Mary Boprey Obituary
Mary Alice spent her life in the services of others. Her generosity of spirit and caring personality endeared her to family and friends alike. Her life touched all those around her; her smile a bit of sunshine for everyone. Her nursing career helped others cope with illness and adversity. The nursing staff and friends around her were a source of strength and comfort to her, as she was to them.
She is survived by brothers Lawrence Granish, Hampton, Va., and Gerald M. Boprey of Ausable Forks, N.Y.; and sisters, Jean M. Coolidge, Keene, N.Y., and Kathleen B. Howard, Keeseville, N.Y.; and nieces, nephews; cousins; and a multitude of friends.
She was predeceased by her parents; and brothers, Edward Granish, Robert Granish; and sister, Ann Boprey.
Services will be at the Immaculate Conception Church in Keeseville, N.Y., on Wednesday, Jan. 20, at 11 am. Burial will be in the spring.
The family asks in lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Albany Memorial Hospital.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
February 10, 2010
To my Dearest Sister....I miss you and love you so much. I wish I had known you didn't have the strength to continue; there is so much I wanted to tell you. Thank you for always listening and loving me; I always felt the same for you. I think about you every minute of every day, but I know now you are free from pain and I pray you will give me your strength. You are in my heart forever. I love you..your favorite sister...Kathleen
January 18, 2010
Kathy,I am so sorry for your loss.My heart goes out to you and your family during such a time of sorrow.Love you Caryn
Ron Granish
January 17, 2010
I don't know of a more giving person than my Aunt Mary Alice, even in times that weren't easy for her personally. I know that her final times here on earth were often physically a struggle, but she would always be more interested in how everyone else was doing than focus on her own issues. She was so kind and loving, I am so lucky to have been related to her and to have known her. She was a positive and loving influence to all who came in contact with her and I will miss her greatly.
Maria Bollacker
January 16, 2010
FiFi,
You will be sorely missed. I am so sorry.........
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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Diane Weber
January 16, 2010
Mary Alice always had a smile and a "good morning" for everyone she encountered on her way into work or, later, as she came in for her treatments. I will miss her enthusiasm and her positive outlook on life. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.
Diane Secord
January 15, 2010
I remember going to my aunt's graduation from Nursing school in Albany when I was younger. She was one of the reasons I went to nursing school. She had the most wonderful smile and laugh and always made you feel loved. I will miss her but I know she will be smiling down and watching over all of us.
Ericka Granish
January 14, 2010
I will miss my loving Aunt Mary Alice very very much. I will never forget how big her smile always was and how huge her hugs were. Even though the number of times we get to see each other dwindled over the years and the distance she was always close to my heart. I am beyond glad that she was able to meet her nephew and how he opened right up to her when she held him.
Vivian Hiris Reisinger
January 14, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are extended to the family of this special classmate.Mary Alice's strength,heartwarming smile and cheerfulness will be remembered always.
January 14, 2010
I remember working with Mary Alice at Memorial. What a kind and wonderful soul. She was also a comfort to employees and former employees who were in mourning. Mary and he frined Esther would be at every funeral and memorial service they could attend for friends at Memorial and their family members.
Amy Kennedy
January 14, 2010
Mary Alice was the finest head nurse I have ever worked under. Her dedication to her patients, families and staff made her an outstanding head nurse and mentor to me. My children knew her as "Alice" she loved and cared for them as they were her own. No matter what age they were she never forgot to ask about them. They would still say her lasagna was better than mine (it was). My husabnd Roy also loved Mary Alice and her side kick Esther and still laughs about a birthday cake that was a mistake that they bought even though it was not anyones birthday. When I think about Mary Alice its with a warm smile and a chuckle, I think that is how she would love to be remembered. Rest in peace my dear dear friend.
Joe & Judy Rappold
January 14, 2010
Mary Alice, "Fifi" was a one of a kind person, a friend and part of our greater family. She will be missed for her kindness and caring nature. Our prayers will always be with her.
Joyce Favaloro
January 14, 2010
Mary Alice was a wonderful, kind, sweet woman and she will be greatly missed by all who were part of her life.
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