio
June 29, 2009
To Seth's wife, children, and all his family,
Please accept my condolences. There are no words when a life such as Seth's is lost. I am praying for you all.
Sincerely,
Linda George
Cindy Meehan
June 29, 2009
Siobhan, My heart goes out to you and the babies. There are angels among us. All my love.
Stephanie Lane
June 29, 2009
My heart is again broken today learning of this tragedy...I will always remember your unique shining nature, Seth. Your compassion and generous, gentle nature towards all the people you came in contact with is not lost. It serves as a beacon of inspiration and will guide us through the foggy harbor of life. Where you are now, Captain, you have become a fisher of souls...Love to your family.
Christy Lombardi
June 29, 2009
Siobhan, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know from you talking about him how great of a husband and father he was. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Sheri, Jon, Matt and Jamie Allen
June 29, 2009
To Seth: May you rest in peace. We knew you when you were young and you sprayed water all over Jon when he was in a lawn chair. He had a bad back and you made him jump with the cold water. I remember seeing you skateboard down the middle of Rt. 1 in Hampton Falls. You were and are a free spirit. You were also a kind person and moved to the beat of your own drum. We loved you. Our sincere condolences to all of your family.
Lawrence Simmons
June 29, 2009
SO sorry to hear of your lossi will keep your familey in my thoughts and prayers
Betty Anne Binette
June 29, 2009
I love you Sethy!!!! You will forever and always be remembered for the true person you were!!!
Carole Pucci
June 28, 2009
My heart and prayers go out to Seth's family...his wife and children, parents, brothers Sammy and Silas and his amazing friends.... He touched so many in a way only he could. I wish the outcome that night was different. His children will tell a story of their father being a hero. Theirs...and ours. Goodbye Seth. Always remembered and loved.
Susan and Bill Russell
June 28, 2009
Dear Siobhan - I was so saddened to learn about Seth. You have my heartfelt sympathies for you, your girls, Sam, and the whole Coellner/Hilliard families. I will always remember you and Seth coming to Unity to visit us - Seth riding his Harley that he had rented, and letting Bill get a big thrill riding it after all these years - that was a highlight for him - and I remember the delicious dinner that Seth cooked for us all. I always felt happy when I saw him and his goodness will be carried on and remembered by those he touched. May you find a peace within, knowing that Seth loved you and his family and was truly loved by others. I believe he is going ahead to make a better place for all of us - God only takes the ones that are very special - and he was. With love and profound sorrow for your loss. Susan and Bill Russell
Beth Petit
June 28, 2009
Seth was such a genuine and sincere person. I was truly saddened to hear of this tragic loss. I send my deepest sympathy, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Edward Gaffny
June 28, 2009
My Condolences to Seth's family, he was a brilliant guy and a talented plumber. I am saddened by the loss and feel for his wife and 2 young daughters. He saved 3 lives in his passing and should always be considered a hero, God bless..
Ruth MacNevin
June 28, 2009
I have known Seth since he was a teenager and even then he was a very special person who was comfortable with himself. He had the ability to make you feel special and to feel that you were important to him. That along with his infectious smile and sense of humor endeared him to everyone. I feel very honored and proud to have known him.
Siobhan and all of Seth's family, my thoughts and prayers are with all.
Amy Wentworth
June 28, 2009
Although I have not seen Seth in years all my memories of him are forever lasting. He was a wonderful and funny man. I will never forget all the entertainment he provided at the Mosquito Lounge. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Neil MacNevin
June 28, 2009
Seth Coellner was a very special guy, and a great pleasure to know. He was a multi talented man. Athletic, gifted with a winning personality and sense of humor. I have know Seth since the day he was born. My wife, Ruth and I are profoundly saddened by his passing, and our sympathy goes out to Mark, Sam, Silas, Ellie, and the entire Coellner family.
Mary & Peter Thomson
June 27, 2009
We were saddened to learn of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Kristen NoftleSmith
June 27, 2009
I was honered to Know Seth he was one of the funniest men i know... I hadn't seen him in years but whenever i would run into him he would always remind me of high school and my skipping school and trip to the marsh... I send my deepest condolences
Kevin Schmitt
June 27, 2009
Seth was above and beyond what life is all about. He was an old soul who had a positive outlook on life. I was in awe with his Elephant tatoo, and let me know that the Elephant has the longest memory of all species, and he also tought me abstract art and ceramics. Most of all I could always feel his sincerity of his compassion and positivity. I am sorry that he was taken so early in life, but am honored and blessed that I was able to be friends with such a great man.
Alfred E Choquette
June 27, 2009
Please accept my deepest condolences at the loss Seth M. Coellner.
Christine Schmitt-Callan
June 27, 2009
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Seth was a great person and will never be forgotten.
Christine Schmitt-Callan
June 27, 2009
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Amanda Neddy-Walker
June 27, 2009
Please accept my deepest condolences at the loss of a truly "good" person. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this difficult time.
JoAnne V. Davidson
June 27, 2009
Siobhan I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. My heart goes out to you in this time and the days ahead.
Erin Boyd Perkins
June 27, 2009
I'm lost for words on how deeply sorry I am for your loss. My family wants you to know Siobhan, how much we love and care for you and your family. You are all in our thoughts as well as our hearts!
Wendy LaMontagne
June 27, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dan Murphy
June 27, 2009
Seth was a wonderful man and a brilliant,charismatic craftsman! I will truly miss him both as a friend and fellow tradesman. My sincere condolences to his family and close friends,
Dan Murphy
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